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Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 11:10pm On Aug 26, 2009
Remii:
That is only Ibadan. like "Segun Segun, Suku nbo yoo sa o lese". (Shegun, Shegun, Chukwu nbo yio sa o lese).

Kini soo, soo suo ni, eran ki laje lana, eran sikin ni, kila ai joko kusin sia ni., lol.
Typical Ibadan really. grin grin
Celebrities › Re: Chris Brown Sentenced In Rihanna Assault Case by TheSeeker(m): 6:52pm On Aug 26, 2009
I hope he really learns from this and be a better man. I refuse to believe his career is ruined; he's still very young and got talents too. Oh well, didn't Britney Spears make a comeback? That's how it is,
Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 5:21pm On Aug 26, 2009
But u cursed my teddies. . .
Maybe I'm speaking with water in my mouth grin. I'll say to you again: cases of your teddy don't hold any credibility or recognition in this honorable court but we (you and me) can address that outside the courtroom and I'll apologize appropriately if the need be.

If I remember correctly, I never cursed your teddies, and how would you have felt if I told you my NIKE sneakers cost more than your life? It'll hurt right? But that's what you exactly said to me when you compared your trashy, bogus and inconsequentially wasteful teddies to my very dearest life. angry angry
Romance › Re: Distance Relationship by TheSeeker(m): 5:09pm On Aug 26, 2009
chidipupay:
I am with you in this side of arguement. Many individual dating now doesn't know the reason why they are dating. the sexual aspect is their main importance. that is why a girl will comfortable tell a guy in a relationship that he is not satisfying her sexual need. infact short distance relationship has higher probability rate of cheaters than long distance relationship, reasons are because both of you feel you see each other daily, material demands involve from both side, sexual desire, old fashioned, there are several excuses many individaul who involves themselves in short distance relationship gives just to cheat on the other
Now you're beginning to understand what I'm saying.
Family › Re: "i Am Been Forced To Marry My Step-mother" by TheSeeker(m): 4:24pm On Aug 26, 2009
spikedcylinder:
Are you sure what you're thinking is what they meant? I'm assuming taking responsiblity is different from marrying.
Assuming that they didn't mean he'd marry her, but in what ways can a 20 year old boy, still a student, assume responsibility over a 47 year old woman? Who needs entitled to the responsibility? She's the step mother and should step aboard and do what's right.

@Poster, by the way, I thought Ekiti was the fountain of knowledge? Now I'm beginning to wonder
Phones › Re: Checking Privated Numbers by TheSeeker(m): 3:37pm On Aug 26, 2009
Nokia E65, Nokia N97, Nokia E71
Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 3:18pm On Aug 26, 2009
Gabry:
But since my job is done and Ive gotten some samples. U guys can continue with your secret love affair! grin
Everything to you is love love love affair. . . . Citizen Gabry, watch it or you'll spend more time behind bars than you anticipated.

@Clerk Plat,
~Confirming I saw the minute~
Events › Re: What Is Your Worst Fear On Your Wedding Day? by TheSeeker(m): 2:51pm On Aug 26, 2009
Let me see! That other girls will be jealous of my wife? Because that day, I'm going to look so good than ever grin
Events › Re: What Type Of Cake For Your Upcoming Birthday? by TheSeeker(m): 2:48pm On Aug 26, 2009
Bring in any type of cake, I'm down for it.
Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:45pm On Aug 26, 2009
No, I mean shut up in the most respectful manner. Sorry if it cuts across to you as an insult.
Romance › Re: I Lost His Number by TheSeeker(m): 2:38pm On Aug 26, 2009
He's your boyfriend and you don't know where he lives? You don't know his friends? Your story is so untrue, or you have been played and now you're singing like a broken CD

Ok, what happened to knowing your boyfriend's number by heart? I know my girlfriend's number off hand as much as I know the spelling of my name
Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:29pm On Aug 26, 2009
Sorry to hear that, Honorable. The storm must have been devastating enough - what more can I say?!

