₦airaland Forum

Utanisco:
Bro is totally greed and stupid mindset
You've got to retract from it totally as it could destroy you financially

Youll soon become broke and poor


Youre so greedy in everything that it is very hard to let go so many things in your life not just girls or relationships but other things

So naturally you're so greedy
You feel you're the only person in the world and that you should own everything and all these things shouldn't get off from you

It satanic lifestyle
Retreat from it

Stop being jealous about this. Your comment shows that you are. And by the way, nothing spiritual about this. It’s just mastery of oneself and hormonal surge. Stop terming everything spiritual oga.

Eddodoh:
I have problem keeping a serious and committed relationship.

I always found myself keeping multiple partners & still maintain contact with some of my exes which add to the pool of women in my circle. I find it difficult to detach from them.

This really drains me emotionally and financially as I could get several demands from these ladies at the same time and it really stressed me. Moreover, age is no longer on my side.

In the past, I have lost good girls who were really committed but because I wasn't committed, as I had to juggle all of those girls together.

How do I do away with this problem? I will appreciate any suggestions or advice.

Oga, nothing is wrong with you. It’s just your personality. Marry many as long you can cater for. Don’t let society dictate to you.

Gandollar:
Your fan too dey play you 🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣

Ibkay32:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rZyjL8c0eNM



https://www.instagram.com/p/DNuzwRgWDZ7/?igsh=cHN1amlzdDczOHg0

We get one slang back then, let me scream it: "Ípápú!"🤣🤣🤣

sunnymighty:
@Op

How about Insecurity (Globally)

Bad Governance (Africa)

Corruption (Nigeria/Africa)

Thank you. You're indeed right. But I believe you need to go deeper. Cite some cases, what do you think?

CorrectionFLuid:
It's not natural just like being attracted to animals or dead bodies is not.

Kk

DoctorStanley:
Where are the kidnappers. Does this look like someone being kidnapped?

Your statement reminds me of your mentor who once said "where are the cows?". He said it shortly after a daughter of a chieftain was slain. Continue

In all, I'll say Aunty Kemi copy some acts of Breaking Bad and a little part of the Sopranos, then modifies it into tiwantiwa. She still try though. I give her 6 out of 10.

femi4:
To many unrealistic scenes just like king of boys

The teacher's character should have been systematically developed to show historical relationship with Oboz

You are right though. We all learn everyday. I discover something about Aunty Kemi, she always used one line direction in any of her films, it would have been better if she had introduced "foreshadowing techniques" in the movie showing the emergence of "Teacher". Anyways, kundus to her.

BenedictAbajue:
Both Efe and Oboz were caught up in greed. Greed affected most of their decision making process.


Efe should have left the country with his family after Oboz started becoming violent with Teacher.
Neither Oboz nor Teacher were big enough to track Efe outside the country.


Also Teacher was very necessary in the plot. He was the primary cause of the whole problem between Efe and Oboz.

Thank you. You just think like a filmwriter. You're very right. My initial thought too was that Efe should have just relocated his family out of the country. But you know, agenda must agend. The actors needed to stick to the script.

MagazineYugo:
Source: https://yugo.com.ng/netizens-dig-up-amorous-pasts-of-newly-wedded-bride-on-x-twitter

Why she come marry her junior brother, lol. OOPS! I don't forget say na one church brother she go hook, chai🤣🤣🤣

Moral lesson: Wumen! Enjoy your life to the fullest in your prime, one church brother will cover up later🤣🤣🤣

SmartPolician:
Unfortunately, it's unnatural and evil. In fact, it contributed to why God destroyed an entire city in the Bible. You live in a society with leadership failure and you cannot add this madness to our long list of problems.

Fortunately, we don't even need the government to tackle this problem because the vast majority of Nigerians share the same opinion on this. So, it attracts immediate and weighty consequences.

Oga, it's natural. Just that you and I will never practise it. By the way, stop using fable (bible), children fake stories as yard stick for moral compass.

bluefilm:
Good for her

Since men are now getting scarce nowadays, let the women do themselves

Lol🤣🤣🤣I'm weak, taar!
27 more characters needed more characters

Chilipepper:
Lady Raises Alarm After Being Asked Out by Female Passenger in a Keke

So what's the fuss about it? Na you lesbo go first ask out? Typical nija babe. You tell her you're not interested, simple and case closed. And if she go beyond her boundary, you change it for her just like the way you keep changing it for those men wey you no like because of hypergamy.

Omo, this sounds kinda strange. I've not heard this before sha.

favor914:
because na today the great Fela sing suffering & smiling abi? Keep deceiving yourself since the mention of Tinubu’s name absorbs u of your criminality.

