₦airaland Forum

May her soul RIP.

For the gentleman, hope he doesn't realise what he's done....

Shame that dementia is poorly recognised and treated


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olabrinks:
I never understand why people abroad always want to desperately buy land in Nigeria. The money you use to buy a property in naij, why not use it for a mortgage, eventually pay off the mortgage and get onto the property ladder in the country you reside. Set up generational wealth for your children. I mean unless you want to eventually move back to Nigeria, I see no point of this and it’s just a waste of money. I guess it’s a status symbol for most.

Status symbol..

Maybe to some..

An investment piece yes



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brodalikeme:
With little investigation, you will discover that it was Nigerians that asked to be either dropped off or picked up.

Las las, we don’t have any respect for our own laws.

Besides the point,.....
they should have declined!!!

I tell you to put hand inside fire, you go fit
They better pay sharperly before the fine is raised or corrected at today's rate.

The money isn't my concern but justice must be seen to be done.


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easyflex:
POINTS OF CORRECTION

1. If the U.S is not happy with the outcome of the decision of the board, they should withdraw their funds if they want to. It's not going to be the end of the world.
Too bad Nigeria has superior veto power compared to the USA in AfDb.

2. Everything is not investigated in the US. Same administration that found way to exonerate convicted criminals, Gen. Michael Flyn, Roger Stone etc just because they are Trump's cronies.

The same Trump administration that fires any Inspector General that seek to investigate it?.

Their hypocrisy on this stinks to high heaven and their agenda won't pass.

Even Libya + Ivory coast has enough vote to overrule US on this.

Hope the Africans come together on this and stave off this unnecessary intrusion..

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nitrogen:
It's a tussle between AFDB and IFC/World Bank. AFDB is taking a lot of deals away from IFC because they are cheaper and more flexible, I believe.

Exactement....

Prolly think they can dump Africa further back into the debt - ridden cesspit, a leverage position given the impending post-Covid recession..

What do I know


Let's support our own- Naija man.. not yoruba/igbo/hausa-fulani.. This is not the time for tribal ishh


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To the guy below.. Rotten as determined by a stooge... Playing out a neocolonialist script.
He was cleared at the 1st invx.. What more do you want?!


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fallout87:
No one is asking the right questions.

For one the US doesn't care for the most part about African (or foreign) interest unless they want to seize control or put their man in place.

Why is this so important to Munchin? Mind you Munchin is a man who doesn't care about middle class or poor here in the US..... talk much Africans.

My thoughts exactly

This is very political...

Why borrow from any of the other institutions if there's a largely African outfit sympathetic to our idiosyncrasies.



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25tolife:
Starboy no go ever talk anything, that boy .fear him.

As per...

Naaaaaa
the boy dey use beef wey go pay am

Na strategy.

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illicit:
Wizkid neva talk him own

Wizkid should please NOT enter.

Na to dey watch unfolding drama.. beta pass.


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Nodogragra4me:
Trump is about to hammer una with vex.
document loss
confusion everywhere

Supernatural things

How Trump reach my side.. He no fit touch me


Where is the confusion coming from.....
All the parameters aren't in place.. The people bringing about the confusion are themselves confused as things have not progressed as expected and are rather disjointed.

Maybe regional unrest or localised in parts of certain countries but not a worldwide vortex/armageddon.


Supernatural as per.... The timing neva reach yet

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missjekyll:
potato/potato...they can be used interchangeably my good man no matter what they thought you in immigration 101

Should I give up on you

Potato... Potato(e)
Thought... Taught

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Lack of knowledge to understand and adapt to the phases or cycles of a longterm union


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kamez:
hahahahahaha u just come this Sunday afternoon come scatter this glass table patapata....


person dey sleep on top carton come dey sing chop my money!!

werey!!