The court is glad you're here safely. I think we might want to make an arrangement to replace your umbrella, don't you think?
Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:21pm On Aug 26, 2009
I sure hope the traffic wasn't cumbersome, Honorable.
Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:03pm On Aug 26, 2009
Gabry:
No way! Im angry with you cause u bullied my teddy the other day!  angry
Citizen Gabry, need I remind you that this is a honorable court that's saddled with the judicial power to preside on matters that has to do, directly or indirectly, with humans? Teddy is none of what we are here for. It's either you have a case to lay on the table or for the sake of sanity in the room, shut up!

Morning Honorable Tubabie wink
Romance › Re: Where Are The Wife Materials Abeg. by TheSeeker(m): 1:40pm On Aug 26, 2009
I believe every woman is good. What you get from women in terms of their behavior, their intelligence, their openness and great commendable characters, solely depends on how you treat them. But you have to understand the fact that women's reaction to their environment is at variance and some might take time to get used to you. . . . I can emphatically tell you some women aren't used to good guys and that's because of the way they've been treated by some other men.

Some have turned to nasty women because they've lost hope in finding the right man, and when they in the past, had given their best but never for once had any of those men reciprocated their gestures. It'll take you a lot of patience to correct the anomaly but when the repair is done, you'll be alright. Also, you don't have to be a perfectionist (there's nothing wrong in trying to be perfect) but don't let it get to your head to the extent that you'd think everyone should be. . . no one is perfect.

So any woman that comes somewhat close to what you're looking for, try her out and make the necessary rectifications and you'll do just fine. However, be the first to lead with that great character and she'll follow suite.
Romance › Re: Our Dirty Little Secrets: Violence Turns Me On. by TheSeeker(m): 1:24pm On Aug 26, 2009
Olusolami, what's wrong with you this morning? Did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed?
Romance › Re: Come And Marry: Why Mugus Fall For It: by TheSeeker(m): 1:17pm On Aug 26, 2009
I'm trying to get a hold of what this means but I can't still get it.
Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 1:04pm On Aug 26, 2009
Morning, Your Honor.

Citizen Gabry, why are you so bent on causing confusion in this honorable court? I advise you slow your roll, copy?

Citizen 190, we're in a judicial setting and only tolerable disputes, which by far can be justified, will be treated fairly and concentratedly here. No death threats, no evil wishes. Let's save the rest for out-of-court activities. Anyway, how's your service going in ABJ?
Nairaland General › Re: Letz Honour Our Ugly Nairalanders by TheSeeker(m): 5:43am On Aug 26, 2009
Let me be the first to be counted. Ugly NLander 1 checking in sad
Romance › Re: Is A Nigerian Man Granted Citizenship If He Gets An American Woman Pregnant? by TheSeeker(m): 4:50am On Aug 26, 2009
mkiecihell:
lol, what do my friends have to do with this?
A word, they say, is enough for the wise.

I'm waiting to see another clueless American woman to come on NL and make some pointless remark about Nigerian men, and I shall gladly get nasty without being apologetic or nice about it. angry
Romance › Re: Is A Nigerian Man Granted Citizenship If He Gets An American Woman Pregnant? by TheSeeker(m): 4:32am On Aug 26, 2009
mkiecihell:
SO when you were having unprotected sex these women did pregnancy not enter your mind? I assume when you "poured" inside of her you were prepared to be a father correct? I'm just saying that he says he does not want kids but he doesn't act like it.
Aren't there contraceptive pills? But tell you what, they wanted to be a safer side than have to look for options later, that was if anything was to have happened. I wasn't ready to be a father and like I said, that was back in those days; now it's a different game plan. He may not want kids, but he may also believe that you can't get pregnant at once? (some foolish myth Nigerian men still reel in).