Enjoy now.

Good evening Nairalanders. Please treat as urgent. I’m currently working on a term paper that I’ll be presenting at a conference in a few months. The focus is on identifying major underlying challenges facing Nigeria, Africa, and the world at large, along with finding lasting solutions to them.

Please, I’d really appreciate your inputs; please share any challenges you believe we’re facing, whether in Nigeria, Africa, or globally. Even if you don’t have a solution, you can simply point out any challenges which you believe we are facing which I believe will be very helpful. Your contributions will mean a lot to this project. Thank you in anticipation.

P.S. If eventually I get selected for this project, I’ll be sure to return here and show my appreciation in my own little way in some "token" of gratitude.

buygala:
The North can't cook anything as they didn't cook anything when Buhari turned Nigeria to a Fulani colony for 8 straight years

The South must have its own 8-year presidency even if the North cries blood...

It does not necessarily have to be Tinubu who does the next 4-year tenure....but it must be a Southerner, hell or high water...

And Tinubu has by far proven himself to be the Southerner who is most capable and willing to put the North in its place...Say whatever you want about the man, but it's undeniable that he is one man political warhead ...

The Northerners even acknowledge that Tinubu is not a sissy like Good luck Jonathan who they harassed out of power by threatening him with parallel government and dogs and baboons being soaked in blood...You will notice that despite all their opposition to Tinubu's government, none of them have had the guts to threaten him or his government, because they know the man can be ruthless and fully understands the power he wields as Commander-in-Chief

And I also make bold to state that any Southerner who supports any Northener against any Southerner for the 2027-2031 Presidency is a saboteur and should be treated by the Southerners as such.

I do not like Tinubu one bit, and I infact dislike not only his person, but his manner of politicking ...But after witnessing Buhari's eight years of Fulani domination, I am 150% with Tinubu for his second term...The Northerners must learn that this country is for all of us, not only them...and since Tinubu is the only Southerner capable of teaching them that lesson, I stand with him 150% .

In your standing with Tinubu, let the people continue to enjoy their suffer, isn’t it? Funny lots😂

Racoon:
Throwback Yesteryears Picture Of Today's Prominent Men Of God( Picture)


https://www.facebook.com/share/p/171hHUK2RH/

God of men; pastorpreneurs; highway men; guy men; monkey dey work, baboon dey chop. Politicians friends and partners, funny people

Burob:
Sorry for your pain, but no be me make Tinubu your president.

Same way I’m not sorry for your whinnying and unnecessary explanation like a beaten school boy.

Therock5555:
He'll not know that he's a fool, cause juju would be involved....😅😅

The power of kayamata. Most men are known to shut their brains when they accidentally jam across big money and which may eventually make the money to be BSWLSB (Bo se wa, lo se Bo meaning as money take come, na so e take go). Penny wise, pound foolish.

Samantha125:
Wait, so Nigerian Muslim ladies have pre-merital sex? Call me ignorant, but I really thought they were innocent and don't engage in such things.

Dey play my fan🤣🤣🤣

Gistsnaijamedia:
Nigerians have taken to social media to express anger and frustration after a massive convoy, allegedly transporting First Lady Remi Tinubu, brought traffic to a standstill in Lagos State.

The incident, which occurred on Saturday, was captured in a viral post by an X (formerly Twitter) user identified as Uncle Emeka, who lamented that commuters were left stranded for nearly half an hour while the convoy passed.

Read more...

https://www.naijapunchnews.com.ng/2025/08/video-outrage-as-remi-tinubus-100-car.html?m=1

A typical rich people and politician way of showing off, oppressing their people, and making people know they're the one in power. Nigeria my country! You'll see hailers hailing her because they all long to be in her shoes someday to oppress their fellow Nigerians as well. Like leaders, like followers.

Peacecore:
It's very ridiculous guy! Someone I just met yesterday o. She didn't even pretend hiding it for a while. I'm still trolling her buh she just vex go offline since evening I know say na shame catch am

I never take then serious for a single day.

Spiritual217:
What kind of useless post/question is this!
Oh nairaland is dead 🤦🏾‍♂️

It is not a useless post. It's even educative per se. If you know the laws and regulations that comes with recording of calls when you're calling a second party, you'll wait for experts to clarify you on this. I bet you don't understand the meaning of "infringement of one's privacy". It's just unfortunate that your stay in Nigeria birth your thoughts towards this.

