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MJBOLT:

That's why it was written that,

Men control civilisation, women control men. Men conquer worlds, women conquer men.

We are in a generation of feminized men and masculinized women. Cool isn't?

adampedia:
@TheUndercover, Dpsychologist and other great redpillers, I want to notify you of something I observed;
There are these two OAPs @NigeriaInfo 99.3 FM Lagos that are seriously pushing the feminism idea and are great supporter of the feminist coalition grpup - Joyce Onyemuwa & Sandra Ezekwesili. The former do hear a programme she called confession Thursday, where people(sometimes men and women that are elderly as her grandparents) are meant to be exposing their secret and washing their dirty linen in public whilst she gives her verdict on their predicament to the extent that some will be crying.

The latter just held a conference she called The Glass Ceiling Convention and everything about it was how women will take political power. What amazes me are the certified simps(men, fathers, grandfathers) that call to the show to support them and even affirm that they are doing a great work. Those that oppose them sometimes are even females thanks to @Aigbe from festac and the likes. If you do listen to Nigeria info Lagos you must know her.

I stand to be corrected on the allegations I levelled against them if it's not so, but that's what I can decipher since listening to their programme.
I'ld like to hear from nairalanders that know this two ladies to talk about them and their feminism creed. That Joyce do feel pompous and thinks she knows every aspect of things. The way she shuns callers on her show is dimwit. Heard she did psychology.

Hmm, I don't know about the station, but unfortunately, feminism has crept into our society and it's not going to end anytime soon, that's the harsh reality.

It's not just starting and they have some notable figures in the society backing them up.

Skepticus:
The quote is the foundation on what a healthy traditionally-conservative relationship/marriage is built on.

A man should be firm in leadership when it comes to relationship with his complementary but submissive partner. When the man fails in this, by not providing adequate leadership in the relationship, letting his woman get away with bad behaviours, or letting her indulge in pleasures and freedom over responsibility in the name of being "woke" or "liberal", he sets himself up for disrespect and even, marital failure.

A woman who can't be submissive to the sensible leadership that a man brings, radiating masculine vibes (lacks feminity) or being exposed to post-modernist liberal and feministic ideas (which is "knowing far too much " ) is "chaotic" and most likely, be a disaster in permanent relationship with a man who seeks a complementary, submissive partner.

Thank you so much Boss! with this explanation, we can say the "far too much" in the statement can also mean a woman who's experienced in a negative way, not a virgin and the likes, right?

I've been thinking of something, from the couple of posts I read just now, a thought just came to mind. Without strict rules or something to put everyone (not just women) in check in a particular society or country, these are what would likely happen in that society/country:

- Female hypergamous instincts will go off the scale.

- There would be violence and high level of immorality/indecency in the society.

- The little freedom given to the female gender is what led to the birth of feminism.

- We would live like animals, because in the wilderness, there are no rules.

- What's stopping most people from engaging in degrading acts is Religion and their beliefs or level of morality.

I know there are still more to this, but this is what I can say for now. We can all see the difference between a country that gave her citizens unlimited freedom to act on their will and the country which rules and boundaries was set for everyone.

In addition, women needs to be controlled in a society, if not, there will be chaos. Controlling the female gender can either be done by the laws guiding them in the society, a strong masculine figure around her, or her religion laws and beliefs.

For those unwilling to read long posts, this is the summary:

DON'T DATE OR MARRY A FEMINIST OR AN ASPIRING FEMINIST.

Are you serious? Maybe it wasn't enough, you should have given her more. Maybe she was testing your patience but unfortunately you failed.

I will advice you to call her, the guy she sent the money to might need it urgently at that moment. Try to come down to her level, if need be, apologize to her. I'm sure you both can work things out. Let love reign.

#Peace

Orpazpjr:
Sir could you elaborate a little more on this.

I have a pal who is vested in the complaint estate of the world. He lives in this perpetually. Now the thing is I sometimes I pity the dude but am aware that or have observed that it sometimes turns out to be a show for me. He will complain about no money but once that comes in spending on girls becomes a go to. (Now how you spend your funds shouldn't be an issue but when I remember the backstory am pissed)

I always wanted to refrain from judging him and face my own shits, but am now compelled to think that it's an act that's has been perfected.

I'm going to explain more on this on the second thread (Phase 2) ASAP.

LOL! Do you want "K" on your gravestone?

That one word reply can be so annoying sometimes, most especially when sent to the person that expects an emotional outburst from you.

I will advice you not to get entangled with any white lady over there.

Never be in a hurry to get into a relationship, its not an achievement. If things goes wrong because you chose wrong, those who were edging you on to pick a wife as soon as possible won't be there to solve your problems with you.
Just face your business bro.