Some Nigerian men when told of their nice and princely role at hitting the jackpot and getting a woman pregnant at an occasion of an unprotected sex, their usual response is, "how could it be? We only did it once,". Maybe that's not the case with him but he's still living in that illusion that it takes time for a woman to get pregnant. You don't come here to tag everyone as the same and that seems like what MOST American women do and like I suggested earlier, stop talking to those stupid friends of yours.
Romance › Re: Is A Nigerian Man Granted Citizenship If He Gets An American Woman Pregnant? by TheSeeker(m): 3:59am On Aug 26, 2009
mkiecihell:
Of course I've heard of all of the above. Maybe I am being foolish but I've known this man for 3 years and I've been tested since becoming sexually active with him. I do trust that he will not bring me back an STD.  As for birth control I just avoid having sex during my fertile periods.
mkiecihell:
No, I have nothing to hide I just didn't want to sound graphic. But we agreed he would pull out and he didn't. when he finished he pretended to ejaculate in the sheets but he had actually already ejaculated inside me. I asked where he ejaculated at and he said the sheets. I checked when he got up and the sheets were dry and I umm wasn't. I told him that I knew he didn't ejcaulate in the sheets and he lied about it. I said that i would go to get the morning after pill so that I won't get preggo and he told me it was a waste of money. Anyway a week later he told me that he did ejaculate inside of me and i asked him why he lied and he said that never lied.
I don't mean to be insulting but listen to yourself? Do you make sense at all? You talk as if you're a 5th grader. First of all, you've known him for three years but you don't know what kind of man he is? What are you? You're just so stupidly unbelievable. You had the effrontery to have sex with him without condoms and you're asking him to do what, ejaculate on the sheets?

Well, what you said he did is nothing new. I have in the past had sex with girls (who I had tested) without condoms, they'd tell me not to pour it in there but I eventually did and when they ask me, I lied about it or simply keep quiet; I did say a couple of times that I didn't because I think she'd know already and asking me is like pretense or just wanting to know what I'd say. Seriously, that didn't make me a liar and I can't categorize that as a lie. And what's the meaning of having sex without a condom when you know he shouldn't offload into you?

Your accusation and observation hold no water - it makes not even the least of senses.  Look, stop all these misconceptions and concentrate on your relationship if at all it means anything to you and stop talking to those dumb and foolish friends of yours who think they know anything when they can hardly spell their names let alone knowing what goes on in the world of immigration.
Romance › Re: Condom Failure And How To Avoid It by TheSeeker(m): 3:33am On Aug 26, 2009
I'm still trying to grasp what this thread means. What do you think people on this forum are, under 12's?
Romance › Re: Is A Nigerian Man Granted Citizenship If He Gets An American Woman Pregnant? by TheSeeker(m): 3:29am On Aug 26, 2009
[quote author=$osisi link=topic=314882.msg4422521#msg4422521 date=1251253140]This is the most stupid thread in this forum!
How can a Nigerian "be trying" to get you pregnant
are you not a willing participant in the act
How on earth does one try to get another pregnant
Are you a mentally handicapped person in a group home or are we dealing with a capable adult.[/quote][quote author=$osisi link=topic=314882.msg4422523#msg4422523 date=1251253293]what actions?
he bites holes into the condom or takes it off without your knowing?
what exactly is this Nigerian man doing?[/quote]I thought I was being unreasonably upset about this. . . . we're not even enough yet for our powerful and ever chic Nigerian girls, but we always get all these misconceptions each time something goes wrong in our relationships with them. I see she can't tell us what he exactly did.
mkiecihell:
Good question. I don't wanna get into details but he did something deceitful while we were having sex.
I want to assume you have nothing to hide, neither are you lying. We don't know either you nor him; say what ever it is that he did and we can be sure of what you're saying. To me, this sounds like a hoax - you don't seem like you've got anything on him.
Romance › Re: Is A Nigerian Man Granted Citizenship If He Gets An American Woman Pregnant? by TheSeeker(m): 3:13am On Aug 26, 2009
mkiecihell:
Don't get upset, I'm not trying to offend anyone. It just seems that he's trying to be sneaky about getting me pregnant and I'm just trying to figure out why. If it were an american man I was be suspicious as well. of course his motives would be different. maybe this is just his way of trying to tie me down but I'm glad to know it's not for immigration purposes.
So why didn't you just assume that his motives will be the same as that of an American man? I've seen it a lot on this forum, every American woman comes out of nowhere and start pushing this immigration and citizenship status like it's some world record. Well, I don't blame you guys because most Nigerian guys had already dented the name already, but that's not to say any Nigerian that gets married to an American is doing so for immigration reasons, that's insulting.

