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Op I feel your pain. We are somewhat alike, I'm really an introvert but I love my space, I don't like my home being crowded by people. 4me oo, tell ur wife that she has choose btwm her marriage to you or her relationship with her mother. I'm sure you live quite close to your inlaws, dts one of d problems of staying close to them. Or you leave d house 4dem, when konji hol am, her head will straight. What nonsense! Some MIL's sef don't respect themselves. |
My dear, be bold enough to walk out of that marriage. Before he instills his belief in your son. You can pray 4 ur husband from ur comfort zone, ie away from him. It's not going to be easy but that's d bitter truth. You can't change a man it's only God that can do so. Pls get d book titled d road God walks. God bless you. |
Guyman02:U couldn't have said it any better, I wish it was possible to like a comment more than once, I could av given ur writeup a million likes. I especially like "school rewards pple for their memory, life rewards ppls for their imagination". Make sense |
I hope this wike n Amaechi know how stained their hands are, after all dose innocent pple dey killed, d man is now payin condolence visit to NYSC, his brain didn't tell him to visit n consol d family of d boy okwia! It's is well. I wonda when politics will become a normal job instead of a do or die affair |
Being a mother n knowing what I went thru to deliver my child, no child deserves this kinda treatment. It breaks my heart to see that child soaked in poo, dts so irritating. D mother of dt child has no heart, no matter d. Situation, d worst u can do is to give d child up 4 adoption. I keep telling ladies, if ure not ready for d responsibility can comes with intercourse, stay away from it, it can't be that hard to stay away or use protection haba |
My Sister put him in prayer, Man is a Spirit, he has a Soul n lives in a body, call him by his name when praying n tell d HolySpirit to turn his thoughts from evil towards you to good, n dt he would not rest until he has called u bk 4 ur Job, that's if u still like to work der, if not keeping praising God n applying for jobs, dey will call U. It worked 4me when I was looking 4Job, praise God 4 atleast one hour every day n you will see wonders. Thank me later |
An Exxon Mobil staff that's worth a lot of thousands rapes a girl n gives her 1k. Crowns it up by doing d deed in d presence of a 3yr old, corrupting d young mind. I wonda why some pple allow d devil use them. It is well |
menabae:That means ure stingy na |
AY should leave dis Stella alone n sort his issues, this lady looks like she got her facts at hand, one more clap bk from AY n d world will know what made his Mrs to use truck to pack her load outa his house. I smell cheating issues noting upsets a woman more than a cheating spouse or a violent spouse but I very much doubt AY is violent. All d best them |
homesteady: I'll like to know the church she went to! Haven't the pastor or elders or even the ushers heard about her?The Church aınt for Perfect People ıts for PERFRCTING pple, ıf we were perfect, Jesus wouldnt have had to come and dıe for us. Dıdnt u read where the Bıble saıd whıle we were YET SINNERs, Chrıst dıed 4us. He dıdnt waıt for our acceptance b4 dyıng for dyıng forUS that ıs LOVE |
homesteady: I'll like to know the church she went to! Haven't the pastor or elders or even the ushers heard about her?The Church aınt for Perfect People ıts for PERFRCTING pple |
Gifted scholar: Congrats...FYI: we all hav our loves nd we re also attracted to dem bt d use of "madam" is nt appreciated plsss...tnx!Didn't mean 2 offend U with my choice of words, sorry if u felt offended. |
Gifted scholar: Y shuld guys ever been light skinned...d fairness is meant for d ladies nt d guys, fair guys re irritating to me....fair guys re pompous abt dia complexion dey feel lyk dia beauty lies in d complexion,.....bside am a fair skinned lady y shuld I want a guy who ll share d same cream as mine??...." My cream no go last me d 3mnths as usual because I hav one oyinbo guy as boyfrnd or husband" abegi!!...yellow pawpaw no follow jare....although I love ramson noah sha ooooMadam my fiance has a clean,fresh fair skin and he DOESN'T use any cream watsoever bcoz he easily sweats, am dark skind and I love his complexion infact wen he renmoves his shirt d skin colour broad manly chest is my no1 turn on b4 oda tins follow. I luv my Man n his colour. |
Pls if u av a sibling U can trust or if ur Mum is still alive, run 2 dem, don't let ur hubby know 4 now. Wen u av weaned ur baby properly, den u can let him know where u are N instruct him nt to tell his Mum. Dat is Mother, wateva are reasons are, dosent sound good 2me |
dasparrow: The ones that are praying to get married are either poor, have low self esteem or are not accomplished and need a man to take care of them. Those ladies with money know that marriage in itself does not buy happiness especially when you are married to a broke azz man. Don't you see singer Omawumi? She came from a polygamous home so she knew that most Nigerian-bred men will not stay faithful. So the chic went and got pregnant, had a beautiful baby in the USA and continued to focus on her music career while living life to the fullest. So in essence, people should do what makes them happy. After all, who are we to judge?Are u finkin ryt @all? |
