Worriedman40:
Yes

Do you know why I asked that question?

There is a psychological aspect and a physiological aspect of sex. Now, at first glance, there seems to be nothing wrong with you physiologically (until proven otherwise by a competent doctor). The next thing is to probe your psychology and understand why you are not performing.

One of the commenters on this thread advised you try having sex with someone else. It is a bad advice, but it might be one of the ways to truly determine the root cause and eventual solution to your challenge.

Try another lady that you are attracted to discreetly and find out if you experience the same thing. You don't need to go all the way. Just check if you can get and sustain a proper erection in her presence.

Worriedman40:
Thanks,I am not fat,I am fit,I exercise alot,my wife have problems with other means of sex as she prefers or hopes for penetration alone... atleast for now

Hmmm...

Are you sexually attracted to your wife?

One man's nightmare is another man's reality. Even after a celibate lifestyle. Chai life no balance at all.

If you are fat or have a pot belly, please get rid of it and lose weight. Change your diet and eat not just healthy foods, but testosterone boosting foods. Check if you are pre-diabetic or have any form of insulin resistance, this too can affect sexual performance.

Do not leave your wife, and do not allow her to leave you! Also, explore other ways to have non-penerative sex and sexually gratify your wife. It is not good to enter marriage with sexual ignorance. Please consult a physician before using any sex enhancer, some of them out there can kill you. Hopefully, you will overcome.

They have no choice but to say so. The other option is to admit incompetence or complicity in the malpractices that took place. Heads will roll if they don't put up a spirited defense.

chieveboy:


This would be taking us to another instance of "defenc/attack".

I responded because you mentioned me earlier. After my response, you went all accusative. Any way Sha...

I maintain a single handle here. Cheers!

Your response seemed like you were trying to defend yourself when it was just a simple conversation. Besides, I mentioned you because I have seen your invitation threads before and attended several services through them.

chieveboy:


This is very very interesting.

"Attack", "defence" .

Please where did you see such?

Amazingly it began with a "Hello" and ended with a "Thanks".

I really am lost here.

Is BetterChurch your alternate moniker?

chieveboy:


Hello,

Eckankar does not control people. They are given the freedom to do as they please in terms of sex, marriage, lifestyle and any other life endeavor.

Eckankar teaches you that you have every right to do what you want, but then you must take total responsibility for your action s. After all, we are always held accountable by life wether or not we know it.

The Eckankar website has a FAQ section:

https://www.eckankar.org/explore/faqs/

Thanks.

This is not an attack. Why are you on the defensive?

Anyway, don't bother again

APDominic:
If you can write an MBA Strategic Report, specifically for a Corporate Governance Student Assignment and submit in 2 weeks

Chat me up on 07087086151 immediately.

Note: Chat me with related Samples.

Use chatgpt na!

BetterChurch:
Alright. I recommend you explore www.Eckankar.org

You have not addressed my enquiry

Gentlesoul2021:

Can I connect with you on LinkedIn

Nope

I have some unpopular views that I have expressed here on Nairaland. It is best my identity remains unknown.

BetterChurch:
How far did you research the teaching of Eckankar?

I have attended several services posted online here by @chieveboy. I have not done a thorough deep dive yet. But on first glance, it is not really clear on where you stand concerning some of the issues I mentioned.

BetterChurch:
Yes I am an ECKist (a member of Eckankar, the Path of Spiritual Freedom).

Interesting...

This path is silent on some things.

It is difficult to know the position concerning divorce and remarriage, pre and extra marital (heterosexual) relations, homosexuality, polygamy, abortion and births outside wedlock etc.

BetterChurch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vqi2UUMgpAM

So you are an Eckist?

JASONjnr:


So a good item that passes it's moment of quality standard means that it's still good for consumption?


You lots are irredeemably *..............d.

How can you be consuming something that it's best moment has expired?

Like giving you options for a wife.... But you chose to go for a woman that is 80yrs old. And you claim she's still going to perform as a wife.