There are lots of Nigerians who were and still are married to lots of American women and men; they still live happily, why can't you and others look in that direction? My point is if you know you'll start thinking negatively at any unusual act in the relationship, don't attempt it. Personally, I'd feel insulted if a woman I care about thinks I'm in the relationship with her for some other gains - upon confirming that she thinks I have an ulterior motive, I'm out of her life (though I might still love her but I'll get over her with time).

Talk with him, try and understand why he wants you pregnant (if that's his aim), and let him understand the signs you think you may have seen; I'm sure he'll talk to you. His response will either make sense to you, or not.
Romance › Re: What Do You Do When Someone Os Flirting With Ur Guy by TheSeeker(m): 2:51am On Aug 26, 2009
amosexy:
The truth is if you know your worth, you wont even bother .
I care less cos that guy will alwaz come back to me leaving the lady heartbroken.
Learn to make ursef happy even if you know his dating someone else
Talk about it ,make fun of those ladies togther cos that is what keeps mine going.
Only that i pray make dem no go cook egusi soup for am sad
If she chop egusi soup, make you cook okra soup for am. That one go coagulate the previous egusi soup shap shap grin grin
Family › Re: How Long Would You Wait Before Having Kids When You're Married? by TheSeeker(m): 2:40am On Aug 26, 2009
I feel where you're coming from. Believe me, I've always wanted that as some sorta fantasy. You know, enjoy the good ol' boyfriend/girlfriend days and stuffs; it makes it all fun, I guess.

But as it is, I'm not sure women can wait that long when they're already married yet. If my woman can wait for a little more before we start having kids, sure why not? It's fun.
Romance › Re: Is A Nigerian Man Granted Citizenship If He Gets An American Woman Pregnant? by TheSeeker(m): 2:30am On Aug 26, 2009
A Nigerian trying to get you pregnant? I think he's as dumb as the dumbest man in the world, if he's not the dumbest. Getting you pregnant doesn't in any way get him citizenship unless you're both married. I'm not sure what he stands to get, but he can be able to stay in the US for as long as he wants to, either by upping his status or by renewing his visa which will cost him almost nothing. Generally, if he's looking to get citizenship or a resident permit, I don't think this is one of the requirements.

Why I say he's dumb is, if he's trying to get you pregnant for the sake of some citizenship papers, then I doubt he's a Nigerian at all - and if he is, he's the most stupid. I'm sure he knows that child support can wreck even the richest man in the world and there's no way he can escape that when y'all start having problems. It's either he goes to jail, goes bankrupt or he's bundled out the United States.

If he knows immigration rules, I don't think he's trying to get any sort of upgraded residential status in the States, rather I'd advise you talk to him and know what's up with him and I'm sure there lies your answer. If I were your man, and I have no undertone intention, yet, you think this of me, I'll break up immediately.

I'm tired of these lousy people trying to enlist any Nigerian that dates them as wanting citizenship at any discomfort in that relationship . . . why can't you all stick to your AAs and white men, and leave Nigerian men alone? Nonsense! Citizenship ko, heaven's candidacy ni.  angry angry angry
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 2:09am On Aug 26, 2009
In oyo dialect, there's nothing like "sh", it's "s"
Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 1:58am On Aug 26, 2009
Dear Ex,

I'm so paid
Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 12:13am On Aug 26, 2009
netotse:
ah ah. . .today is really boring o, whats happening here?

@galactico
grow a brain bro, first you talk about bombing then you now tell the poor girl to come back to you which one you dey?
you're prolly the type of guy that could threaten a girl just so she wont leave you, .

BTW wots with ppl and sending their friends and relatives to beg for them now?. . .[size=5pt]and they two will now carry their two left legs and go and beg sef![/size]why do you want to know? did he break your heart? grin

@C2H205
when they say one woman that doesnt include your mom o! they actually mean girlfriend


@all
cant sleep so i decided to come and look for trouble
I'm of no doubt you're in the right place to get what you seek. May I introduce you to C2, and N2D. . . I'm sure they both have what you need and in just no time, you'll want to rush and sleep by yourself

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