TheSeeker's Posts
Nairaland Forum › TheSeeker's Profile › TheSeeker's Posts
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 (of 145 pages)
Remii:Typical Ibadan really. ![]() |
I hope he really learns from this and be a better man. I refuse to believe his career is ruined; he's still very young and got talents too. Oh well, didn't Britney Spears make a comeback? That's how it is, |
But u cursed my teddies. . .Maybe I'm speaking with water in my mouth . I'll say to you again: cases of your teddy don't hold any credibility or recognition in this honorable court but we (you and me) can address that outside the courtroom and I'll apologize appropriately if the need be. If I remember correctly, I never cursed your teddies, and how would you have felt if I told you my NIKE sneakers cost more than your life? It'll hurt right? But that's what you exactly said to me when you compared your trashy, bogus and inconsequentially wasteful teddies to my very dearest life. ![]() |
chidipupay:Now you're beginning to understand what I'm saying. |
spikedcylinder:Assuming that they didn't mean he'd marry her, but in what ways can a 20 year old boy, still a student, assume responsibility over a 47 year old woman? Who needs entitled to the responsibility? She's the step mother and should step aboard and do what's right. @Poster, by the way, I thought Ekiti was the fountain of knowledge? Now I'm beginning to wonder |
Nokia E65, Nokia N97, Nokia E71 |
Gabry:Everything to you is love love love affair. . . . Citizen Gabry, watch it or you'll spend more time behind bars than you anticipated. @Clerk Plat, ~Confirming I saw the minute~ |
Let me see! That other girls will be jealous of my wife? Because that day, I'm going to look so good than ever ![]() |
Bring in any type of cake, I'm down for it. |
No, I mean shut up in the most respectful manner. Sorry if it cuts across to you as an insult. |
He's your boyfriend and you don't know where he lives? You don't know his friends? Your story is so untrue, or you have been played and now you're singing like a broken CD Ok, what happened to knowing your boyfriend's number by heart? I know my girlfriend's number off hand as much as I know the spelling of my name |
Sorry to hear that, Honorable. The storm must have been devastating enough - what more can I say?! The court is glad you're here safely. I think we might want to make an arrangement to replace your umbrella, don't you think? |
I sure hope the traffic wasn't cumbersome, Honorable. |
Gabry:Citizen Gabry, need I remind you that this is a honorable court that's saddled with the judicial power to preside on matters that has to do, directly or indirectly, with humans? Teddy is none of what we are here for. It's either you have a case to lay on the table or for the sake of sanity in the room, shut up! Morning Honorable Tubabie ![]() |
I believe every woman is good. What you get from women in terms of their behavior, their intelligence, their openness and great commendable characters, solely depends on how you treat them. But you have to understand the fact that women's reaction to their environment is at variance and some might take time to get used to you. . . . I can emphatically tell you some women aren't used to good guys and that's because of the way they've been treated by some other men. Some have turned to nasty women because they've lost hope in finding the right man, and when they in the past, had given their best but never for once had any of those men reciprocated their gestures. It'll take you a lot of patience to correct the anomaly but when the repair is done, you'll be alright. Also, you don't have to be a perfectionist (there's nothing wrong in trying to be perfect) but don't let it get to your head to the extent that you'd think everyone should be. . . no one is perfect. So any woman that comes somewhat close to what you're looking for, try her out and make the necessary rectifications and you'll do just fine. However, be the first to lead with that great character and she'll follow suite. |
Olusolami, what's wrong with you this morning? Did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed? |
I'm trying to get a hold of what this means but I can't still get it. |
Morning, Your Honor. Citizen Gabry, why are you so bent on causing confusion in this honorable court? I advise you slow your roll, copy? Citizen 190, we're in a judicial setting and only tolerable disputes, which by far can be justified, will be treated fairly and concentratedly here. No death threats, no evil wishes. Let's save the rest for out-of-court activities. Anyway, how's your service going in ABJ? |
Let me be the first to be counted. Ugly NLander 1 checking in ![]() |
mkiecihell:A word, they say, is enough for the wise. I'm waiting to see another clueless American woman to come on NL and make some pointless remark about Nigerian men, and I shall gladly get nasty without being apologetic or nice about it. ![]() |
mkiecihell:Aren't there contraceptive pills? But tell you what, they wanted to be a safer side than have to look for options later, that was if anything was to have happened. I wasn't ready to be a father and like I said, that was back in those days; now it's a different game plan. He may not want kids, but he may also believe that you can't get pregnant at once? (some foolish myth Nigerian men still reel in). Some Nigerian men when told of their nice and princely role at hitting the jackpot and getting a woman pregnant at an occasion of an unprotected sex, their usual response is, "how could it be? We only did it once,". Maybe that's not the case with him but he's still living in that illusion that it takes time for a woman to get pregnant. You don't come here to tag everyone as the same and that seems like what MOST American women do and like I suggested earlier, stop talking to those stupid friends of yours. |
