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Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:57pm On Aug 25, 2009

C2H5OH:
Abi ooooo bros. NA us be the real authentic kokomaster.
LOL @ Tope ehono nie o.
Why thank you, I'm humbled by your praise. You damn right!
Of course I'm miles above and beyond those guguru sellers marching in and out of your hut.

if you want them to remain precious, make sure i don't get a hold of them.
he don tey wwen i dey wan cho pebo

Na only your mouth go kill you. . . . . TOPE!!!! I thought you was a real ~B~

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:50pm On Aug 25, 2009

FL Gators:
@TheSeeker
No worry, omo Osun, I can still see Cuba from here

I heard Fidel Castro is getting better, can you tell us the latest news? wink

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:48pm On Aug 25, 2009

mystikal:
Some of us have been with one woman all our lives, LOL

The one I was with, I buried her 100ft under angry

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=261058.msg4421945#msg4421945 date=1251240134]Who dash acid? grin

I dont like bigging myself up na embarassed

[/quote]Actually he was born a Deluxe 2009. If by after 2009 he's not upgraded, he'll be returned to his basic version; at that stage he'll be acting like a 4 year old grin

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:40pm On Aug 25, 2009

[quote author=TOPE2000! link=topic=261058.msg4421927#msg4421927 date=1251239893]Lol . . . .Even acid knows we are not on the same level tongue

Hehehehehehe . . . . . . . my own boobs are to precious grin

Deflate some1 else's

Nna i dnt have any ex to write anything to . . . . im good cool

[/quote]He's Deluxe 2009, and you're?

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:37pm On Aug 25, 2009

C2H5OH:
Arabirin na your turn I dey wait.

A golden opportunity laced with diamond grin

@Gators, Hawai must be good. It's a great relief to know you're not stuck in Alaska, or you'll be speaking like Palin - but on a second thought, you'll be seeing Russia from your window grin

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:34pm On Aug 25, 2009

C2, it seems TOPE is waiting on you to smarten out your hurt from your ex so she can pounce on you grin

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:32pm On Aug 25, 2009

Killers in processing you say? I don't think so. I was born a killer but I didn't want to do that job because I'll have malaria grin

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:25pm On Aug 25, 2009

C2H5OH:
I thought the same thing you're thinking.

All kinds of alarm bells kept going off in my head.
Like who in their righteous mind would want to go back to a babe like that?

I don't know who'd want to go back to a woman like that. I'd rather be a Revd. Father than date such girl or worst still if I must have a sexual relationship, be a gay.

tubabie:
Especially after the babe claims to be in love with his younger brother

Yes and with a girl like that, I don't mind being a serial killer angry

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:15pm On Aug 25, 2009

C2, am I the only one reading this? Could that have been true? Na wa for some boys oo

Romance › Re: The Most Romantic Thing Your Partner Has Told You? by TheSeeker(m): 8:51pm On Aug 25, 2009

They are too many that if I start to say them, y'all will want to jack her from me.

Romance › Re: If You Got The Chance To . . . by TheSeeker(m): 7:54pm On Aug 25, 2009

unitee:
are you now a woman

Did my statement depict anything like me being a woman? N2D is messing with your brain, I don't blame you grin

Romance › Re: If You Got The Chance To . . . by TheSeeker(m): 7:24pm On Aug 25, 2009

Add Obasanjo and you'll be surprised. If I were a woman, I think I'd for him; makes me wonder how he gets those fine a$$ women at his age. He must have a big kokomycin

Romance › Re: Heartbroken But: by TheSeeker(m): 5:51pm On Aug 25, 2009

Eeeeeyaaaah, pele.

