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am baffled by the issue of courtship before marriage because to my understanding either the long and short courtship will not guarantee a succesful marrige coz any girl that knows that u want to marry her will neva reveal her true color. i think prayer is the only way out for God to find u a suitable partner in this world. And to cap it all if a courtship must hold, what must be the least duration. BE SINCERE PLS COZ I WIL LIKE TO MAKE USE OF UR SUGGESTIONS.

LOVE AND PROTECTION ARE WHAT A LADY NEEDS FROM A GUY. PERIOD

i prefer slim ladies. d one i can turn as i like.

if she can mensurate at the 19 then she must need a man to warm her up. PERIOD

what kind of gist do ladies mostly prefer pls. the one that they will always be eager to hear 4rm you

house, pls do ol ladies want the same kind of gist. and if so wat do they like most pls. i mean always. something that they will bring thier ear close to you always wanting to hear.

1 the Womanliness is tight
2 he will do wat he likes with her

if a girl i intend to marry requested 4 credit from me does it mean she can probably ask other people as she did to me. i need sincere replies please.

as for me
1. beauty
2. respect
3.loyalty
4. slim not that kind with BIG nyash i mean portable babe
5.domestically good etc

if u are to choose bw a lady with big and small head which one is more sexy to u

to my own candid opinion i think if a man approach a girl for marriage and she is sure of his mind the issue of hard to get is very very immature and unnecessary coz at last he will be ur husband. so wats next. but some guys can come for fun you know i.e just to enjoy the thrill in the chase and he can endure all d hard to get tactics as long as he wiil get what he wants at last. if he is 4 marriige den no hard to get please.

tank you for the courage. i appreciate it realy.

i have this lady that i love so much that i simetimes couldnt eat if she did not answer my cal, but all of a sudden she exhibited this Character of parting with me by not ansering my cal, swicthing off the phone wen we are communucating and at last i realised that she is with someone. am so kind to her that to some extent when she make a mistake,i take the blame and apologise to her but she keep that tivial issue between us. i luv her so much if u can read my text. i also bought her a hand set of about 20,000 and send recharge cards almost daily when the going was good . SHE IS EVRYTING TO ME BUT SHE DOESNT LUV ME ANYMORE. the irony is that am gainfully employed in one of the highest paying organisattions but that also dindnt work. THIS IS JUST MY OWN SIDE OF TRAGEDIES IN LUV. HOW CAN I MOVE ON PLS.

i have this lady that i love dearly for marriage, i send her recharge cards of 1500 after evry 3 days but d text i receive is tank you. she doesnt call and i do all the calling ant texting daily but i later decided to quit becos wen i cal her dat am coming to thier house she said NO but she told her family members that she loves me dearly. am confused. but to be candid am from the north and most of the ladies in the north expect u to do all the calling ant texting. THATS REDICULOUS. how will u know that she truly loves u. THIS IS A PAIN IN THE ASS, I NEED ADVISE PLS, AM IN LIMBO.

sincerely speaking, a girl marrying at her prime is the best because most men will approach her for marriage at 18-21 and at that time she can select the one she likes most with her taste may be money, his handsome nature and so forth. but at 26 and above, no selection coz she is desperate to settle with whoever comes her way.

Timmy. Accordn to my respondents, she is to young at 19. Even when she is a graduate.

Am clean what i mean is that i want to grow with my kids.

i dont have any say on her education as 4 now but am well paid to take excellent good care of her at what eva level

honeric, god will bless u. ur point is noted.

SOMETIMES, ADVISE IS WHAT WE SEEK 4 WHEN WE ALREADY KNOW D ANSWER BUT WISH WE DIDNT. WHAT I KNOW IS SHE IS RIPE, PLUMP AND TIGHT.SOMEBODY MUST SUPPORT ME IN D LONG-RUN, I KNOW COZ I HAVE POINTS AND IF THEY WILL BE MARKED, SURELY I WILL GET A GOOD PASS MARK. GUYS TIME IS PASSING US.

as 4 me i know i truly love her and i will make sure she becomes a graduate with atleast 2:1 because she will focus all her attention on books only not like d single ones that can be prey to those marauding men always ready to offload.

whats luv? dos who dont like it call it responsibility, dos who play it call it a game, dos who dont have it call it a dream, dos who understand it call it destiny and me, i call it my sweet 18.

God! 18 is ok 4 a girl to get married. I mean she is OK. Afterrall it wont deter her from studying. we will plan it. But u know that as young as she is, she can commit fornication (GOD FORBID) and she is answerable to her sins.DO U KNOW THAT.

sincerely speaking am 25, a graduate and well paid

what i mean is she can study after d marriage. is it a sin to protect ourselves from fornication and d rest. god!