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Thebest12:
Hello Good morning nairalanders ,
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Pls I want to know am I about to experience heart break or I should do that now before she does it to me . My girlfriend just posted someone LOML . I just saw that on her stories. I investigated deeply and I found the guy's username . I saw that the guy has been commenting on her posts recently and I wonder why she posted the guy LOML . I tried to ask her but some people adviced me not to and that I should watch from distance. Okay just when I have decided to freestyle the matter , today again she posted same guy again . I am so pained right now , and confused.

Am I about to experience heart break .? Should I kuku end the relationship now ? Pls I need your advice

No big deal in those things. You should be happy because there are lots of girls out there you can pick. Look for a chick who is more beautiful than her and post her picture on your wall, she would react and also would try to know who the girl really is.

Most Nigerian girls have no dignity. You ought to have known that.

LadyRosa:
So he needs to take her on a date first before telling her, the puccy stinks to high heaven? Telling her self she should thank him as doing her a favor, as some infection can actually affect her reproductive organs and vital organs.

Best is to drag her to a clinic to run a text and be sure she doesn't have STD. And that is after telling her straight up that her puccy is not smelling nice.

Hehehehe.

Sebastine1994:
hey camera is different from off camera

Of course, yes. Again, he is not rude but outspoken.

Sebastine1994:
I know Samson Sia Sia very well, I met him around IBB square in benue, the man is rude off camera.


I just took a ball for him to sign autograph, na so the man begin abuse me.

I hate that man, I decided to take it out on his daughter, Very tall girl, we met at Hertfordshire in the UK.

I give am all side, this is a public forum. you won't understand

Siasia is not a rude person. Maybe your approach was wrong.

That's great. He would definitely rise again. My love for Siasia as a coach started in Beijing Olympic in 2008 when Nigeria demolished Belgium 4-1. I was in the stadium live. I travelled all the way to China with my friends to watch that match including my girlfriend then from Belgium.

SeaTrade:
I don't think so,
She has been calling and I haven't been picking up,
She even tried to lie as to why her friend came along but I am not buying it.
It was just a case of her friend being around her as at around the time I was to come and she just couldn't leave her alone at her place or something.
On a good day,I would have excused her but today nah...My mood wouldn't just permit another person I don't know on the same table with me spending my money,No.

She feels that you want to get her laid and that is why she doesn't want to come see you alone. Just pay more attention to her friend and she would get jealous and after that, she would try to get your attention and fall for you.

Anymoment:
Thanks baba, hows this kegel done sef?

It's okay. You can check it out on Google.

Anymoment:
Hello fam, I’m quite popular here so I have to create this account to remain anonymous. My issue is this, I have been in an online romantics relationship for the past two years with a Swiss lady, after trying to come to naija for about one year now she will be in naija in two weeks time. It’s my dream to have her in Nigeria but as the date draws nearer I must confess I am getting furiously anxious, I am working on my health, hygiene in order to avoid any mess up, she is a sex maniac as she had made me to understand, I am currently drinking a herbal tea introduced to me here on Nairaland to maximize my sexual prowess but I still have plans to sneak in enhancement drugs into our hotel room when she arrives, we will be staying in Lagos for two weeks, please family, what are your suggestions for me as to where she will stay, I am thinking she stays close to the airport, she intends spending all her time with me in the room and doesn’t have plans of going out to maybe beaches, eateries etc but I know we would definitely go out few times, where is a nice place we can hangout in Lagos that will make her stay memorable, I think of beach but I think beach will be too rowdy, I have plans to visit art gallery, fashion shops because she’s very into Nigeria fashion and want to get some for herself when she is leaving, I don’t know if she would love clubbing but in case, what club is nice in Lagos, my number one fear is her safety, given the current security situation in naija I just pray she is safe, please guys I need tips on safety measures, I am sure we will be using Uber for movements but I have a friend that drives a taxi in Lagos I don’t know if it will be safer to use his service instead of Uber, please guys, have you ever been in this situation, please I need tips for safety, places to visit, people to meet, what to do in Lagos etc to make her stay memorable for the two weeks duration. Thanks for your inputs .

Do kegel exercise everyday and you would be fine. I last long. Over 2 hours.

Babara1994:
No I don't. You look like someone that can eat 5 wraps of fufu and 3 plates of beans at the same time.

Hahahahaha. Funny dude.

