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Romance › Re: Should I Marry My Boyfriend With This Behaviour? by ThaRealist: 10:21pm On Aug 26, 2020 |
dukeprince50: every relationship has its problem, there is no guarantee that the one u will marry won't give u problems. u think happily married couples don't have misunderstandings? my friend work on ur relationship and stop asking questions, u will throw a relationship of 5yrs cos of this minor issue? I even thought he slapped and beat u up. whenever something like this comes up again, u too should say some hurtful words to him as u seem fit. No relationship is like what u see on movies, u have to build it. u haven't seen him for a year, there is a high chance the love has reduced, u have to pour more fuel again, stop doing delaytionship you started up this so well but entirely goofed at the middle ... first , being in a 5 years relationship doesn't mean she shouldn't quit the relationship when it's obvious she can't lie with it ,. and it is best to note that what you can't endure in courtship, make it clear ... take note of those little things in a relationship , don't expect things to change in marriage ... marriage reveals , so expect more of those behaviors ... |
Programming › Re: 10 Ways To Get High Paid Job In Tech Companies, No 8 May Shock You by ThaRealist: 3:20pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
Tim1212: That's good.. send me a mail tim@diib.com .. Good day , I have sent a mail , kindly check ... thank you |
Programming › Re: 10 Ways To Get High Paid Job In Tech Companies, No 8 May Shock You by ThaRealist: 4:26pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Tim1212: Please kindly indicate your interest.. Do you want to learn or do you have a business? I want to learn sir ... Ui/Ux.. thank you � |
Programming › Re: 10 Ways To Get High Paid Job In Tech Companies, No 8 May Shock You by ThaRealist: 11:23pm On Jul 05, 2020 |
Tim1212: I will donate funds to assist small businesses in Nigeria to invest the funds in SEO and ICT.
I will sponsor 5 Newbies in programming to learn UI/UX, software design, mobile application design and OS design.
As my community service to my country. very thoughtful of you sir and it's much appreciated .. how can I be a recipient of this goodwill offer ? I look forward to your feedback � Kind regards, ThaRealist |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Who Has Done An Interview Or Gotten A Job Since COVID-19 Started? by ThaRealist: 1:07pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
daneni1: I still remember that microsoft teams meeting just like yesterday, on this day 27th April, 2020. We had a meeting with one of our partner where he said he is very sorry for the disengagement as the firm need to cut down cost, and that every company possession with us should be returned back to the firm at an agreed date.
I braced up after the news, informed my siblings who are dependent on me and the comment of the younger sibling was, 'shey hungry go come dey catch me, I just smile and said, though I might have lost my job, I promise you that you won't go hungry for one day" from that day till I secure another job within the space of three weeks, I spent all my time applying for jobs that match my qualification and as God will have it, I resumed at my current place of work on the 18th of May, 2020. I tap into your testimony in Jesus name |
Family › Re: Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes by ThaRealist: 6:44pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Kenturkey048: Bros I swear to God you didn't mess up..If you apologize to her ,you f*ck up big time..always make women remember you are the head ...
how can your wife,the person you married and swore for better for worst with still be the same person pressuring you to go illegal....
Instead of assisting you build an empire rather she wants to destroy the little way you are moving.....
You see why I say if you give women chance they gonna ruin your life.... good evening bro , is there a way I can reach out to you asides Pm? as I don't know how that works |
Family › Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by ThaRealist: 7:50pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
SpicyMimi: You are legally married to him, right? And were joined together on the altar as one? I really see no problem disclosing this to him, as you are one unless he is a cheat or has another wife. I don't mind sending my husband all my salary and make him give me money when I need it... I am well pleased with it, in as much as he is mine. There should be no secrets in a marriage, I'd detest such kind of life. wow !! your husband is indeed lucky to have you ... such a courteous, virtuous woman you are .. not like all these ladies forming woke ... they don't understand that this is marriage and not bf and gf , if you can share bed and your body with your man , why can't you share something as little as your finance and purse shows they don't know what marriage entails |
Romance › Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ThaRealist: 12:52pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Veryfoolishboy: This 1 million naira. That one million naira. Those one million naira you have been waiting for will locate you todaaaaaaaaay
I WANT THE WHOLE OF NAIRALAND TO STAND UP ON THEIR FEET AND SHOUT HALELUUUUUUUUUUUYAAAAA You are indeed a very foolish boy �� |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: UEFA Europa League 2019/2020 Round Of 32 Draws by ThaRealist: 4:34pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Ironman15: If you know someone i can learn it from kindly link up
If i can create my own website then I'll start marketing my biz What part of the state do you stay and do you have a laptop? |
Romance › Re: I Had Sex With My Fiance's Friend, Please Help! by ThaRealist: 9:53am On Nov 29, 2019 |
Lucyliz: Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.
