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simple, just break up with him. it may not be that easy but you need to move on in your life, cause it seems he is already doing that.
if the love is not there, why waste your time? its not worth it.
he is obviously playing games, and i dont think you should be waiting around for forever to come, before you go out and look for someone to appreciate you.
just because you love that person doesnt mean he is the right one for you.
and i think he might have used the money and taken advantage of you. it seems you became his personal bank account, idk.
*and i agree with cantell, olanajim, and marcoguy. this sex thing, its not love ooo, its lust*

i dont see how much longer you can go on with this.
im pretty sure sex is a big part of your relationsip and if she is not satisfying you, are you going to wait around for pigs to fly before you go out to be satisfied?
teach her some moves, or better yet, take control. try to enlighten her on the kinds of things that you like and see if she would do it for you. and if she doesnt, maybe she just isnt the one for you sexually.
and maybe its not the sex alone, but where youre having sex.
try different places in the house. maybe the bedroom is getting boring, try the kitchen, the shower, living room floor, the chair.
idk, something.
--THE AMAKA

if the love is there, why not?
its easier for a lady to do so than a man though.
but there is a limit, but 10 years doesnt seem like too much.

JJC - We Are Africans

THAT IS THE BEST RAP VIDEO FOR ME!!
it gets me movivated, lifts my spirits (although i do have a minor issue with the video itself) but with that aside, its just really good.
its the truth.

[size=40pt]WE ARE AFRICANS!!!!!! AFRICANS, AWOOOOOOO!!!!!!! [/size]

@whoever said Banky W
he wasnt rapping it was more of an R&B singing track.

daisies:
i dont know how a ghanian will be winning awards in our own country. its really sad!

interesting point you brought up.
and even if he is to win, HE BETTER BE GOOD!! dont come in here with your half-assed acting and mediocer skills and recieve an award in our coutnry. what?
shame to the people who thought he was worthy.
just like the famous Timaya (who i love) on youtube said "Having more subscribers fans, does NOT equal talent." he may have a lot of female fans, but that sure as hell doesnt make him the best actor of the year in NOLLYWOOD.
i dey vex oooooo.
if he was good, i wouldnt care that he is from ghana. but he sucks and our own home talents didnt recieve the award that was rightfully theirs!

Saw IV

brooknam99:
@KOsovo so, becus i state my displeasure u threathn to ban me. but,earlier, when i praised how u carried out the election why didnt u threathn me then?huh? what kinda mentality is thatoh, yeah, the one that is gotten when some1 is raised in a place where the term "freedom of expression" is neva respected!!!!

i thought you would have learned your lesson by now. are you a child that needs someone to spell it our for you?
there is a way to go about things without using a gazillion curse words.
its not what you say, but how you go about it.
often times no one sees your point cause every 3 words is a curse word. do you really think anyone is gonna listen to your or even take you serious?

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=368137.msg5147526#msg5147526 date=1261243175]this sounds pretty tribalistic to me.
why ignorant yorubas? anybody can be ignorant no matter what ethnicity.[/quote]because im pretty sure she knew the yorubas would get all sensitive to a topic like this (it being about yorubas after all).
she was right.

i was gonna stay out of this but i just have to make a comment.
@brooknam
werent you the same person that said i was a tribalist because i only got on you and ignored the "tribalisitic" comments that were being made by igbo tribalists? huh??
but ALLLLLLLLL those comments tpia. made against Edo/Bini people you said nothing but to egg it on.
tpia. is a tribalist, i thought you despised them?  or is it cause she's yoruba that you let it slide? HMM NOW IM REALLY STARTING TO QUESTION YOUR IDENTITY.
[size=30pt]HYPOCRISY AT ITS HIGHEST ORDER!![/size]
dont you dare tell me that im a tribalist because i choose to ignore tribal statements and deal with clowns like you that dont know your right from your left.
hmm hmm mmmmmmmm.
you see?
ALLLLLLL those comments tpia. made, you didnt do anything but to sit down and watch.
and i know you have been following this thread and you saw every single word she wrote. where were your second grade insults then? huh??
you despise tribalists right? so why are you letting her get away with it?

