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FamilyRe: My Mother-In-law Visits Too Often, How Do I Deal With That? Please Help by tegabetty: 6:25pm On Aug 11, 2016
Op I feel your pain. We are somewhat alike, I'm really an introvert but I love my space, I don't like my home being crowded by people. 4me oo, tell ur wife that she has choose btwm her marriage to you or her relationship with her mother. I'm sure you live quite close to your inlaws, dts one of d problems of staying close to them. Or you leave d house 4dem, when konji hol am, her head will straight. What nonsense! Some MIL's sef don't respect themselves.
FamilyRe: Married To An Atheist by tegabetty: 7:32pm On Aug 02, 2016
My dear, be bold enough to walk out of that marriage. Before he instills his belief in your son. You can pray 4 ur husband from ur comfort zone, ie away from him. It's not going to be easy but that's d bitter truth. You can't change a man it's only God that can do so. Pls get d book titled d road God walks. God bless you.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Having A Phd Is A Waste – Bishop Oyedepo by tegabetty: 9:29pm On Mar 24, 2016
Guyman02:
Prof. Abioye Isaac

“Academic excellence is overrated! Did I just say that? Oh, yes, I said it.
Being top of your class does not necessarily guarantee that you will be at the top of life.
You could graduate as the best student in Finance but it doesn’t mean you will make more money than everybody else.
The best graduating Law student does not necessarily become the best lawyer.
The fact is life requires more than the ability to understand a concept, memorize it and reproduce it in an exam.
School rewards people for their memory. Life rewards people for their imagination.
School rewards caution, life rewards daring.
School hails those who live by the rules. Life exalts those who break the rules and set new ones. So do I mean people shouldn’t study hard in school? Oh, no, you should. But don’t sacrifice every other thing on the altar of First Class. Don’t limit yourself to the classroom. Do something practical.

Take a leadership position.

Start a business and fail. That’s a better Entrepreneurship 101.

Join or start a club.

Contest an election and lose. It will teach something Political Science 101 will not teach you.

Attend a seminar.

Read books outside the scope of your course.

Go on missions and win a soul for eternal rewards…
Do something you believe in!

Think less of becoming an excellent student but think more of becoming an excellent person. Make the world ur classroom!”
U couldn't have said it any better, I wish it was possible to like a comment more than once, I could av given ur writeup a million likes. I especially like "school rewards pple for their memory, life rewards ppls for their imagination". Make sense
PoliticsRe: Wike Pays Condolence Visit To NYSC On Death Of Corps Member (Photos) by tegabetty: 3:01pm On Mar 23, 2016
I hope this wike n Amaechi know how stained their hands are, after all dose innocent pple dey killed, d man is now payin condolence visit to NYSC, his brain didn't tell him to visit n consol d family of d boy okwia! It's is well. I wonda when politics will become a normal job instead of a do or die affair
CrimeRe: Baby Rescued From Pit Toilet In Nasarawa by tegabetty: 8:53am On Feb 25, 2016
Being a mother n knowing what I went thru to deliver my child, no child deserves this kinda treatment. It breaks my heart to see that child soaked in poo, dts so irritating. D mother of dt child has no heart, no matter d. Situation, d worst u can do is to give d child up 4 adoption. I keep telling ladies, if ure not ready for d responsibility can comes with intercourse, stay away from it, it can't be that hard to stay away or use protection haba
CareerRe: Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job? by tegabetty: 11:37pm On Feb 24, 2016
My Sister put him in prayer, Man is a Spirit, he has a Soul n lives in a body, call him by his name when praying n tell d HolySpirit to turn his thoughts from evil towards you to good, n dt he would not rest until he has called u bk 4 ur Job, that's if u still like to work der, if not keeping praising God n applying for jobs, dey will call U. It worked 4me when I was looking 4Job, praise God 4 atleast one hour every day n you will see wonders. Thank me later
CelebritiesRe: Kate Henshaw Slams Mobil-Staff Rapist by tegabetty: 11:28pm On Feb 24, 2016
An Exxon Mobil staff that's worth a lot of thousands rapes a girl n gives her 1k. Crowns it up by doing d deed in d presence of a 3yr old, corrupting d young mind. I wonda why some pple allow d devil use them. It is well
RomanceRe: 8 Evidences That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife by tegabetty: 11:05pm On Feb 24, 2016
menabae:
grin,that number 4 can nevr happen,why should i spend on a guy?huh,that's left for sugar mommies
That means ure stingy na
CelebritiesRe: AY Clashes With Stella-Dimoko As She Reveals More On His 'Troubled Marriage' by tegabetty: 11:45pm On Feb 23, 2016
AY should leave dis Stella alone n sort his issues, this lady looks like she got her facts at hand, one more clap bk from AY n d world will know what made his Mrs to use truck to pack her load outa his house. I smell cheating issues noting upsets a woman more than a cheating spouse or a violent spouse but I very much doubt AY is violent. All d best them
CelebritiesRe: Cossy Orjiakor's First Time In Traditional Attire (photo by tegabetty: 10:43am On Dec 31, 2013
homesteady: I'll like to know the church she went to! Haven't the pastor or elders or even the ushers heard about her? undecided
Why'll they allow an unrepentant indecency-star to enter their church?

