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Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me

if you have where to go just go and never look back. It's your life that's at stake here

Olunmercy56:
Ha! For a whole emir like him Where will the wives be sleeping then I hope this is not true. They should allow him to go to his own house

which wife? He was sent on exile, not his family. His family is in kano

SOFTDRINK:
Haven't you seen a toilet door that will never open if you don't flush the toilet after using it?


Why not install the sanitizer and program it with the door in a way that the door will not open until you use the sanitizer?


Wisdom is profitable to direct.

I tell you. If this had been in the US, the outcry alone would force the company to go bankrupt

eduman365:
LOL you don't know how ignorant and careless people can be. This might appear extreme, but it's a fool-proof way to ensure strict compliance...

lol. It's true sha. But it's not a good job at all. It's dehumanizing

Witcher:
We are all slaves

I'm not.

eduman365:
The guy wearing the sanitiser has a duty to ensure everyone uses the hand sanitiser before entering the office. So if they try to ignore using it, he goes to them directly and makes sure they use it, whereas an ordinary dispenser would just sit there...

It's a smart way to ensure everyone uses hand sanitisers if you ask me...

I disagree. Fix it close to the entrance with a warning sign would have done the job.

What kind of slavery is this? Hand sanitizer that can be fixed on the wall or on a table is what this company hang on someone's neck. The man will stand there from morning till night and at the end he'll be paid peanuts. Look at the sadness and tiredness in his eyes. It's only an immigrant that can do this kind of job. Sometimes I wonder why people even go to middle east countries like UAE when they know they'll be treated like animals. No citizen of Dubai can do this kind of job.

Mynd44

Zimri:
I don't support this one.... Please stop it

lol

gloriaunobi:
To activate, copy chrome://flags and paste to Chrome URL bar then enter. On the search bar that will come up, search for dark then enable all the options then relaunch.

I once did a thread on this back then.

Nice device for the price

This same thing that I do every day. My own is even worse. Phone and laptop will be charging at the same time on my bed and I'll be sleeping.

oluwaseyi000:

Why we were fired?
I joined this company last year, few days after finishing my NYSC, they have the highest number of software developers in Africa and I was loving life, the salary is great with breakfast and lunch

They keep on employing so many software engineer with time the engineer become more than the available job, I saw it coming but I don't know what the board was thinking

2. How did the firing process happen?
We have a global (online) meeting which people are asked not to miss, I was not even listening very well to what they are saying, the president said there are more developer than engagement to they have to let some people go, a mail was sent to all impacted people and I discovered what has just happened

Almost 400 people has been fired across Africa

3. Aftermath of being fired… how did you feel, have you recovered, did you get something better?

The company is actually a great one, they brought in pychologist to speak with us, bring in different recruiter, and other stuff, most importantly the payoff was reasonable that I can afford a Mac laptop of almost half-a-million

Luckily for me I got another reasonable job in less than 3 weeks of been retrenched


I always laugh when people complain there is no job in Nigeria, less than 5 month after leaving my previous company I have turned down almost 4 other offers some even paying than my current one

andela I guess. I had a friend who had exact same experience with you. Are you full stack, backend or front end? Which language?

Adgideon:
you know howips this man kiss you go fear, very sexy lips

opposite of sexy

Who says cultism does not pay? The result is what you're seeing above. And please whenever a cultist or armed robber is killed, don't put "graphic pics" because most people love seeing them get killed. So there's nothing graphic about it

YorubaKinging:
The pope of Babylon tests negative
Catholism is not the religion of Jesus
The European Babylonian empire created it just like Islam
It's not the religion of our cities

you're a liar. Peter who was one of the 12 disciples of Jesus is the first pope of the catholic church. Do your research

generaljosh1:
Their customer care is zero, if u call them, they won't respond, go to their bank, they know nothing

they know nothing. After making me open an account with them I was still not given the card

generaljosh1:
Yes, u can't even withdraw the money deposited

useless bank

generaljosh1:
PayPal didn't accept mine

is it stanbic visa card?

generaljosh1:
Does it work for you?

I've not been given the card

ImaIma1:
The children won't be living in your house na. And except it's a face me I face you, the number of children shouldn't bother you. Everyone will be in their flats

true. But some kids are stubborn sha

Righteousness89:
An act like this will Naturally Make Corona Virus Boom in that Country...

There are certain things you don't do..

Blood speaks louder than what u imagine..

A Virus which source nor cure is unKnown.

Yet u Conciously kill someone who is affected thinking you have killed the Virus.

If this is True, It's Stupidity at its Peak!

It's like a Politician Guarding Himself with Soldiers against the Spirit of a Person he Murdered!

you don't understand. He was killed for visiting a public bath thereby trying to spread the virus. Why did he violate his quarantine? He deserves death

Igbodicool:
So when you get your own children you will run away from them.
See confirmed bachelor talking...
Anyway enjoy while it last!
Lol

I'm still thinking of how to cope with them in future. Children noise dey irritate me

cucumbae:
Let those hotels managers provide the cctv footage of their hotel premises to see if he actually lodge there.

that's the first thing the prosecution should have done. Instead he came to court empty handed

MNDY:
Hahahahahahahaha
You must really hate him to have concluded that he switched on the AC

we saw him switch on the ac. He received enough insults sha

That's the first thing I look out for when getting a new apartment. Any compound with more than 3 children is a no no for me. Any church or mosque around, ur name na sorry. I hate noisy environments

I know this guy personally. He drives a highlander. This guy spent many years serving with the pope in the Vatican before coming home to become a priest. I was very shocked to hear his death. Rip bro

Ebenezer2021:
really were u there?
I'd have also been there assuming I knew cos I knew the first victim he murdered Maureen ewuru, a single mother from Abia state but resides in PH and was even a fellow church member with this criminal

I was there. Then why is her family not coming to court? Share pix of the Maureen. She graduated from UST right?

johncallidon:
hahahaha

see how the courtroom is empty. The public has lost interest in the case. Not even the family of the girls are coming to court. This guy may go scot free o. Public need to be interested in this case

The criminal even had the guts to switch on the air conditioner behind him