I have jst one question 4u? Did u knw abt d condition and d seriousness of it b4 getin married? If u did then U have no case....u vowed 4 better 4 worse. If u didn't, I don't fink NL is d place 2 brng such issues, I feel u shud talk 2 God in prayer n seek advice 4rm ur Pastor. I undastnd ow u feel, its nt easy on eida of U but I av goodnews for you, when ther's life der is hope. Noting is IMPOSSIBLE with God. All d best in ur decision. Also I recomend u take her to pastorChris Oyakhilome healing School, ur miracle might jst be waitin for you. If ure interested, u can post ur email addy, let me send u details on how to register n d process. |
dridowu: There is a common saying which i believe " the young shall grow " if d adult continue to play the role of children , then when will the young now grow into adult. In this case i am against any adult that play the role of a childrenPls how does adult playin d role of children affect d young ones 4rm growin in2 adult....ow many nigerian kids can act like funke or ini or nkem....we shud jst aprct d movie 4 wat it is which is a comedy |
My fiance serenades 4me n I love it infact it makes me laugh n d both of us jst start laughin @him, I also serernade 4him n because my voice is way nicer hez always like awww he soo loves it. |
Point of correction @ OP nt all girls treat their BF's like u mentioned above. 4 instance I love n cherish evry moment I spend with my BF, infact he is God sent, he is an angel in human form and I value him so mch, am nt among d girls that realize sumtn or sumone's worth wen its gone, I value my BF 4 all d@ he is to me, we've been 2geda over 5yrs and I love n treat him as if we jst met. So @ OP u av a point buh nt all girls R like d@. As a matter of fact I'm acting more like a WIFE n less dan a GF evryday. Jst like glo, my BF rules my world n I luv him 3mch |
RIP Brother, U were Indeed one of a kind, evn d mother of the child said she couldn't have done what U did. The Child will definately hear of ur gr8 sacrifice when he is old enough. To think that u didn't consider ur own life, being an igbo man to save a Tiv child.....U were nt Tribalistic.... ur sacrifice reminds me of what Jesus said that "gr8r love has no man than this, dat he'll lay down his life for his friends". U've laid down ur life 4 sum1 who is too young to know U....I belive ure in heaven, Continue to rest in d Bossom of the Lord. |
Woow congrats my brother |
Billyonaire: But I love Hell, and I prefer Hell to Heaven, both of which I know exist in religion fairy tales. I know for sure that strippers will be there, Musicians will be there, Liquor will be there, what more can I ask for ?I pray dat God saves ur soul, and not grant what u wish 4, if u jst had even d sligtest idea of what ure jokin with and how powerful ur words are, u'll get on ur knees and start seeking 4giveness and Mercy from God. May he Deliver U and bring you to the knowledge of the truth. |
Well, since u tot it wise to tell ur aunt, that's a good step it shows ur feelings may just be sincere. However weda u say its pure luv and no sex, d fact is dat sooner or later U'll want 2be intimate with her, my only question for you is, d tin u claim ure feelin now, will u still be feeling it when she tells u shez pregnant? And b4 u start anytin with her, jst ask urslf very well if u can marry her not d one wen anytin happns in d future ur family will say u can't marry a maid or whatever, after d did must have been done. All d best |
Callotti: I juuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuust love BEAUTIFUL married women who can do it all.Honestly I don't know weda to feel sorry for you or pray fervently for your salvation. God help U |
Reptyle: Seems to me like the law is specific about instances where abortion can be procured. What's the fuss?. Will the instances always be adhered to? You know once u give nigerians allow, dey'll take allowance so its best not 2 pass d bill in2 law bcoz it will most definately be misused buh does my comment mean anytin 2d lawmakers |
Ms Spaqs Ur comment jst nailed it on d head. |
Well May God console her 4 her loss. But dis is wat u get when u willfuly enter polygamy, wat happnd 2 all d single men out der that she decided 2 marry a father of five n a divorcee? U don't expect2 spoil anoda person's own n fink urs will be OK. If she knows wats good 4her, she better leave d man to his many wives n children b4 dey do something more drastic 2 her. This is a lesson to all dose home breakers out dere. Evn Ini Edo is battling 2 get pregnant, she equally married sum1's hubby. I don't evn knw wats wrong wiv all dese young celebrities who settle 4 married men n break their once happy home n expect tins 2 go well 4dem. It is well....not judging any1 jst sayin |
@Doc tanks for all dis info but pls I'll like us 2 discuss further. The mail u uploaded isn't functioning, can u kindly upload one dats functionin so we can communicate thru mails. Tanks a lot |
I fink d jam lock idea is just the best....dats d most sensible tin posted ere so far....other suggestions are good tho but d jam lock jst seals it coz he can nva open ur door during ur private time and he'll be forced to always knock , plus wen d door is lockd most of d tym, chances are he'll reduce d way he comes to your room coz d door is neva opend anyway due 2d jamlock |
yellowpawpaw: Maybe u guys need to change d lock. Something like jamlock will do. But make sure u always hv spare with u. Once u enter,end of story unless u want to open. He will get it. |
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,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies
