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Kobojunkie:
Why didn't the stranger include his number or contact?

you can be that stranger .we all should be that stranger to others

TO WHO IT MAY CONCERN (All of US)


First off, I don't know if this is the right place to post at all. But this really clicked with me and made me change perspective on my depression problem and made me feel a lot better so I wanted to share it.

I've always felt like I was not in my place when I was happy, something was off. For some reason I felt better sad. There was something in me that didn't fully wanted to be happy. And I thought that it was a problem. It was probably from all that sad music I was listening to right? I must be some kind of little bitch emo poser edgy millennial kind of motherfucker and I just don't want to admit it to myself.

And then I randomly stumbled upon this Quora post, and it really changed the way I see things. It explained perfectly the things I was feeling without being able to put words on it.

So here you go:

Since sadness in my eyes has a lot of power I want to start by saying: I like being sad too … why? It’s an extremely powerful emotion!

When I got depressed for the first time I was surprised by how powerful it was, the sadness I felt. More powerful than any joy, or love, or anything else I had felt before. It took over every part of me and left me feeling empty and calm, something I rather enjoyed, since being happy and successful and so on so forth, felt overwhelming and more of an effort than a place I’d like to stay. Maybe all that is because of a hard childhood or difficult family, I don’t know. But sadness felt like truth and joy felt like the biggest lie on earth …

I read through the answers and it took hard that almost every single person said that you only like it because you’re used to it and even though that MIGHT be true, I certainly don’t think that is the only reason to like sadness or any other negative emotion. I have tried liking joy and excitement and all that shit, but sadness and (emotional) pain really resonates with me.

To make it simple I see it like this: I’d rather be a sad person learning and always being pushed to the next place, than being a blindly happy person who always tries to keep it up.

I’ve had so much clarity from moments of despair, I have had some of my strongest feelings of freedom after a good long cry or panic. Without all the pain I have been through, I wouldn’t experience joy like I do today, my eyes wouldn’t water when there is beauty, love or just a glimpse of hope somewhere. Sadness has made me a more honest person and given me a life of contrast, which I wouldn’t give up, not even for a constant smile and a happy life.

I am not saying, go ahead and be sad all your life because it is great, all I want to point out is that pain and sadness isn’t the enemy, in a balanced life, it might be what gives you freedom, clarity and reason to keep going, not only when things are great!

Hope it helps!



Dominatrix

Random Acts of Stanger kindness :
Know I would rather listen to your story ,than attending your funeral and listen to others tell me your story .

DoctorDree:
It could be suicide it could be murder

you don't commit suicide and tie your hands behind your back , or tie your hands at all.

Mayazez:
Nigeria is a failed nation.. so don't be surprised

I don't understand the smiling at this?

Nilx:
Well, I DGAF in real life and I want it to be that way till eternity but here are some few problems;

Often than not I have always caught people talking shit about me at my back and the only thing I alway do is to pretend not to hear them because I don’t see how that going to affect me either directly or indirectly and any day it does, then that would be a different ball game...

So, how do you react when you catch people talking shit about you?

wow , I hate to admit it but I'll react immediately . usually in the vilest of manner .

Hmmm

Rydermaverick:
That was why I said "little"

exactly why I said ''poison ''.

Rydermaverick:
In case you don't know there is a "little" difference between shoplifting and theft..

as long as its taking something that does not belong to you its theft making her a thief , shoplifters are thrives , bag snatchers are theives , cable collectors are thieves, pick your poison

Karemarealty288:
Haba.....Maybe she is a Stripe dancer.

nope she's a thief!

Bruno3000:
Rubbish. Backside full of poo And the same backside don send many to their graves o. A whole backside full of poo.

I truly hope you are not an adult , and if you are I hope you don't teach kids in any way or form.

Ammishaddai:
First it was Sokoto, and now it is hometown of the deputy speaker of Borno. Chai...I am so happy. We really need to see more of this so that in 2023 , the idiots in Borno will vote for someone who has their intrest

you are happy?

Morah1:
The Rivers State Police Command has, on Tuesday, recovered the carcass of a retired army captain reportedly killed and buried in a shallow grave by his abductors at Igbo Etche in Rivers State.


Read more >> http://citynewsph.com/news/police-recovers-decomposed-remains-of-army-captain-killed-and-buried-in-shallow-grave-in-etche/

Carcass is the dead body of an animal.
Good news though let the forensics investigations begin.

Bombastically00:
You need help

will you help?or....

Names like David , Glory , James are not Nigerian names .
NOr are names like Taiwo , Bashorun , Apors not baptimisal


I don't see how they correlate.

You started well but the end question is another topic in entirety from your initial topic

UndauntedYOCA:
Strange I never got to see them though? I doubt they're everywhere in Morocco or maybe... NVM.


Nature is indeed beautiful and full of surprises!

probably not everywhere , goats are natural climbers though , the best even , climbing almost vertical cliffs

Kudos to everyone putting sports for head.

Dyt:
116 New COVID-19 Cases, 65 Discharged And 3 Deaths On November 6


https://www.facebook.com/100064649291568/posts/249776787187296/


https://www.facebook.com/100064649291568/posts/249777347187240/

Morning Dyt.

Iliveforever:
The truth is that satan is really and seriously working very hard this period...

Only JESUS CHRIST CAN SAVE THIS PERIOD

why this period ?

Truvelisback:
Mamagee3, u are Beautiful. Good night.

Awesome!

This your both bits fights above is very unnessesary and crude.

Bluntguy:
Like double weed smokers, he is liable to die young.

Come Slawomir, no try that nonsense.

double weed smokers ?

Mass Insomnia,
How did me get to evolve with technology, , only in just a couple of centuries we humans have literilly transformed the world we were meant to evolve with .its amazing how phones are closer to us than dogs laptop and cars ,even friends

Fucking lucking generation you lots

What happens when social media sites go down?
In a word: panic.

We have grown so used to being connected via social networks that their constant supply is as important as electricity and oxygen for some people. The response tends to combine outrage, fear and humor.



Some see it as the end of the world

Smart girl too.

FVckbubuDcow:
You're obviously a psychopath.

A normal person won't be searching for bad news all over the internet.

'normal people' ?
What do they search on the internet even?

Good morning

..n