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raumdeuter:
Hope say this conversation wont go beyond PG level

There are some partners who have a higher libido an want this frequently while some do not. In the days of old, polygamy solved some of this but these days when polygamy is not common (Though I am still trying to get gloriousgbola and iamoyindamola to change mind)

Then it might be an issue

There was a guy, Churchy person who started having issues with his wife and talking seriously about divorce, I was like egbon how now. Na you we dey use as example pf good family

When he started talking about the things he don see especially sexually, say in a year na by luck dem dey nack 4 time. Sometimes the wife will be like buy this and this for me to get lucky, take me to this and that vacation. After dem reach or he does, she will say "She is not there yet"

Sometimes the wife go tell am to go soapy or get a shower, or even blatantly say go help yourself outside

This guy no be like izzou wey get plenty GF and fit call anyone of them up

When the guy talk finish me sef wan begin vex, Later the wife come dey call am say make he just come collect "maintenance sex" and he say he no do again

I know many people like this egbon that haven't gotten sex from their wives in over five years.
There was even one that said his wife hasn't serviced him for over a decade. And they are in the same house oh not like they separated.

lordfalcao:
Where will you join piatek to fire?

Ask him what happened to Dovbyk.

cr7lomo:
Nonsense talk....always wanna act like the white man...but white man no de pay bride price ....they should also say that wives have no right to spend the mans money without his permission or drive his carm..it should be treated as theft

madridguy:
Lagos will soon turn to UK or USA with useless laws.
This is part of laws that discourage marriage in western countries and turn men to gay since they're avoiding government wahala.

shortgun:
The man is just contradicting himself up and down.

"Responding to a question on whether a married woman can sue her husband for rape for having sex with her without consent, Martins explained that while Nigerian law does not recognise marital rape as rape in such circumstances, the Lagos State Criminal Law provides for the offence of sexual assault by penetration, which carries a maximum sentence of life imprisonment."

Any law enacted by a State which is inconsistent with, repugnant to or otherwise in conflict with any provision of the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria shall, to the extent of such inconsistency, be void and of no legal effect. The Constitution remains the supreme law of the land and shall prevail over every conflicting State law including this one

Well said. 🤝🏼

https://www.nairaland.com/8739665/dowry-not-consent-sex-without

If they wanna bring this oyinbo nonsense here they better outlaw the payment of bride price and marriage list.
It's called bride "price" for a reason.

Theflint1:
Regardless of education, or exposure, the average woman is way too prone to religious psychosis.

It's unfortunate.

PDPGuy:
The truth is, a lot of Nigerians in the diaspora may not actually be ready for a functioning Nigeria. For some, living abroad is mainly about earning a better living, not necessarily because they prefer a more organized society.

Deep down, some are still comfortable with the same disorder, dishonesty, toxicity, and chaos they grew up around. The difference is that they want to return with enough money and status to rise above the dysfunction rather than change it. They don’t necessarily want the system to work for everybody; they just want to be in a position where the broken system works in their favor.

That’s why I sometimes wonder: if Nigeria suddenly became as organized, accountable, and structured as the countries many Nigerians migrate to, would everyone genuinely be happy about it?

It’s deeper than this, though. One day I go explain am well.

Well written.

airmark:
Nateevs Garnacho suffer us. Baba too like useless attackers.

Alejandro Garnacho in Morgan Rogers position https://t.co/tEFQXPBGf3 pic.twitter.com/0PcXkpg0h5

— EverythingChelsea ™ (@Everything__CFC) August 31, 2026

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Should our board go for your favorite striker, Dovbyk?

raumdeuter:
AT this point in Davido life, beside election times, how many days you think say he dey spend for Osun? What type of excitement or entertainment an Osun offer him?

How many standard night clubs dey the whole of Osun? Take away the election fervor,I am sure cant stay in Osun for 1 week at a time,

Davido na Yankee boy, plus billionaire kid wey just dey cosplay as streetguy. How you wan be governor for that kain state wey civil servants pressure, insecurity, road constructions, infrastructure, party politics choke. Beside say he just want the post for bragging rights

I wasn't referring to davido. I was addressing the claim of a governor not being able to leave the state for extended periods of time.

raumdeuter:
I struggle to see what he stands to gain from Osun politics

If he is governor he will be restricted to Osun most of the time

Why will he give up his sweet care free life of traveling all over the world, free to smoke weed, grind with baddies on music videos, plus one or two accusations of nack without settlement or begging to nack

For the formal life of a politician where you cant do all these openly

Restricticted to the state?