[size=30pt]THE ORIGINAL PURPOSE OF THIS THREAD WAS NOT TRIBALISTIC, BUT YOU KNOW THERE WILL ALWAYS BE THOSE PEOPLE THAT WILL TURN IT INTO THAT. IF WHAT MICHELIN SAID WAS NOT TRUE, THEN GO AHEAD AND PROVE HER OTHERWISE. STOP MAKING YOURSELVES LOOK GUILTY BY MAKING AN ARSE OUT OF YOURSELVES.[/size]

every single one of your posts is about tribe. the more you scream from now until the next 5 years, you still arent making any sense here.
Aloy as far as im concerned has never been a tribalist. he just points out RIGHT FROM WRONG. if a yoruba is doing something wrong, he will say it!! why should he have the fear of being called a tribalist to the point where he cant speak the truth? the guy is always 100% real about his shizz. and no its not about tribe, he just calls it like he sees it.
there have been plenty of times where he has called an igbo out on their stuff. does that then make him a tribalist against igbos? huh?
so dont get Aloy messed up.

hmmmm, is there something i should know?

rude much?

bixbite:
hey amaka take it easy i agree wit the dude who says u shd stop hating,like it or not this guy is the hotest tin in nollywood.and as for the roles he b plays,he isnt to b blamed 4 it the industry is made up of up traders lookin 4 fast bucks.

first of all, do you know the definition of "hating" ?? huh??
and second of all he is the "hottest" thing based on looks. and dont even make me start with acting.
tell me one movie he did that put him out in front of others, and i will leave this alone.
totally unfair.
@ the bolded part
and thats an excuse? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! just admit he sucks as an actor and siddon jare.

let me quote myself. 

[quote author=THE.AMAKA link=topic=368028.msg5144177#msg5144177 date=1261182838]thats exactly why i said this is a shallow world!!
everything is because of looks? nowadays people win based on what they look like. so many talentless jargons taking over the entertainment industry. and not just nollywood but the west included (well at least with music)
i remember back then whether you were ugly or not, you got what you deserved based on your talent.
HE CANNOT ACT. im actually kinda pissed at this, so let me vent here.

i know that others were probably thinking "wtf" when he won.
he obviously didnt deserve it, LET ALONE BE NOMINATED!
when he can start taking on more movie roles like majid michel (and be good at it) then we can talk about winning awards.

Organized by Mode Men magazine, the award was designed to celebrated men, who have profoundly affected lives in their society within the current year.

and i wonder how he did that? ehh? did i miss somethig?   
wasnt it one of the best actors, majid michel, that went to LIBERIA with jackie, rita dominic, desmond elliott, and nonso diobi to help out with the children and what not?
all of them did charity work this year, and van is nowhere to be found.
kai, some people sef.[/quote]

before you know it the whole of Nigeria will ban okadas.
KAI!!
so many people will have no jobs. 
im really scared about the aftermath of all this banning.

location:
my question is will the government provide another means of employment for those people who are already addicted to OKADA riding? and how efficeint is this new source of job be please Nigerian government, try and creat efficent job before wiping out the already existing once, i know this Okada of a thing is not safe at all and i strongly believe it should be ban, but my fear is this: will the ban help the already impoverish masses?

[size=30pt]GBAM!!![/size]

i dont get it.

idk, what do you call him?

omg! sjeezy is so funny.

null.

CarlosVent:
English is not our mother tongue so please lets take what ever they give us abeg

and that makes it acceptable?
that is no excuse!!
only qualified teachers should be able to teach students, period.

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=367629.msg5145128#msg5145128 date=1261204542]Does getting nominated translates to winning an election? Now you are being tribalistic.[/quote]i hardly know Jakumo and i dont like becomrich and his delusional arse.
the best candidate (for me) was Beaf!!
so chew it and swallow it.

brooknam99:
Heyy its the amaka; what did u expect from that thing?

and what dont i expect from the likes of you? ehh? lol

with all those nominations im surprised Beaf didnt win.

pussyboy:
When the schools are neglected, the country Nigeria is neglected and allowed to grow weary. What to do is quite smile but it's going to be harsh. A total overhaul of the teachers should be done and this could achieved by carrying out a compulsory screening on them to find out those that are really qualified to pass down the knowledge to the students. Teacher-student relationship is just like mother goat-kid goat relationship where the little ones (students)learn from teachers first hand. I could remember crystal clearly when i was much younger and i'll always say "Aunty Jane said it is , OR Aunty Jane said we should do it this way." Till today you still find the younger generation say it especially when you want to correct them in their behaviour, acts, attitudes, pronounciation, and much more. Truely, amending Nigeria is in our hands. LET THE LABOURS OF OUR GERMS PAST NEVER BE IN VAIN. SO HELP US GOD!

BEAUTIFUL!!! *ROUND OF APPLAUSE*


[size=3pt]funny name though, lol[/size]

wait. so did you say his location originally was Osun State? now he changed it to S/L Lagos?
im confused.

nice schools, what they ALL SHOULD look like.


