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pcguru1:
This would sound weird but sometimes it seems it's a privilege to have babies for this type of people (affluential) I don't blame women who get pregnant for them, a certain asset will be left behind for the kids. So it's like a benefit in a way

Gone are those days when getting pregnant premaritally is literally a death sentence for you in an african home. With which mouth will u even say it? Now girls are proudly wearing the baby mama's tag. Lord where have we missed it.

iluvdonjazzy:
please i want to buy a copy, were re dey selling it

No 2 Iweka Road Or Alaba market

She don get boyfriend sef

dunkem21:
Is Johnson has surname?

I think so

pcguru1:
Is someone not going to address that she's wearing the same bra

Abi o. Maybe she kept them solely for the pictures

dunkem21:
BJ? What is the meaning pls?

Bisola Johnson

Just another avenue to steal from people. Policy my foot

How come i've never seen Bisola's name up for eviction?

LesbianBoy:
He graduated with 3rd class and yet he is living the good life while his mates that came out with first class are somewhere doing "yes sir" in one bank or firm and collecting N100,000 as salary!

Buhari sef

What d'you expect when his oga sef no get certificate at all. Nigeria is a big joke walahi

pcguru1:
as in, this weekend a friend came to crash in my place, his wife just got tired of the marriage and took the kids and it's been like that for a year, however I haven't heard her side, so I am pretty sure there's still a side. but been trying to get him to fix things up. His ex that he proposed to that told him no, too was seperated too reason being the husband na wife-beater. And there's more and more of this. Only God sha

People are just too selfish these days. Marriage is jst like another box to be ticked for most people

90% of married ones are bad examples. So what's the point of rushing?

PaperLace:
Lol. I live my life trying to be just with every human. I have a working conscience. Anything/association that would hurt my husband, I cut it off. I love him like that.
If he can't reciprocate, I won't spend my time praying or fighting sidechicks. That's not the marriage I want for myself...

We think alike. I'm as human as he is. If he feels he want to do nonsense and not respect the sanctity of marriage, then we r done

TonyeBarcanista:
I consider giving/offering according to what God purposed in the heart and not some tithing or so(Read the book of Hebrew 7/8].

Christ came to fulfil the law, having fulfilled it on the cross, the law has become obsolete.

If I want to marry you there are marital rites I'm to fulfill. Once fulfilled, you become my wife and those rites become obsolete to me. I don't need to be keeping to the rites to stay married to you.

If you finish a contract, the project becomes obsolete. It is only used as a reference point but the contract cannot be given to you over again because you have fulfilled it.

Try read Mattews 19vs 9. That should clear the air and don't forget to read the clause in it

pcguru1:
You are right, that sounded wrong, alot of women get trapped under the problem "of remarrying" because of what the bible says, so alot risk their lives staying praying for the so-called guy to change.

So many frustrated christian out there i tell you

CplusJason:
What view are you talking about?

The watch ofkes

TonyeBarcanista:
That's Judaism, a practice that came before the coming of Christ, given to Moses and the prophets and specifically for ONLY the Jews, unlike Christianity that knows no Jew, Greek or Gentiles....


It wasn't Christ's perfect will, hence, his coming to show the way to God.

Judaism you said. D'you still pay ur Tithe or not? Where was it written(old testament) Even Jesus said He has not come to abolish the law but to fulfil it

TonyeBarcanista:
I am not arguing with you whether or not you are human before being a Christian, but Christianity is about saying NO to self and living in Christ.

you don't have to subscribe to the faith, but to those in it, there is a defined way of life to lead.

Well, me having a different opinion from yours doesn't make me a non-believer. Some things are jst thr for us to think and choose wisely,that's why God himself has given us the ability.

TonyeBarcanista:
Perhaps, you should subscribe to a faith that suits your ideology or maybe atheism.

I can't say I was there but I only base my position on what is written in the Bible, which is the unquestionable and infallible constitution of Christianity.

Are what are written the absolute truth? I'm sure nobody can give an objective answer to this... you only get subjective response depending on the faith/sect of the respondent.

I hope I made sense?

Yea Faith, here we go. It is written in d same bible to stone whoever it is who did not observe the sabbath. How come you don't do that, remember it was written o

TonyeBarcanista:
This subject is about CHRISTIANITY not Humanity. What is a norm in Christianity or any other religion may not be in "humanity".

Also, a norm in humanity is dependent on the society.... it is never absolute.



BTW: discuss with decorum

We are human first before Christianity.

stubornnn:
I think you should create a thread about it anytime soon. You can also create a new moniker so as to remain anonymous.

I am sure a lot of nairalanders will like to be of help, or offer advice or experience you can learn from. Please don't just live through it, try and do something about it.

Do you know there are numerous pharmaceutical drugs that can be used to treat severe depression?

Thanks a lot

TonyeBarcanista:
That command isn't restricted to the woman alone. A divorcee Christian man is NOT expected to marry another woman save the demise of his wife. This is according to Christ.


The Bible wasn't "written" according to the wisdom of men, it is a collection of what was inspired by The Holy Spirit.

Bros abeg, were you there when the Holy Spirit was inspiring them? Is that not what they told you? Did Holy spirit told you personally of inspiring them to write that? Answer that genuinely and i'll rest my case with you

menxer:
Some people prefer and are comfortable with their blinkers on.

Don't mind that guy. Humanity is treating another human the same way you want to be treated.

pcguru1:
ssssh stop this don't let the Christians here say you should have stayed and pray for him, stop applying logic and sense, you will offend other Christians.

Logic my foot. Christianity is not Stupidity

TonyeBarcanista:
that is what makes you a Christian.

Beside marital infidelity is more of punishment than enjoyment...


By the way, you have the option of doing what the world will do (remarry) and be prepared for the consequences afterlife

If it were to be the other way round, wld you have waited for d wife to die before you remarry. Don't forget most of the things you read in the bible were written by human beings like you and I. That's why God has given us wisdom and spirit of discernment.

TonyeBarcanista:
A Christian woman though may not consider divorce but has the luxury of separation from the union until the man completely repent from his ways.

Even if she divorce the man, Christ expect her to remain unmarried until the demise of her man.


May God help our Christian sisters

So i should put my life on hold because of someone's sin while the sinner is enjoying his life? Mba, no way

It's allowed to get divorced when infidelity is involved. Shikena

I want to buy smoking turkey instead of smoked turkey. I cldn't help but laugh, jst imagine a Turkey with cigarette in its mouth

Why this man no kuku cut the remaining hair on the head abi whc kain hairstyle be this

seankay:
Lies detected in her testimony

1. I do not drink or smoke but David drinks and smokes :

She was probably drinking coke and malt at the club

2. he did not even know when I left the hotel: you would have waited for him to wake up so that he can sort you,book another session and take more selfies.

3. she did not have a boyfriend and she is not one to jump from one bed to another: This one weak me

Infact, i tire . Some stories you read and can't help but cover your face in shame as a lady. Chai

Op, i can relate. Still going tru mine, only one thing keeps me going. It is well

Smellymouth:
Hun.#

Too bad

Smellymouth:
Good evening gun. You are not on whatsapp.. Why?