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A friend .. Also bcx of my luv for stories... Nd some funny comments I read on this forum i was curious ..

playcharles:
I think they should be varnish from nairaland for saying nothing

Lol its called booking space now ...

finally an explanation... I never experienced it though but a lot of my friends did... Nice one op.. Very insightful

aurxtino:
the pleasure is mine, you reside in Benin City?

Right now no... But I visit tho

SingleDad1:
Please tell me, how will I walk in front, so others could gaze at mi insurance policy

insurance fall on u

aurxtino:
So you are from my state too, that's nice beautiful.

nice to meet u..

enomakos:
be proud of your state

I am.. Just this negative reports isn't helping

Always from my state...

This is indeed sad if there was forensic test... The culprits could hv been apprehended .. May his soul Rest in peace no one deserves to die this way...

I think I need to create a thread.. I let go of people easily... Bck to the matter... Get busy, go put to places that will help u meet new people, make new friends.... U can drop from ur high horse... Call him and apologies... He might still be into you too... My one kobo

SingleDad1:
Right back your sexy ass honey

don't walk behind me.. Walk in front

Jackofall:
When I was a teenager I used to go crazy over girls with big yansh, or very big boobs. Having dating a few with these specs and getting a feel of the things that make me go crazy, I see there is really nothing there...

Most of them realise that's what I like most, but they are very lacking in attitude and intelligence. A lot of them slay babes, I noticed they are boring and have nothing really going on in their lives. Most times they have no future plans apart from they wanting to marry a rich husband. And they are so engrossed with social media activities, their entire lives is either on Facebook, or Instagram or snapchat or whatsapp. Ask them what they do with their freetime, they tell you they are chatting, or sleeping or gisting with friends...

So now whenever I see a "decorated" slay queen showing off her ass or boobs or anywhere she is endowed, I avoid them at all cost, because I have the mind set that she is a boring person coupled with a bad attitude with nothing really going on in her life outside the social media. Even the ones that aren't slay queens, they are usually boring too....

Dont get me wrong, I know there are ladies with future ambitions, that are intelligent with a good attitude and are also not boring, with a life of their own outside social media, I have met very few of them like that, but they are very few. Once a lady reaches a certain age, to marry a rich man wld be her future ambition.

It's frustrating how almost all of them are like that...

It happens but never judge a book by its cover... I guess ur sapiosexual...You'll definitely see Sumone with brains and beauty... You jst have to be patient

SingleDad1:
Thickminaj . she is sleeping now

Go to bed

listenersky:
I just discovered my fiancee has been cheating on me. I discovered the chats she had with a married elderly man ,she initially denied it but she confessed after I showed her the evidence i had. We have been dating for six years and we did our intro early this year. We have picked the date of our wedding which is in few weeks time. People have been invited.

Her relationship with this elderly man didn't start now, she made me to understand that it has been going on for years. Now she has been begging me to forgive her and not put her to shame because PEOPLE are already looking forward to our wedding day.

Wedding preparations already in place. Infact preparations already 80% done. I'm really in a state of confusion right now because I don't know if I should go ahead with the wedding out of pity. And I am also scared that if I marry her out of pity, I might not love her the way I should as the thought of her being unfaithful over the years will never leave my head And how am I sure she's not cheating with more than one man?

Pls nairalanders, matured advice needed at this time.

.. you don't marry out of pity.. Pity won't make u trust her when y'll get married... It won't help in anyway if u feel u don't trust her.. Nd u hv lost interest simply tell her and call off the wedding than spend the rest of your life in toture

SingleDad1:
. Yeah chikka. I am not on the list because I keep it lowkey here.... But seems you got my number, you know?.

awwww

SingleDad1:
I am cool chikka . I got my love GPS on you, that's why honey. .

you sure.? This one u ain't on the list seems ur GPS is everywhere

thesuave10:
Alright. Open the gate. Daddy's home

ok daddy I'm on my way

SingleDad1:
Thickminaj . My beautiful Hyena is viewing this topic.

Lol this one u are everywhere I am...

thesuave10:
Pm the address. coming with our power bike

oya come I'm waiting

SingleDad1:
You of course. . In Mexico , Hyena means beautiful lady .

Really?? Thanks for the compliments... How u doing?

thesuave10:
Really? Your location is "blow your mind"?

yep

SingleDad1:
Damn. Beautiful hyena .

where's d hyena?

Oyindidi:
There is nothing he'll say that she doesn't know. Let him look for a job no matter how small and take his rightful place in his family.

You're right dear but I think she just needs some form of assurance from him while he's still job hunting

maasoap:
I'm not surprised by this contribution of yours, you're a woman. If husbands could realise that women needs one thing to make home liveable and peaceful under any circumstances, and that's communication, domestic quarrels will reduce a lot.

That's true.. Too bad most men don't know this..

Blah blah blah black sheep.... Trolls will be trolls... Once ur a celebrity u need a thick skin....

That's true.. No student should be forced to learn CRS/IRS...

[quote author=Fadiga24 post=58057219]Ok hope all is cool? [/quote sure is

Curvy

Fadiga24:
Gloryhaa, u think say I no go know you?

... It's glowryhaa.. Yea I deactivated my previous acct for personal reasons

mylander:
Please advise.

I was in an employment of a bank until recently when my employment was terminated.

When I had the job, I took my family welfare as my priory. My wife and our only son were faring good, I always ensure we do not lack the basic necessities. Meanwhile, my wife did not have a job then. All the house upkeep expenses including the cost of running her postgraduate program were on me and I felt comfortable bearing the costs as the breadwinner of the family.

After I lost my job in the bank some month ago, my wife got an employment with the state govt. With her little income, she has been able to assist in bearing some expenses, even she pays for fuelling our car sometimes.

The drama has now started in the house and our marriage is on the verge of breaking up.

Any little issue, my wife will turn it to quarrel, different abuses. Funny enough, she would be referring to the financial supports she has been rendering in the house. This is a woman that did not work at all for 2 years and I was bearing all the expenses with pleasure. Now she had only supported me for about 4months now and she's is misbehaving.

To my surprise, my wife maintains a record in which she records every penny she spends in the house including food items and fuel. With this, she always ask me when will I pay him back.

At the instance of a simple argument/misunderstanding, my wife would be boasting of 'I paid for this, I paid for that....' 'If not for my support since you had problem at work......'

Please advise me, I am getting fed-up with the situation, my wife had changed totally.

sit her down... Talk to her about it.. .... She's probably thinking you've given up on looking for a job.. And that you've turned her to the bread winner.. Explain things to her... She's a woman she needs to be assured things will go back to the way they were

shape of you by Ed sheeran.. Jst can't get enough of this song

wow they are indeed brutal facts... The thought alone makes me quiver