Romance › Re: 'why Is It Always Hard For Me To Get Babe by TheSeeker(m): 5:38pm On Aug 25, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=313375.msg4415959#msg4415959 date=1251158248]why u dey tell the poor guy say God punish am? shey God tell say hin bi shoe marker? tongue

[/quote]You no be person at all

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 5:18pm On Aug 25, 2009

Here present

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 4:56pm On Aug 25, 2009

unitee:
hahahaha The Seeker yesterday he did not go out except when we went out for dinner and I was at his side so lol

OK, look out for the name, Anne Blood on his phone, or better still, Lil' Devil and see what he has to say when you find out grin

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 4:52pm On Aug 25, 2009

~Signing in~

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 4:42pm On Aug 25, 2009

Will do, Your Honor.

Romance › Re: Distance Relationship by TheSeeker(m): 4:21pm On Aug 25, 2009

crazykid:
I’m not about to start an argument with you; but how many partners remain faithful when they are apart?

Whether a distance relationship would work would depend on how long the couples are apart from each other.

Can you tell me that if you win a visa lottery today and travel out for about 3 years; and you start calling and texting your partner for the space of those years can’t really do much? If you ask me, I’d it can’t do much because your presence would be greatly required to keep that relationship going.

And those partners that are closer to each other, how many of them are faithful? Tell me. You want to tell me you don't see the alarming rate at which people cheat? Take NL for instance, do you know how many problems are posted here every week. A distant relationship may as well work as a close one, it depends on your outset about it.

If you already have doubts before starting it then you will have a problem because every time you'll have it at the back of your mind that it wouldn't work, just like you do now.

What about people who were apart from their girlfriends and boyfriends for more than three years for some reasons, and they still got back together, continued their relationship and subsequently got married? What happened to those?

Like I said, it's from what ever angle you see it from. Some people might be very paranoid (which can be understandable sometimes) but I like to look at the brighter side of every situation, much more like successful people have done and still do. Distant relationship is a challenge on its own and only the bravely courageous can thread on that latitude.

You mentioned presence? How can not being present mar a relationship? The relationships that have gone sour, what caused them even when the presence was abundantly there? Why did so many distant relationships worked? How can you explain that? Again I say, it depends on the set of people involved: Their belief, their goal, their maturity, their comfort level and their understanding. Because in closer relationships, you'll still fail if you lack in any of those areas and don't know what you really want. For real though, what does presence have to do that it's suddenly become the most important factor to making a relationship work?

I think the problem with people is that they can't hold tight and peg down their sexual desire hence, they cheat and sleep with someone else and in their minds, they might or might not feel guilty but will try to console themselves that their partner will most definitely be doing the same - that is where the problem lies for others.

Romance › Re: Co- Habitation Is It That Bad? by TheSeeker(m): 3:37pm On Aug 25, 2009

I'll send my sister to jail if she tries it. angry

Romance › Re: Distance Relationship by TheSeeker(m): 3:08pm On Aug 25, 2009

crazykid:
It doesn’t work because people change; love is stronger when both partners are close to each other.

You can’t be living on one end of the earth and be dating a girl from another end of the earth and expect such a relationship to work out; it would never work.

Amazing way you think, so amazing. Now could you kindly tell me/us how many close relationships that has worked out? How many of your friends got married to the boyfriends they had from close-up relationships?

Love is stronger when partners are close? Reallllyyy? Is that right? Lemme see, example of those people who still cheat on their partners? And those who hit their girlfriends too? What's your definition of "stronger love"? Be constructive please!

hbabe:
Not for me. I will not trust any guy to be loyal.

Makes me wonder why and how your non-distant relationship will work; you've got trust issues, work on it.

GEW:
distance/ absence makes the heart grow fonder
what is your explanation for those that makes it work ma? you never know should be your answer cos it works for many people. never say never. like some boys say they would never trust any girl.

