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Romance / Re: What Do I Give My Boyfriend On His Birthday? by Thagodfada(m): 1:53pm On Mar 10, 2006
Ashbaby:

Go online and order him a gift package with candy, flowers, some male scented soap and wine.

Ashbaby na wa o! you want make she lose her boyfriend??

I beg, CAR jare grin Preferably JAG, tinted glasses and the works.
Bobo go give your flowers to another girl if you give am o!

Word to the wise.
Romance / Re: How Long Should Courtship Last? by Thagodfada(m): 1:48pm On Mar 10, 2006
My analogy is this and please you college people out there correct me if I'm wrong.

It takes a student ONE SEMESTER or TWO to finish a course (e.g. chemistry)

OK, if it takes almost one year to study and pass a course, what makes you think you can study a person and find out if he/she is the right person for you in 1-3 months!

Divorce statistics will only keep going up.
Jokes Etc / Re: Things Not To Say On A Date by Thagodfada(m): 1:37pm On Mar 10, 2006
no seriously, who is your daddy
Jokes Etc / Re: Things Not To Say On A Date by Thagodfada(m): 1:37pm On Mar 10, 2006
who is your daddy!
Jokes Etc / Re: Things Not To Say On A Date by Thagodfada(m): 1:36pm On Mar 10, 2006
I would like to have 11 kids, you know like a good football team
Jokes Etc / Re: Things Not To Say On A Date by Thagodfada(m): 1:35pm On Mar 10, 2006
I dreamed about you lastnight
Jokes Etc / Re: Things Not To Say On A Date by Thagodfada(m): 1:34pm On Mar 10, 2006
Are those real! ? (pointing to her headlights grin )

How much did you pay for those (still pointing to her headlights wink )

Can i touch 'em (thatz if she hasn't left by then)
Romance / Re: Can One Make Love By Mistake? by Thagodfada(m): 1:23pm On Mar 10, 2006
"Regardless of ones emotional state, except been drunk or raped, when it comes to sleeping with someone, there are no mistakes about it" by KIMBA

This is similar to what i said earlier and i think you are absolutely right. People go try to turn this thing upside down and inside out.
A mistake is NOT dependent on willpower! Just because you can't say no does not mean it is a mistake. It just means you don't have the power to control your emotions regardless of what emotional state you are in.

If a gun goes off accidentally, that is a mistake. But if you pull the trigger in anger that is something else but not a mistake.
We are human beings not animals.
Romance / Re: Can One Make Love By Mistake? by Thagodfada(m): 5:36pm On Mar 08, 2006
trying to define mistake is like Clinton trying to define sexual intercourse. Mistake na mistake. Doing something you didn't have the intention to do.

When drug or alcohol is involved that is a whole diffrent ball game. That is operating under the influence. So if your sense of reasoning is clouded by a substance, that is not a mistake.
Romance / Re: Met Him On The Net, But He Cheats by Thagodfada(m): 5:25pm On Mar 08, 2006
Na wao!! This is better that Jerry Springer smiley
Jokes Etc / Re: Things Not To Say On A Date by Thagodfada(m): 7:33pm On Mar 03, 2006
what is your favorite sex position?
I think i love you
viagra is a wonderful drug
Did you see me on last week's episode of COPS?
Sorry about the cough, but my doctor still don't know what i have.
They have very cute waitresses here, right?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Dating Indian Men by Thagodfada(m): 7:17pm On Mar 03, 2006
ashric:

I'm half indian and grew up in indian culture and i absolutely will not date an indian boy again. My cousin and i dated Indian Muslim brothers. She married hers, I moved on. She now wants to leave him because she has no freedom. The boy changed after they got serious. I know some indian boys (like my cousins) who are nice but they are few. Even my mom says indian men don't want a wife, they want a slave! Indian girls are another story. She treats her man like a king, and is always dutiful regardless of whether he deserves it or not.

Thatz an example of what i was saying earlier. The role of a woman in indian culture is a little spooky.
Culture / Re: The Idea Of A Strong Black Woman by Thagodfada(m): 4:03pm On Mar 03, 2006
it is not a myth. My mom is a living proof.
Romance / Re: Dating White Guys by Thagodfada(m): 4:01pm On Mar 03, 2006
my ex- fiancee was white, so i guess i don't have a problem with it.
Romance / Re: Is It Wise To Kiss On Your First Date? by Thagodfada(m): 3:59pm On Mar 03, 2006
Hell yea!!! She needs to kiss me. But not French though grin Maybe the next day
Romance / Re: Involved With A Married Man by Thagodfada(m): 3:55pm On Mar 03, 2006
Like i said earlier, get that room rady for the THIRD wife o! cos thats what is going to happen. Word to the wise.
Romance / Re: [poll] Would You Prefer to Marry a Virgin? by Thagodfada(m): 3:53pm On Mar 03, 2006
Virgin?? Too much work.
Romance / Re: Is Age Really Important In A Relationship? by Thagodfada(m): 3:49pm On Mar 03, 2006
well to tell you the truth, i used to think it wasn't but i found out a few months ago that it is.

For Nigerian women, age is a huge thing. Some of them would not want to date anyone younger. Plus the fact that it has been shown that women develop much more faster emotionally than men. So if a woman is dating a guy 3-5yrs older than her, they are probably at the same stage emotional maturity.
So if a girl is going out with a much younger guy, she has the advantage of being more emotionally matured.

