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They were too peaceful this week

1Sharon:
So why is it that when women say this exact same statement, men get defensive?

It seems to me because the woman is over 30, you think she should just accept any alternative.

Men approach women solely based on looks.

I am the one Saying it myself so I don't know those who get defensive. It's common sense.aand also I didn't say she should accept any alternative because she's 30.The guy is not any alternative, he is doing well finances, talented and has many other good qualities which the girl also attested to.Her only problem is him not being very handsome and that is it.

1Sharon:
Women are also visual. Learn that.

If she had rejected him for not being rich enough, you'd still have something to say.

To be honest I have no qualms with that.A guy should get his finances in order before proposing. I mean you don't have to be a millionaire but you should be doing well So I can't fault a girl for rejecting such a person who isn't doing well

pansophist:
You can't force her to see value where she can't, or don't want to see value in. As far she knows the consequences/benefits of her actions, just let her be.

You should accept that freedom of choice also means freedom to make bad choice. She will be the one to live with him, not you. It's her life. Leave her alone.

No one is disturbing her of course. But when someone over looks a good man simply because he is not very handsome,then good luck to her

Ok now it looks like the reason these houseguest were sent there is to go and warn the overly dramatic housemates and the controversial ones.But the warning must have been don't off camera

pansophist:
If by education, you are using it interchangeably as schooling, then you got it wrong.

I know an 18-year-old girl who is smarter than lots of university degree holders. Being educated is mostly having common sense, using it well, and living in the real world.

A lady who didn't attend university but is a good woman and gives you peace is better than the grammarian with high heels, who works in a law firm, and her so-called education has made her troublesome and unsubmissive.

The same applies to men. I have this family friend who should have married a very good man about 12 years ago. She rejected him because his accent was too igbotic.

And I asked, how should an Igbo man speak English again?

Not trying to mock her, but that man was her real husband. He adored and worshipped her, and will do anything for her. That was the first time I had seen a man cry, begging like a criminal for a woman's love.

But as a girl in her prime, she saw no value in him and was waiting for her prince charming. 12 years later, she is still single, and once confessed that rejecting that guy was her biggest mistake.

Even if she didn't confess, we all know it's her biggest mistake, because the guys that are doing shakara for her now, aint even worthy of cleaning the shoes of the guy she rejected.

I can understand if you rejected someone for valid reasons such as a different belief system, irresponsibility, already married, etc., but because of his accent? come on. He lived in eastern Nigeria, so it's normal to have an igbotic accent.

So please, don't reject people for stupid reasons. I personally reject people for their character. That is something you can change. I consider it an insult to myself to be with someone who wants to buy your market with fake currency.

You bring honesty, giving, care, love, presence, attention, etc. to them, but they bring deceit, manipulations, lies, chameleons, and all kinds of dark tactics. Just because you sheathed your sword, they think you don't have or can't use it.

Whatever.

What of a girl in her 30s who still rejects men for not being handsome, despite being good and wonderful men?She says physical qualities is super important to her

fitzmayowa:

Multichoice already said the evictions go carry weight meaning multiple people will go.Everybody can see the house is too full since they added 4 houseguest and they have to correct that.4 will be okay

I don't mind them evicting 5 today.House dey too full.Dstv don sey e go carry weight.And if it's truly to carry weight. 5 would be it.Dont know how they can manage the time with this jury thing though. Maybe big brother would evict some and jury evicts some too

Whether you like it or not, this ilebaye girl has found a way to be trending weekly.What was she doing with prince yesterday? Fighting with him over Nothing. That is generating a big debate now. Hahaha .

Tatiana4u:
Cece’s interest in Ike may be out of spite for Mercy cos if you notice,mercy and Cece have been respecting and avoiding each other.
Isn’t it obvious that Ike’s suddenly become attractive to Mercy because of his friendship with Cece?
She now wants him back so that she can use him for highlights but I wish Ike stays with Cece so that it’d strengthen his game and her fans would vote for him.
Venita has no right to tell Ike what to do because she busy with Adekunle and Ike needs someone to keep him company.
Whitemoney is just being manipulative and bitter about Ike and Cece’s friendship because Cece doesn’t rate him and e pain am!
That’s how he ruined Queen’s game by telling her to slow down.
SMH 🤦‍♀️

The same Whitemoney that has been rejected by bbnaija girls, inside and outside of the house,? Isn't that funny despite being a previous winner. Most of the girls no rate am at all for some reason

CRUISETOPIAVP:
It's simply because viewers nowadays are too emotional. Any small thing, they will be tagging biggie to disqualify even for something that doesn't warrant DQ and be calling housemates evil up and down..

Any scheming is seen as being bitter by the viewers. (Pere and his gang)

You like man too much (Tolanibaj) na wahala..

You are a married man that want to be free with ladies and act like an unmarried man on the show just so you can win the money for your wife and new born baby (frodd) na still another wahala..

Bbn is not a morality show. Game toxicity is allowed (provided it's not a threat to life and can't cause any harm) but viewers think otherwise and multi choice is trying to protect their brand.

They deserve the boring and scripted drama they are going to be getting henceforth especially twitter people. Na them sabi make noise pass.

