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Someone just dumped marketing material from Itel with no editing in a post and it’s been pushed to the front page. Zero personal editorial, just copied and pasted from marketing.

@seun see what they’re doing to your forum

Why not take out a Nairaland ad instead?

Headline has nothing to do with what the goalkeeper said.

Why go for sensationalism here on Nairaland ?

Many of you have secondary and primary school teachers that are suffering in poverty now. Focus on helping those ones instead of artistes that frittered away their money

The first paragraph is totally daft.

If Peter Obi is to be blamed for misinformation posted by Obidients, should Tinubu also be blamed for the extreme tribal bigotry being posted by his supporters on Twitter?

See how this nonsense is a slippery slope?

FreeStuffsNG:
It's based on the faith practiced by each of those being sworn in.

It's not new among the Yoruba. Emeritus Prof Wande Abimbola, former Vice Chancellor, University of Ife, Ile-Ife, now Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU) was sworn into office as a Federal Minister in 2003 with Iwo (horn) filled with charm in the Ifa tradition.

Former Federal Minister, 91-year old Emeritus Prof Wande Abimbola is still a practicing Babalawo till date.

May God bless Nigeria for ever! Check my signature for free stuffs!

When will you ever care about Nigeria like you profess in your posts?

You see news of people swearing oaths to personalities and Governors instead of to the people or the constitution and you see nothing wrong with it?

Are you OK?

Yersterday:
Please dear Daddy and Mommy, forgive me for bringing this here. am doing this because av run out of options and I don't have any other choice. My name is kęlļy, I gave birth to my boy Ayomide 2 years ago and since then it has been a rollercoaster of one event to another. My fiance abandoned us and I move in back with my parents taking care of my son all alone without any assistance even though he was always falling very sick all the time. I notice that he always feels discomfort when his trying to breath so I looked for money to take my son to the hospital. He was diagnosed with congenital heart defect, a hole in his heart, as the cause of his breathing problems. I've cried my eyes out but if only crying can solve problem. I can't stand to see my child in pain.

I've gone almost everywhere I can possibly go but no hope except for hospital. Doctors say that he will need to undergo surgery at UCH for N4.5million and my family with the help of some very kind hearted people have been able to raise part of N3 million. We have sold off almost everything valuable to us but it's not yet enough, that why I am appealing to well meaning Nigerians, if you're touched to save my son's life, please find it in your kind heart to extend a hand of help to him. Nothing is too small in the sight of God. Am calling kind hearted people, please help save my boys life. Please am also calling upon any NGO that can accept my sons condition please. May God almighty bless you immensely and wipe away sorrow from your eye. Amen.

Video Prove;
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KęllyMonday
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Worthless scammer. May all these horrible stories you make up to steal money eventually be your portion.

‘Sustainable development goals’ with billions at their disposal and all they can talk about is ‘skills acquisition center’ and ‘blocks of classroom’.

We know what these usually entail. Usually lackluster places for a handful of artisans to learn and ugly classroom blocks. Is that what they truly want to boast about doing?

ThaRealist:
Boss make I come carry the PS3 for clearance sale... I dey Lagos

Is everything OK with you?

Normally I would have said we should reject it.

But if anyone with a brain thinks Russia doesn’t have similar plans for Nigeria as they successfully executed in Niger, Mali and Burkina Faso, then I have a bridge to sell to you.

Better the Americans than the Russians.

That's fine.

Air Peace uses exorbitant air fares to frustrate Nigerians daily. They should keep quiet and pay up

Lovit:
You veering off the issue in discuss here, it is not about doing a 9-5 or having more free time at home

a toxic woman is a toxic woman, if you the husband is weak, 'your body will tell you' as they say

If you have a good and respectful woman thank God for your life, that doesn't mean all men were lucky. mind you, these things sometimes don't show while you are courting, you most times found out while married already.

I am not advocating domestic violence but don't be a weak man! Never be!

The ones that enter domestic violence are the weak men.
Set your boundaries. If you feel those are crossed, go for divorce and move on.


And I’m not veering from the issue. Many of those who are labeled ‘toxic’ are those who are determined to be seen as equal partners in the marriage.

Lovit:
Are you married? even if you are thank God you married a good one

Some women are bullies, they can turn you to houseboy if you are weak and allow everything to slide

If you feel your wife is disrespectful to you, the law courts everywhere accept divorce petitions. Move on and marry someone else who you feel will treat you better.