It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.
We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.
We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.
After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.
Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.
Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently. He got the apartment and the guy came to lag.. I didn't get to meet him until after a week... I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...
He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....
Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....
I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...
The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...
I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....
But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...
Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...
I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...
Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...
I can't stop thinking and crying...
Pls help me I beg u all Best thing I will advice you to do , is to tell him what happened between you two ...no matter how much you cover it , it will open up one day ...we are in a social media and the fact he is a close friend to your fiance.. It is better you tell him now ... If he can't handle the truth then he is not for you ... The sooner , the better for you .. |
Career › Re: Why Did You Leave Your Last Job? by ThaRealist: 7:08am On Nov 25, 2019 |
idu1: I'm putting you in prayer. You ll resume your dream job February 2020 Kindly put me in your prayers too.... Make a declaration, prophesy..� |
Health › Re: 10 Most Common Misconceptions About Acne (Pimples) by ThaRealist: 11:59am On Jul 13, 2019 |
Kenturkey048: I dey your lane oooh ..just yesterday I was asking my colleagues to pray for me....pimples wan do me reach 30years...I don taya...somebody introduced me to a face cream.just started using it yesterday...I pray it works shaaa... What's the name of the cream and other stuffs you use |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 5:26pm On May 10, 2019 |
lawrykings: Please I need your counsel on this.
There is this girl in my place of assignment, I met her, went on a date, we kissed on first date, we even almost bleeped but distraction from friends stopped that . Finally finally we got to Bleep each other at some point and it continued that way.
My problem now is whenever I am around her, there are lots of fishy things about her (calls she receives) like I feel she isn't trustworthy and she is fucking plenty of guys and as the days goes by, I find myself developing feelings for her even though I tried to hide it by sometimes acting like I don't care, which she breaks this defense mechanism strategy by acting submissive and caring.
it's really eating me I don't know what to do because I feel giving her my heart would be risky. Thank you sir. help out |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 5:24pm On May 10, 2019 |
lawrykings: Please I need your counsel on this.
There is this girl in my place of assignment, I met her, went on a date, we kissed on first date, we even almost bleeped but distraction from friends stopped that . Finally finally we got to Bleep each other at some point and it continued that way.
My problem now is whenever I am around her, there are lots of fishy things about her (calls she receives) like I feel she isn't trustworthy and she is fucking plenty of guys and as the days goes by, I find myself developing feelings for her even though I tried to hide it by sometimes acting like I don't care, which she breaks this defense mechanism strategy by acting submissive and caring.