Yea! Everybody will start saying that Jesus came for sinners, he dined with sinners, and so on!.....
The Church aınt for Perfect People ıts for PERFRCTING pple, ıf we were perfect, Jesus wouldnt have had to come and dıe for us. Dıdnt u read where the Bıble saıd whıle we were YET SINNERs, Chrıst dıed 4us. He dıdnt waıt for our acceptance b4 dyıng for dyıng forUS that ıs LOVE
CelebritiesRe: Cossy Orjiakor's First Time In Traditional Attire (photo by tegabetty: 10:39am On Dec 31, 2013
homesteady: I'll like to know the church she went to! Haven't the pastor or elders or even the ushers heard about her? undecided
Why'll they allow an unrepentant indecency-star to enter their church?

Yea! Everybody will start saying that Jesus came for sinners, he dined with sinners, and so on!.....
The Church aınt for Perfect People ıts for PERFRCTING pple
RomanceRe: Girls Which Do You Prefer, Fair Guys Or Dark Guys? by tegabetty: 3:56pm On Nov 14, 2013
Gifted scholar: Congrats...FYI: we all hav our loves nd we re also attracted to dem bt d use of "madam" is nt appreciated plsss...tnx!
Didn't mean 2 offend U with my choice of words, sorry if u felt offended.
RomanceRe: Girls Which Do You Prefer, Fair Guys Or Dark Guys? by tegabetty: 3:10pm On Nov 14, 2013
Gifted scholar: Y shuld guys ever been light skinned...d fairness is meant for d ladies nt d guys, fair guys re irritating to me....fair guys re pompous abt dia complexion dey feel lyk dia beauty lies in d complexion,.....bside am a fair skinned lady y shuld I want a guy who ll share d same cream as mine??...." My cream no go last me d 3mnths as usual because I hav one oyinbo guy as boyfrnd or husband" abegi!!...yellow pawpaw no follow jare....although I love ramson noah sha oooo
Madam my fiance has a clean,fresh fair skin and he DOESN'T use any cream watsoever bcoz he easily sweats, am dark skind and I love his complexion infact wen he renmoves his shirt d skin colour broad manly chest is my no1 turn on b4 oda tins follow. I luv my Man n his colour.
FamilyRe: My Baby by tegabetty: 6:29am On Nov 10, 2013
Pls if u av a sibling U can trust or if ur Mum is still alive, run 2 dem, don't let ur hubby know 4 now. Wen u av weaned ur baby properly, den u can let him know where u are N instruct him nt to tell his Mum. Dat is Mother, wateva are reasons are, dosent sound good 2me
CelebritiesRe: Chika Ike Celebrates Final Divorce Breakthrough In The U.S (photos) by tegabetty: 4:23am On Nov 10, 2013
dasparrow: The ones that are praying to get married are either poor, have low self esteem or are not accomplished and need a man to take care of them. Those ladies with money know that marriage in itself does not buy happiness especially when you are married to a broke azz man. Don't you see singer Omawumi? She came from a polygamous home so she knew that most Nigerian-bred men will not stay faithful. So the chic went and got pregnant, had a beautiful baby in the USA and continued to focus on her music career while living life to the fullest. So in essence, people should do what makes them happy. After all, who are we to judge?
Are u finkin ryt @all?
FamilyRe: Confused Husband Needs Advice by tegabetty: 3:46am On Oct 29, 2013
I have jst one question 4u? Did u knw abt d condition and d seriousness of it b4 getin married? If u did then U have no case....u vowed 4 better 4 worse. If u didn't, I don't fink NL is d place 2 brng such issues, I feel u shud talk 2 God in prayer n seek advice 4rm ur Pastor. I undastnd ow u feel, its nt easy on eida of U but I av goodnews for you, when ther's life der is hope. Noting is IMPOSSIBLE with God. All d best in ur decision. Also I recomend u take her to pastorChris Oyakhilome healing School, ur miracle might jst be waitin for you. If ure interested, u can post ur email addy, let me send u details on how to register n d process.
TV/MoviesRe: Should Adults Play School Children Roles In Nollywood Movies? by tegabetty: 8:24pm On Oct 17, 2013