Marrying in this modern time is a big risk. There are so many fairly or thoroughly used ladies nowadays.

papiforreal:
Here's what quran says about a husband beating his wife..

Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth.

So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband’s] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance – [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.”
Q(4:34)

Seems like the old folks are smarter than us I swear. The only thing that send sense to women sometimes is serious lashing

I came across this verse when I was making some research on the correlation between Religion and TRP.

What the strike means in that sentence doesn't mean thorough beating and it doesn't mean you have to make use of an item to strike her. If that's so, so many irresponsible fathers will use the verse as an excuse to carry out their violent acts on their spouses. Remember, women are adult babies. You can't use the degree of strike for a child to judge the degree of strike for an adult. The strike in that verse is just meant to send a warning to her like the way you discipline a child (lightly) and as a last resort. Remember, the Book said men are the protectors of women.

The verse is also redpilled in some way, before He mentioned strike, He told the men to forsake them in bed. This shows that when a woman starts misbehaving (this attitude is often caused by too much familiarity), treat her like she doesn't exist, she will come back to her senses especially if you have more options (wives). So you have to follow the steps, starting with the advice, then forsaking and if she doesn't change, strike!

Also, in addition, the verse was being directed to arrogant women. So there are some cases which the striking might prove effective and some cases where it doesn't change anything. It's not the same with every woman. So the degree of the strike and how the situation is being handled matters. Most importantly, the striking is meant to call her to order or for reconciliation purposes.

The guy is making 'some' good points but unfortunately the way he's hell-bent on delivering his messages with insults or name-calling makes him not someone to have an argument with. Someone said argument is a platform to share knowledge not abuses or insults. This was how MrCold got it wrong also. If you're going to continue this way, the message you're trying to deliver won't be understood. You can't always expect people to agree with you, even if you want them to come down to your level, this is not the way to go. I've learnt couple of things with this ongoing arguments but you're making it seem like a waste of time with your continuous display of arrogance. This is definitely not the type of argument to engage in.

With the posts I've read so far, there are some points to take and some points to be left out. In most hierarchies in Nigeria, married men are more respected and given some special treatments than single men because they are viewed as more responsible. In some companies or organizations, you won't be employed if you aren't married, or in some cases, you won't be promoted. Like someone said, which is also true in some cases, the law binding marriage institution is still favoured in men's honour unlike the West or some foreign countries. In fact, you can be married without having to sign a marriage contract or do a court marriage, and no one will hold you for it, so if anything goes wrong with the marriage, you are not bound by law. The reason for this is not farfetched.

Nevertheless, whether it is being favoured for men or not, that doesn't still make an excuse for the name-calling. Everyone has the right to make his or her choice. Like I said, every path has its pros and cons depending on different factors. If things goes south, no one will be there to help you because you made your choice.

Men are still the dominant sex in this country while in some countries it is women, and we all have seen the result of a female dominated country or state which makes your stance on being a patriarch valid, but sometimes reality doesn't always happen the way we imagine it to be. Bro, there are several reasons why some men refused to get married or have any romantic relationship with women not just because of being unable to "perform" or being afraid to go into the patriarchy line.

This is just my opinion, you don't need to agree with me, just learn to respect everyone's opinion.

OGWILLS123:
Sorry bro for the late reply, i was on banned for unknown reason .

Hmm as for the bolded, am in the darkest moment of my life .
Life is fvcking brutal .

Bro, stay strong please. It's just a phase. It will all end well. I wish you well in all your doings.

Conceal your secrets as carefully as an unfaithful woman conceals the true paternity of her children.

Secrets should go with you to the grave. Wisdom should not.

You mentioned sharing your secret to your wife alone, LOL!, DO NOT TRY IT. If you can't keep it to yourself then don't expect your wife to do that for you. Women are terrible at keeping other people's secrets but excellent at keeping their own secrets.

Another simp have been trapped. SMH. When a woman is in love, she loves with only her heart; but when a man is in love, he loves with both his heart and brain.

A man in love is more likely to make decisions that will drastically change the course of his life than a woman in love. Men love with everything they have, this is why they are likely to exhibit suicide behaviour when things go wrong.

Sometimes I find it amusing when men go through stuffs like this in the name of proposal. I don't understand. You want to add a burden to your life and you're happy rolling on the floor or are you happy because she said yes? Men who know their worth don't go through this.

For a high value man, its always the women that proposes and he decides whether to dispose or not, not the other way round.

adampedia:
I'ld like to hear your view on;

1) Who a creator is?
2) God?
3) Religion?[color=#000000][/color]

I don't think I'm the right person to direct that question to, someone in the religion section might be able to answer that perfectly.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
One bucket all humans are still struggling in: we accuse others of many things we are guilty of. No human is an exception. Undercover said many people are ego-invested in their own opinion and will hesitate in taking corrections, however, he's also reprehensible for that same offence. If he was not ego-invested in his own opinion he would have either cede his opinion to the opinion of others or see it as an addendum to his repertoire of knowledge.