How is someone who is gainfully employed being ‘treated as a houseboy’? Is it when you’re at work, doing your 9-5?

99% of the time when someone argues with this ‘houseboy’ line, the man is a layabout doing nothing while the woman is hardworking.

If you’re not the breadwinner in the house, you’re the partner with way more free time and you’re overseas where getting a maid or nanny is prohibitively expensive…the common sense thing is to pick up as much of the house chores as possible.

If your wife works 12 hour shifts as a Nurse or care worker and you’re not working at all, why will you not take care of some stuff at home if you’re not a clown?

Dikegodspower:
Nigerian women always turn lord and maltreat their husband emotionally and otherwise when ever they found themselves in the west.
Rip to her, but I think she will learn how to be humble and respectful in her next world

You and the 65 people (so far) that liked this comment are absolute clowns, and I hope the women in your lives know you’re trash human beings.

aswani:
The others might not but I wil respond.

These kind of horrible issues will happen, with the innocent children suffering, unless a proper discussion is allowed to be held and both sides of the story is examined as to how things got to that stage.

A man that has three children with his wife, who has no criminal record, has been married for a while, suddenly turns evil bashing her head over and over again with a skateboard and we are supposed to just accept he is epitome of evil and move on.

You are clearly not intelligent at all. The facts in the OP state that the man has been investigated multiple times in the past for domestic violence, the woman has been found in the past with signs of physical abuse including a bloodied lip, and the marriage has long been strained over financial issues.


How you’ve parlayed all that into “the man acted out of character” is quite strange.

Nairaland has an issue with paid influencers pushing the sponsored topics…as well as mods moving obviously sponsored posts to the front page.

Same way we had a flood of paid posts attacking Natasha Akpothi leading up to the elections.


Yahaya Bello should go to the EFCC and have his case in court. Simple as that.

Man has no stable job and is struggling with store work

Wife has a stable job with decent income.

Husband gets jealous and constantly accuses his more successful wife of infidelity and disrespect

Husband pivots to verbal and physical abuse to stamp his dominance and then starts looking for girlfriends himself.

Wife gets fed up and couple gets estranged. Angry and insecure husband then turns to violence.


An oft repeated tale. Sad to see.

Oh, I forgot. Nairaland and Nigerian men jump up and blame the woman.

2aces:
Oga you, yes you that is planning to japa with your wife and kids, understand that you will need to format your brain settings to default mode before you can live in Yankee with your family, and also check how healthy you and your spouse relate with each other before making any move. Cos the demographics over there, which is completely opposite to what you find here, will 100% influence the character of your spouse when they finally settle in. Eg
1. If you have a lazy spouse that you are managing in naija, when you japa, your body go tell you.
2. If your spouse has a tendency to cheat, japa will be their play ground, so find something hold body.
3. If your spouse is bossy and controlling, expect worse when you japa.
4. If you have a selfish partner, God is your strength.
5. If your partner has a temper, your relationship must break or worse when you japa.

Something must be wrong with your head sha.

You see a situation where the man is most certainly at fault and you’re giving silly ‘advice’ to men about possible shortcomings of their wives.

VinnyBaba:
In my Secondary School and University WhatsApp groups,
I hardly Comment or make contributions.

I see them online talking about social media trends, Our School days, Visitations,etc and I always Wonder 'Do these Pple have Jobs and ambitions?'.

I talked to a Friend of mine About this and he said 'I am Anti-Social or an Introvert'.

But Really, I see those Alumni WhatsApp Groups as an Organization of Time Wasters.

HOW ABOUT YOU?
Comment.

You have 2901 posts on Nairaland, but it's those people who are conversing with their friends on Whatsapp that are 'jobless'.

The hypocrisy of many Nigerians on display here.

The OP and some of you people in this thread are completely nuts.

You see parents of young, overactive kids that are in church and have no nanny to take care of the kids. So the only way they themselves can focus in God’s house is to provide some form of distraction for the kids so they don’t disturb other worshippers.

These are usually very small kids. Toddlers, even. A 2 year old kid isn’t going to learn anything momentous, and they have many more years ahead for you to do moral and religious instruction.

OP needs to mind their business and focus on the church they went to do.

Where is the greedy grandfather?

Abi e no go wear one of Mohbad's baffs and go see his grandson?

Does Nairaland really need traffic that much, that rubbish like this makes it to the front page?

Someone provides water for free to a community. He’s not a legislator from that community. There’s no formal
Or informal contract between them. And people are there sneering at the gift.

