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Hate all that artificial stuff, some women just plonk it on any how like mops on their heads.

obowunmi: Is anyone born bad or is bad behavior learned - either thru parents or society?

A person is always the resultant combination of his or her genotype and phenotype. Mull over that and answer yourself.

rokiatu: Both hunni. Clearly both. I caould care less though.

And I am far from ashamed I am proud of him. That is a trait I wish I had myself.

It has nothing to do with being a pus.s.y, a mumu or however you wants to put it.

He is clearly a very mature and understanding guy who value his relationship and don't mind putting away his pride and ego to make things work.

This his attitude have even make me better. We hardly fight I mean headly. I am extra cautious of his feelings and emotions. This man I got right here knows what hes doing. This formula breaks me down to my bones.

And I am not the kinda girl that take things for granted or look down on my man for what so ever reason. I have enormous amount of respect for him. I luv my man thank you very much.

LOL don't get your knickers all in a twist, I was actually joking; though I still feel there something unheathly and odd about a relationship where a man has to apologize to his partner every time they qarrel even though he isn't in the wrong.
Yeah, sure why wouldn't you be happy, after-all you never have to say sorry even when you are wrong since you already have a pre-programmed apologizing machine on standby to seemingly sooth your royal ego.
Sorry if I sound judgemental; its just that the situation reeks of double standards, which I am sure you wouldn't accept should the roles be reversed or happen to your own brother (should you have one).

@ Mynd_44:
Omo, you no well, me jealous? Why should I be jealous of a spineless weakling too scared to stand up for himself - tufiakwa! you just wan start trouble.

Nedum05: Meaning? Do u mean men cal more than girls?

Yes, most do and even those that don't still end up directly or indirectly paying for those calls, either as recharge or cash up front or other forms of extortion girls indulge in nowadays - as if you don't know

^^^^^You could be right; however, there are some people who are simply just born bad.
@ misterme:
My heart goes out to you along with my admiration for the manner of maturity and patience you've displayed in coping with your tormentor.
Well, if I were in your shoes I'd take her back to her parents house, acting like I am seriously going to divorce her; perhaps thats the kind of wake up call she deserves and may even jolt her people to intervene on your behalf. Good luck.

vivian chinaza: Lol.....I don die. But I don't monitor my guy o, nah, I always create a friendly environment where we talk about everything. Tell (just) flirting stories.

But I'm really very good at detective job, so girls can hire me if they want!(Joking o).

But do not underestimate any girl o! Sometimes we just want you to think you are smart at your games.

Too late, the cat has been let out of the bag, we now know you are one serious undercover lover detective, in fact you should change your name to Inspector Vivian

[quote author=Mynd_44]Wetin be close monitoring? That's the most easy one to avoid na. I will just make sure I have an alternative stash or condoms elsewhere that she does not know about. Na there the ones wey she put her signature go old and I go still dey nack[/quote]Omo, this your sense pass my level oOh, in fact I suggest you and Vivian should get together and let's see who wil out wit the other.

Nedum05: Hw much do you think u have spent on ur on phone, calling one special person in ur life either Ex or present, If you re to say hw much do you tink it has amounted to? Like me i hav spent closed to 500 thousand naira on my relationship of 4yrs. Lol. Say urs.

If you spent 500k then his bill must amount to 6 times more (at least 3 million)

Power has now shifted to your side, you are free to dictate as you wish: If you want her back, take her; if you want revenge use her and dump her, the choice is all yours.

Personally, if I were you I'd choose neither; I'd rather move on than settle as her 2nd best choice or accept somebody's sloppy seconds.

SA females refined my foot; maybe the elites among them, just try the townships and see how they behave.

Yes, height affects my dating choices. I prefer them tall and slim, starting from 5'8" and above; unfortunately the dwarfs seem always ahead blocking my path

So no girl would volunteer help this guy out of his misery? Haba, NLnd girls make una pity am small now.

vivian chinaza: You are even lucky she did not put her signature on your condoms, counted them in order to know when u bring in new ones. She for don catch you teteh.