Notwithstanding, there's a metric for truth, but humans will forever be ego-invested in their ideas or opinions either for a short or long period of time. For this reason, retracting myself from arguments is one of the greatest feats I have attained and still maintaining. One way or the other, humans will learn from experience or discovery or die ignorant. Only a thirst, hunger and search for truth can serve as a panacea to ignorance. Like I said before, all humans are on this terrain.

Alright, noted. Thank you.

I had to revive this thread to read more people's opinion on this.

@papiforreal, you made lot of sense with your previous 2-3 posts. But unfortunately what I noticed about this thread is that, if you make a statement that doesn't go with the already laid rules or pattern, be ready to get blasted. So many people are ego-invested in their opinion and nothing you say will ever make sense. Save your explanation from those that are determined to misunderstand you. Many people only read to argue, not understand. So always follow this rule: Never argue when you can ignore. Those who will understand you, will. Just drop your posts and move on. Be ready for the criticism, in fact, its good that way, makes it more interesting.

Religion was one of the main factor that doused these female instincts in women back then. I've made a lot of research on my own, that's why many books are being published about Red Pill daily, the world is not static, we are not robots, you have to keep adding to your knowledge.

The Qur'an coupled with the hadith had laws that caused fears and other factors to stop these chaos we are living with now, not just for women, but also for men because men are also one of the reasons for these instincts to go high off the roof. There are some redpilled quotes too in the Bible. MrCòld made some very good points with some of his posts too on this.

Unfortunately with the rate of indecency in this current generation, because of the environment, social factors and the so called feminists, no one is truly following the laid down rules except from few Islamic dominated countries where the law is still being followed strictly.

If you're to set down a test for 10 ladies, at least 8 will fail because of these reasons and it was not so back then. The rate of high value women decreases with each generation and sadly, that's the reality we have to live with. It won't get any better.

I'm thinking of writing my own PDF handbook based on the research I've made, maybe I will share it later on. Bro, be good. Just do your own thing. There are 7 billion+ people on this earth, surely everyone won't agree with you, live with it.

Junnior:
Oh. I thought it was vice versa? As in, if you react in a way they didn't expect, eg., calling out their bullshit, then you passed the shit test.


I get you now. You used "fail" in the positive light and "pass" in the negative. Thanks

Yeah, some people might use it in the way you said also, as long as the message passed is understood.

Junnior:
Wait, what? Please throw more light on this.

Shit Test - The moment when someone does or say something just to make you react in some way. If you react in a way they expected, you have passed their shit test, if you react in an unexpected way or the opposite way instead, you've failed their shit test.

Sometimes your girl might do something intentional or unintentional to see how you're gonna react, if you react in way that signifies being weak, being too needy, being too emotional, being scared etcetera, then you've passed her shit test. But if you react in the opposite or unexpected way, then you've failed her shit test.

Sometimes a girl shit tests you to test your strength and your ability to protect her. Sometimes, in order to determine how much you love her.

For example, If a girl asks you to do something for her or else she leaves you, that's a shit test to show if you're really gonna buy it because you can't do without her. If you should get her the phone, it shows you're afraid of losing her and can't do without her. If you don't and didn't show any form of remorse, it shows she doesn't have any authority over you and you are indirectly telling her "to hell with her".

LIVINGICON:
So, i took a decision December last year to work more on my fitness, health and physique and i have been able to keep to it. I train 4 times in a week and i eat more clean diets now. I can see tremendous improvement in my muscles, my health has improved tremendously. Prior to this time, my woman has always told me she liked muscular guys who are very fit. She kept on hammering this in my ears. I never started my workout program because of her but for myself. I don't want to be caught up with shits like hypertension, diabetes and the likes.
She has noticed a tremendous improvement in my physique, i 4uck her with so much sexual vigour. My abs, biceps and chest muscles now on point.
I was surprised when she told me this morning that she hates too muscular guys and muscular guys are very scary. She now jokingly told me that she knows a sexy woman will soon snatch me away from her. She stopped preparing protein meals i told her i need to boost my muscle growth. The way i see her now, she wants me to stop working out. But truly the joke is on her. I have upgraded and no going back.

WOW! There's so much learn or deduce from this writeup. Hope your woman is physically fit also? Hmm, for her to stop cooking the meals shows there's more to it now.

BLOODYSPERM:
Nice boys finish in divorce court, bad boys finish by cumming on her face.

LOL! Let me share this one.