Nice one there. I know three friends who had their distant relationships turned to marriage; seriously, we need evaluation. I think most people are concerned more about what the relationship consists of than how to make it work

Romance › Re: Distance Relationship by TheSeeker(m): 2:44pm On Aug 25, 2009

Out of sight, out of mind? That sounds like when you're watching a cat to me. In the first place, when you start a relationship, what are your goals? What do you hope to achieve? What questions do you ask yourself? Personally, do you think you're ready? Relationship bothers on a lot of things - distant or not. Now, are you saying non-distant relationships don't crash even for the dumbest reasons? So does it mean every distant relationship don't work out? I think it's a fair percentage that some distant relationships work as much as non-distant does, and some crash the same way non-distant does; it's all about your approach to the relationship.

The physical, emotional, sexual needs might be there and that's where your commitment, patience, maturity and zeal comes into a great test, and to me, I believe those are the sacrifices for your relationship, which, if undergone will make the relationship a lot stronger when you meet.

Trust is also another quality you don't have to lack if you want to make a distant relationship work. Now, that might be hard depending on how comfortable your partner makes you feel, depends on how often you communicate - but you see, that's why communication is good in every kinds of relationships; it bridges the gap and fills the vacuum- the more you get to talk to each other, the more you know about each other, the more you appreciate . . . then, the expectation that you're going to meet is something that gives your heart a rush, it makes you want to go on.

Now, I'm not saying there aren't disadvantages, there may be too many and that's predicated on your worries. There's a lot that can be told from people's expressions than they can talk about; for instance, some people can aptly tell someone's feelings from the look in their eyes, that may not exactly happen in a distant relationship - the decipher of expression, that is.

It gives some people the power, freedom to cheat (for ardent cheats). You don't know who he/she hangs out with, you don't know what they do, only what you're told. You're left to judge the rest by your instincts or simply believing that person - but trust can equally put that fear out, but that's not to rule out the possibility that some people are cheaters.

But then come to think of it, in non-distant relationships, don't these things happen? People lie, cheat, do whatever they want at their partners' back and still claim to love them while in contrast, people involved in long distance relationships still love each other, and better yet than non-distant relationships, trust and are honestly open to each other.

My opinion is, relationships work out the way you want it to - if the both of you want it to work the perfect way (your goal determines what you want), you can make the choice and work towards it. Give it your best shot and stay real and true to yourself and your partner and everything else will be cool. Be focused. The same applies to all relationships, but distant ones have just a little tone to them.

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 2:07pm On Aug 25, 2009

unitee:
its OK my dear I got it
eish am becoming too protective I can see lol

I saw him telling another woman he loves her yesterday at a mall. . . watch out!

Nairaland General › Re: Pictures Of Nairaland Members by TheSeeker(m): 2:00pm On Aug 25, 2009

Me? I just posted my pic - oh, you want another version?

Romance › Re: How Do U Fix This? by TheSeeker(m): 1:57pm On Aug 25, 2009

Oh boy!!!! I dey waka commot abeg angry

Romance › Re: Nairalanders Stoped The Sucide. by TheSeeker(m): 1:40pm On Aug 25, 2009

I think this is a formal appreciation letter to NLanders.

Nairaland General › Re: Pictures Of Nairaland Members by TheSeeker(m): 1:34pm On Aug 25, 2009

Thank you. Spread the word!!

Romance › Re: Can You Marry Such A Girl? by TheSeeker(m): 1:33pm On Aug 25, 2009

30 men? So what?

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 1:17pm On Aug 25, 2009

Well said, Your Honor

Nairaland General › Re: Pictures Of Nairaland Members by TheSeeker(m): 1:10pm On Aug 25, 2009

sexyLeamon:
nothing, you are just too fine am so drooling over your pic

Don't know about you, but I'm handsome . . . mmmmm. . . Africa's Michael Jackson grin

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 12:47pm On Aug 25, 2009

Citizen tkb417, I will advise that you should be direct with your accusations. Can you do that?

Nairaland General › Re: Pictures Of Nairaland Members by TheSeeker(m): 12:21pm On Aug 25, 2009

Sexyleamon, why now?

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