it's really eating me I don't know what to do because I feel giving her my heart would be risky. Thank you sir. help out The question here is what do you really want?? , because you already got the cookie ... lest I forget , I am assuming this girl is below 24 ... Girls between the ages of 16-24 just wants to explore , they want some adventure , they want some new activities and they get several guys in their dm's that wants them ... So stop trying to bother yourself about whatever she is doing ...what you should bother about his , do you get her attention whenever you need it ... Leave the distractions man !! If you are actually clever , you can blend her into what you want by building an open rapport ... Don't try to cage her , don't be aggressive ... There is a way to deal with this ladies !! Easy does it ... |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 5:15pm On May 10, 2019 |
fucc12: Is this thread still active? I'm really having girl troubles, I would really like some advice. Shoot !! |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 5:14pm On May 10, 2019 |
TheApologist: Hi house, please there's this lady I just met some two weeks ago, kinda on rapport building stage but the problem I have is she hardly asks anything about me. She's come over to my place and we chatted well and I intend inviting her over in a few days please how do I get her to show interest in me as I really wish to make her my girlfriend She may just not be the conversational type or you haven't really struck her interests ... For her to come over to your place means it's not really a Herculean task to have her all over you, if you play your role well ... Girls like a guy that is humour filled , sarcastic , naughty and also witty ... And pls I always tell guys don't ask her out regardless just act the role ... |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 5:09pm On May 10, 2019 |
derrick015: Please I need help on how to up my chatting game/communication. My chat with girls has always been very boring. it always just: hello good morning how are you. I don't know how to go about a long convo with a girl. please help Having a long conversation with a girl is no magic ...just the same way you relate with a guy that's just the same way to this , there is no rules , no preambles ... Talk about what interests her , once you know what interests her conversations would always follow suite ... You: hello morning Her : good morning You: how was your day Her: fine (a typical naija girl answer ) You : what's your plan for the day ? Her : nothing much You: Haha so I am going to see a movie today and I hope I won't regret it because the hype is just too much about it ... Her : oh really what's the name of the movie ( that's if she is a movie person and she is willing to chat with you ) You : guess , you know you may just be lucky to get a ticket to see the movie too ... (Use your smiley � symbols ) or the hand in the mouth From there you would know if she is a movie person and you guys gist about other movies that interests are ...move to other gists about what happened ...pick a scene from the movie and move on to other topics ... The summary is one conversation always begat another conversation... Stop thinking far ... |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 4:55pm On May 10, 2019 |
Oladisa: There's this particular lady I think I'm getting turned on for but the problem is how to meet her in person. The accommodation that was provided for me where I works, in my room upstairs I spotted the lady which happened to be in the next compound of where I stay. Early in the morning I'm out for work and I guess she does too but most time, I leave my house early than she does. Please how can I get this lady? Well if you are so interested in her , you would have to figure out when she comes back from work or what she does ... Because if there is no platform created , there wouldn't be a discussion .mm you can always get help from your guys around or someone if they know her movement ...but don't stalk her ... |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 4:51pm On May 10, 2019 |
Thayoreey: Pls there is this girl I got her number so I could chat her up, but she said she doesn't chat on whatsapp and that she only views people's status, besides I even confirmed this from some people(both guys and girls). So how do I get her interested in chatting with me? This depends on how much you like her ... If she says she doesn't chat , try as much to call her and make the conversation engaging and short ... Try to know her interests within that short period of time ... Try to find other suitable ways, if she says she doesn't chat ... Her reaction to the other way would dictate the next line of action .. |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 4:48pm On May 10, 2019 |
Oladisa: How can I approach and get a lady I'm seeing for the first time whom I know not from Adam in the street while working by? Helpful tips please. Strategies to employ to get her talk and get her contact It's simple be real !! Don't try to cram lines ... If she is going in front of you , don't just walk up to her immediately , study her mood , and again don't just rush up to her from the back ... You would startle her and she would bring up her defense ... What you should do is walk ahead of her , then slow down till you guys are par , maybe almost side by side , you could fake a call to move ahead of her and slow down and be as jovial as possible , dont flatter or complement her ...she has probably heard that hundreds of time ... Say something about the moment , be spontaneous ... U can pick up any line from what u are seeing .. |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 4:36pm On May 10, 2019 |
