SportsHD:
Wait for a person that's trusting and patient enough to wait till your wedding night.

If na me maami, I for don dump your ass for hitting me with tha virgin bull shet. Not cos I'm cruel, but because i once trusted a girl, she said she was a virgin and i later found out she's feasting on regular bbc on the weekends while i was simping for her.

like naira marley would say-
to ba doko wa ma lole.
I trust less nowadays.
#monsters they made.
Whew!✊

LOL, you were hitting your head on the wall for being a wussy.

Any woman who tells you that she's a virgin, request to go to the hospital with you for virginity test. 99 out of 100 would run from you for being much smarter than they are.

tumababa:


Give him permission to flog other girls and come back to u when u are ready to marry. Guys are created to release d liquid by nature. Your bf chose to use s6x as his own and he wants it with u. As a virgin, I don’t advice u to give in to his demand cos if he eventually not marry u( which is very possible even if d excuse is not due to d s6x he had with u) u will feel bad. It’s also dangerous to just fall for any guy who is ready to wait for marriage before d act cos he might be hiding an impotency condition.

In conclusion, follow your instinct and don’t regret your decision.

Virginity is not a basis to marry a woman when it comes to marriage. Character is number one priority for me. Second is respect. No matter how pretty a woman is, if she lacks good character and respect is no no for me. I met a lady from Chicago, she's tall and very pretty but lacks good character.

Jefferic:


This one is easy nah. If he cannot wait then you move . For me I can date without sex even for 10 years. Get someone who can respect your belief and values.

You can date without sex? Shut up! Don't be a wussy. What if you discover at last that the woman you're dating aren't a virgin, what are you gonna do?

favour32:

Ok!
I am a realist!
Girl wey nor wan sex,make she nor near dating.
If you nor chop food, nor use am dey smell nose.

Hahaha.

I don't really like virgins.

DemonInvoker:

A man can Change His Mind At Any Point...Weather Before Or After Marriage. There Are Other Expectations Of You In Marriage Besides Your Virginity.Geddit!!

Whether, not weather. Always write right.

Romanoff:


If that's the case, she's deceiving herself na.

My comment is speaking to many other ladies out there, so if she's lying, I pray other ladies will learn from what I said.

That's right, girl. Hope you aren't a virgin?

favour32:

If there's more to life than sex, then date or marry person e penis nor dey work if you be real female.

Hahaha. I am not a woman, bro.

Romanoff:


Whether she's a virgin or not. As long as she has decided to keep herself till she's married cause she wants to honour God, that's all that matters.

A woman who is really a Christian won't lie about her past. I'm not talking about people who claim to be Christians but are living in sin and fornicating without any care.

LOL. You crack me up here.

Do you live with her to know she kept herself? Do not believe everything you read online.

My gf was a virgin when I met her but she never disclosed that to me in the first place.

That white guy is not a nigga. He probably doesn't know what's up. Never pressurize a woman to go to bed with you. Just act like a nigga, she would want it.

Romanoff:


If your reason for keeping yourself is to honour God, God will lead a godly man to you who Loves Him enough to love and wait till you're married.

You shouldn't bring topics like this to Nairaland, all you'll find are hungry Lions looking for new recruits and whom to devour.

Are you really sure she's a virgin? Because most virgins never say they are until you find out yourself.

NickNyce:
I decided to make this post because of a post I saw about sex on a first date making a lady look cheap. For me that's absolutely bullshit and obviously it all depends on the people. I don't believe in all those sex before marriage is a sin while you sin in other different ways. Whether you have sex before marriage or not, a relationship or marriage that will last will surely last and that which will crash will still crash because relationship or marriage is not built on sex but understanding and trust.

I met a lady on a Tuesday at her work place, we chatted and flowed well then exchanged numbers. The next day being Wednesday was her off day from work so we booked it for our first date. After hanging out that Wednesday she followed me home, spent the night and we made love. From that day whenever she closes from work she comes to mine place and pass the night then goes home very early to prepare and go to work. Then she later introduced me to her family and we started building a stronger relationship from there and as I type this post, we are married with two lovely kids and she has been the best wife, mother and friend in my life.

I can travel to anywhere and leave her at home knowing fully well that sex is not her problem and I will come back to my beautiful family intact. Life is all about people's choice and personality so you only just have to pray to have a good partner be it sex before marriage or not.

That's right. Sex on a first date is never wrong provided that there's chemistry between you and the girl.

Juliane:
The U.S

Okay. Honestly, the probability of that guy marrying you is less than 0.5.