Zaheertyler:
Keep that money first
Get a job and use your weekends and free time to learn a skill like barbing, electrical wiring, painting in a professional way
When you’re done learning use the money to buy equipments you need to begin
Change go still remain so you can start saving to top it up
When you have this basic survival skill
Then you can enter tech or any career you’ve been dreaming of because you have something to fall back to

OP, this advice is good too. Your choice as well.

Cum4me:
Life after NYSC no beans for poor man pikin oo. Me I no just worry myself after NYSC I carry my Yahoo business to another level. No be me go die for this APC regime being a good citizen no be for Nigeria. Only one sharp client capital for business has arrived. Good luck to all my fellow hustlers.

Please, make sure you invest. Don't let the money push you, I beg you. Everyday is not Christmas. Please, try and buy landed properties, if you can't afford that, invest in cryptocurrency. But Bitcoin, XRP, ADA, etc

Osebanjo:
Put about 300k on a POS business bro. This will earn you daily income you can live on. Learning tech skill is quite expensive. Most schools that will issue you certificates after completion charge something in between 200k - 500k and above. So I can only advise you buy a laptop of about 150k if you don’t already have one( might be second hand once it’s working perfectly) then spend about other 50 on internet and work space. Then try to learn all your tech skills online so you will have your computer to practice as you are learning. That way it will be easier. Keep the other 200k just for unforeseen circumstance or some other business that you may think of later.

My little advice.

Shadowpyper:
Hello nairalanders, please I need advice on how to go about this.

I’m 28 years old and recently completed my NYSC service. Honestly, I’m not sure what to do next, I'm just confused . During my service year, I was able to save 800k. I’ve already spent 200k to get an apartment and buying essential items, wnd I'm left with 600k. I’m now considering the best way to make use of it, maybe starting a business or learning a skill, I just confuse. I know the amount may seem small, but I just want to start from somewhere.

I have graphic design skills but I don't earn much from It.

I'm thinking of learning a tech skill but my money won't be enough to enroll for it and still take care of myself while learning

I just confuse, please I will appreciate it I can get useful advice here

OP, follow that advice above. But make sure you strategize your location before you start the POS business. Suffer now, enjoy tomorrow. I wish you good luck.

blacksam01:
Growing up in in your mid teen u garner friends, you so Wish all of them will be true to you like you are to them.. then one after the other, you start to experience life in friendship.

Those that backbiters, the jealous ones, the unfriendly ones, the one who even secretly dislike you, those who can't go the whole nine yards with you.. those who are leeches, the just ok ones, the one who could do anything for you,. Etc

For me and I believe for alot of us we tend to evolve our different ways of relationship with friends.. I have tried the following and got some rather unpleasant results....

I tried cutting one sided friends off my life... yes, I did! and I found my number of friends narrowing that I started being lonely and with less persons to talk to...

I tried I tried telling you to your face method of how much u betrayed me... Turns out this method led to frequent quarelling and shouting in loud voices...

I tried chesting bad friends illbehaviours, this one made me a depressed person and also mks me want to develop trust issues with everyone that put out a hand in friendship with me..I even went to as deep a state as conlusiveness of how u will turn out to b even from the first day of meeting new friends.. ..

Having passed through all these stages and employed different methods of handling friends so I can get the optimal result of dutiful , loyal, good and reciprocating friends... I settled for the strategy of a "tit for tat"

With this strategy, we could be friends and u will b a very stingy and unhelpful person.. but good in company ( cuz I found out that friends offer different varieties to your life to make it spicy)..

I still keep you close and maintain good company with u.. but will also never ever be helpful to you when you are in need.. but be extremely helpful to a fellow friend who is usually helpful to me in times of my need.. the helpful one may not b a gisting one..

We have friends for entertainment, whose vibes you like, they are all outing and fun seeking, u have friends who are rugged and will be by your side in case of scuffles.. friends of patners in womanizing but hate idle company of gist gist gist.. I giv to each friend what u give to me..


that way I found peace with all my friends..

What about you. ?

Get this book, "Hi, Can We Be Friends?" by Tekena Ikoko. You'll understand the meaning of friendship. I read that book back then, it's more inspiration with a little touch of biblical example like that. Read that when I was an ex-xtian

DoctorStanley:
Ok, but did you find peace with the Bible? Here's what the Bible says:

Matthew 5
King James Version (KJV)
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;


And Here's Luke 6
King James Version (KJV)
27 “But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them.
30 Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.

32 “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. 33 And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. 35 But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.

One should never find peace with the bible (a mental weapon of the oppressors given to the oppressed freely for mental subjugation) you know why? Why will someone love his enemies, bless those who curse him, do good to those that hate him, and pray for those that despite and persecute him? No way! And no wonder Nigeria politicians are using Nigerians to play tinko-tinko.