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Love96:
Explain more on this one.

In addition to the explanation posted by Jessepaid, the statement is also a parable.

The words "fast women" in the sentence can be said to mean spending your resources extravagantly on women and bitches while the words "slow horses" can be said to mean about your profits, results or progress being slow.

Its like a man who haven't achieved anything or whose progress is moving slowly while still spending the little resources he has on women or things that confers him no benefits.

Junnior:
I think some people here have mentioned that they don't date or go on dates.

I was just wondering, how then do you roll with new ladies you meet? Kindly explain

Cc skepticus, martinez39s, CaveAdullam, luminouz, bloodysperm, zabiboy, dierich5, undercover, mjbolt, ikillbrokegirls, sozinn, etc.

@Junnior, when did I tell you I don't go on dates? LOL!

LOL! I go out with ladies sparingly, but that particular lady would have invested in it too. The bills sometimes are taken care off by them or I handle 60% of it. It would also be for my convenience not theirs. There's nothing wrong with going on dates bro, sometimes its not about the date itself, its about what constituted to the date and how the date went. You have to chill out sometimes too. Don't take life too seriously bro, you ain't getting out alive.

BLOODYSPERM:
Ancient even modern gynocentrism is a major correlative and contributing factor in the decline of any civilization, not necessarily it's causation as other factors accelerates the decline of Societies also , how many ancient matriachial societies still exists today, even if they exist are they super- power, popular, dominating and influencing other cultures

You write very well, and besides, I haven't seen your refreshing posts in a while. We can never stop learning, just post anything that would be beneficial when you are less busy. Thanks.

These are good points raised, nice one. I maybe mistaken, but there's nothing wrong with having more than one wife according to the Bible. Even Abraham had more than 1. Monogamy is the reason why most married men decides to keep side chicks or engage in adultery instead of marrying another.

Also, the importance of both gender in the child's life cannot be overemphasized. If everyone decides to keep having baby mamas, you can picture how upcoming generations is going to be.

@OP, you raised a good point and the second poster too. For a rich or able person, polygamy works best, for a poor person, there are limitations. Sometimes, the issue of domestic violence is mostly associated with people in monogamous relationships. On competition, women needs someone to compete with, it makes it more interesting. If she knows you have no options, she will become complacent.

Sometimes, I don't blame the men that decides to have baby mamas though, the world is rapidly changing. These hoes ain't loyal. Most people are settling for less in marriages. For the men, they are settling for damaged women/non-virgins/typical modern women and for the women, they are settling for fraudsters, deadbeats etcetera.

In most cases, the male figures in their lives render them help. Women are very stingy when it comes to money. They might not be inclined to help if they don't have something to gain from it and they might insult you with it when things go wrong.

Lordcassy:
The total dominance of china and the fall of USA will reset everybody brain.

Bro, a whole text can be written on this line alone. I love the angle you're coming from.

I rest my case.

@Lordcassy, this is absolutely brilliant, if men don't take full control of the situation ASAP, we will be at the receiving end of things.

Take Nigeria for example, being an homosexual is not supposed to even be a thing in this country, see where the results led us. In some Islamic countries, if its discovered that you're a homosexual, you'll be killed for it. You can't even come out openly portraying indecency, nonsensical ideologies, degrading activities etcetera. Sometimes to have peace, you have to be capable of great evil. Homosexuals are now even fighting for their rights, what a country? This was the beginning of other country downfall too, same thing with feminism. You have to exterminate evil as soon as it emerge. Don't give it breathing space.

Remember when President Muhammad Buhari told his wife that she shouldn't meddle into politics, that her job is in the kitchen and the other room, this is how women in Islam are trained. They are trained to submit totally to their husband and leaders which are men. This has kept them in check and the society at large. It's still easier to put men in check, but women sometimes needs absolute restriction to lot of things.

Now, both men and women can come out openly as homosexuals, wear indecent clothes, portray nudity online, support premarital sex, baby mamas, support feminism, and 'people' will say they have the right to do so, and we are surprised how the generation is declining, why should we? The laws in Nigeria are just for viewing sake, its not being upheld.

Now, some Islamic countries too are now giving their women some freedom to do some things and they started abusing that freedom which made them rescind the decision. If men are not the dominant sex to uphold strong laws and final say in a country or society, that society/country will burn.

Like I said we are in the generation of weak men who don't want to stand for anything and we are expecting changes, how will it happen?

Eyiwunmi33:
What if both are combined, won't it become and added advantages?

Of course, it can be combined. But don't forget, being cunning is fluid, not static. It all depends on the situation.

Gone are the days when kids were safe. At that age, kids will get confused and more exposed and might also affect them psychologically. The world is rapidly changing in a negative direction.

kokaneprodigy:
For me I will tell you how much I earn while dating, I will make it look like an accident either via a fake phone conversation with HR where she can hear me or deliberately leaving my pay slip carelessly for her to find it. Then carefully watch what she does with that information.
It has saved me from leeches pretending to be wife materials.

I always do this like 6 months into the relationship.

Hmm, another POV though. Just be cautious.