He was singing prophetically, abi

Faking it till he made it



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EliteBiz:
Nothing concerns me with celebrity news, its distraction.
I just want to tell the wise to start planning ahead, there is a bigger confusion ahead for Nigeria and the world, Convid 19 was just a warm-up.

What do you mean by bigger confusion


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This is great

Hope the river-induced erosion won't have any negative impact..

Trying to figure out what was done about that specific area of significant road dehiscence.

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rentAcock:
Wonderful. This gunboat will allow us to project our naval strength across the Atlantic. This gunboat solidifies our place as the greatest naval power in sub saharan Africa. I believe this is only a start, in the coming years, we will have our locally built nuclear powered submarines and aircraft carriers. No one will bully us, we are a force to reckon with.

Reallllllllllly

*****Old boy, time to wake up...
Morin don reach.... Wake up wake up.. ******,



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LinLinGentle:
Prenup is only about an arrangement on how your wealth is dealt with in case of divorce. What you get to keep and what you give your spouse/children, how much you pay her etc. And just like someone mentioned, it is not cast in stone and could be thrown out under some circumstances. A prenup doesn't prevent abusive women from using the gynocentric system in the west to frustrate a man and ruin his life.

True word..

Think you might need to approach things quite carefully..

Consider the "lure back to Naija" preferably without the kids approach with the divorce papers served as she steps off the plane as described by one of the other chaps.

It is likely yo be comparatively cheaper and faster.
In the event of things being settled after family intervention, she can only come back in as a guest rather than a wife:--- that hopefully will put boundaries in place till the lava freezes over.



Or the "pare off the bone " approach which is raising debts on any assets that may become shared following divorce in your current location..
The problem with this is costly payments to lawyers, and jurisdiction may extend to assets abroad..
So may be very messy with potential to lose the custody of your children.


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OK1:
you disclaimed any intentn of painting her the devil n yourself a saint, but dats exactly what u did.

you mentioned somewhere in ur lengthy post dat she was trynna "get back at you", u never bothered to tell us what (or maybe the things) u did, must be unforgivable.

why would any normal woman be trying to throwaway the life most other nigerian women would kill for just to drag u down...i guess u'll say her village pple eh

why do i hv d feeling NL now hire writers to create threads with fake a$$ stories

My dear whether its fake or not... It's a learning experience

So let's learn



To your earlier question, it might be effects of SM, to much TV fanning embers of resentment or greed knowing that the rules are to their advantage...


Let guys siddon dey learn different format that could cost or save thousands of dollars..

Bring popcorn abegi!!



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Martinez39s:
If you are married and you have 4 inches while your handsome, well-built gateman has a 9 inch, wide, hard anaconda.... your wife will surely get attack by your gateman's predator while you are away at work if she is aware of his predator's existence. Dey no tell person.


NB: pun intended

Ahh baa
Bros you use style fall my hand oooo
In today's world of p.. enile sleeve or rings, any smallie should be singing or shouting "alleluia, the Lord is good"
You even get to choose different sizes for different nights.. Leave the "mighty" for Sunday after blessing in church!!

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madgoat:
Extend it as soon as possible and do it fast.
Is it also possible to sell off all your properties, including house and move back to Nigeria for a while. Don't mention it to ur wife until u have landed in Nigeria. She's doing all that rubbish because divorce favours women abroad. She will get half of all u have especially if u have no solid prove of infidelity on her part. You should have come to Nigeria to file for divorce and not do it over there.

KEEP US UPDATED

Gbammm

Good angle!!



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Luckymama:
@ OP, a lot of women endure maltreatment from their husbands in Nigeria because they have no choice.......

Same situation you are in. You killed your wife’s feelings for you with your behavior in Nigeria and now she feels she doesn’t need you and so it’s payback time.
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Secondly, sincerely beg her forgiveness and make efforts to make amends for your behavior. We women are still quite soft. You won her heart once, you can win it again. Set to woo her the way you did before you got married. Hopefully she will forgive and forget and be ready to build a home with you.