There are states, where the governor hasn't been around for over 5 months. Infact, in some states the governors spend a full year overseas, they basically rule the state from abroad, or wherever they are.
They give instructions that everyone work with.


Although, I have to point out the fact that only governors who didn't struggle to win their elections, or don't have any godfathers disturbing them constantly, can do this.

Hmm. I reserve my comment.

I don't understand. Why can't they reject posting to the north??

How time flies! Nobody truly stays on top forever.
There used to be a time when a full week couldn't go by without romangoddess trending at least twice.

She was trending all over Nigerian social media on a weekly basis for years, almost half a decade if I remember correctly.
I almost forgot about the existence of that name, it's been over 3 years since she last made the news.

All her fame was due to her body shape and how she carried herself, unfortunately these days with the littering of countless social media apps everywhere where young bloods and old bloods with far better shapes abound, it has gotten harder for few people to own the spotlight.

BlackManta:
I finished Demon Slayer last weekend.

What an experience!

It's one of the best anime I've ever seen.

And I'm not even an anime person.

So far, I have seen
- Attack on Titan
- Naruto
- Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood
- Erased
- Death Note
- Demon Slayer

Please I need anime recommendations. Something as good as Demon Slayer or better.

There was some hype around JJK and Solo Leveling.

Are they good?

Steins gate,
Mob psycho,
Saga of Tanya the evil,
Fairytale,
One piece,
Castlevania,
Solo leveling,
Hunter x Hunter,
Misfit of demon academy,
Dragon Ball super(DBS),
Fate zero(all the fate series),
Hellsing ultimate,
Tower of God,
God of highschool,
And finally, Code Gease.

Would've mentioned bleach but someone already recommended it. Complete immersion all-rounder, every genre. The list is based on animes I've watched personally.

Ibime:
We have suffered much at the hands of Rastafarains, you can't blame him

They're are just reacting emotionally to Emaprince's observation.

I have come to realize that at our core, most blacks abhor the truth. We know something is wrong/bad, but we don't want anybody to point it out, that something is wrong.

Anyone that defies the status quo, and points it out, becomes the black sheep.

A40:
Thunder fire who code this spambot

It's very annoying. Sometimes I want to say something but I just lock up instead of wasting my time to compose a post, and then it gets deleted by a bot.

nateevs:
Ended as how? Me I want to know who signed Dovbyk and for how much?

My boy fetched my darling club £65m.

Airmark, please tell us what happened to Dovbyk.

Two factors:
Your type of work is probably too physically consuming or you don't have peace of mind.

It's very easy to add weight when you have peace of mind and not stressing yourself.

DrAda:
No words. The wives are always called upon to whitewash crimes committed by their husbands. Noone is talking about the ginormous bias involved. Why would any wife say anything negative against her spouse?

What's your opinion on the case? Without sentiments.

nairalanda1:
I think most governors are managing to just pay salaries (and to be honest, education is subsidised in all states, otherwise, university fees would be around 10 million naira or more in even state universites) and are managing to do some projects.

The problem is, and you wont agree with me, is that Nigeria is not earning enough money

FIrst noticed the same issues under GEJ. We had a lot of money from oil, yet not enough to pay universites 3 trillion over 2 years, and to even keep on increasing funding beyond that.

That's the problem hidden in plain sight.

Plus why should the governor only pay Aba's debts...what about the rest of the state? That's going to cause a lot of problems down the road fiscally.

Nigeria is not earning enough money, and yet elected officials are looting with reckless abandon? So which money are they looting? Your personal money I guess since Nigeria doesn't have money according to you.

Beforedbuilder:
All stories what Nigerians need is uninterrupted power supply. Aba power should buy or run their own independent gas plant. Enough of excuses.

Yeah if they were actually serious this is the route they were supposed to go. They should own their own gas plant. No need for these stories.

BlackManta:
@the emboldened

That is exactly what they are doing.

Robert Downey Jnr is getting $100m
The Russo Brothers are getting $70m

We don't know how much other returning actors like Chris Evans and Chris Hemsworth will get but it's most likely going to be their highest payout from Marvel.

The movie has a big cast.