TheApologist: Gurus in the house please I need help. I once told of a lady I asked out though against the rules of this house so in a bid to amend for my mistakes I assumed the role of her boyfriend and she's being playing along but I never fail to realize the fact she's sending mixed signals, so I was advised by a friend to relate I wanted something really serious with her. I did and she came up with the fact I asked her out but never heard from her before assuming the role. The issue now is that she's opened up to me she has someone she's dating who's currently in service but that she's already developing feelings for me and playing along with the two of us to know who's best for her, so my pain now is how do I step up my game with her and possibly displace this other guy who I believe isn't as serious as I am about her I am happy you already said she is developing feelings for you ... But pls remove yourself from the equation of trying to displace the other guy , do your thing , the biggest mistake you would make is letting her know you are in competition with the other guy for her attention ... You can keep up with the boyfriend role play you are doing but never say words that would make her feel she is a trophy ...cease all talks about relationship with her ..let her be the one to yearn for it ... A subtle way to upgrade your game is simple , bring more humour to the table , be witty ... Dump the hey baby convo and say something like hey my smallie , hey big head ... Let your convo be more neutral stop worrying about the other guy !! |
Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by ThaRealist: 4:31pm On May 10, 2019 |
Themhi1: hello bosses... I have a problem which I don't know how to handle it. I and a girl have been so close, I know almost everything about her and she knows about me too. recently she said I use vulgar too much and she blocked me but her number is still going cos I hide number when I called her. pls I love dis girl, how can I make her forgive me. pls I need your help seriously. God bless you. Can you be more detailed as to what you mean by vulgar ... Because I could call my friend ode mumu and she is cool with and to some other person's it's being vulgar... And one more thing before you explain better , don't think about asking this lady out , don't tell her how you feel ... Try to interact with other girls and you would see it's just some Infatuation |
Education › Re: Stephanie Idolor Who Recorded Success Spotted At NYSC Camp by ThaRealist: 3:10pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
alert01: Yea. Let's roll. I have some projects at hand I am a computer literate , graphics designer and content developer..proficient with Adobe Photoshop , Corel draw and Microsoft office suites ... And I am a fast humble.learner ... Kindly message me on oniongraphics92@gmail.com .. safe boss |
Travel › Re: North Cyprus by ThaRealist: 10:45pm On Mar 05, 2017 |
BELKIS: anyone coming to North Cyprus soon please? i need a very little help with some creams and little stuffs. i will pay. pls send me an email. What side of Cyprus do u reside ?? Omonia Nicosia?? |
Romance › Re: What To Discuss On A Date by ThaRealist: 10:34pm On Mar 05, 2017 |
Amarabae: Ok. Feel relaxed and be creative in discussion. 1. Don't make it too much question and answer session. 2. You as the man should do most of the talking, don't talk about the future. 3. Talk a bit about the past and focus more on the present. Discussion that is based on the "present" is psychologically more lively. 4. Crack some jokes to add humor to it.(not a boring joke). 5. Be time conscious! Am actually thinking I could bank on you for one though ... So what state do u reside ?? I stay in Lagos .... |
Romance › Re: What Do You Now Regret Doing For Your Ex? by ThaRealist: 10:18pm On Mar 05, 2017 |
Desmo240: Giving him my virginity then realised hes not worth it Giving him my virginity then realised hes not worth it That must have been a sad one ..... How do u quantify a guy that Worth it and can u expannsiate what really happened and the effect it has on u now |
Romance › Re: Call Me Names But My Fiancee Shouldn't Have Had More Sex Than Me by ThaRealist: 9:43pm On Mar 05, 2017 |
Evaberry: na wa for men
annoying creatures Been looking for this monicker e don tey ...I so hope u reside in Lagos ?? |
Romance › Re: Ideas For A Bonding. Romanceland by ThaRealist(op): 10:06pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Estharfabian:
Eh, alright.
what's your real name? and eh, Your hobby? Wait, am I supposed to ask you in pidgin? 
My real name na Ayomide ,the one wey dey yan better yanings even if he bitter to the earer... Hobby plent y oo...if I dey better mood, I like to dey compose songs, sing better jam... And this one sef follow , I like to do anything wey concern football wella, because me I be ogbonge PlayStation soccer baba , boys wey privilege wella they call me "konami" ... If we leave that matter for Mathias , another hobby wey I gbadun na to watch football o ...me I be gunners oo and I no dey use that team play o .. Na so the story go... My own ask me na ... Wetin be ur location and who be ur crush or oga for NL , as e be say everybody just they sight u make u talk true o... |
Phones › Re: What's The Funniest Wrong Number Text/call You've Ever Gotten? by ThaRealist: 3:20pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Ideas For A Bonding. Romanceland by ThaRealist(op): 6:37am On Jan 07, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Ideas For A Bonding. Romanceland by ThaRealist(op): 12:24am On Jan 07, 2017 |
Jodha: (catwalks in shyly) now you come  Is there by any chance we can excuse our self to the closet ,make we relate do some quick-ie talk .... I need to know what u like for dessert...  |