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Fearjah:
Example 1
You will agree with me that this girls are easily manipulated to their own detriment.

What is really our end game?

Is it this?




Is our goal Pussy acummulation?
Is our goal to increase body counts?

We game girls and get them laid
We pump and dump
We take away the virginity of the virgins
We help the non virgins increase there body counts.
We even become male prostitute by giving sex in exchange for money.

We still turn around and call them "damaged girls," " hoes" and all that.


Maybe there is another definition for hypocrisy if we are not hypocrites.

Funny enough we still want to marry virgins!
When we are all pumping and dumping and spinning plates where do you hope to get the virgins from?

Are we not destroying the society by ourselves?

[/b] Change - it begins with you
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Hypocrisy of the highest order bro! I mentioned it on this thread earlier on and also during the pay for sex saga. That's why I agreed with MrCold when he said Men are also one the reasons for hypergamous instincts in women to be off the scale. But they said truth hurts a lot bro. We keep blaming women for everything, but men are also one of the main causes in the decline of civilization or societal collapse.

Men are the reason for feminism. Men are the reason for high level for sexual immorality and violence. Men are the reason for increase in number of simps. Most sex traffickers are also men, and many more. The emboldened statement is enough for anyone to ponder on. We say there are no more high value women or redpilled women and we are the ones that damaged them.

That's why I said Men can be dangerous also. A young pristine girl that needs to be guided will be led astray at a very young age by a PUA or someone who's just using girls for fun. It's sickening. That same girl will later become a hoe because she has been heavily damaged by a playboy or by a plate spinner and this same mentality is now beginning to manifest in most men too. Pick a girl, fvck, then dump. Pick a girl, fvck, then dump. We are going to watch the world burn by the fire we ignited. Now very soon, if this continues, we will have a generation of deranged family lines and hordes of baby mamas/single mothers.

We need to reevaluate ourselves too. In as much as you're quick to blame women, you should blame men also. We can say we are using girls for our own selfish reasons but trying to justify it with the 'right reasons' is pure hypocrisy.

Junnior:
Interesting. What if I did nothing wrong but they insult me and say I wronged them? Should I still apologize?

Hmm, if you're sure you did nothing wrong, you can just simply move on. But sometimes, we might hurt or offend someone unknowingly though. You can simply apologize just to satisfy their instincts, but after that if the attitude persists, simply ignore.

What brought about the name-calling is what I can't comprehend.

She had sex, just thrice. This gender will never disappoint. . OP, why is my mind telling me you're the person? Your account was created today.

The niqqa somewhere would be very happy that he will soon be joining his 'beloved' wife not knowing he will soon be with his beloved hoe.

Men, anytime you're thinking of marriage, the number one thing you should check amongst other things is if she's a virgin, if she's not, she belongs to the streets. Her pretense of being a good girl at that period won't last long because if the opportunity presents itself, she will find her way back to the streets!

I wish I can find a way to contact the guy before we read sometime in the future about a man committing suicide or murder after he finds out the truth.

javaguru:
what contract, am talking of natural tradition in Nigeria ur talking of contract, contract or no contract, u can't claim your husband property if your names don't tally, ordinary misspelled name in teller bank no go let u cash out, talk less of arrangement.

Ooh, that's specific family issues then, I was talking about a marriage involving government.

javaguru:
ha, ur opinion tire me out, ur not helping them o if you think u are, the women will lose more if they go with ur opinion.
her pride
husband property incase of dispute
she'll not even get anything with her father name if there's a son.
Na loss o

That's if a marriage contract was involved.

Well, I wouldn't call it giving up identity. It sounds absurd. I know feminists have this kind of mentality, making it seem like women are being sold off or making patriarchy seems evil.

Normally, I wouldn't worry myself much about a woman changing her name or including mine to hers but your idea of giving up her identity just because of a name change seems absurd. A woman I'm gonna live with will definitely answer my surname. If you're a high value man, she will do what she can to answer and change her name to yours.

Well, it's a tradition that brought about name changing when marriage is involved to differentiate married people from singles. Nevertheless, name changing means little when it comes to a lasting marriage.

Ryda:
Deception has no gender.

"I think you can't really know who a person is until you live under the same roof"

The bolded is the utmost truth.

Of course, you're right. Deception has no gender. Some men can be dangerous too, so as women but women are more better in concealing their secrets than men.

A woman is most times deceptive because she knows people don't like the truth. She feels "since I can get away with this lie, why say the truth?". A woman will only come out clean if she knows that the truth will be leaked inevitably, else she will rather take the secret to her grave. Women love to be seen as saint and not otherwise. The society and environment can also influence this.