And in case it’s a fake story, well men should note that we never forget the maltreatment. We just bide our time. So always treat your woman right.

Ma'am.

I hear you

But there's a way a woman will handle the situation and not escalate things out of proportion..

A wise woman builds her house not tears it down furiously if I must say as demonstrated in this case...

Have we considered the word.. Build... It's not decorate.... not even... repairs...... but builds.. Which shows its an ongoing process, some areas will be nipped and tucked, areas might need replastering or extending

Today's woman wants a Prince charming to do her bidding in a ready castle without enduring the process that goes along.. Kolewerkk!


I'd advice the op even if female in a similar spirit.. When someone who hasn't worked as hard or as long as you've done...... comes along and in a wild disruptive manner wants to destroy a house that took a decade and half to build, in a day or week : the exit is made available ASAP


I've had several colleagues in a similar conundrum..... And it makes for bad viewing observing destroyed potential as well.


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Quintessential Mercy

Good at her game

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PapaNnamdi:
Reptiles are covered in scales, scales are insulators,
So animals with scales getting in touch with electric current do not get electrocuted,


Wetin Dem de teach una for school sef,
Na only to snap picture and post for romance threads na im children of nowadays Sabi,

Beg to differ sir.

Snakes can be electrocuted.. It's dependent on the voltage



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Is this an attempt to gain clout?

SteffLon will just crush your slight frame with just... her behind


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? IVF



They look really sweet.
Nice smiles.

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dirtydiva:
Na to go arrange ashawo gv him, by the time ashawo use their funny way of handling sex starve guys he go calm down or rather gv him drugs dat reduce sex drive in him

Naaa that won't work as the focus is on the wrong driver..
Read the tale... He abstained during their courtship years and played gentleman the 1st few years.. It was largely unsatisfactory for both him and her as well till he "fessed" up..

That will suggest he might not be a selfless lover and therefore not given to the games played during pre-intimacy....
This is why your theory won't work.

This chap needs psychoanalysis to determine the trigger factor that led to this and details of previous episodes (I will be surprised if he's not committed manslaughter or killed/maimed an animal before) .. Afterwhich a programme sometimes involving medication can be drawn up for him, depending on his history


The alarm bells are an unwilling partner and smashing a hammer and breaking a mirror on a pregnant woman..... That's grievous bodily harm at least if charged to court.. He's pushing boundaries quite rapidly...



This ishhh is deep, imho.


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Frugality is a personal opinion though..

These chaps may be involved in charities and decide to be quiet about it.. Not everyone wants to live their lives on SM or be audio about their other achievements..

I dey gbadun them jare..


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Jheimz:
In some cases, the man is the victim
click below to read more
https://realmejames..com/2020/05/i-didnt-know-that-sex-is-marital.html




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Your blog examples are very different to what's being discussed here, sir.

Those cases are young women who unaware of their marital obligations had killed their spouses mistakenly whilst fighting off the amorous advances.


This here is a clear case of extreme BDSM with an unwilling partner.



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dirtydiva:
At ds current naija person dey get ds kind urge? Thank God say him no marry teenage girl as wife, by now dat hole for don lax

That one I no fit know..

Seriously though the act of penetration is not the main thing but inflicting pain and observing the distress or torment that causes, that gives the "high"..... He could be using a loaf of bread for all he cares as long as someone or something is distressed by his tormentous acts...

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Where is your shop or online store



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dirtydiva:
Omo ds one na Amutekun . He wan use you do BDSM, maybe he don become legendary for xvideo or pornhub directors. Walahi if I be you the kind bite he go chop from me go kill dat urge pata pata

Make u no think am

Water Don pass gari..
This one who fit use hammer on pregnant woman don lose am pata pata!!

You won bite bulldog wey dey in heat.. Herrhhh.. Make u no waka go heaven to realise the outcome..


If the girl no leave shaperly. Na 6 feet under she go find herself!!


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