₦airaland Forum

babasolution:
Why is Benin so bad after many years of being a capital city,an oil producing state for that matter

NasoLifeBe!!!

Which oil producing state may be na palm oil u mean

NLPoliceWoman:
Seun Mynd44 Dominique justwise.
Rule 1.
Rule 2.
Rule 8.

Ogbeni go rest always act maturely sometimes.

newbornmacho:
Hahahahahahahaha

Naija Women compose themselves and check for all this in a man....


Hahahahahahahaha

The funniest joke I've heard this year.

Abeg Tboymessiah , you're looking in the wrong place.

Men are created superior to women. What it means is that being a man , a real man will compel a woman to look up to you.

Women need help all their lives and their instinct will drive them to real, redpilled men, for salvation.

Please work on becoming more manly, and Women will not dare to lecture you like this one is doing here., rather they'll worship you

NasoLifeBe!!!

Thanks, I no forget the code that says

Don't ask for relationship advice from woman.

I only want to hear her own contribution ni

Sammy101111:
You are right
Spend on a broke girl and she will be thinking she is scamming you

The more nigeria men realise that nigeira woman can stab you anytime you will seek peace for your life

NasoLifeBe!!!

I will never use money to entice any broke holes, they are not use to caring, all they know in getting money from man is via money for hand back for ground, and they will keep one Mumu boy wey no get anything as a future partner.

Meanwhile reality has not yet hit them.

If u get money, make sure u go for a girl that own and manage money also.

Persephone1:
This is relative, I can not type what every woman as it differs but I will try as much as possible to type out what some sensible women I know look out for in a Man.

The first thing that strikes a woman in a man is his Comportment. When a woman meets you for the first time, she notices how you carry yourself. Your carriage speaks a lot about you. 1) Your maturity: how you deal with people around
2) Your confidence: How you see yourself
3) Your Aura: What you are all about.

This is why in first 5 minutes of meeting you a woman can decide if she wants a long or short term dealings with you.

As you move on with each other, she checks your level of knowledge, intelligence, assertiveness, discipline, self control, your plans, your goals, your conflict resolution ability, your rage level, time management, financial management, communication skills, leadership skills, your resilience, your vulnerability level, how you handle difficult situation, Your playfulness, Your emotional intelligence , ability to play a lover and a teacher etc. If you can beat her in all these areas, i.e be above her in these areas, believe me she will respect you and want to have you. Because not only will she want to enjoy all you have,she would want her children to enjoy these traits and have them too.

There could be more, and some of the listed may not be needed depending on what she wants. But most of those things listed are what women secretly look out for in Men.

As for what can be of value to Man, that will be on you. You only know what you hold dear and what you stand for.

You owe me ooooo

You have done well.... what a mind opening

Persephone1:


In as much as I want to play a devil's advocate i feel your sadness and I will tell you this. Women see through more than you think, and to be honest with you,women will only settle for a Man of value and I'm not talking about Money!

If Money is all you have to offer, I will advise you retract from wanting anything serious[b]. Be a Man a Woman can look up to [/b] then you will have what you want. Again it's not by Money!

My two cents

I love your contributions, please:
Apart from money what can be a man value.

Also

What can a man posses, to make a woman looking up to him

Persephone1:
Accept my heart felt sorry!


Una just dey warm up!

Hahaha,
Although am not searching for a lady to be in a relationship with for now, that will be next year.

Just reading to know how to prepare myself

Victor2707:
Women hate you because you are desperate.

Focus on building your value and women will chase you.

NasoLifeBe!!!

You are right, I lost a relationship just because I want everything to be on a fast lane, truly being despirate ruin relationship

kartelkid:
With all due respect, you're absolutely correct. I guess this is why most guys fish out single mothers everywhere.
The reality is that I'm no longer getting long-term satisfaction from only having casual sex. I also need a help mate.
Thank you.

NasoLifeBe!!!

We are in the same shoe

NasoLifeBe!!!

PDP can't win osun state, the only sensible person in the family, is davido dad.

DEMOLA, is being pushed by someone else

NasoLifeBe!!!

No hope for black Race....

Nothing is working with black man, even black American, they are the problem of the white over there.

There must be something wrong being a Black man.

Omo just pray mey de girl no died for ur Aoz, that mean sey by this time tomorrow na for inside cell u go dey, dey Chop another wrap of Fufu

NasoLifeBe!!!

O.P send me D.M

Hed0nist:
No try am. Having an aim no mean say you go de rush. Before you decide to spend the rest of your life with someone you have to see how they react to various seasons. Good, bad, happy, sad, sapa, plenty etc. I’m not saying you should take too much time either, but there is a middle ground.

Thanks for your contributions,

To get you clearly, you mean I should start a date with a preferred one now, or whenever am ready I should not rush ? Share more light

OvertheTop:
Sadly, If You are not Currently Dating a lot of women at same time and analyzing their Characters without telling them your Real intentions of finding a wife.....You have to start immediately..... (Because you can't Select a good one without Long term Experience in the Trenches...sieving the shaft from the food)

without Experience You will Mostly like fall for a retired Olosho. (this Happens a lot.)

Thanks for your contributions,
If I may ask, is 6 month courtship too short to know in and out of a woman

chinwong:
Inasmuch as you feel back pains, your sugar content is on the high side. You stand for 3-4hours while I stand far more than that sometimes too, so that’s not the reason.

If you can jus stop taking soft drinks and replace with bitters, or follow what i said earlier.

Try to engage in exercises and drink enough water with fruits.

Thanks bro,

I will try all u have said......

