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Waiting on Me- Home Grown

Forever- Ben Harper

I have quite a few all-time favourite songs but the 4 that readily come to mind that I never get tired of, no matter my mood or how many times I hear them, are:

1.) Toxic- Britney Spears
2.) Forever- Ben Harper
3.) Brighter Than Sunshine- Aqualung
4.) 360- Asa

@ topic,

Sally Hansen Hard As Nails Xtreme Wear is excellent and lasts a while (like nearly 2 weeks) looking new, without chipping or fading.

Check HealthPlus Pharmacy (there's one in Ikeja, The Palms and Ikota Shopping Center), I know they have the Aveeno Positively Radiant face moisturizer and they have quite a good selection of Aveeno body lotions (I didn't check for this one specifically).

I think even in America, it's kind of rare, because I used the Body Wash and the face cream a while back (when I was in my Aveeno phase), but never noticed the body lotion. And I saw your topic on yesterday and asked a friend there to check for me in like 2 pharmacies and she didn't find it in either. However check HealthPlus, they may have it.

I usually wear a gold chain that I rarely take off because it has sentimental value. But i think it depends on what I'm wearing and the occasion.

A gold chain can go with everything, but if you have a really special beaded necklace (like one of the examples shown), it's not exactly inconspicuous and so you have to be conscious of what you're wearing it with, and it would be more for an occasion than for daily wear.

Today Na Today- Omawumi

Come Clean- Hilary Duff

Could Well Be In- The Streets

A Little Less Sixteen Candles, A Little More "Touch Me"- Fall Out Boy

Seven Nation Army- The White Stripes

Beverly Hills- Weezer

Do It To It- Cherish

I think it's similar to a non-NL relationship because hopefully you'd have had real conversations (other than "you're hot," "you're skegzy," date me" first, so there's actually something to start a relationship on. I know an NL couple that were together a while and were really cute together, but broke up over reasons that had nothing to do with NL and could have happened however they met.

NL is a great place to meet people and find like and unlike minds; however, you actually have to do the real work of building a relationship and learning about the other person. You can't just like read someone's posts here and translate their NL-life to real life and based on that decide you want to date them.

Also people can be vastly different in real life than on NL. I was so shocked when I discovered one of my best friends' NL identity because she's the sweetest person in real life but a real beyotch on NL (goodness knows why). So again, your "NL relationship" has to be based on more than you NL personality and "NL life," I think the key to a long-term one is to take it farrrrrr away from NL, don't bring it here; if you're serious about it keep it in real life.

1,2,3,4- Plain White T's

Against the World- Robin Thicke

If I asked the guy out (which I've never done), then I'd kind of expect to foot the bill. Or like in an emergency if the guy for some reason couldn't pay (rejected card or something), fine. Or if it's a guy I've been friends with for a while but its our first date, if he paid for the movie, I might say its my treat for a casual meal.

I always offer to split the bill, anyway, as I think it's only fair to do that, and although I wouldn't normally expect to pay the entire bill on the first date, I could (although it doesn't necessarily leave the best first impression of the guy).

My Girl- The Temptations

Realize- Colbie Caillat

Let's Get It On- Marvin Gaye

Here and Now- Luther Vandross

OP do you mean "drinks" like the person is a big drinker (several beers/shots/cocktails most evenings)? And by "smokes," do you mean chain smoker vs. occasional social smoker?

As a girl, I wouldn't want to marry a big drinker (wine with dinner and the occasional beer is fine) or really any degree of smoker, but "drinks and smokes" is not an absolute, there are degrees which people might find tolerable.

Someone once told me that if one guy slaps another guy's babe, and the guy doesn't react, then it means one of two things: either 1.) he's also been wanting to slap his babe , or 2.) he knows he can't take the other guy.

So really, in either of these two cases, there's really nothing for you to do. So just tell your gf sorry, and get something cold for her face. Sorry o.

Are You Happy Now- Michelle Branch

I think the word "love" is generally used too easily. But yes, I think its possible to be really attracted to someone without having met them in real life. Sometimes you can really get to know someone over the phone or online in a way that you wouldn't in-person, because people tend to be more inhibited in expressing themselves in person.

Also, sometimes getting to know someone without meeting them, means your opinions about them are not skewed by physical things like their appearance. (BTW everyone deserves love whether "able or disable(d)"). E.g. guys "in love with" fine girls with nothing to offer but fineness, or girls "in love with" guys who look expensive but are mean. Of course, at some point you'd have to meet in person to see if they're the same in person as on the phone/IM.

She is Love- Parachute