mkiecihell: mkiecihell:I don't mean to be insulting but listen to yourself? Do you make sense at all? You talk as if you're a 5th grader. First of all, you've known him for three years but you don't know what kind of man he is? What are you? You're just so stupidly unbelievable. You had the effrontery to have sex with him without condoms and you're asking him to do what, ejaculate on the sheets? Well, what you said he did is nothing new. I have in the past had sex with girls (who I had tested) without condoms, they'd tell me not to pour it in there but I eventually did and when they ask me, I lied about it or simply keep quiet; I did say a couple of times that I didn't because I think she'd know already and asking me is like pretense or just wanting to know what I'd say. Seriously, that didn't make me a liar and I can't categorize that as a lie. And what's the meaning of having sex without a condom when you know he shouldn't offload into you? Your accusation and observation hold no water - it makes not even the least of senses. Look, stop all these misconceptions and concentrate on your relationship if at all it means anything to you and stop talking to those dumb and foolish friends of yours who think they know anything when they can hardly spell their names let alone knowing what goes on in the world of immigration. |
I'm still trying to grasp what this thread means. What do you think people on this forum are, under 12's? |
[quote author=$osisi link=topic=314882.msg4422521#msg4422521 date=1251253140]This is the most stupid thread in this forum! How can a Nigerian "be trying" to get you pregnant are you not a willing participant in the act How on earth does one try to get another pregnant Are you a mentally handicapped person in a group home or are we dealing with a capable adult.[/quote][quote author=$osisi link=topic=314882.msg4422523#msg4422523 date=1251253293]what actions? he bites holes into the condom or takes it off without your knowing? what exactly is this Nigerian man doing?[/quote]I thought I was being unreasonably upset about this. . . . we're not even enough yet for our powerful and ever chic Nigerian girls, but we always get all these misconceptions each time something goes wrong in our relationships with them. I see she can't tell us what he exactly did. mkiecihell:I want to assume you have nothing to hide, neither are you lying. We don't know either you nor him; say what ever it is that he did and we can be sure of what you're saying. To me, this sounds like a hoax - you don't seem like you've got anything on him. |
mkiecihell:So why didn't you just assume that his motives will be the same as that of an American man? I've seen it a lot on this forum, every American woman comes out of nowhere and start pushing this immigration and citizenship status like it's some world record. Well, I don't blame you guys because most Nigerian guys had already dented the name already, but that's not to say any Nigerian that gets married to an American is doing so for immigration reasons, that's insulting. There are lots of Nigerians who were and still are married to lots of American women and men; they still live happily, why can't you and others look in that direction? My point is if you know you'll start thinking negatively at any unusual act in the relationship, don't attempt it. Personally, I'd feel insulted if a woman I care about thinks I'm in the relationship with her for some other gains - upon confirming that she thinks I have an ulterior motive, I'm out of her life (though I might still love her but I'll get over her with time). Talk with him, try and understand why he wants you pregnant (if that's his aim), and let him understand the signs you think you may have seen; I'm sure he'll talk to you. His response will either make sense to you, or not. |
amosexy:If she chop egusi soup, make you cook okra soup for am. That one go coagulate the previous egusi soup shap shap ![]() |
I feel where you're coming from. Believe me, I've always wanted that as some sorta fantasy. You know, enjoy the good ol' boyfriend/girlfriend days and stuffs; it makes it all fun, I guess. But as it is, I'm not sure women can wait that long when they're already married yet. If my woman can wait for a little more before we start having kids, sure why not? It's fun. |
A Nigerian trying to get you pregnant? I think he's as dumb as the dumbest man in the world, if he's not the dumbest. Getting you pregnant doesn't in any way get him citizenship unless you're both married. I'm not sure what he stands to get, but he can be able to stay in the US for as long as he wants to, either by upping his status or by renewing his visa which will cost him almost nothing. Generally, if he's looking to get citizenship or a resident permit, I don't think this is one of the requirements. Why I say he's dumb is, if he's trying to get you pregnant for the sake of some citizenship papers, then I doubt he's a Nigerian at all - and if he is, he's the most stupid. I'm sure he knows that child support can wreck even the richest man in the world and there's no way he can escape that when y'all start having problems. It's either he goes to jail, goes bankrupt or he's bundled out the United States. If he knows immigration rules, I don't think he's trying to get any sort of upgraded residential status in the States, rather I'd advise you talk to him and know what's up with him and I'm sure there lies your answer. If I were your man, and I have no undertone intention, yet, you think this of me, I'll break up immediately. I'm tired of these lousy people trying to enlist any Nigerian that dates them as wanting citizenship at any discomfort in that relationship . . . why can't you all stick to your AAs and white men, and leave Nigerian men alone? Nonsense! Citizenship ko, heaven's candidacy ni. ![]() |
In oyo dialect, there's nothing like "sh", it's "s" |
Dear Ex, I'm so paid |
netotse:I'm of no doubt you're in the right place to get what you seek. May I introduce you to C2, and N2D. . . I'm sure they both have what you need and in just no time, you'll want to rush and sleep by yourself |
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 (of 145 pages)

