hot-angel:

Ohh i get u now, U could "careless" as in, u don't mind if she fronts or not. Well that's a good thing. But i must say, girls that FRONT too much annoy me too. Why pretend if it's real? A lil playing hard to get doesn't hurt the soul, but don't go all "holy Mary" On the guy.

I couldn't help laughing after reading this The thing is that those are my thoughts exactly on the issue.

Variety is the spice of life , i , Guess?

i am sick i tired of people comparing women in naija to women abroad when it comes to this "Aristo" thing. We have a popular saying in Nigeria, " Na condition make crayfish bend". If the girls abroad experience similar conditions as most naija girls, they would have no choice but to date Aristos too.
Don't get me wrong, i am not condoning the idea but, people, lets take a closer look at the whole thing. We are talking about a contry that has lost almost all its moral fiber. A country were 419 is glorified and nobody cares how you got your money. A country where if you graduate from college today, you already know you wont get a job.
desperate times calls for desperate measures. Most (and i do mean most) of these girls date Aristo because they can't paid the price of not dating them (which is starvation, homelessness, depression, suicidal thoughts, you name it).
until we can provide similar conditions for women in Nigeria and those abroad, i don't want to hear this stupid comparism of Naija girls at home and women abroad. Abroad, women have a choice whereas in Nigeria we still leave in a society that treats women as second class citizens (slaves, if i may).

If it is that easy to gt a job in Nigeria and it is so rosy, how come most young guys turn to armed robbery and the police join them too? (cos policeman dey hungry too)
The whole country has lost its moral fiber and we are attacking the ones that can't fend for themselves. What about guys who date older women for their money (i know a few of them. Taju, okonkwo, ismaila look out o!)

Once again, i am not saying i condon the idea, but for those of my sisters that are doing it for lack of other options to survive, Sisters i say Aluta Continua!! Fight on.

Maybe he wants you to be his closet-girlfriend so his wife doesn't catch him. OR

He thinks you are too ugly to show his friends

Girl, you have the right to know why she wants you to be his closet-girlfriend.

For us guyz, when we have something or someone special, we want the world to know. SO find out what the player is up to, playa.

got to make sure nobody is looking screw my patients, they should have changed their appointments. Damn!!

its almost time for me to sneak out of work

The best person to fall in love with is a serial killer cos that would give a whole new meaning to "till death do us part"

Please don't tell me it is over

i have put too much into this

@Doctor, if women avoid all these men, what do you want the women to do, date themselves

Every guy on planet earth has some kind of issue and if you think you don't THAT IS AN ISSUE RIGHT THERE (self righteous).

So ladies, please go with the ones you can deal with.

she's got issues. Loads of them. She is playing with you emotions. She knows she can control you so is using you as a back-up.

Better look for a girl that really loves you and want to have sex with you

Seriously dude find someone else. Mind you, don't leave her yet cos a bird in hand is worth 2,3,6 ,7 (you know what i mean) in the bush. Keep her there but keep searching. if it happens that she is the one, then thats fine. you just have to deal with her crazy aasss.

i'm leaving work early today

would i get in trouble if i leave early today?

where did i hide that body again?

why didn't my boss show up for work today and i did, afterall we went drinking together (@#$%)

I'll say it depends on the person involved.
For guyz
1. Some guys are quick in finding solace in the arms of another women thereby speeding up the healing process.
2. Some guys are not that fast (or goodlooking ) and suffer for a long time

For Ladiez
1. women tend to get more emotionally involved and usually find it hard to trust another guy right away.

Rhodalyn:

i don't really believe in all these so called miracles

Well that is why you may never see one because getting a miracle involves first BELIEVING that it is possible.

if i ask your if you would be alive tomorrow, what would your answer be? I don't know? When you say i don't know, would you really believe that you don't know?

A MIRACLE IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY and you not believing may be a reason you haven't seen one yet.

I know that Texas is hotter than Nigeria in the summer

I know that as long as we have different tribes in nigeria, Tribalism will never end. So it is a never ending story, afterall that is what breeds tribalism.

I know that president Obansanjo does not know what a "constitution" is

whao! that is a lot of knowledge you guys are dropping on me here.

@ daviddylan, thanks for the breakdown. that was very interesting. You be pastor??

i think i have a new definition for spineless

2cantango:

When I was 5yrs old a boy in my class pinned me down on a bean bag and smacked his mouth on to mine, his tongue was going crazy trying to get between my lips

SO YOU STILL REMEMBER THAT OUR KISS? NA WA O!! GOOD TIMES, GOOD TIMES!!

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beyunce:

i guess she deserves it.
But from the story it means she wont feel it because she never loved u

OUCH!!!!!

let me verify first that you are not my ex before i reply to this. Which town does your ex live??

make man no enter trouble o! cos when i told my ex i didn't want her anymore i meant it. Everything was just terrible. i.e. the sex, attitude, yanga etc

So a piece of advice, let him go. You will meet a better person that is just right for you.

Make I attend to better matter ja re.

@ Fluffy

are you really fluffy

OK i don tire for all this ya-ma ya ma. If na so, Lets all observe one night of prayer for this guy o!

Since everybody is trying to pray for him instead of tell him the truth. Them say everyday for thief, one day for the owner. The owner don catch this guy now. E don dey do am for a long time, since kindergarten

On a serious note, i mean seriously dude, look for another line of work or career that does not involve acada. You would thank me for this later.

So send your thank you note to my email address .

i believe in one thing regard this issue:

If you maga another man's wife,
Someone else will maga your in future O!

Word to the Carmel abi na mother

the law of reciprocity

or give me money

It means lets have sex

VOR:

Wid that ya grammar me I de wonder how you manage reach final year self?

No be lie you talk o!!! Dem get to investigate how this guy take pass him JAMB O! cos im grammar give me headache.

Anyway sha, that is our nigerian school system for you. As long as you have the money, you can be a dokita or lowyer

O boy, forget school and focus on something else and make you pray make good guide your in getting a job that requires little or no grammar, like president (obasanjo )

which one be C finish? isn't that the main idea anyway. you want to get to know the person for who they are and not what they pretend to be when you go visit or they come to your place. i don't think it brings see finish O! You only get to know the person better and if you are not compatible, at least you'll know before you make the mistake of tying the knot.

However, this depends on the stage of the relationship sha o.

Na wa o