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You nko, you are so intolerant

Educated ppl still living and believing in mythical spirits, as if in the 13th century, marine agent my foot.

Wear a T shirt that says " HIV POSITIVE" 
                                       WANT SOME?

Its not clear whether there was any borrowing or not, however, if there was then the poster is only obliged to refund what he actually borrowed; but not the entire money she spent on him during the whole relationship

And shame on those, especially the guys, that say he should pay back everything.

Imagine if the tables were reversed, that it was a guy spending on a girl who got dumped.

How many of the ladies now shouting blue murder would consider or agree  to returning back all (the cash & gifts) they had so cleverly fleeced from many a hapless guy (mugu turned mumu) from?
The mere asking would by itself invoke the wrath of all her friends, the female community and anyone that cared to listen as to why the hapless guy should be regarded as ungentlemanly.
So whats the difference this time around, is because the victim is a woman?
How many guys have fallen to such female exploitation? Abeg jo let the girl go and sulk.

At least for this one, na mumu turn mugu  peace 

Well it depends on the type of guy, because some can be prudish and quite conservative.
However, as for me its not a big deal at all.
Infact I was approached many years ago by a girl who later became my fiance, though we eventually broke up; I never for once held it or used it against her - not even when we quarrelled, because as I said, it wasn't a big deal and shouldn't be.

If I have to then I'd choose the one that can't cook, because her deficiency is
easily more manageable e.g. can help with the cooking myself , hire some body (house girl/cook), buy take aways or eat out; but as for the nagging wife, well you have no other practical option than replace her

Knowledge is power , I'd therefore prefer to know so that I wouldn't have to ignorantly continue investing and believing in a worthless relationship that obviously would have no future.

Tell her to buy her own tissue

Shame on you for derailing a man of the cloth

But wait aminute: a drinking, partying, adulterous, priest,  not only willing to break his vows against the lord, but cheating with who?, a Married woman OMG

I think both of you are birds of the same feather (i.e. fakes) and therefore deserve one another other.

Anyway, the guy couldn't be that much in love with you because if he was, he wouldn't be planning to continue banging you after your marriage to your bf; rather he would be considering giving up the priesthood and proposing to marry you instead.

You are more than likely destined one day to be reminded of the popular saying, what goes around comes around, after he's all done with your skanky puss.y and dumped your sorry arse for another.

Silly woman

RuuDie:
Kick her lame-ass out into the streets. . . thats what he should do!

Exactly
Personally, I have no sympathy for cheating wives or gfs.
Even if you forgive, the relationship would never be the same again, because the thought of it (the cheating) would inevitably always come back to haunt and weigh you down. So why burden yourself with such luggage?
Besides, no trust no relationship, period

This particular case is so pathetic, imagine she didn't cheat (or at least confessed) on the 1st, 2nd ,3rd, or 4th, talk less of the 5th or 6th; but wait until the 7th year of the relationship, when you should be expecting real loyalty and commitment - haba, what a letdown and betrayal.

Confession or not, it’s too late, the damage has already been done; I'd say kick her skanky arse to the kerb and move on

You obvioulsy have misplaced priorities and motivation

However, next time you have job interview I seriously think you should consider taking along with you those fine girls, so that you could easily switch into that your good grammer; no doubt you would pass.

Dump her asre and say Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish!

ifeanyi d1:
i don't know how 2 talk 2 girl

Judging by the above, I'd say you don't know how to talk at all

Don't come down to their level, be magnanimous, help them out - if not for that; at least for your mum's sake who still visited you anyway.

Easy:
The guy who is responsible doesn't want to know.
The girl thinks abortion
You, her friend think otherwise.Then why not step in adopt the baby and play dad when its born.

Why not gift wrap her an empty box for a surprise

Even by replying to this post, I'm cheating with you
Silly question, silly answer

A confirmed non virgin who has been thoroughly bleeped

@ Poster
You have my support and prayer: supprt for your obvious bravery and prayer for your safety. My admiration also for your unconditional love for this woman. I also truly hope that her final test result turns out to be negative.

My advice is as follows:
Get a re- test at recognised reputable health institution e.g a teaching or general hospital to confirm both your status, where you should also expect to received counselling (pre & post test) on how to cope & live with the outcome of the test result; whether pos or neg as well as when & where to receive help, in case of the former.

Yes, it is possible to live close to normal life with a HIV pos wife while the husband is neg. and even have healthy normal children; all of which should be explained to you through proper counselling at these type of places I mentioned above. 

These facillities usually have comprhensive free testing and treament programmes (VCT, PMTCT & ART) which are well funded and managed with international donor funds (PEFAR, USAID, GLOBAL FUNDS ) and with whose support you should be able to acheive the mentioned goals. 

Basically, you and your prospective wife would have learn to live positively with HIV/AIDS, in particular accept and adjust to a lifetime of safe sex as well as other safe practices to protect you and your future children from contracting the disease. You would always also have to be emotionally strong and ready to support your wife cope with her own challenges of the disease

Anyway, with love anything is possible . Good luck