dridowu: There is a common saying which i believe " the young shall grow " if d adult continue to play the role of children , then when will the young now grow into adult. In this case i am against any adult that play the role of a children
Pls how does adult playin d role of children affect d young ones 4rm growin in2 adult....ow many nigerian kids can act like funke or ini or nkem....we shud jst aprct d movie 4 wat it is which is a comedy
RomanceRe: Can A Nigerian Girl Serenade Her Lover? by tegabetty: 10:14pm On Oct 16, 2013
My fiance serenades 4me n I love it infact it makes me laugh n d both of us jst start laughin @him, I also serernade 4him n because my voice is way nicer hez always like awww he soo loves it.
RomanceRe: Pics ''don't Take Your Boyfriend For Granted'' by tegabetty: 9:37pm On Oct 14, 2013
Point of correction @ OP nt all girls treat their BF's like u mentioned above. 4 instance I love n cherish evry moment I spend with my BF, infact he is God sent, he is an angel in human form and I value him so mch, am nt among d girls that realize sumtn or sumone's worth wen its gone, I value my BF 4 all d@ he is to me, we've been 2geda over 5yrs and I love n treat him as if we jst met. So @ OP u av a point buh nt all girls R like d@. As a matter of fact I'm acting more like a WIFE n less dan a GF evryday. Jst like glo, my BF rules my world n I luv him 3mch
PoliticsRe: Michael Anthony Who Saved A Baby From Fire, Dies by tegabetty: 12:25pm On Sep 23, 2013
RIP Brother, U were Indeed one of a kind, evn d mother of the child said she couldn't have done what U did. The Child will definately hear of ur gr8 sacrifice when he is old enough. To think that u didn't consider ur own life, being an igbo man to save a Tiv child.....U were nt Tribalistic.... ur sacrifice reminds me of what Jesus said that "gr8r love has no man than this, dat he'll lay down his life for his friends". U've laid down ur life 4 sum1 who is too young to know U....I belive ure in heaven, Continue to rest in d Bossom of the Lord.
EducationRe: Nigerian Graduates With First Class From Nottingham Trent University by tegabetty: 3:36pm On Sep 18, 2013
Woow congrats my brother
Christianity EtcRe: Woman Gets A Glimpse Of Hell After Suicide Attempt by tegabetty: 1:58pm On Sep 17, 2013
Billyonaire: But I love Hell, and I prefer Hell to Heaven, both of which I know exist in religion fairy tales. I know for sure that strippers will be there, Musicians will be there, Liquor will be there, what more can I ask for ?
I pray dat God saves ur soul, and not grant what u wish 4, if u jst had even d sligtest idea of what ure jokin with and how powerful ur words are, u'll get on ur knees and start seeking 4giveness and Mercy from God. May he Deliver U and bring you to the knowledge of the truth.
RomanceRe: I Asked My Aunts Househelp Out(2) by tegabetty: 11:10am On Sep 02, 2013
Well, since u tot it wise to tell ur aunt, that's a good step it shows ur feelings may just be sincere. However weda u say its pure luv and no sex, d fact is dat sooner or later U'll want 2be intimate with her, my only question for you is, d tin u claim ure feelin now, will u still be feeling it when she tells u shez pregnant? And b4 u start anytin with her, jst ask urslf very well if u can marry her not d one wen anytin happns in d future ur family will say u can't marry a maid or whatever, after d did must have been done. All d best
PoliticsRe: EXPOSED: Alison-Madueke's Secret Romance With Lagos Big Boy by tegabetty: 6:45pm On Aug 29, 2013
Callotti: I juuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuust love BEAUTIFUL married women who can do it all.
Mama! You make me proooooooooooooooud!
Use and dump 'em like sweet bananas and hang on to ya man. A bonafide 'MRS.'!
You are my role-model any day!
Next to Florence Ita Giwa of course! kiss
It is a woman's world too.
No one can do you NO SHYTE!cool