The old X-men actors are also coming back.
Ian Mckellen, Patrick Stewart, James Marsden and co.

All of them will want big salary. Nothing less than eight figures.

The studio will probably need $250m+ to settle all their actors before you add production budget plus marketing.

Avengers Doomsday is the biggest movie of all time in my opinion.

I doubt $250m will be enough if those guys you mentioned are all involved. The actors alone will gulp up to $400-500m.

By the way, are the actors pay not included in production budget?

Production budget+ marketing should gulp not less than $1b.

BlackManta:
I don't care how much it makes.

It better not be mid.

I can't stand a mediocre blockbuster, if e like make e gross $5b.

$5b is a stretch. No matter how good it is I don't see it going past $3.5b. Well, even with the $3.5b it'll break records and make history.

Actors need to find a way to squeeze more from these sort of movies, i can't accept the fact you're getting paid $20-50m for a movie that is grossing $2.5b for example. It's surreal.

When movies tank, almost all the blames fall to the actors mostly, so when they(the movies) are successful, why don't the actors get rewarded humongously? At least it'll motivate them. Just saying, this is my personal opinion though.

Realmrsean:
yesterday I was speaking with one of my close pals in the UK
He said those UK women can rope someone in for a rape allegation over any slightest of reasons and funny thing is police always have soft spot for them when it comes to rape.
He said for him to sleep with any woman in UK, it'd be hard.

He then went ahead to mention on how he was walking in the streets with my brother when some drunk ladies , about 2 of them was begging them to take them home, they asked the ladies of their age, the ladies said they're of age..
Na so dem leave the ladies dey waka their jeje.

I no no why everytime people hear of rape, the first impression is to side the ladies and the accusers without even having to hear from the accused

Only simps do that. They don't understand until they get falsely accused too, that is when they come to their senses.

BlueRayDick:
This poco lee r.a.pe matter seems to be serious ó, I read he has been remanded in UK jail till Mid September or thereabouts.

I still don't understand why some of these boys refuse to understand the concept of consent before coitus.

With so many women out there willing to sleep with him as a celebrity for free , I wonder what he intended to gain in forcing himself on a woman who clearly doesn't consent to his sexual advances

Let's hear his side of the story first. You don't know if he's being falsely accused.

TemporaryHansel:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLGMwIDANyA?si=Mn2z42xUT2-kM3xI

This family is useless. They want to tell us that in almost forty years, nobody in the family has seen 15m? Because if they put 15m- 20m in this place it'll come to life like mad.
If the state government really end up fixing it for them then it show's Edo state is really filled with stupid people.

I'm quite up to date with US news and I've seen the Treasury Secretary (equivalent of finance minister) parroting the Trump administration propaganda.

The Chairman of the NRS is an appointee of this administration so he can definitely choose to campaign or parrot this administration propaganda, and you can't even use the "saner clime" angle because it happens there too.

Only few offices like inec chairman are not allowed any chance to be partisan.

Mary95:
This is over crowding man . The 3000 is too much for that size of pond. That place should take more than 500 fishes. And feeding 3-4 times a day is over feeding which isn't good for them.

Fishes are fed once a day. Infact,when they get to certain stage,no more feeding.

You've said it all. That pond in particular that the OP posted shouldn't carry more than 1k fishes.
Also, three times feeding a day is too much, twice a day is recommended.

Roland17:
Difference is, that hospital system know they are about to pay through their nose in compensations to the patients involved. They understand there are strong consequences coming their way because this isn’t going to be swept under the carpet. People are going to lose their jobs and career because of this incident.

We'll see how that goes.

Multiple patients at a Nashville hospital are paralyzed after staff accidentally gave them the wrong drugs.

The hospital says they are "sorry" after injecting potassium chloride into the spines of people getting routine joint replacement surgeries.

Hospital staff noticed… pic.twitter.com/ZvzDgx2cdN

— Collin Rugg (@CollinRugg) August 22, 2026

If something like this happen in Nigeria, saner clime activists won't allow us to hear word.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLGMwIDANyA?si=Mn2z42xUT2-kM3xI

KingTom:
David na guyman normally he go support him Uncle, this was him in 2014, I don't blame him at all

Nigerians love making messiah's out of people who they think oppose the current government.
If davido's uncle defect to APC today, davido will 100% start singing APC and Tinubu praises.

No matter what anyone says on the surface at first, self preservation remains the ultimate goal.