In a society where sexual depravity or immorality is off the roof, a woman won't be afraid to come out clean because she knows it's what's 'trending' in that society and no one will judge her for it. Women hate being judged or criticized.

Sometimes I think you can't really know who a person is until you live under the same roof. This applies for both men and women. During courtship, both of you might be hiding your flaws from each other in other to seem perfect. When you live with someone for a period of time, the masks they wear will inevitably slip off if they've been pretending for a long period of time.

Addictions are easy to trigger but difficult to stop. If you don't get out of it as soon as possible, you'll sink deeper.

Your 72 days of staying away from betting means you've really tried in getting to stop. I commend you for that. Nevertheless, some addictions can still be easily stopped and betting or gambling is one of them.

Which type of company do you keep? Which type of environment do you live? Sometimes your brain makes you think there won't be any solution for you if you don't bet. It's psychological. It will make you feel until you bet before you find a way out. You need to remove this mentality. The thing about betting is, once the people engaging in it start 'winning' and getting money, they feel this is an easy way to go, until they get hooked to it.

Addictions creates a facade of pleasure but with a hidden ticking time bomb waiting to explode. Once it does, you might never be able to leave until you're destroyed from the explosion. Pick your poison carefully.

Happy Birthday Bro! I wish you more years to explore.

Change your locks, sometimes if you're too cool people will take you for granted. They've seen a loophole in your personality and they will continue to exploit it. Its either you toughen up or break down from it.

I read where you said you saw something you didn't like but kept it to yourself, that's where the problem started.

dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

It was a shit test, only those deep in the game will know.

1) Never ask for a girl's picture (except maybe you're meeting online for the first time), it shows you're missing her and she may start misbehaving. If she finds you interesting, she will flood your phone with it even without asking. Even if you do ask, for example, if you ask for one, she will send more than what you asked. I once remembered a girl I got chatting with online and I asked for her picture, she sent me an album and some other similar scenarios. Sometimes, I used the picture asking as a shit test to see if a girl is interested in me.

2) The picture she sent you was a shit test, the response you gave her made you fail the test. It shows you're pained and she got you. You should have responded like "tell that guy to press it very well and handle it like a pro" with an emoji and block her immediately. Don't answer her call nor text, delete her with Shift + Del key. Never let a girl know that she got you.

CaveAdullam, no one is forcing the other to accept bullshit. No one is telling you to accept what you don't want to. My post was shared for the purpose of clearing the air and to avoid further arguments because at the end, people will still choose to believe what they want to believe or follow what they want to follow. That's why we have various religion, and some don't even belong to any of them and each one of us believe we are on the true path. It's alright.

Fiscus105:
If such guy is good, financially capable to finance marriage and a disciplined man, even if he is authoritarian, I will advice you your friend to hold on to him tightly, let ur friend adjusts to make the relationship workable, they are the best husbands for women.

The guy might be a disciplined man but for ur friend to misinterprete him as a dictator.

........ guy who said he don't want his wife to move with particular group of persons in other not to corrupt her.
........guy who told his wife not to stay outside beyond 7pm
........guy who instructs his fiancee not to have male bestie
.......husband who tells her woman to be caution enough on frivolous spendings. (aso-ebi)

When a guy portraits these attributes, they are not dictorial tendencies but disiplined on his part to make his marriage workable, but so many ladies will mis-interprete it to wickedness and authoritatively most especially wayward and uncultured girls.

You've said it all my guy, mostly when women describes a man as being 'toxic' or authoritative, this is what they actually mean. They want a man who will tolerate their nonsense.

To me, self development comes first in TRP. We are all forgetting the mechanisms of women attraction. In the modern dating market, women will only be attracted to you if:

- You're physically attractive (Halo Effect).

- They perceive you as high status or you're well-to-do.

- They believe you're superior in one way or the other. Some women are also sapiosexual.

- You have a great personality etc.

If you rank low in all these, even if you know the principles of game, women won't be attracted to you. That's why most players are either very physically attractive or well-to-do because these are the attributes most women are attracted to. A well built, well-to-do or attractive guy is rarely seen and what is not easily seen breeds value and respect. Remember, women are not loyal to you, they are loyal to your power. The definition of power here can be anything. Your level of attractiveness can be your power, your money can be your power, your status/fame can be your power, your personality can be your power, your skills can be your power etcetera.