Some people are clearly mad.

Klington:
Read what??

Who takes him serious these days??

That’s irrelevant.
In this particular thread, and this particular issue, where do you see him ‘tweaking for politicians’?

Klington:


This man those days.
He scared the hell out of corrupt politicians. But today he is tweaking for them.

Why can’t you read na?

ivolt:
The foolish rumor mongers will soon start crying to BBC, CNN and the UN.
They created fiction to get attention but when they are asked to come and account
for their posts, they start claiming victims.

I hope this is not an attempt to defend Erisco?

sageb:
The sad reality
Ojukwu had children before he married Bianca
why can't they share the properties among themselves

Zico5:
This woman has created eternal enemies for her children. How could you only be the beneficiary of a man like ojukwu. So this man eventually divided his family cos of ordinary woman. He forgot the remaining children who carry on his name. At times we need God's wisdom to pilot our lives. This can only happen in Igbo land.

Rubbish.

Ojukwu made plans and provisions for his death with a detailed will. Everybody got a share. Why would the other children want to snatch the good stuff that was provided to Bianca and her children ??

BrighterSyde:
Loopholes everywhere.
1. She is a suspect including Naira Marley and even Mohbad’s father and Mohbad’s friends. As long as one party accuses the other of having a hand in his death who or what are you to exclude her as a suspect.

2. If the child were not to be Mohbad’s that is not conclusive evidence that she killed Mohbad. Any idiot should know this. But if the child isn’t Mohbad’s then it opens up another legal battle on who gets to keep his royalties from his life’s work. So sweeping away a dna test can never be done. It must be done.

3. If there is no will then the estate goes to his wife and son. True. But he doesn’t need to do much to get a court order. All he needs do is to claim she is a suspect and push the motive that she killed him to hide that fact so his estate could be hers. Obtaining a dna test on this grounds does not impede justice in any way. If it turns out that the boy is truly Mohbad’s then it’s a win-win for Wunmi which is why I don’t understand the idiots saying she should not have a test done. If it turns out that it isn’t Mohbad’s son then she has a case to answer. But saying that since Mohbad never doubted the child then nobody should request a dna is illiterate reasoning.

4. So that a man accepts a child is enough evidence that that child is his? This is the dumbest thing you have said but I will answer you intelligently.

Have you read the story of Geremi the Chelsea footballer who for 12 years celebrated his children as his not knowing that they weren’t until a dna test showed it just last week? You should feel stupid by now but hold on.

Last year a man walked happily with his family to my hospital to have genotype and blood group test done for him, his wife and three children. No suspicions at all. He stated that his reason for it was just so they know and have it recorded in their cards. Turns out that none of the kids were his. But for 8 years of marriage he treated them as his.

Now how on earth does treating them like his own make them “legally and for all intents and purposes” his children?

It’s ok to feel comoletely stupid now.

You’ve just typed multiple paragraphs of dumbness here

1. The Police who are investigating the case do not consider her a suspect. You and VeryDarkMan say she is. Feel free to go and hire a private detective if you want.


2. The child is Mohbad’s. He legally acknowledged the boy as his son. You should be asking “if the child is not Mohbad’s biological son’. At the moment, For all legal intents and purposes, the boy is his sole heir

3. Im not sure which school you went to, but you believe the man can - on his own - declare someone a ‘suspect’ and demand the door orders then to undergo a procedure? Without the support of the police or government? Especially when the court knows the procedure has no bearing on determining how and where the murder was carried out? Are you on crack?


4. Geremi legally and publicly acknowledged the children as his. Until he found out via DNA test, then publicly renounced the children and split from them. This is the key step, and this is where you know you’re a dullard. Because you forgot this step happened. Most certainly he’s removed them from his will. And if he hasn’t, they still wont be able to inherit since he’s clearly disavowed them.

That didn’t happen in Mohbad’s case.


I get that you people distrust women. That’s fine. You’re free to test your kids DNA when you have some. Fathers have the right to. But I’m yet to see a case where grandfathers will be the one demanding DNA tests on their grandchildren.


A man who hurriedly buried his son in a cramped coffin, tried to steal his son’s only plot of land from his grandson, greedily exfiltrated his son’s clothes for his personal collection and has multiple times expressed a deep desire for his son’s property is the one you’re defending and claiming is interested in solving his son’s murder. Are you this gullible in real life, or just dumb?

