CruiserX:
One thing you must know about women is that they don't play around once they attain a marriageable age, especially those from 25 upwards. We really can't blame them cos they have a biological time clock and once they don't settle down in their 20s, it may become an issue for them.

Regardless, open your eyes and never date or marry any woman out of pressure or pity! Look out for the right character traits like honesty, hard work and morals.

Take note that girls pretend a lot and you may never know their real character unless you start as platonic friends.

Coldfeets:


I might even be meaner.

But I try as much as possible to conceal it.

Medianna:
The ones you've been getting for free nko? Hypocrite.

Tboymessiah:



True talk,

But what of we wey we no get long time relationship...
And we are not any relationship, and age is not on our side, how then are we going to settle down then

32 this December but planing to settle next year, no girl friend not in relationship, but financially okay

Sukkyy2010:

Which simply mean Redpillers are not worthy to be married to, is that literal meaning of your statement?

LutherSanchez:
You're a woman,i can never waste my time with you.

Caleycashh:
Try east African countries bro... there women are okay and have respect for there husbands, finally you get to have two international passports... this useless country is not guaranteed. Incase of war na to jakpa!

LegitBoyy:
Hi everyone,

I just wanted to share this trend I have noticed in my relationship life with you all and see if anyone can relate to it. I have just noticed recently that most girls I meet will suddenly want to “settle”.

You would wonder why this should be a problem right? Exactly. I am looking to getting into something serious myself so it should ordinarily not be a bad thing. However, I am seeing a pattern which is why I am worried.

I have met quite a few girls recently and many of them who are obviously still very active players on the ’street’ and as soon as we get talking, they suddenly want to exit the ‘street’ and want something serious with me.

For context, I will be 27years old in a few months, comfortably building a good career and a very calm person. It is not even about money or sort as many of them have met people with much more. I don’t know if any guy or lady out here actually understand my situation here?

I am looking to go into something serious but this pattern just doesn’t look all okay with me. Is it because of my calm nature? Maybe a calm guy is suitable for a husband kind of situation right?

For guys who have been in this situation, how did you dealt with it please?

CruiserX:
One thing you must know about women is that they don't play around once they attain a marriageable age, especially those from 25 upwards. We really can't blame them cos they have a biological time clock and once they don't settle down in their 20s, it may become an issue for them.

Regardless, open your eyes and never date or marry any woman out of pressure or pity! Look out for the right character traits like honesty, hard work and morals.

Take note that girls pretend a lot and you may never know their real character unless you start as platonic friends.

ednut1:
I can relate. Some guys have that husband material look/ good man look. These babes can sniff it. And want to be serious with you. While they still Bleep the bad boys behind your back. Pay them no attention, better babe will come . I met lots of them between 2014 to 2018. One no gimme sex for like 4 months and was forming wife material, i need to build emotional bond before sex bla bla, but went to nack a guy she didn’t know was a friend of a friend. The guy was even telling her in the chat not to come into a lions den, she came from school on Tuesday as per working class guy na weekend i go free. By Thursday she has gone to Bleep that dude lol

Tboymessiah:


Hahahah...I have a livestock farm here it will be hard to go there and stay, since my business here is doing well..

My conscine, is this, the preferred time for me to settle down or in a relationship, courtship, whatsoever...will be next year, all am thinking is just that can a find a girl that suit me with a good character within that short period and settle with her..

Stallionhorse:
You still young and have potentials thats why they want to tie you down.. You remind me of myself a few years back. The only advice I will give you is forget about women focus on your life.. When u get to certain age if you dont have money no one will look at you. If I had somebody to give me this advice at your age my life would be much better.. Right now the only thing I have to show for in life is my 2 year old beautiful daughter.. I can't count the number of girls that where flocking around me back then, there was a time I had 9 girlfriends, the money and time I should have used to build my future all wasted.. Today I'm reaping what I sewed.. So my guy be wise.

MedicH:
So e reach time for me to chop kpomo like everyone have done and u tell me you want to settle down. Na ment?

GodPrince:
i use the settle down as opportunity for free fhuck then I Jet!

ufotty2001:
Age factor and overused puss.y

Youngpo413:
you understand those whorès.

Tboymessiah:


Who's weak man,
Omo if u don't have any reasonable thing to talk u better park well, that's why I don't ask meaningful questions on nairaland except on Quora, cus person wey no fit loose ur sandals go dey put mouth for wetin e no Sabi...

Medianna:
Point of correction. 'My God given time' You don't manufacture time you know.

Hassanmaye:

What's platonic friends

Slmgirldippussy:




Once a lady meet a Single SIMPle man next agenda is marriage

biz2get:


You just summerizd everything....

Mariangeles:


Gini ka OT putara?

Caleycashh:
It is easier for a carmel to pass through the eyes of needle than to get a good wife in Nigeria, there wahala too much, my current babe of a year plus na Kenyan and she has been exceptional with character and business minded, I've already setup a business in kenya she's supervising and making great returns here in Nigeria, very sincere and hardworking... she makes me think she's an alien compared to all these leeches we have here and there yeye problems, bro all I can say is the Lord is your strength, see me see kenya

kakaaa77:

Not now again take a good look at it

Tboymessiah:


Thanks for the contribution,

If I may ask, do yo base in Kenya.

Tboymessiah:


Can someone find a woman he likes and marry her within 6 month of courtship

ikevictor:


Sure. Some bonds are discovered quicker than others. But both parties must come clean. Pure heart, clean hands, no hidden intentions.

CruiserX:
One thing you must know about women is that they don't play around once they attain a marriageable age, especially those from 25 upwards. We really can't blame them cos they have a biological time clock and once they don't settle down in their 20s, it may become an issue for them.

Regardless, open your eyes and never date or marry any woman out of pressure or pity! Look out for the right character traits like honesty, hard work and morals.

Take note that girls pretend a lot and you may never know their real character unless you start as platonic friends.