Next corrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrect rumor gist jare!
Back to Investigative Discovery Channel. . . .cool
Honestly I don't know weda to feel sorry for you or pray fervently for your salvation. God help U
PoliticsRe: Okorocha, Catholic Doctors At War Over Abortion Law by tegabetty: 6:08pm On Aug 29, 2013
Reptyle: Seems to me like the law is specific about instances where abortion can be procured. What's the fuss?
. Will the instances always be adhered to? You know once u give nigerians allow, dey'll take allowance so its best not 2 pass d bill in2 law bcoz it will most definately be misused buh does my comment mean anytin 2d lawmakers
CelebritiesRe: Actress Chika Ike Exposed With A Man In Hotel Room by tegabetty: 1:54pm On Aug 02, 2013
Ms Spaqs Ur comment jst nailed it on d head.
CelebritiesRe: SAD - Funke Akindele Lost A 4-month Pregnancy by tegabetty: 10:29pm On Jun 15, 2013
Well May God console her 4 her loss. But dis is wat u get when u willfuly enter polygamy, wat happnd 2 all d single men out der that she decided 2 marry a father of five n a divorcee? U don't expect2 spoil anoda person's own n fink urs will be OK. If she knows wats good 4her, she better leave d man to his many wives n children b4 dey do something more drastic 2 her. This is a lesson to all dose home breakers out dere. Evn Ini Edo is battling 2 get pregnant, she equally married sum1's hubby. I don't evn knw wats wrong wiv all dese young celebrities who settle 4 married men n break their once happy home n expect tins 2 go well 4dem. It is well....not judging any1 jst sayin
HealthRe: Causes Of Seeing Menstrual Period Twice A Month by tegabetty: 9:50pm On Jun 15, 2013
@Doc tanks for all dis info but pls I'll like us 2 discuss further. The mail u uploaded isn't functioning, can u kindly upload one dats functionin so we can communicate thru mails. Tanks a lot
FamilyRe: . by tegabetty: 11:03am On Jun 07, 2013
I fink d jam lock idea is just the best....dats d most sensible tin posted ere so far....other suggestions are good tho but d jam lock jst seals it coz he can nva open ur door during ur private time and he'll be forced to always knock , plus wen d door is lockd most of d tym, chances are he'll reduce d way he comes to your room coz d door is neva opend anyway due 2d jamlock
FamilyRe: . by tegabetty: 11:00am On Jun 07, 2013
yellowpawpaw: Maybe u guys need to change d lock. Something like jamlock will do. But make sure u always hv spare with u. Once u enter,end of story unless u want to open. He will get it.
I don't think there is nothing wrong with him washin his bro clothes.unless he does it grudgingly or he is a busy person and u r less busy.
U gat to study him very well to know his kind of person.once u can understand him,u 2 can flow very well.with time he will understand that his bro is married and give u space and ur required respect.
Don't rush him pls.u 2 can become best of pals even ur hubby will envy.
All d best

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