But that your babe madt small jare, anyway she is protecting her territory.
Lol........

Wow! Come see close monitoring technique, in fact girls like you dey fear me oOh

Hmmnn, so he's always apologizing for any reason
No doubt symptoms of a man that has been thoroughly puccy whipped. You should be ashamed of yourself for using that thing to completely dominate mumu-rize the poor guy.

ashmanpolo: My friend whatever u think u are shud b in ur house nt here! U encroached into my personality by saying dat where I work doesn't exist. U rather eschewed the topic at hand. Pls Next time b sure b4 making comments. No beef on U tho

Pls refer back to my post and analyse the following statement.
"Agip, even sef does that company still exist, thought it was absorbed by Unipetrol or something like that"
Now try and explain how that could have been a definitive conclusion on my part if not from a clearly questioning doubting position - as it was intended to be.
Secondly, how does doubting the existence of your place of work encroached on your personality and for that matter warrant or give you licence to insult? Thirdly, how does questioning the topic in its entirety translate into avoiding the issue at hand?
However, what is quite evident is that the more you try to justify your untenable position the more you exhibit your lack of comprehension and poor judgement in this matter.
Meanwhile, you need to understand that your story still lacks credibility for reasons already mentioned; unfortunately until proven otherwise I am afraid you'll have to contend with more doubting Thomas's like me

ashmanpolo: U are A bush nonsensical man for asking dat question. SMH

Look my friend, note I am not the only one casting doubts as to the authenticity of your story and for good reasons too.
However, neither I nor anybody else felt the need to insult or demean you in anyway. You response to me in that manner was therefore quite unwarranted and unecessary.
As at now I am trying very hard remain civil and not react likewise; so please don't tempt me.

candieangel12: I didnt sleep with my ex. We just kissed and touched each other. I need advice on how 2 tell this 2 my current bf because I feel he shud kno wat I did eventho I didnt hve se.x. if ppl r here 2 judge me n not offer advice then 4get it. Ill just go 2 a different website wit less judgemental ppl. Thank you!

"I didn't have se.x with my ex" Ol girl, either you are in denial or not telling us the whole truth. Please refer back to your opening post - well, let me remind you

"Yesterday night my ex came over 2 my apartment 2 hang out n just gist, before he left we ended up being intimate. I feel so horrible about the act. Everytime me n my ex r 2geda we end up being intimate with each other eventho we have been broken up for about 6months now.."

It may be called a mistake if it was just once; but you repeatedly having sex, according to you, everytime together with your ex. Continue deceiving yourself

[quote author=gree-die]Oboy!! Op, u wan loose ur job ni? Writing about your very senior boss on a public forum and.... Wait! Why don't I believe u? Dat lady in d pix isn't really ur boss' wife is she?? Is d story even true?[/quote]I think I get your drift about the authenticity of the story (even though quite plausible), no link or references to back up his story, only his own words - Agip, even sef does that company still exist, thought it was absorbed by Unipetrol or something like that

Forgive me Father for I have sinned many a times with: Odunnu, freecocoa,Vivka,Tinax,poshqueen,Ogugua88, Obasijoy, Chillaz, Blazing88, annita19 and to crown it all, with kandiikane (several bjs). Sorry Father for being a serial offender, it seems I have no will power even against the slightest of temptations, in short I see no end to this sinning by lookery, help me for I am lost

@ ITbomb:
That post was a bomb, the message loud and clear, enough for any stoopid rat to take heed. Yeah, also loved the creativity.

You are quite ok, I also feel the same and agree with you.

deshclones: I intend leaving the house for her and calling her wicked greedy mom to come pick her daughter..

Thats exactly what I'd do if I were in your shoes. No need messing around with somebody else's wife, let alone that of a drug peddler, you'd be asking for trouble either way.