NasoLifeBe!!!

Another failure team.

NasoLifeBe!!!

Ademola wey don lose already. ..

Someone like demola needs to be dragging chairman with NURTW.

DEMOLA!!!! Is a shame that demola is contesting with the likes of Oyetola, Ogunbiyi, and Lasun...

Even ward chairman demola no fit...

DEMOLA taught government is all about money, they pay allocation, you pay workers salary and u invest the left over on infrastructure.... person we no get sense.

We shall see on Saturday.......

I no dey support any one but demola na wack...he doesn't deserve the seat.

NasoLifeBe!!!

My last relationship was an embarrassment scene to me, it made me believed, to secure a lively relationship, it involves finance.

So I decided to hussle for money, thank God he works out, but am trying to stabilise the income on a solid foundation. By next year I think I should be in a relationship that going to lead to marriage.

ikevictor:
Sure. Some bonds are discovered quicker than others. But both parties must come clean. Pure heart, clean hands, no hidden intentions.

Thanks...I gat to relax now.

NasoLifeBe!!!

So Adeboye wife old Pass Sai-Kaka

dangoteinlaw:
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Atumah

Caleycashh:
It is easier for a carmel to pass through the eyes of needle than to get a good wife in Nigeria, there wahala too much, my current babe of a year plus na Kenyan and she has been exceptional with character and business minded, I've already setup a business in kenya she's supervising and making great returns here in Nigeria, very sincere and hardworking... she makes me think she's an alien compared to all these leeches we have here and there yeye problems, bro all I can say is the Lord is your strength, see me see kenya

Thanks for the contribution,

If I may ask, do yo base in Kenya.

Caleycashh:
Try east African countries bro... there women are okay and have respect for there husbands, finally you get to have two international passports... this useless country is not guaranteed. Incase of war na to jakpa!

Hahahah...I have a livestock farm here it will be hard to go there and stay, since my business here is doing well..

My conscine, is this, the preferred time for me to settle down or in a relationship, courtship, whatsoever...will be next year, all am thinking is just that can a find a girl that suit me with a good character within that short period and settle with her..

NasoLifeBe!!!

Davido food don come na wetin e dey like to tey trend be dis

Nyascobar1414:
Chaii.. Weak men everywhere...

Marriage that will not benefit you.. Why the fvvck should a man be under pressure to get married.. You are a man for christ sake..

Apart from kids what else will you benefit from the so called marriage...

If you want to marry shaa.. Go for the best,go for a virgin, dont go and pay bride price for something that another guy got for free...

Anything that gives you peace of mind do it..


My peace I leave you.

Who's weak man,
Omo if u don't have any reasonable thing to talk u better park well, that's why I don't ask meaningful questions on nairaland except on Quora, cus person wey no fit loose ur sandals go dey put mouth for wetin e no Sabi...

skywalker240:
For a guy like me, i won't, i take my time to study the women I allow into my life

I dated my wife for almost 10 year's before I married her last year

But then it depends on the kind of woman you meet, most women pretend to be genuine keeper's, and supportive home makers, marry them enter house, you go regret your life

True talk,

But what of we wey we no get long time relationship...
And we are not any relationship, and age is not on our side, how then are we going to settle down then

32 this December but planing to settle next year, no girl friend not in relationship, but financially okay

Jamesmatic:
It's a beautiful experience trust me, my beautiful American Girl came to see me too in April. It was the best moment of my life, she stayed here for 6 days in Ikeja I lodged in Airbnb which is like 50k daily. Omo e sure for you my guy.

Where Una dey get them sef

ikevictor:
I was a living witness, and it totally frustrated my search for true love and connection before marriage.

One thing you must not forget is...any woman that wants marriage at the first instance with you, are usually desperate and mostly want to just escape spinsterhood, and desperation is a sign of not being genuine.

Genuine ones will be friends first, know you beneath the calm nature, know your family and your life plans, know your values and all, communicate and bond with you at multiple levels, before want to make babies or go into marriage with you.

On the other hand, they will show you same things about them so you know.

For interview, ask them why they want to marry...if their first few words of response are centered on having children or man, with no indepth focus on true companionship...RUN!

Especially for those jobless ones. Bye

Can someone find a woman he likes and marry her within 6 month of courtship

oluteem:
Don't be deceived, u will av to wait for about 2 years before u start profiting from the business and 200k may not b enough Considering their feeds and other factors but I will advice u to start small probably with 1 boar and a gilt or 2

Can u please explain how it will be a two-year business

chinwong:
He is suffering from too much sugar.

Firstly, he should stop and cut off all sugar intake.

Avoid junks, soft drinks � and others

Things he can use include:
• kolanuts - he can chew or soak up in a bottle of water and drink day and night.
• Unripe plantain - very important
• dates
• banana �
• he should try to detox also with these combos- garlic, ginger, turmeric and cloves. Wash, peel and soak for 3 days then drink a cup mornings and night.

Note that it will take time before he gets fully fit if he is indeed serious about it.

But for emergency knacking, your guy can get kolaq bitters and a cold bottle of water, mix and drink before the main thing and give him enough hand Job so that blood can flow to his gbola.

Make I reserve my remaining comment.

What about this, after first round, it take me time to get erection, although the nature of my work allow me to stand for like 3-4 hour daily...and some time I feel back pain

But still don't know what happened

imaxx:
It happens to me before I stop anything sugary drinks

Really!!!

My own story, is that after first round, it take me time to get erection, although the nature of my work allow me to stand for like 3-4 hour daily...

But still don't know what happened