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she is our future
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domorehill:
The truth again, Am sorry if i was too harsh on the black sisters earlier on (Part 1), it is because it is the holy truth, Tiger Woods must have had firsthand experience growing up as a young man with black sisters in American and now want nothing to do with them and their greedy fingers, we do have some good God fearing African sisters anyway and i am very lucky to be married to one of them( my lovely wife ), but the Greedy ones outnumber the true holy Negro sister, sister if you treat a brother wrong ,well when he is made and doing well he have nothing to do with you.
A viewer ( Mud smasher ) was right when he said they did ask for 500 Naira MTN card and lots of shopping and gifts if Tiger Woods toasted a Nigeria chic, too bad, it is true, our sister need to change, most of them are out there in the street doing all kinds of poo the world over, with greedy sick altitude and they blame us the brother for the problems, each time i come home for holiday to Nigeria i just find it sick with the vulture eating sisters and their cheap money game plan, Bobby Brown got married to Whitney Houston and his music career was over, if Tiger Wood had married a Black lady he would have stopped playing golf 8 years ago, look at what they did to our brother the late music Legend star Fela,well what of music icon 2 Face, they all got pregnant for him.

first of all, how do you know where he was raised? so all black women are greedy? what about those gold-digging white women that marry all these men for their money and even sometimes kill (ive watched too many episodes of "Snapped" over life insurance? what is the difference? just because SOME black women may be more blunt about it?
so i see no difference here than the color of their skin.
second of all, is there any differnce in asking for 500 MTN cards or gifts than asking for money and giving your "services" ?? ehh?
i really dont see the difference here, cause those girls Tiger slept with were OBVIOUSLY PAID!!
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE?
third of all, what is the difference between their "sick money game plan" than the chicks roaming the streets in Las Vegas?
there are gold-digging women EVERYWHERE in EVERY part of the world.
one should not be defined as being better based on the color of their skin, cause thats the only difference i see here.
Bobby Brown? wtf? lolol!!!! wack comparison!!!!
he was on crack and he ALMOST ended Whitney's career. thank God she came back and is looking beautiful again.
he ruined his OWN damn singing career, not a black woman. or you must blame the "black woman" right?
2face ruined his own life if he cant keep his thing in between his legs (TUCKED AWAY!!)
and what is all this animosity towards black women? huh??
i see a self hating dog in the house.

rhymz:
Same ol shyt and same ol peepz. . .am bored.

who is that in the pic? i know thats not you. lol
and what is he holding?!?!
i hope its not what i think it is.
or is that your twin brother?

Krissykriss:
Amaka>I did it 4 u girls. I'll get 2 change it wheneva someone else thinks something different. Till then, y'all kip wonderin. I'm luvin it

you just sound more and more guilty by the day.
and if you really arent TheSeeker, youre doing a hell of a job proving otherwise.
i would just stop now if i were you.

@ plat
did you see what TheSeeker updated his profile to?
check the signature and the picture caption. OMG OMG OMG!!
so its obvious he is lurking on NL somewhere, or he plans to come back.
who knows, he might even try and come back like a female or something.

you can always tell when someone is gossiping about someone cause they usually change their town and have a certain expression on their faces.
ive seen enough of that in my lifetime to know this.
hm!

some of these pictures are just so sad!!
the primary school my mom attended (which is basically right next to my house in the village) looks 100 times better than all of these schools. kai!!
even the high school about a half a mile down looks soooooo much better.
and when i was there i didnt even think those schools looked that great they were okay. 
i guess i didnt see anything yet. 
i really feel for those kids, i didnt know it was THAT BAD!!
REALLY? WITH ALL OUR OIL MONEY? REALLY?!?!!?!?!?!
DAMN DAMN DAMN!!!!!!! 

Patience Ozokwor aka Mama G - Iyo Ngwo Ngwo
_{*my favorite mama g song after "National Moi-Moi" *}
i can jam to this all day!! funny song too.
lol @ tonto dike at 6:03 hahahahaha 

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i knew someone would come in here with a "hating" comment.
lol
and i bet he's "cool" based on his looks right? or i know we arent talking about his acting here, are we? LOLOLOL!!!
please, lets be honest here, he cant act for shizz.
have you watched any of his movies at all? dont you ever get tired of watching the same crap he acts in all the time? crying and being heartbroken or getting married and cheating, yawn yawn yawn. . .
tell me one challenging role that he did (and did well) in which he deserved the award over better candidates like mike ezuronye, majid michel, and possibly even desmond. 

Epi:
going around in every section, clicking and reading the member of the year thread talk about being nosey . Next up Culture

OMG!!! REALLY??
thats exactly what i did about 2 hours ago!! lolol