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leavestory: But wetin dey pain me be say some chicks that still had sex last week coming here to say #team virgin...

jeremiah i am reading places the house of God as first point of judgement call so i pity hypocrites in Nigeria

honesty is accepting your weakness and asking God for help to see you through and sincerely walking that path and associate instead with those that find it easy overcoming that weakness. make proper changes and it is my prayer for you to become champion

truth is everyone wants to do right and as apostle paul refers to 'the sin that so easily besets us' we end up easily doing wrong due to their habbits and surroundings. we know the truth and say it out but the doing is atimes hard. God help us. Amen

Loviho: ... my girl friend who never allow me to have sex with her, ''she said i can only f*ck her if i marry her'',but if i marry her and later she is not virgin as claim ,what do you think divorce

go for medical examinations.

eliminating anything that can sexually turn you on from around you would certainly go a long way in helping you keep your resolution to stay chaste. avoiding over privacy, dark places, inciting environments. y'know the works that weakens you

don't make your partner suffer more for mistakes of the past but rather help him/her leap over and make a fresh start together in love, truthfulness and sincere commitment. God on your sides, you guys will be glad you forgave and sweet future stories

i see nothing but wickedness and selfishness in someone that tells a non virgin partner trying to go straight they must compulsorily sample. good stores have guarantee of their products and don't allow opening seals. respect ur partners as humans

very nice to see minds speaking up. in our world of today, one has to accept that you could meet a virgin or non virgin partner and their status should not be a reason to persecute them. if you can't bear it, just move on rather than create problems

happy sunday y'all

born_to_be_gr8t: I will neva be caught dead marrying a woman with a stinking vagînä all in the name of religion

and why claim such religion for your salvation if the rules of your religious belief can't be followed.

got to rest but in the meantime, @readers could compare health risks of abstinents to those that engage in sex. even with condom use, the highest is 98% certainty and some ones will fall in the 2% as all claiming to be lucky. add herpes to the list.

duni04: ... Its risky business today especially wen d person ur supposedly saving urself for has philanderer his/her life away with multiple abortions, STD's...

medical examinations are not out of place. science still works dear.

[quote author=duni04]...Its risky business today especially wen d person ur supposedly saving urself for has philanderer his/her life away with multiple abortions, STD's or ...[quote]medical examinations are not out of place. science still is valid.

a lot more ladies could have done better but from guy pressures they relaxed. a girl friend told me of her ex-lover who promised her marriage for sex. luckily she said no only to find out that in the past three girls had aborted for the same guy.

@dailynews don't relent as for every ten, at least one will listen and have a thank God moment for you doing so

our first loves. sincere true love but in most cases we end up not marrying them. so in all fairness would it have been ok to have slept with them and passed them on to the one who eventually marries them? sure selfishness in most sex affairs gbam!

Lady-Payne:
lmao....u want a hymen too?? *ROTFLMAO
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that way regard level for sisters by brothers would be higher. btw too late for a person like me having it now.

iamdhebuck: Story!..ama fvck till I die

we all will, just with whom and when is issue at hand. if your partner cheats before marriage, there is no guarantee they won't repeat same after. no ring respect before, no respect after.

Oluwaseytiano: Abraham, Caleb, Jabob, David, Solomon, Ruth, Esther, Gideon, Samson, Saul. Anybody know what all dis people had in common?

can't figure it out. oya jist it

how i wish we brothers too had a form of hymen as proof of virginity and thus a present for our spouses. atimes we get what we bargain/wish for. insincerity attracts insincerity, deception for deception, truth for truth. good good clean girls abound.

let's be frank with ourselves, who bargains for a christmas cracker when you can get a dynamite with the same deal. but there is hope in that anything can be learnt. letting our bodies fall with the flow is selfishly satisfying cravings hastily

i disagree though with @op on number 3. with a good sex partner anyone can enjoy sex even at the first time. that is where the issue is. no one wants to have remained celibate only to be disappointed on the bed after expecting explosive moments.

slap1: The current trend is pregnancy before marriage, because some girls have no womb anymore.

as a result of? it's rare for a married woman to abort her husband's baby. common in singles baby did not fly there, it swam.

anything can be learnt. so no justification for say practicing aforetime. on the sexual state of your partner so as to avoid surprises, a doctor can give you accurate reports. konji levels, apostle paul said 'if you no fit hold bodi, go marry'.

adonismuller: ... @OP the days where people marry before sex are stone ages!! Even you that wrote all these have had sex before marriage/had sex before marriage

and we found good reason to advice others not to repeat same mistake

i believe in having sex and lots of it but only in the bounds of marriage. @borntobegreat in case of spirit husbands you would have no grounds in the battle and you become the guilty defendant awaiting judgement of the spirit court. get legal grounds

thirdly, irrespective of what advice you get here, do not let it make you act the marriage breaker while trying to act tough as it is YOUR marriage. handle yourself better, show love and be more open with sharing your feelings with him. pray together

being in love is really cool but being a slave to what you should be enjoying is totally uncool. try leaving the over dependence and be more mature with taking care of yourself, men like independent women and at the end he will be the one chasing you

@deception, forget it as it might even backfire should he call your bluff. @friends, there should be at least one that is morally right that can talk to him and change his mind if fears are true. @yourself, pray and never allow evil seeds to grow

@op get a vaginismus set from zeevirtualmedia.com or to save costs insert objects and work your way up to his penis size or extend pre-intimacy with inserted finger and use oil for lubrication till muscles can take him in. with time it will relax more.