That's why TRP will teach you the ways you can develop yourself to up your game. This is why it is very important. Also remember, TRP is more of a philosophy than a movement or religion. According to Dpsychologist and other reliable sources, "TRP philosophy is here to show you how the game works, not to tell you how to live your life.

Movements and religion confer little liberty in regard to individual morality, they command and state in a rather absolute manner. TRP philosophy is amoral in the sense that it says “it is what it is”. What you choose to do with the knowledge is up to you, you will surely face the pros and cons of your decisions.

Don’t do everything TRP philosophy tells you to do. Honestly, pick and choose to apply what you read here. Don’t take everything TRP say as gospel. Yes sexual strategy is amoral, but don’t let that define your social morality. Just like going your own way, becoming a pick-up artist, or being a patriarch with a family is a choice men can make. None of these things are “right choices” in the universal sense but simply are what he believes to be “right” for him.

As long as such a man understands that this won’t stop other people from living their lives differently, and that women are for all intent and purpose, immoral, he’s good." This is the reason why when you meet someone that doesn't agree with your views or perspective whether 'right or wrong', the best thing to do is to let it slide.

Ignore any found errors in this post, and if you wanna share your views too or add to it, its fine.

Arguments are one of the things that make this forum lively but not everyone can handle the 'heat' of the moment.

@Born2winnx, arguments sometimes can be so engaging but that doesn't mean we should resort to insults. If you're not careful with arguments, you can get caught up emotionally and you'll keep engaging in futile attempts to prove you're right. This is why I avoid using abusive or sarcastic words on people. You don't know who's who. We can be of help to each other in the future.

@waywardpikin, you don't need to stay out of the thread. I guess it was the heat of argument that made GLYCOLYSISS deactivate his account. You have also contributed to this thread one way or the other. It will surely pass.

Not everyone can handle the heat of argument, its either you agree to disagree, remain silent or observe. Always know when to react and when to remain silent. After all, this is an online forum, you're bound to meet different people with different experiences but the best thing to do is still be able to maintain the peaceful nature of the way things are.

No one is above mistake or correction, and you don't need to be annoyed just because someone else doesn't see things the way you see it. Sometimes, you need to analyse things from the other party and try to come to a conclusion. If you find out you're wrong, its fine, move on. If you feel you're right, remain silent or agree to disagree. The worst thing to do is to keep proving yourself. No one cares about it. It's bound to happen. I'm sure if it were a physical argument, it wouldn't have lasted this long. Sometimes the way we read other people's statement might not mean exactly what they had in mind.

To me, I believe arguments are not meant to be won, but to understand each other's perspective and the way we see things. That doesn't mean we should mock each other, I believe that behavior is immature. Anyone can portray who they are online, but we all know deep down who we are offline and that's the most important. No one knows me here and I don't think I have a reputation to protect in this forum, so why prove yourself for anyone.?

We are human and we all have an emotional side but best thing to do is know how to control yourself when you're being emotional. Life happens bro. Please, maintain the peace. One Love.

bepositive11:
I disagree. It's important to be ambitious and to also make time for one's self and their family.

What's the point of acquiring financial wealth without enjoying it and time with loved ones?

We never know what'll happen tomorrow. It's best to always live our lives to the fullest and cherish our loved ones.

True, the ambitious have less time to waste, but it's still important to set aside time for loved ones.

Of course, I understand you. You know sometimes, women don't appreciate sacrifices because they often don't make one. They all have everything on a platter of gold. It's life.

IamPlato:
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The worst of all is those idiot girls that will become one guy's pornst@r for 8years then get engaged for another 8years and finally get dumped then she goes out looking for a good, rich, God fearing man.... My sister do you fear God? Engagement these days is basically a long period of free banging, promise a girl marriage, put a ring and she will open her legs wide from oduduwa republic to biafra...

Women become prisoners of engagement aka Lord of the rings because of inability to know what they want, ask a woman what she wants and she can use one year to think about it because she doesn't have a brain of her own she only wants what others girls wants and that is the reason why many girl today become sex tools, their idols are sex tools so they feel it's the right thing to be...

Whoever they engage woman these days get iron mind, I dare not... If you know they number of ladies on porn sites uploading sex videos everyday, you go fear to marry... Do you know how many local porn productions we have in Nigeria alone?

7 out of every ten Nigerian girls have bleeped on video... 9 out of 10 have lost their virginity...It's not like they don't know that what they are doing is bad, they know and after they are done enjoying they pretend to regret it so that good guys like you can engage them... Be wise bro...