Your analogy does not apply here. The explanation was given as it regards food items only. Get some education bro! It's not hard.

falcon01:
Thank you, I thought of that before but now I can confirm, but still I ain't taking anything that has gone above its best before

This is what is advised just to be on the safe side of things.

ponishah:


I know that our doctors and nurses contribute sometimes to patients' death, every sector in the country is like that too.
But, most times patients die quicker than normal because of expired food, drugs and drinks etc.
Yesterday, Easter Monday, I was feeling weak from malaria symptoms; bitter taste bud and low appetite. So I decided to drink milk and malt at night. Because I lost a healthy neighbour last week, that fear made me remember checking the expiry date of the milk, which I had almost opened.
The milk was produced in 04:22 and expiry date is 04:23, to me it had already expired because of our high temperature. I called the customer that sold it to me, and she said she bought them last month. I have told her to destroy them.

A lot of things we buy are expired items and we eat, drink and get complicated health issues. Most of us forget that soft drinks (minerals) and bear have expiry dates, and whole sellers always sell off the drinks that are very close to expiration at give away to retailers.
And World Health Organization should modify the font and positions of expiration dates on products, especially in third world nations.
NAFDAC died with Dora Akunyili, SON is the most corrupt of all.

PLEASE HELP YOURSELVES, ALWAYS CHECK EXPIRY DATES OF ITEMS BEFORE PAYING FOR THEM, OR AT LEAST BEFORE EATING OR DRINKING THEM.
Maybe we should also do a #ENDNAFDAC, #ENDSON ...

mods, na life matter be this o...

There is a very big difference between "Best before date" denoted as BB and expiry date.

Expiry date applies mostly to Pharmaceuticals, biologicals/botanicals and chemical products.

BB date applies mainly to food products and the implications are very different from what we have been led to believe. That a food item has exceeded its best before date does not mean it has totally become unfit for consumption. It basically means that the product should not be expected to meet quality standards after that date.

Roboto11:
They would soon start attacking Pastor Kumuyi.

Did you even watch the video?

Aaronzy:

Good evening fellow nairalanders, please I need to be enlightened...
I am a graduate of medicine and surgery, I would love to proceed to study Clinical Psychology. How can I go about this?

Apply for a masters degree at the University of Ibadan. I believe they have a post graduate programme for this.

dhmore:
Kindly, explain to me the job you ventured in to that made you rich from #1500 to #400k ! I am eagerly waiting my brother! I am a 53 years old married man from Lagos. My WhatsApp line is 08182028332. My name is Mr Akintola Ademola. Thanks & God bless

Bros, what I did was not overnight. I got a job in an industry, improved my skills, gained valuable experience and moved from a small local firm to a bigger international firm in Nigeria within 5yrs.

helinues:


What exactly is una wahala..

I care less about which tribe is mostly affected.

Our Lagos is progressing, that's the real koko

Smh!

DenreleDave:


Do we have to go tru email?

Can u send a what's app msg.

My number is in the quote u gave me

Strictly email

DenreleDave:


Chat me up for the TV.

Hmmm... ok

DenreleDave:


Cud u pls help me clear ur comment or just remove mine?

Pls

Why?

25k. Last price

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Hope it's not GNLD and MLM jobs you are referring to?!

You need to start small and grow. This appears to be the challenge. You want big salary.

I started job hunting in 2018. I got paid N1,500 daily for my first gig. Now I am earning over 400k as take home after tax . Start small and grow. This Uyo thing no gell at all.

IRuinUrDay:


This is not advice, Bro. I have been sitting at the same place since December 2018 till now without a good job. Just from hand to mouth and you're advising I continue sitting there?

I need suggestions from you guys not for me to continue grinding like hell without success in a place without luck or chance of success.

No serious job seeker uses Jiji as a job search portal. It is filled to the brim with scammers. Going to Uyo na just set up.

You have been looking for job since 2018.

What kind of jobs have you been looking for?

What are your qualifications and how have you been applying?

Have you tried developing the necessary skills to get a job?

These and other questions need answers. I know Nigeria is not easily, but mehn you need proper orientation.

Kewtt:
He's not the president

He might just be planning to be in te nearest future.

Interesting thread. Reading...

IRuinUrDay:


I was in Uyo for 2 weeks and I love the environment and how busy it is. Also, when I check on Jiji, there are more job openings in Uyo than Enugu which was my initial plan.

What's your advice, pls?

You check jiji? Are you for real?!

Better siddon for where you dey.