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If i love a man, I wouldn't look at any rich person twice. No matter how rich the person is.

So what do you want? You want to die over someone that doesn't care about you when you have someone you're already dating, who obviously likes you?

Let me tell you that you never loved this guy, you weree just infatuated wit him. After all the nude sharing and sex chats, you deep down wanted to know how he'll be in bed. You wanted to feel all that machismo near you, but it never happened.
Now you're all left with your imagination, and it's killing you.

Move on please, it's not love, it's lust. And he dosen't love you either, maybe he has found someone else, or he's tired of you.

iDavidTC:
ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive

Isn't this supposed to be an individual thing?

femi4:
Can you write that part in English?

He's helping his wife put on her shoes?

This rich man is putting his wife's shoes, but nairaland broke boys will be claiming alpha male every time.

Victory662:
Hi fam.
This is seriously serious.
Sometimes in 2019, I was in a romantic affair with a lady. she's so cute, jovial and friendly. I loved her so dearly. But the problem was that we were just getting along as nobody ever said anything about relationship. So one day I decided to be more explicit. I told her that, it's obvious we are into each other. But considering how most love adventures ends in premium tears in Nigeria that I want to know if she has someone else. Reason is that sometimes some guys do call her when we are together, and she sounds almost romantic as she does when I call her. So I told her: " look, we know in this part of the world, no lady is single; we either pair or snatch. Maybe I've been pairing though but can I snatch now, cos I'm getting serious with you." I told her that I'm very serious and my decision will be from her answer....
She said that she has someone else... That they've been together before we met. But she's not in the state, so that's why we even got along. I asked her if that's her final, she said yes. I asked if she loves him, she said yes. I asked if she sees no future in us, she said her hands are tied, and she's sorry.
I told her I'm fine and my happiness is that she's happy the way things are going but I can't continue with her seeing she has someone else. She laughed it off as if what I said meant nothing.
The next day when she was ready to go, I saw her off but I ended everything in my mind. I deleted her number and pictures.
Two days down, she called and asked why I've not called her. I told her I can't call her again... That she should focus on her relationship and make it work. She said I can't do that, that we can still continue. I told her we can't. I stopped her from coming to my place, I pick her call anytime I want to and just cut her off. When she realized I was serious, she called and said I'm wicked that I just dumped her like a piece of sh*t and it's unfair. I told her I didn't, that she made her choice and she has a fiance to take care of. She said she has no one. Then I told her it's late, cos I've made my decision... We are friends till date though but I don't feel anything for her anymore.

Another one again last year, on 31st December. I asked the same question to another lady, she said again that she has someone. Now I'm moving on and she has started calling. I'm not a clingy person. I only decide to stay or leave without emotional stress.

Reasons why I ask these questions is that humans are tricky I myself inclusive. And I don't snoop into people's private lives. And I tell this to anybody close to me. I believe whatever anybody tells me is the truth, but if I finds out it's lies, I will bounce. No going back. It's better for me to know my place. If I'm she tells me I'm a side man, and I decided to stay, fine; I will act like a side man. than telling me I'm the main man while I'm actually mumu9 on ur contact list.

Is that questions really bad to ask a lady??

I like your kind of person. Straight to business no messing around. I wish every one, man and woman will emulate this pattern. Ask the person some questions, keep asking till you get the truth, if they don't open up, snoop around, find out the truth, and dump them. Simple

No time to waste.

What do you mean by submit?

I'll miss you because I love you not your money. Or material things.

emorse:
Nairaland feminists right now.

Feminists abi alpha males?

The man is a simp

In igbo land, it is said "it is not one person that owns a child"

Welcome the children and accept them. After all no be only you get am.

Tissaia:
Because of money and woman this two brothers don't speak to each other. IPOB musicians are really stupid

Tribal bigot.

JoyJones2000:
Every celebrity testing positive for covid 19 hmm well make u sha test weytin Lola test wey make una no fit wish her well no matter the rift

I wish you what you wished Lola during her time

Trash

Rubbish

That your husband has a side chicken. So whatever you're doing e no concern am.

Tomorrow nau if the man comes back and the woman tells him the children are not his, they'll start blaming her

You have to understand that men can't do without women it's a curse they placed on themselves. Tomorrow he'll still look for another woman he'll spend on

And then? Is that why you should be shagging his wife?

Well, I blame the man, he allowed a third party into their marriage.

He's my buddy, he's my buddy, now he's become the father of your kids

I hope it will be interesting

SilverNorGold:
Ok.. Then he should be buried. People die every day. So nothing new...

God bless Nigeria.

You're very sick.

My his soul Rest in peace

If you want to date a broke man, please do so.

If you want to date a rich guy, also do so.

When a man wants to marry, no one tells him who to marry, he chooses who he wants to date, and marry himself.

Even most of them prefer virgins,
No man has came out to preach to their fellow men to marry a none virgin.

So allow everyone to choose who they want. At the end, it's all about ones happiness.

So, allow women to make their choices!

Personally, I'll love to build with a man, but these days, we have heart breakers and unethical men.

NiRfreak:
When a man feels completely exhilarated, he hardly says he feels sexy...why does exhilaration have to be linked with sexy, sex, what's the link? Thanks..will appreciate your response

My brother, exhilaration has a lot of meaning, do well check them out. That's where you'll find your answer.

This one is probably somewhere begging one Florence to give him a chance to prove his love.

Feeling sexy is feeling completely exhilarated.

Kapilta:
She's a baby mama, what do you expect? Na dem dey hate man pass, that man they so much love that they even had to 'fell' pregnant for buh yet have the audacity to dumb them. Na every other men go pay. Dem no dey fit admit say any man dey wey dem love, laye. You no see as she hate her step daddy so.

How can you love someone and yet dump them?