So the houseguest don accomplish the mission which Multichoice send them? You wonder what their mission was actually. Given the choice of houseguest that entered. Prince na codes guy and now that he has probably told them that Baye is strong , which would have shocked them, i wonder how that is gonna affect the show going forward

Raunchy night

safarigirl:
Lol. Na you no give them permission?

You know normally the housemates are not allowed to discuss what's happening on the outside viz a viz who is strong or not

PegasusSolid:
The houseguests.

They are not permitted to tell them whats happening on the outside now?

PegasusSolid:
Why is Prince trying to help Baye avoid a strike?

Seyi is smiling like a man who lost his entire life savings and assets. He feels he won't even get any deals at all! He should have known better.

The housemates are all openly avoiding Baye's wahala. They now know she's a finalist and possible winner.

How would they know?

ItisHi:
Mugu kissed another man in front of Prince but wants him to commit. Omo the guts!

Na game she dey play baba haha

Gerrard59:
Coming from the clown who lied that Chileans are jumping the fence via Mexico to enter the US?



You think this is 2003 where any donkey can spew gibberish from his anus and every Tom, Dick and Harry would swallow such a lie without questioning it? So sane people should believe mendacious monkeys who lied through their filthy fingers that Chileans who have visa-free access to the US are jumping fences to enter the same US?



IF I ever get to meet you in public, I will call you a liar, no ifs or buts. I don't care who the fvck you are!

I see you on immigration threads a lot. Uk based or US based?You can't possibly be in Nigeria

aremubabs:
Bisola never said that.



On the night when she was a juror, she said she couldn't imagine herself going through all that again.

I think she wasn't called. When they asked her she said " all of us cannot be there Now" which means they can only call a few people and she wasn't among

Threebear:
The fame he got from "lock down" easily the most popular season in the history of bbnaija, what did he do with it?

Don't mind the joker

Rose020897:
Soma has found his in angel? Or cross in Kim?

Soma is on a long thing

Well Kunkle has found his 120m in Vennny
.

Amya:
If someone did what Doyin did for Ilebaye, for me. Defending Ilebaye day and night (when the whole house was against her) Creating enemies because of her in those early day. If someone did for me, they'll earn my loyalty. I blame Doyin for taking bullets for someone and octracising her self in the process. I'm sure she'll learn an important lesson of life that no matter how good you are to someone, they might never be that good to you too. Don't get me wrong, I don't like Doyin and she's generally unlikeable and high-strung. But in this matter, Ilebaye didn't extends grace to her despite her shortcomings. Biggie even adviced Ilebaye to extend grace to Doyin because she was there for her when the whole house was against her

But he also advised her to distance herself from Doyin

Wotowotoman:
Fame for what? Through Big Brother wey lazy youths go just dey insult you for nothing. Which kind fame be that? Person wey no get talent wey talk say he get money, wetin he dey find fame for 🤔

No mind am.Let him be deceiving himself. Fame ko

Doyin moans a lot but she doesn't come across as a likeable person at all attitudinally.Regardless of how she's being castigated for not being beautiful. Beauty is skin deep,but if you don't have it ,you can make up for it by being a wonderful person

EmmyCC:
Kidd may have topped Prince for some weeks because of KiddRica shippers. Now that there's no KiddRica let him top Neo nah.

There's absolutely nothing wrong in him coming to hustle for 120 M. It's just wrong saying he doesn't need the money but he flew all the way from London to Lagos, he schemed to have his co competitors disqualified, he paid BBNaija coins for PMP all just so he could get nearer to the money.

He said he wanted the fame and not the money, but then he already has fame from his season, or he thinks an appearance on Bballstars means more fame

Sanqa:
Then who should we believe? Baye that claims to be a virgin?

I don't know about Ilebaye but Neo exaggerates a lot

Sanqa:
Neo narrated a story of her following him to the toilet at an event, and then she tried to do the nasty. HE REJECTED HER
Do virgins do that?

No dey always believe the Neo guy.He tries to make it sound like all the girls want him.

Godoverevery:
Mr and Mrs Smith on my screen.

Fine boy and Fine girl.


Matured ship.............no drama ......no doing too much.

Just chilling and enjoying each other.

Toy boy or boy toy for Madam Venita

scondy:
Someone had to say this....entertainment...entertainment...wetin soma , Pere, Kidd dey take entertain
..

The kiddrica thing was what helped kidds game then.The antagonism of Whitemoney helped Pere.But they don't have that now and don't really have any game.I believe they are down the pecking order with regards to voting.Somas ship with Angel is helping him a bit,but not that much

Amya:
This week boring die! soma should never be HOH again. Not a single drama in that house of 21 people.

Hes been trumpeting peace in the house. Who says peace is all viewers need?The houseguest too have been totally useless .Things were getting pretty interesting before they came in

Godoverevery:
He was just capping jare. ....he said he dreamt him,mercy,WM where standing in the finale.

Mercy then reply hope isn't eviction and he said no oooo

That fat boy has an overestimated self importance.He really over rates himself. Frodd the simp.Esther go com deal with him now

Tatiana4u:
It’s so sad cos she’s not the worst person on earth but she’s so unlucky with men,coupled with the fact she’s an easy lay and a miss goody two shoes!
Despite her exposure and experiences with men,she keeps making the same mistakes and she’s kinda crude…giving mgbeke vibes
Na she sabi!

Shes always be a local babe despite all the exposure she's got and all that