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Sorry mate, you've got an egoistical insensitive b*1tch for a girl.
But not all her fault, you clearly have contributed by encouraging and condoning her bad behavior to the extent that she is taking your love and dedication for granted - notwithstanding your brittle emotion.

It is evident that you have downgraded yourself(imagine apologizing to her for her mistakes) and put her up on a pedestal to the extent that she feels over protected and secured in the relationship, enough not have make the extra effort and therefore respect or care about your own feelings.

Love has turned you to a weakling and she knows it every time you affirm it by grovelling, tail between your legs begging for forgiveness - even when you've done no wrong.
What she needs is a wake up call to make her appreciate you more and your value in her life and the relationship, and ultimately what she stands to lose if she doesn't change her ways. But she would value you only when you learn to value and respect yourself first.

Finally, communicated your feelings and learn not to cave in too quickly.

Misleading headline, man only suspecting he might have been raped, not claiming he was actually raped; besides how is it possible for a female or females to rape a man who is unconcious. SMH.

How could he beleive you love him when you youself are admitting you are not sure you do. See fakeness of the first oerder SMH.

3,4, 9 & 10 is typical of my ex, its no wonder she is now in my past.

[quote author=ekt_bear]Have you heard of something called insurance?[/quote]Baba doesn't need insurance, he's already insured, just wait and see how his PDP looting partners will flock to him with their contributions, be rest assured he'd end up gaining more than he'd lost.
Wasn't it recently he proposed to build a mosque, didn't you hear how the northern governors were trooping in with pledges totalling more than the estimated cost of the mosque.
Trust me, with any luck baba would be making a hefty profit out of this tragedy. The only regretable thing is that, its our money (looted from our treasuries) they'll be using to compensate him.

REALITY101: Whoever she's , she need some nose job

Nose what? Then you must also need an eye operation.

^^^^Yep, nothing new, was asked out by a former fiancee, it never affected my respect for her nor the relationship; broke up years later due to some other reasons, sadly she is now deceased.
Currently, also being actively pursued by a co-worker (hunting for husband) who is relentless and wouldn't take the hint that I am not interested - some ppl already noticing and gossipping about it .

Phaedophile

rokiatu: :' No gifts. Forever alone.

Eya, kpele
Weren't you supposed to be engaged to some dude, cool and nice to you and all that, what happened?

Its too late, breeze don blow fowl nyash, ha ha ha not used to wearing wedding ring in a marriage old enuf you already have a daughter, abeg talk true joor.

[quote author=Red-Light]i only saw a fat girl with big bo0obs [/quote]Add dwarf to the above.

azeeza: Read your books and pass your waec small boy.

WAEC for where? You see im grammer, dis one na NECCO candidate for sure.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I'm jus giving advise to other females out there[/quote]Yeah, sure like you were, anyway charity begins at home.

^^^^Then don't sit there doing nothing, you definitely now have a moral obligation to contact this nurse and offer to give evidence before the court in support of her case based on your own experience with this doctor.

desertboom: Everyone is saying; The way the guy said it, the manner he relay the message to the woman. How else could he have said it? Please, can someone tell me how best he could have said it?

Exactly, first post I agree with. What's rude with saying "madam sit well", isn't that in itself a sign of respect for the womwn. Abeg, its not like he was crude like 'madam, your pant is showing'; instead the mumu wife was slow to understand the discrete msg, till he had to be more blunt and say "close your legs."

Sincerely, the guy was wrongly fired, as I can't see how he could have broken any rule connected with his employment and neither was his approach in anyway not civil, I beg to differ and say he was fired purely on sentimental reasons e.g. how dare a common PA see Oga's wife Pxxxy.

Reminds me of my own experience as a small boy in Prim Sch when I accidentally saw my teacher's (oyinbo woman)pant. She was kind of squatting next to another pupil's desk showing him something, and accidentally lost her balance and viola, her frilly knickers on display. Boy, she didn't like it one bit, come see interrogation - she kept on asking, "what did you see" and me, with a smug on my face, answering "nothing".
You would have thought that would have been the end of the matter but for where, no not with this woman (which was quite unusual, especially for oyinbo, who are known to be open minded). She kept sending me out to stand outside the classroom whenever she noticed the headmistress passing by, it was her way of targetting me for punishment; anyway fortunately for me,the Rev. Sister (it was a convent sch.) took no notice. To my relief, after many days of repeated failure the teacher finally gave up.

^^^^ He don't need to do that anymore, can't you see he's already using seunfly's universal solution to solve his (not so uncommon) problem.

Benez: But u said she used private (hidden) fone number. Then how did u know dat it was d same fone no dat sent a text to ur sister?

Oboi, you have the potential to be one hell of a good detective, I also wonder if is possible to sent sms through hidden no. (though I could be wrong).

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]Ladies what is between ur legs only belongs to ur husband...but exceptions can be made for filthy rich men [/quote]In that case you and onila are all the same, she named her price in millions, so what's yours worth?

lucenzo: She‘s a stupid girl for dumping him. Are you sure she is not a Nigerian girl?

Are you kidding me? A Nigerian girl girl dump a young handsome rich man worth 30 Million Pounds, dump him for where, not even if he openly has another trillion set of gfs, just as long as she will get her own share - she won't mind.

@ OP:
Soceity is always judgemental, whether we lke it or not, we shall always be judged according to the moral codes and norms of the culture we belong - sometimes unfairly as often in the case of female virginity.
Just like a person who looses an arm or leg would become less attractive, so would a woman (to some extent) who has lost her virginity become less attractive for marriage - whether its her/their fault or not.
So if you've lost yours and are regretting it, just learn to live with it because its like crying over spilled milk - no doubt ppl would continue to judge & value you according to how they've be programmed by the values of their culture.
In short, life is sometimes cruel - men too have been given their own cross to carry.

flanrey: Give him the BJ of his life!
Suck that Dyk like you mean it

Ha ha ha, yeah right and kiss his arse too

Was one of the initial respondents in the OP's first thread "about buying a bed" but eventually gave up as soon as it became clear that OP has a rather closed subjective mindset intolerant to alternative opions. Unfortunately, she is often quick to belittle anybody's view that differs from her own on the basis of lack of comprehension; whereas it would appear that she is the one who is obviously lacking in the ability to comprehend reality.

Those offering advice here are merely wasting their time because she clearly doesn't need any, I suspect what she most needs is reassurance and a pat on the back, people telling her how fortunate she is for finding such a rare gem - even if it is suspisciouly appearing like a fools gold. Yes, anythng to the contrary would be deemed as jealousy.

Davedavy: Is this too skinny? definately no.

Girl is hot in them bikinis, don't see anything wrong with her, besides slim girls rock for me always.