BrighterSyde:
She can’t. Even the courts will throw that out as a waste of judicial process since the man has no history of mental instability so far.

He has a stake in the matter. He can simply allege that she killed Mohbad to hide the fact that the boy is not his son so that she can inherit his estate. She is expected to deny this after which the court can ask for a dna test to settle the matter once and for all

The problem for you people is that you’re not leaning on common sense here.

Even if DNA shows the boy is not his biological son, it doesn’t change the fact that Mohbad acknowledged the boy publicly as his son. So inheritance is not threatened. And the Wife herself remained legally married to Mohbad at his time of death so she will still remain his inheritor too.

Additionally, an adverse DNA test does not in any way implicate her in his death.

The law does not work like SuperStory, sorry to burst your bubble. Culpability in murder requires a case being established. Clearly the autopsy result and the police investigation do not implicate the wife in any way. And women who birth biological children for men historically have had no qualms killing their husbands.


But we should also ask why you people don’t feel distaste that the old man is so concerned about his son’s property that should not in any way belong to him.

Evercurious:
Now it's obvious that you re one of those that keep spreading false tales on issues they know nothing about embarrassing themselves on SM

GTFO.

Where are the false tales?

Did the man not take his son’s clothes and start wearing them?

Did he not bury his son in a hurried manner, in a small coffin?

Did he not rush to tell the press that his son dashed him his only plot of land? even though there’s no documentation to that effect?

https://www.legit.ng/entertainment/celebrities/1554556-mohbads-father-finally-reveals-singer-hurriedly-buried-nigerians-react-what-a-shame/

If dem born your papa well, dispute any of these things I’ve posted here as false. Every single one is factual information. I double dare you to deny or dispute any of them.

kmaster007:
I sight you bird of the same feathers. She shouldn't be scared if nah mohbad have the baby... Let just say the baby isn't mohbad son what are you going to do. Make she cry for money till night she go do am laslas... Even you urself will wanted to no what behind all this...

Oya na. Go and force her to do DNA test

BrighterSyde:
Yes it can. If she says she won’t do the test then Mohbad’s father can get a court injunction ordering her to release the baby to a neutral party which can be the police so they can conduct the test in 3 different centres.

He cannot. He has no stake in the matter, and the paternity discussion is solely between the legal parents of the boy.

It’s like saying Wunmi can use the courts to order the man to do mental health tests since he’s been acting really weird since his son died.

BrighterSyde:
It’s easy to spot a child talking. If you were an adult and understand how the law works you will know that a court order is all it takes to have her release that boy for a dna test. But you are obviously ignorant of how things work so you’ll say rubbish thinking you are making sense.

Again, you’re the child here. Not only is she NOT a suspect, even if the child were to not be Mohbad’s, it’s still a massive logical leap to assume that as a reason for murder.
Tell me, child. Who’s going to obtain the court order? The father of Mohbad? he cannot convince any court that that’s any business of his. Mohbad’s estate will go to the wife if there’s no will.

There is significant evidence that Mohbad accepted and celebrated the boy as his son when he was alive, so for all intents and legal purposes, the boy is his son.

You know poorly educated people when you see them post.

kmaster007:
I being dey suspect this lady... If she like make she cry from morning till night dat DNA way she dey afraid off she most Do am shikena!

Why do you people keep saying things that make no sense?
She’s not going to do DNA test if she doesn’t want to. You can’t force her. Nobody can. Mohbad’s father is a joker if he thinks he has a say.


The young boy remain Mohbad’s heir and will take ownership of all that’s left after his agbaya grandfather has taken the clothes.

Evercurious:
Pls go get your facts right before embarrassing yourself here

Are you Among the poverty stricken ones that see it as normal that a parent must be this desperate to snatch property from the rightful heir of his late son?

Pitiful

Mohbad was cursed with the worst parents possible sha.

The dad most of all. The day after the boy died, the father rushed to bury him without his wife present. So desperate was he to bury him that he stuffed him into a small coffin, breaking his neck in the process. And then right when they were burying him, the father told the press that Mohbad promised to dash him his land.

Next thing we knew the father had grabbed his son’s clothes and started wearing them.


The only people who support the dad are the poverty stricken people in both body and spirit. You know them. Every single last one of them is inflicted with the curse of poverty. With no exception. The bone deep, chilling poverty that makes people see their children as ATM machines and makes old people work to cheat their grandsons of their inheritance.


The father will not escape divine judgement sha.