Mabella18:
It's not a new thing that whenever a girl is tall, she's told by people not to get married to a tall guy so that they don't birth overly tall children.

I'll take myself for example, I've had several encounters of such. The recent one was yesterday at my workplace, just walked in to get something and what lead to the discussion is what I don't know, I'm about 1.79m tall.....and they were like I shouldn't marry a tall man o, that we'll give birth to children that'll be too tall, that I should marry a short man and I was like what are these people saying ......my partner will either be the same height with me or a bit taller than me, you guys should allow me worry about my children biko.

Have you ever encountered this? Both as a lady/guy, What was your response?

I love tall women.

Infolenka:
The person you quoted is a guy. The picture he posted is that of a random girl on social media. You Nairaland guys should stop falling for the tricks of these catfishers.

Oh okay but I didn't fall for that. I only commented on what I saw online.

Casalindal:
My first photos shoot for the brand I’m working with guys I feel so excited to share this with you guys. I have been on the low of recent working hard to get back my body after my first child, we are not there yet lol.

This my first Nairaland major deal guys!! So so excited to be part of this.

Photo credit: by one of the Mod(@)

You look cool.

drDoom3:
I thought I was the only one seeing this. I watched USA at the last world cup, they were much more deadlier than this. The reason it looked liked they played well was because we kept inviting them on to attack and soaking up pressure. If you want to park bus, at least have a counter attacking threat, else it will just be a walk-over. The most annoying thing I noticed in this game was that we were a lot stronger physically than them. Alozie was much more athletic than Rapinoe, that was why Rapinoe was quiet throughout. We were winning aerial and ground duels. I feel like if we had come out to play them, our athleticism would have caused their backline some problems. The few times we did that, look at how they easily gave the ball away.

We just automatically assumed that because they are the number 1 in the world, we had no chance against them and our best bet was to sit back and soak up pressure. That is not how football works nowadays. Better to threaten them in the attacking end and lose 4-2 than to pose no single threat throughout the game, look weak and impotent, and still lose 2-0.

Look at the game against Portugal, see how it started. If we had taken our early chances, we might have scored up to 2 goals in the first 30 minutes. If we decided to sit back throughout the game like we did in this one, Portugal may have scored one and that's it. But we came out and showed them what we could do, and if not for silly defensive mistakes we would have beaten Portugal.

The team did very well and would get better with time. The coach is technically sound. Much better than Rohr.

Fairandlovely:
What do u expect when it has nothing to do with BBN

LOL, Nigeria is a funny country.

Fahdiga1:
No one will believe that this demented Garbage Shehu was a journalist before being appointed as the spokesman for the lifeless. I weep for this man's family for the shame they will be subjected to because of his stupidity

That's right.

I totally disagree with number 3. When you satisfy a woman, she would like to stay in bed and rest more because you did it well and she would also sleep more.

I doubt if you are a woman.

Sweetshugar:
Good morning, I created this account to share my experience as a single lady, I'm 25 and I'm staying alone, I have a business and I work with a private hospital,I used to be very busy and I'm not a social person..
I met a guy on nairaland we used to be very cool, like we can't go a day without chatting so after 2 month we fix a date to meet, I got everything and I was very happy because I'v fallen in love with this guy few days to our meeting he started giving me attitude, the chatting went off, in fact Everything went off.I sat down and cry cry cry..someone should pls lie to men that we still have a good man,I'm hardworking and pretty

Are you tall and slim? Holla me if you're.

missiret:
I am so sad right now, I am thinking of getting out of d relationship, I and my bf started dating in January, he was in camp wen I said yes to him and after d camp, he was posted to his place of primary assignment, wen he came back home for Easter, I caught him cheating on me with another girl on his watsap and I also saw how he pic mix d girls' and himself on his fone and how he told his friend dat he is dating d girl and sent d girls' picture to his friend and not even mentioning me at all, I confronted him with d pictures which he denied saying she is his cousin, I finally told him I saw his chat on watsap and he started begging me and I forgave him, I told him to either choose me or d girl, he said he will choose me over her 10times dat he is just playing with her and nothing more is happening between them.
He came to visit me in schl and d girls' call entered wen I was with his fone, initially I Neva thought of going through his fone, I decided to check his fone wen he went to bath, he has deleted all his watsap chats and other social network chats leaving only 2 peoples' chat on his watsap and dis really got me thinking, I decided to check his call log and I found out dat he calls d girl very well and d girl calls him too, in fact only my name and her name appeared on his call log and even her name appeared more frequently than my own, I am so sure he is still dating dat girl, he met me b4 d girl, I am wondering wat he saw in d girl dat I don't have, I am thinking of just texting him tomorrow after he is gone dat I am no more interested again, I am hurting, I can't sleep, dis is a guy I don't ask for money from him, I can calculate how much he has spent on me since we have started d relationship which is not up to 3k, he even met me as a virgin sef, though make up is not really my tin but I had to start applying it because he loves it, I don't wear trousers b4,I started wearing it because of him, wat does he really want and I knw I don't have a bad character. wat should I do, he is not even proud of me. I am so sad right now, I want to b myself again and want to b loved d way I am, I am thinking of telling him to just stick with d girl cos I know wit tym, I will b OK.

