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Haynnie:
I’ve had my own share of experience too.

I use to give girls money without asking for anything in return and it got to a point it turned to an habit that every conversation would lead to giving her money but I turned the tables cus it was a new scheme to milk guys off their money.
They don’t appreciate the little you manage to do for them because there are other guys that might have promised them a huge sum of cash even to an extent they will sleep with them to get that huge bag.

There was one girl I sent 2k cus she said she’s hungry and I had enough to give that period. I sent her the money this girl texted me “thank you for sending me money for shawarma” I didn’t reply the text cus she didn’t come out clean to say she wants to eat shawarma. she said she was hungry and wanted to cook something for the evening.
After that day I moved on and we continued talking but whenever she comes up with a new strategy to beg I wave it off or I give excuses till an extent she stopped talking to me.

Another one, we’ve been friend for a long time tho and we rapport on a daily. One day she called she was hungry and had nothing in her house to eat and her hostel mate is has traveled, she’s the only one in the hostel. I told her I had network issues and there’s no way I can run transfer and I don’t have cash to send her with POS. So I told her if she can meet with her neighbor and explain to him/her to help her then she should manage maybe by tomorrow I’ll send her money to prepare something to eat. She grumbled a bit and said okay before ending the call.
The next day I was able to make transfer and I did her 1,500 but I didn’t called her that I sent her money cus she must have received the alert and would know it’s me. Later in the evening she called me again and I asked her if she had eaten she gave an unsettled response and said she is managing that she saw the money I sent and it wasn’t enough to take her to this evening thinking the money she expected me to send was 4K. I was like ehnn why can’t u manage it cus I don’t have enough on me so I’m managing myself for now till I get a better cashflow. She kept quiet for sometime before her airtime ran out. Three days after I wasn’t online so she called me and was like “if naso e be naso hunger for kill me abi?” I was confused and was actually thinking why she said that. I was like what do u mean? She said that since two days she hasn’t eaten and I didn’t bother to call to know if she’s still alive. Omo imagine the entitlement as I be her guy or I no get my own personal issues wey I dey take care of to come reason her matter?
I told her I was busy and I don’t have time to be online . She was like what about the money that I couldn’t send her the complete amount. Like wtf?? Money wey I no promise her na she dey ask of and I only said I no get money for now cus na hustle I been dey to get better cash oh, na she turn to her own reason say I dey owe her. I was felt annoyed that instant and told her that I don’t have and I can’t send money to anybody cus I have things to take care of and she should try call her parents to explain how it is at her joint. Before I could finish my statement she cut in telling me that is okay that she’s feeling headache and want to rest her head. The call ended. I began to wonder the audacity she had to call me to ask for money like I owe her or something.
That evening my spirit no gree rest cus I was annoyed at the way she said it. I had the money on me but instead I called one of my gee and asked him howfar and told him to send his account let me credit him. I sent him 1k first,then sent 2,500 to him again so he could use it to chow the following day. If you can imagine the way the guy thank me ehnn I wa alike bro chill na small token but baba was so happy cus he most of his guy don credit am say make e use am chop (Sometimes guys dey do their fellow guys shit sha)
Could u guys believe he use that 3,500 I gave him for 4days?
The following week he called me and told me let’s hangout and chill and he will send me tfare. Baba credited me 4K for tfare to come join am chop life.

Not all girls will appreciate the little u do and that’s why u will see them post on their status lowkey begging for people to take them out or credit them for being pretty whereas they have nothing to give in return other than sex or “thank you” that doesn’t come from their heart.

Well if you have give, if you don’t tell them you don’t have and let them move on to the next no let guilty conscience or wetin I no know kill you. You own your pride. But as for me no matter how her story dey emoshunal reach if I no wan give and e no come from my mind, sorry I can’t. Before giving I make sure I see good reason to give out not just because is part of being human.

rusher14:


In Nigeria, people would be saying the courts are scared to try him.

vacettetommy:
Are you a resident of Ikirun? If yes it’s nice to meet you here buddy

Ogbuu101:
Jersey boy from ikirun

DSC7:
In osun state you can get a single room for 12k yearly in a busy environment...

Safe contain 30k yearly....

2bedroom flat 50-60k yearly....


3bedroom flat 70k yearly....


Plus 12 to 18hrs steady power supply...



But................................




Again most of the youths there are into
Hello Baba, Yahoo yahoo and Rituals..

HRHQueenPhil:
Na so my white wedding go be ..though my mom won't let me hear word
I pray I meet a determined man who wld stand his ground

Quim2:
Explain pls

Bluezy13:
Because she has not met another person that she could fall in love with.
I have a friend, a colleague at work who lost her fiance. She was broken. A single mother. He was her first and only love. The father of her child.
She never believed she would fall in love again. She even said she will remain a single mother. But today, she found love again and they are planning wedding; though she still maintain she is still inlove with the demised husband and Peradventure he comes back to life, she will still go back to him.

As I am typing this, I am sitting beside her.