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Mom from hell

Whatever

Pathetic

Pretty lady right there.
May God grant her soul peace and eternal rest

Peace081:
Watin obi Cubana see for this portable guy

He saw what you didn't see

Congrats

SultanOfPuna:
Ghana wey use juju beat Guinea 3-0

We go give dem wotowoto for body
..

Lol

Violence is allowed

TWoods:
This isn't remotely true. Not all parents act out of love. Some do so out of ego, jealousy, spite, wanting to irrationally hold on to a relationship with the child, etc. At some point, an adult child needs to start making his own decisions... you have to learn to sift what you hear from your parents - take the good advice, discard the unhelpful ones. I wish I learned these earlier in life, there are many times I look back and bitterly regret not doing so.

It is okay. I knew there are exceptions. . .

Like I said. God the all knowing is the only one you should ask for his support and his wisdom.
I understand a lot of people didn't get the point I am trying to make in my previous post on this topic.
So i will like u to ask for ways just like Solomon ask for wisdom. Don't depend or listen to your parents for they only humans. That is my point

EndRape2:
Go and sit down you are talking rubbish, most mother's are selfish, they do not want any other girl close to their son, they want to be the one eati g his money, some are even posses and on an assignment that their sons must not marry.

Is like your own mother is still brain washing you.

I will forgive u for such careless and insensitive statement

Aboks:
With out nukes russia cant challenge nigeria

Lmao

EagleNest:
Why disturbing God for a simple problem. Like someone has tried many times to correct you, it is not everything your parents says is right!
Don't ever forget it. Always remember they are human. If I had listened to all that my parents and grandparents says, in the name of me being obedient and respectful, I would have made some serious error of marriage.

When it comes to marriage, don't pander too much to opinions if you already have seen some good quality in the person. Reasonable and sound people are very scarce these days. Don't throw away such opportunity just to satisfy parents.

I didn't say everything parents says is right.
Like I maintained.
It is good to seek for wisdom to navigate through the journeys of life. ..
Parent aren't perfect. They humans just like u. It won't be bad soliciting for help from an higher being or source...



Pls read my response to op on this this issue

FERNANDEZISBACK:
God.. God.. God..all the time..what business does an imaginary creature have with reality..
E O D.. having a simple conversation with a religious person is too tiring..

Bye

FERNANDEZISBACK:
The mother will end up ruining that guy if he can't stand for himself...
Is she the one getting married or what?
Pls do away with that nonsense mentality that anything your parent says must be correct and must be adhered to..

If you will do away with your myopic mindset first lol.


By the way my point only stress that parents have a strong influence in their kids life.

Point 2
Parent are only humans and sometimes they might be wrong which is why op need to pray for wisdom to navigate out of this situation.

It is a free world. God gave us choices. He gave us the right to make our decisions irrespective of the choices being right or wrong. This is right he didn't give to angels that he created before humans. Angels don't have options to choose. Their only choice is to serve God.
So u see op should only seek God help and make his move. Your yeye violence advice will only put him against his mother. God is is not man. Before he look at you he will look at your parents first.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
That parent need to be ignored.. what's my business with heaven tho?

So even if your parent's opinion is wrong you also have to follow it?
You sound funny..no one should tell you who or who not to marry .

You are not listening because you don't wanna listen. . .
Y'all keep forming stupid woke. Like I said before. There is no underestimating parental influence in their kids life.
That is my point. ..
It is only God that can help op. Not your yeye woke advice that will lead him to more problems

daifeanyi68844:
I'm an only son and in relationship with a lady i love so much. We started dating while we were students. Our relationship is 4 years and 8 months. Everything was going fine until she moved into Lagos and I introduced her to my mom. Now, any issue I have with my mom, she calls the innocent girl and says it's because of her this thing happened. My mom and I live in a three bedroom apartment her and my father are separated. One minute she's nice to the girl, the next she isn't. We broke up today because of this. I'm really hurt. This girl loves me unconditionally, she supports me , treats me so well. When I started my business she gave me her 200k savings to invest in it. I can't even believe my mom is doing all this. I don't know what to do. I'm really hurt. We planned on getting married this year. I don't know if I would ever find a good person like her. On the other hand, my mom doesn't even care. I want to cut every ties I have with her.

Go and pray for wisdom.
You will navigate it well and come out of it without anyone being your enemy.
Your mom is your mom. She is only human and not perfect.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I always try to wonder and understand why you folks allow your parent or mother have a say in your marriage life...

Parents have a strong point in their kids life irrespective of their decision being right or wrong but heaven always respect their wish or do you think u can love a young person more than his/her parent?
Her moves might not be right but there is no underestimating parental strong influence which is usually out love.

MadamVanessa:




My gender can ride useless dick I swear. There's no amount of money that Portable can boast of that can make consider sleeping with him.

I have taste and I also have class

Humanity should come first.
Y'all are just bunch of intolerant and insensitive folks.
This is the reason why Nigeria is still backward.
When Mr Patrick said Nigerians don't like each other and always get excited at the downfall of their fellow countrymen he didn't lie

LIGHTHEARTED0:
ugly father also give ugly offspring

Thank God say man no be God.

Take it easy man.

Beautiful Arewa queen

Lexusgs430:
Indian's ...... Never to be trusted......

That's why they abstained, during that voting process.......

They just aren't your favorite puppet

What is the meaning of born pickin first? Lol
She is not the wife which meaning she isn't recognize by God and man as 2face partner. . .
Pero story is just pathetic and a lesson for younger girls.

Karlovych:
Hmm, Igbos!!

Shut up. Tribal bigot

ReneeNuttall:
That statement alone is like a racist comment.

It's just like saying because I'm a lady I don't count,or add up, or matter....its like I can't contribute anything meaningful to the society. A weak gender with no capability. It's demeaning. Y'all should desist from it. Unless u mean it in a different context. And always add an explanation so we know u ain't tripping!

But you are a woman or aren't you?

Y'all should stop bring confusion into everything.

There is nothing demeaning about it but just stating facts just like you can actually say that i am a man of which I am and would gladly accept it roles and responsibilities.

Beat that silly spirit of brother phuck me out of her.

Okunga:
Bro, I don’t know you, but I know for sure say Hating is the next step to be being a full blown witch

Lol well said..
His comments is not only annoying and hate filled. It is also meaningless

house10s2:
am confuse with the fiancee and fiance


fiancee set up a business for me.

I've been staying with my fiance

Likewise lol

This question smells. Yuck!

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

Pls define you guys relationship.
He is your fiance? your boyfriend or your bestie?

If he is your fiance then I think the best decision is move on so to to avoid future heartbeat. But only make this move if y'all stop talking and eventually make up within a short period of time( 2 weeks max)
Otherwise, then i think you both will need to have a face to face conversation about it.

IamV:
OT ;

If you’re going through difficult times, please, don’t give up. Don’t ever forget all that the Almighty have done for you, His Promises; the prayers He answered etc. Keep going with a heart full of faith.

Wishing you a lovely weekend.

God bless u. Happy weekend

You have decided to give yourself sense u should say. Lol.
Enjoy your marriage. Nobody fit follow u drag am that is if u use your head and no follow bitter hearted and frustrated feminist talk

May Allah bless your union

dtruth50:
The Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) said:
Marriage is part of my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me. Get married, for I am heartened by your great numbers before the nations (of other Prophets)

Nairaland Family, I am inviting you to my Wedding Ceremony which is coming up on 25th of March, 2022