Sorry dear.

Nigerian girls would always want what is not theirs or out of their reach.

3. Turkey v Italy. Italy wins.

2. England v Croatia (2-1)

Euro Championship.

1. France v Germany (1-1)

Euro Championship.

1. France v Germany (1-1)

OP, your game is not tight. It's easy to make her young sister fall for you. Very, very easy.

When I was a bad guy, I dated two sisters at the same time.

buckeyemedia:
Warning ignorant terrorist to desist from further chaos? Let twitter pack their bags & leave Idi Amin style, Rubbish Which money is Nigeria losing, why cry more than the bereaved, who is losing the money? Oyibo Slaves.

Awww...it seems like you lack common sense or common sense is not common for you.

Saddestmann:
How I walked into fire with my two eyes widely opened is beyond my imagination after all I can see where the courtship is going and I kept introducing her to my people thinking she will see how serious I am with her but that’s not the case my girl choosed to be a call girl after giving her all I can give her and trust me I invested so much in this crazy bumpy relationship

Maybe you acted like a wussy. Women don't really like nice men. You have to be bad to get a good woman. If you care less about women, they would care more about you.

omolola100:
thanks for the little advice sir, i'm 22.

Okay.

omolola100:
My mother advice me never to look for a rich man who is well do whenever i'm set to get married.
she said i should marry a man that we will both start our life from the foundation, according to my mum, she said it is better to suffer with man to acquire wealth, than to go for a ready made soup.

Looking at the way things are going now, do you think a woman will now stoop so low and marry a poor man that is trying to make ends meet? Although, money is not love, but why would a parent wish her daughter to marry a poor man, i am begining to see my mum as a bad mother who does'nt wish me well.
Is it advisable i follow my mothers advice? I should stay in SURULERE instead of OLORUNSOGO.

Hahaha. You're damn funny. Well, you really have to take your mom's advice. Girl, how old are you?

Felililicia:
This is somebody, I just accepted a month ago,
I barely know him though we met twice during the relationship. During the third one( yesterday) now he is hinting for sex, the way I replied him made him change topic and said he was joking.
Anytime we meet his joystick get visibly aroused. I need a serious man. Should I dump him.
Earlier thread
https://www.nairaland.com/6576284/did-rush-accept-guy-hope

Shut up! That's not a big deal. After all, you aren't a virgin.

Coolboy009:
There is this girl I just met recently (about 3 months ago). I like her very well and I talk to her to be my girlfriend and she accepted. Along the line, I fall in love with her because she has a good personality and I don't mind settling down with her.

Last week she called me and said she wants to tell me something and I said she should go ahead and tell me. She said she is coming over to my place, that is not what she can discuss on the phone. She came over and she said to me that before we meet, she has been living a very rough life that she uses to follow men but now she has decided to stop. I felt very bad, inside me. But I keep it cool with her, and I told her since she has decided to change for good there will be no issues. Before then, when never she is with me she uses to receive multiple calls and I do ask her about it she will always have one or two excuses to give.

I told one of my friends about it and he said I should just forget about her, that she can never change. I seriously like this girl but am confused about what to do. I need your advice. This is my first time on naira land, pls take it easy with o.

Yes, your friend is right. Furthermore, the key to attraction is to understand where feelings of lust, desire and attraction originate in a woman's brain.

luminouz:
Ain't you my girlfriend or are u a dude?

Haha. Your girlfriend? The one you invented?

FreeSpirited:
Grow up

Sorry, you started it. Learn so that your girlfriend will not dump you for another man.