But i think all that is bullcrap. People should be able to date regardless of age. But a guy should only marry a girl younger than he is. Word to the wise grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Dating Indian Men by Thagodfada(m): 3:39pm On Mar 03, 2006
Sorry to jump into this female conversation but i went to school with a lot of girls and guyz from India and i don't see any reason why you can't date them. But beware of their culture. They are very strict regarding the role of a woman in the house. Check that out.
Romance / Re: Infidelity-who Is To Be Blamed? by Thagodfada(m): 3:33pm On Mar 03, 2006
whitelexi:

Men are usually forced to cheat; Men find it difficult to discuss certain issues with their women because they expect them to be sensitive enough to notice it. You fail to notice it, another woman notices it and profers a solution to it, grin you start assuming u have a man, when in reality u don't have one.

Another true word.

Women voice their emotions but we guyz are not like that. But a good woman can always tell when her boyfriend or spouse is having issues. A simple "what is going on darling" could have solved the issue but some girls just ignore or don't even notice, so we go to Angelina or sikira who happens to be very caring (by nature like God intended it smiley ) and we drown our sorrow in the sweet nectar of the gods. grin grin grin

But then again, some guyz are just DOGS grin
Romance / Re: Many People Do Not Understand The Word Love by Thagodfada(m): 3:24pm On Mar 03, 2006
[color=#990000]complicated. Little typo there smileysmiley[/color]
Romance / Re: Many People Do Not Understand The Word Love by Thagodfada(m): 3:23pm On Mar 03, 2006
you mean we are saying what we THINK love is. Even William shakespear couldn't define love. One thing we are sure of is that it is an emotion. But it is the most complication emotion (or feeling) known to man. You can love a person and at the same time you can also love violence. So what is love really but just an emotion that can flare up in relation to a person place or thing.
Romance / Re: Girls: What Attracts You To A Man? by Thagodfada(m): 3:15pm On Mar 03, 2006
Thaks ladies. I think you've all just described me. Please take a look at my profile and picture and get back to me. Thank you.
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Is transgendered by Thagodfada(m): 3:07pm On Mar 03, 2006
This is the more reason why i think sex before marriage is a good thing. Anyway, that is another issue.

Bro, it depends on how rich you are or she is, cos cutting off that wanka is expensive. Plus the doctors have to determine which is dominant. They would not want to cut off the pe pe only to find out that everything else is wired like a man. But since she behaves and looks like a female, chances are the female part is dominant. I don't even know if naija has good enough facilities to perform such surgery.

My point is, surgery would solve the problem. Hope you got the dough.
Fashion / Re: What Makes a Lady Beautiful? by Thagodfada(m): 2:41pm On Mar 03, 2006
I really appreciate the new definition of beautiful , i guess smiley

I thought Godly and beautiful were 2 different things. Maybe I'm just too superficial.

I think I'll go with Solomon's definition of beauty in the bible. I kinda like that one grin grin grin

Ciao. smiley

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Romance / Re: Is Dating Someone For 1 Year Too Soon To Get Married? by Thagodfada(m): 2:33pm On Mar 03, 2006
babymine:

6 Months, 1 Year, does it really matter. Marriage is like a gift wrapped up in a package. Anything you find inside after its been unwrapped, you take and make the best out of it. It takes eternity to know someone. Human beings pretend a lot! N we are sooo unpredictable. So just pray and ask God to take control. wink

No, i don't think so. I live in a society where you have a high divorce rate because people never took the time to find out anything about who they are getting married. There is no point rushing into anything only to rush out.
I understand the part about God, but don't expect God to clean up your every mistake.
Romance / Re: Would You Date An Older Girl? by Thagodfada(m): 2:28pm On Mar 03, 2006
more grease to your elbows , i guess grin grin grin
Romance / Re: Would You Let Your Parents Choose Whom You Will Marry? by Thagodfada(m): 2:25pm On Mar 03, 2006
Its not the right of parents but that of the children to chose who they would like to spend the rest of their lives with. Na your papa wan sleep with am or na your mama? Who will cope with their bad or even evil habits?

So the choice remains that of the child
Romance / Re: Breakup Excuses Decoded by Thagodfada(m): 2:15pm On Mar 03, 2006
whitelexi:

As you're decoding, more are being released, There is the latest one of blood groups, they've even gone deeper into blood genotype and racious, Very soon, we will hear of DNA and similar excuses grin

Na wa o. I couldn't help but laugh. Nice one grin
Romance / Re: Involved With A Married Man by Thagodfada(m): 1:58pm On Mar 03, 2006
Just make sure that after getting married to this playa, you should help prepare the next room for wife number 3. Also prepare the basement for wife number 4.

Frankly, I think you should look for a guy that would love you and you only and treat you right.

If the guy is tired of the first wife already, chances are the same would happen to you.
Romance / Re: Is Dating Someone For 1 Year Too Soon To Get Married? by Thagodfada(m): 1:51pm On Mar 03, 2006
whitelexi:

Depends on which sex is involved. You see, after all the games, a woman finally gets desperate to settle down while, for the man, its the beginning of life! A woman will not mind settling with u in weeks sef, saying she's found the soul-mate that she's been searching for since the last 10-15 years,
A man will want to date for at least 2yrs because women can hide their true behaviours, i've seen couples that dated for over 4yrs before anything oh grin

True word bro!! You are right on the money. I just came out of a longterm relationship (almost nine months) and i can attest to what you said. People can be nice when they want something but they can only pretend for so long.

So guyz take your time and study the girl o. Love is important but it is not everything. Some of us have relatives that we love but would rather not live with. Word for the wise.

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Romance / Re: Would You Date An Older Girl? by Thagodfada(m): 1:41pm On Mar 03, 2006
There is nothing wrong with dating an older girl. I have alway dated older women cos they are more experienced and emotionally stable (so to say smiley ) They know what they want and how to get it.

But the question should be if i would marry on older girl grin

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