You've got an infection. Stop messing around.

Juliane:
Hello everyone! I need some advice concerning my relationship. I met a guy back in 2016 and we started dating. But after a year he migrated abroad and we decided to continue the relationship (long distance).
It has been going well. As a matter of fact we talk every single day and my family is aware of our relationship. He planned to come and visit last year but his papers are not ready yet and that’s what has been preventing us from seeing each other.
I work in an insurance company and I am financially independent but he still sends me gifts and helps me out financially on a regular basis. He is a caring and loyal person in general and I have been very grateful and loyal to him.
The difficult part is that we have been in this long distance relationship since 2017! We plan to get married once we’re able to be ‘physically’ together and I can’t imagine being married to anyone else but him. But we don’t know exactly how long the process would take. I am approaching 30 and even though I am not really the type that feels pressured about age, I know that I am not getting younger and I definitely feel the urge to spend time with the man I love and I feel like moving to the next level in our relationship. He has been begging me to be patient and has even promised my parents that he’s coming to marry me. I talk with his parents ans siblings regularly. He asked me to try getting a visa to join him and he financed the whole process but in the end the visa was denied. My younger siblings are married with kids and I feel lonely at times. Should I keep waiting and watch the years pass us by like this?

Which country does your boyfriend domicile?

Muna4real:
Married ladies please help.

Where can I find a husband material? No reasonable and responsible men anywhere. Where una de see these husbands sef?

On a scale of 1-10, how good are you? I might introduce you to one of my best friends. A friend turned brother. He's a medical doctor. Young, handsome and also from well-to-do family. He has a family house right there in Enugu, Nigeria.

Consray:
I have always have a thing for Anambra guys cause there is something about them that is exceptional.

They can hustle
They're one intelligent and smart people i know
They're so romantic
and fun to be with

I'm actually from Rivers state precisely and i have actually been with three Anambra guys, but i have not really been in a seriously re/ship with any cause of things i have heard about them, like they don't get married out side there state and more

so, I'm just so scared falling for any


i just want to know �how true that is

LOL!

JovialJune:
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It is good to read, the man has informed the police over there and I'm pretty sure due diligence has been done, you actually want to school Yankee police on how to perform their job all the way from your little abode in obodo naija? lol,

The man knows he's gallant that's why he came out to tell it all.

Gallant? They'll get him but definitely not now. He is not so smart.

mmaxjr:
Gal if he love u,he should wait sex is not love, you can have sex even with your enemy.

That's funny. Sex is not everything. There's more to life than sex.

Rosement:
25

Oh okay but by the time you clock 26, 27 or 28, the game changes.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

You're a virgin? And that sounds interesting. How old are you?

Nigeria is a huge laughing stock!!

Connected1:
She can't decode what he meant, they aren't logical beings, he could have related it to her straight away.
She's snubbing him for the last few days because she's had been developing some feelings and she didn't expect him to treat her that way.
Women are complicated to handle.

OP does not know how to handle women. I'm sure he's asked the girl out but she refused.

OsuIgboIpob:
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Shut up

Fvk you!!

OP, have a change of heart. She is someone's daughter.

OP, if you really want her to behave well towards you, then you have to make her your girlfriend first.

She needs you badly.

Burn down the buildings but do not kill anyone. Nigeria is already gone.

1Sharon:


Yes they do. Haven't you seen the memes mocking tall women?

How many men say they have 6ft tall women as a preference?

Sharon, I don't really know but I do love tall women.

1Sharon:
Men in general see tall women as masculine

That's not true.

Ilamina:

Are you tall?

Cousin9999:
Another thing to remember about them is how common sociopathy is among them. There's countless stories of men getting a Chinese wife and mysteriously dying.

This is not true.

Fedrick100:
Chinese are racists,their ladies won’t look at your side Sef

Who told you their ladies wouldn't look at you? That's not true.

Chinese families don't like blacks. But their women are sweet to bang. So sweet.

davonlee:
For about 1-2 months, I've been experiencing rectal discharge (a lump above my anus which brings out bloody mucur), constant weakness and pain in my abdominal area. Initially, I thought it was a disease called Hemorrhoids, because the symptoms are exactly the same, and I never imagined this could happen to me. Two nights ago, my stool was filled with dark red blood; so I had to quickly inform my parents. They advised I go for a full scale test. To cut the story short, I've been diagnosed with stage 1 colon cancer. I really need your prayers.

Your illness could be cured. PM me.