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Oyindidi:
Na so una go talk till you realize your mistake com marry at 55years old. Your first pikin go dey 10 years and you go be 70 years. Go and marry now!!

Memberclub:
I'm turning 30 soon. Why at 40 brother

dejavubobo1:
2.7 million for a 2001 car. U are a comedian

Kingsasian:
How much is the 1000w

Lionnation:
and you arw trying him in a court he doesn't recognize

Dtruthspeaker:
If so tey you bin no dey Aro Hospital because you too like food, you for don go school and farm where you for don learn why Salt dey pain.

Brimstone77:
...

So about a month ago I broke up with my girlfriend, but since then I have been struggling to move on.

I still think about her,every thing around me keep reminding me of her,though I don't want her back anymore but still I can't let go off her,the memories of her keep flashing in my head.

I don't want to go into any relationship any time soon,but I'm having this feeling that I can never find any other girl like her(she's good though).

Help how can I just forget about her and move on please!

Preciousgirl:
Why do you think a married woman can never arouse you?

Dtruthspeaker:
When a fool speaks his foolishness, he gets Cursed and insalted

StJasper:
Can a non-muslim kill a ram for sallah?

omoredia:
“What makes you think I want all your sacrifices?” says the LORD. “I am sick of your burnt offerings of rams and the fat of fattened cattle. I get no pleasure from the blood of bulls and lambs and goats.

Isaiah 1: 11

1 Samuel 15:22-23 (KJV)

Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, And to hearken than the fat of rams. For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, And stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, He hath also rejected thee from being king.

Lukgaf:
FACTS ABOUT UD'HIYAH (ILEYA SACRIFICE) - Sanusi Lafiagi

1. Only the following categories animals are valid: Camel, cow, sheep, goat.

2. The age at which each of the animals above becomes eligible for sacrifice is as follows:
a. Camel: 5 years
b. Cow: 2 years
c. Sheep: 6 months
d. Goat: 1 year

3. The number of persons who can sacrifice the above animals is:

a. Camel: 7 persons
b. Cow: 7 persons
c. Ram: 1 person
d. Goat: 1 person

4. The defects that render an animal invalid for sacrifice are:

a. An obvious defect in (one or both of) its eyes such as if it's blind in the eye, or there's an obvious blurriness

b. An obvious illness that affects its activity

c. Obvious lameness that affects its movement

d. Emaciation that leaves no marrow in its bones.

5. A woman can slau.ghter her own sacrifice by herself, even if she were menstruating or experiencing post natal bleeding. Gender and purity are not a condition for its validity.

6. One can take a loan to buy an animal for sacrifice so long as it is not an interest based loan, and he intends to pay it back.

7. It is permitted to delegate another to do the slau.ghtering on one's behalf.

8. The sacrifice commences immediately after the conclusion of 'īd Salāt on the 10th of Dhul Hijjah and ends after sunset on the 13th.

9. The meat should be divided into three (unequal) parts:

a. A part is to be consumed by the owner
b. A part is to be given in charity to the poor and the needy
c. A part is to be given as gifts to friends, relatives, etc

10. It is Sunnah for whoever intends to sacrifice an animal for this purpose to refrain from cutting his nails and hair immediately the crescent of Dhul Hijjah is sighted.

Allāh knows best.

By Sanusi Lafiagi

NEWBIN:
We met at the same work environment, but different employments

She is always calling me on phone, and if I don't call for a few days she will call and complain

And it's becoming a routine

After about three days of no call, she will call and ask me "why do you make me miss you like that?"

She is in a relationship
But is this normal?

Three days to Valentine's Day, I asked her to meet me on Valentine's Day and she said okay she would look for a venue though I eventually pulled out

Is this friendship or she means something more

Thanks

tunnyl:
You never imagined you'd be asking yourself this question right?, but here you are. Marriage was supposed to bring stability, love, and lifelong companionship, yet the one thing you never saw coming is the slow withdrawal of intimacy.

At first, you make excuses for her. She is tired, stressed, adjusting. But as time stretches on, you start wondering. Is this what happened to my dad and other married men before they gave up and got side chics? Am I heading down the same path?

You try to fix things the right way. You plan romantic gestures, have deep conversations, and remind her how important intimacy is in marriage. But despite your efforts, nothing changes. Frustration sets in, and you start withdrawing emotionally. The thoughts get darker. Is this how it happens? Do men stray because they feel abandoned? Should I just accept that marriage means suffering in silence?

If you truly want to fight for your marriage without cheating, the solution is not temptation but effort. Cheating leads to guilt, broken trust, and deeper problems. Instead, focus on reconnecting.

Here are some ways to reconnect with your wife and strengthen your marriage:

1. Have open conversations without pressure or blame.

2. Show small daily affection like compliments and thoughtful gestures.

3. Help ease stress by sharing responsibilities and offering support.

4. Spend quality time together through dates, shared hobbies, and bonding moments.

5. Be patient and consistent instead of pressuring for immediate change.

Marriage is more than physical closeness. The key is understanding, connection, and rebuilding the trust that keeps love strong.

noobaland30:
How come Jesus died to humans if he’s God? Wouldn’t he conquer everything in his path if he was truly God and never died?

andy244:
You said police station abi? Why not one police man, one on one in a village track road. Ori e

Myrepublic:
Is it not because they have firearms. Man to man,they will run for their life.

People when no fit lift 50kg. Only one blow for face, hospital go reject am

Brandosky:
He also has right to charge them for damages and liability caused by inability to access his funds. He could argue he missed several business opportunities simply because he couldn't access his funds that was stolen by the bank