You've said it all bro, even the so called parents are encouraging their daughters into prostitution. Its a damaged world we live in. Weak parents, damaged children.

The fact that you asked her about it and she denied is a slap to your face. She's waving a big red flag right in front of you. The real paternity of the kid is to be questioned. Another reason to marry a known virgin. Tread carefully.

Katridge2021:
Should we then not differ from it cause we want to maintain that certain image in their minds?

You don't have to be what everyone wants bro. You know sometimes, no matter how good you are, there are some people that will never see good in whatever you do, do you then now change because of them.?

A well groomed beards? Yes. But if you don't have a well shaped beards, the best thing to do is to keep that land cleared of weeds.

If you look younger than your age, beards can make you look more matured. It all depends on your physical attractiveness.

SOZINN:
Well said bro, I understand your thoughts about eschewing emotional entanglements in the future and sometimes money is a way out. But permit me to present another course of action. What if you make your intentions clear from the start. You can tell her you want FWB, or a one time thing and if she's in for it, she will nod in assent. I believe that there are young women out there who are still riding the cock carousel and plan on doing so for a premeditated duration.

I know women enjoy sex as much as men do, even though only few have been defiant enough to admit it. Because women want men to subscribe to the notion that they don't find copulation as delectable as men do but that is a lie. What I'm trying to say is BOYS LOVE PÛSSY, GIRLS LOVE DÌCK. Most of them in their youth are willing to part their legs for a male they reckon to be beddable.

Although you might experience emotional entanglements if you can't keep your mouth shut lol. Remember they still have to lead binary lives so as to appear chaste, not just to other males who are seeking matrimony but to the society in general. So in this case the emotion is anger which might be accompanied by aggression.
Any way, to each his own but I have a point. Or at least I think I do.

Thanks for this addition. Sometimes intentions change, feelings change. Don't forget that. I can do this if I'm cutting off romantic relationship from a girl. Of course, women enjoy sex more but never underestimate the length they can go to tarnish your image or even kill you if they know you're a prominent figure or people hold you in high regard. That's why I said what you choose to pay should be at your discretion or willingness and something you can afford to lose, not what you're compelled to and she should be aware of the deal.

It's all fine bro. Thanks.

Mandela27:
meeehn that's for the new redpillers,they will later come to realize that at some point u would just choose to give and it doesn't make u a simp.

When I first discovered TRP I became dead stingy,grumpy with my time And money,I saw women as people I didn't need at all(shitt I was deceiving myself)maybe because I was still in my rage stage,omoh now I've grown in TRP I've know we gottu free our hands at a time to get that pussy we want even tho it's not all pussy we should subscribe for,some would come for free....then we take the game up from there.

TRP isn't supposed to make you stingy, it's supposed to teach you prudence. TRP will teach you to spend your resources wisely and will give you a valid reason why you're doing it. But most times, the bitter experiences of some people change how they perceive TRP to be.

Some people hate women and don't even like relating with them in this manosphere, this is not the aim of why TRP was set up. TRP isn't meant to cause gender wars but to understand them and how to relate with each other better.

TRP will teach you what you need to know about life in general and what the society has kept hidden from you. This is why it's said that what you choose to do with the knowledge is up to you. Some men can be dangerous also, so as women. You'll surely meet the consequences of your actions.

waywardpikin:
I would advice you not to bother. People understand what they CHOOSE to understand. That is why engaging in pointless arguments can be so futile.

I will say this though, y'all make it seem like being a redpiller means being deathly stingy. I don't do stingy.

Bro, my previous post was explicit enough for those who can read between the lines. I once mentioned on this thread that if you say something that doesn't go with the laid down rules by some people, you'll either be tagged a simp (my favourite word), a novice or JJC as some people say.

What I said on the conditions of paying for pussy was very clear. I didn't say you must do it just because you can't get it freely. I only said you should do it to avoid dangerous entanglements in the future from the women you aren't married to that you're fvcking aside your wife. And I also mentioned it should be at your own willingness. I didn't say you should subscribe to it everytime you wanna have sex with a particular girl. When you pay someone, they won't have entitlement over you, its a deal. Even if you get married, you're still paying for it but indirectly, but this move is like a Machiavellian move. You're saying what you want directly. The price you pay can't be necessarily be money, but an exchange. What you choose to pay is up to you.

"If power is defined as one’s ability to impose their will onto the world, then money is the commodification of power in physical form." - IM

But he ignored that which is fine by me. But people love free things, and sometimes the most expensive things are those that are labelled FREE or gotten freely. If you don't understand, its fine.