GOFRONT: Hanty Linda I.K talk pass this one...........Along d line, Hanty carry belle.
As she carry belle, dem talk say she marry? All these small gen z children on Nairaland these days sha. You don't know the difference between being married and having a child, since when dem talk say na only person wey marry fit born?
APC propaganda and machinery on display. One of the tricks used by APC to discredit the new coalition. Believe this, and I will know you're are a "jews" or let me say deluded person who is still trapped in the matrix and lies of APC. Nothing good ever comes out from such a party.
But wait ooo, why is it that those who used to criticize Tinubu are the ones who always die all of a sudden? I remember this man some months ago criticising Tinubu even though he claimed he voted for him but he didn't fulfill any of his promise for the ordinary Nigerians. I can as well mention other people's names as well.
phineas: Reactive abuse... The lady was a victim... It will be interesting to see how this goes,very important exercise here for the growth of the nation as a whole
1. If her not switching of the phone or conduct before take of was a danger to the flight,the plane should not have taken off,that was the point she should have been deboarded.So invariably the flight left successfully
2. The plane landed successfully, so What was her crime at the point of disembarkment?.... And that is the true meat of the matter
3. They lied and said failure to disembark.... Because you see if it was not switching of her phone,the plane should not have taken of and that was when she should have been deboarded
4. I'm wondering why DVRST has turned a blind eye to this case after all it happened in their justification
5. Emmasons name and face and naked body is all over the internet and The unprofessional air hostess the suspect for pulling of her dress so far has gotten away with it with her identity intact? How is that justice... DVRST should do the needful by investigating the sexual crimes part of this matter and publish it's findings as a deterrent for others. Again they did not have to pull her dress, what Emerson did was reactive to her torture by the crew
You're just one of the sane ones here unlike others yapping gibberish. Limited folks being shaped by ignorance.
People who told her she has a good case did not look at the side where she was slapping air hostess and law enforcement agent.
Using fire extinguisher to attack.
Na terrorism case them go bring back.
Go and ask Natasha, Kanu and others. 500 shishi she can't get.
The public display of her boobs no be any body's fault na her resistance exposed that
Everyone looks at a mad person with joy in the market simply because he's no relative. I bet if she were your family, you won't hold this thought below👇
AWONEYAN: The public display of her boobs no be any body's fault na her resistance exposed that
Continue, yet I know she did wrong. Two wrongs never make a right. There are ways she can be punished but tearing her clothes and revealing her boobs is out of line. May you partiality get cured.
callmeDDD: If the airline, NCAA, and the FG revisit her case too, she may be sent back to jail for a very long time. She should understand that. It's both ways too and she won't even get the justice she yarns for. She should rethink well and use whatever happens to gain more grand in whatever businesses she is doing and connect well to those that can genuinely lift her up. After all, she has started getting more offers. She should be weary of hungry lawyers that will push her back to jail for their selfish cash out.
Same way KWAM 1, that boastful and contumacious element also needs to be locked up too. The law is not a respected of anybody, be it rich, poor, man, woman, you ha ẹ connection to the president or not, the law don't give a damn about anybody but in Nigeria where partiality works, hmmm
Edo State governor, Senator Monday Okpebholo pledges to deliver 2.5 million votes for the reelection of President Bola Tinubu during the 2027 presidential election.
One resembles rat, the other like a gorilla. Both look like a snake🤣🤣🤣
Jacktheripper: Today was one of those boring days when it felt like time was moving in slow motion. Out of boredom, I started searching the house aimlessly, looking for nothing, when I stumbled on something interesting.
An old, dangerously handsome picture of myself. I was dressed in a black suit (well, what was trying to be a suit) with an oversized trouser so big I could probably still fit in it today.. I must have been 5 or 6, maybe 7. But it wasn’t just random overdressing. I was the ring bearer for one of my uncle’s weddings.
I can’t remember much about the day except that we travelled all the way to Ibadan, and I slept through at least half of the event. But looking at the picture got me thinking.
One day, I’ll probably wear a similar outfit again. This time, in a properly tailored one, doing my wedding. And maybe, just maybe, I’ll be wide awake for that one. But then again, who knows?
But I was about to move on when another thought crept in...do I even want a wedding?
Not the marriage part. Marriage is fine. Love is fine. Companionship is fine. Bleh, bleh, bleh.
But the whole “invite 500 people, rent a hall, prostrate and roll on the floor 1,000 times, feed strangers you haven’t spoken to in five years, and smile till your jaw cramps” part?
I’m not so sure.
Weddings have a way of feeling like a long movie you didn’t ask to be cast in.
Still, the idea of my own wedding feels… different.
Because I feel weddings are like graduations.
They’re not really for you; they are for everyone else to see that you did the thing.
The couple is basically the entertainment for the day, paraded around like a pair of rare zoo animals, while aunties you didn’t know existed debate loudly about whether your rice tastes better than your cousin’s wedding rice from 2018.
And let’s not even talk about the expenses.
Weddings are the only event where people willingly spend the equivalent of a decent car, just for someone to come and whisper in your ears that the meat has finished, while over 200 people haven't eaten.
So maybe I will keep it small. Something simple, with just a few family members, a couple of friends, and one photographer who knows my good angles. No 12-layer cake, no rented hall, no live band that plays “Happy Birthday” by mistake.
Just me, my wife, and the people who matter. And by who matters, I'm talking of my parents and her parents. So 6 people in total. Maybe even less, depending on how the Grim Reaper feels.
Everyone thinks that's a delusional idea. They say it's actually not in my power to decide all that, which reinforces my initial ideas.
But honestly, I’d rather spend the extra money making sure my marriage lasts… than making sure my wedding trends on Instagram or WhatsApp status for a week. But that could be the broke me talking, though, or maybe the shy and humble me. You never can tell.
Something struck me today immediately I read this your post OP, I bet your post inspires my view which I later gave to ChatGPT for peruse, and the below was its response:
My view: I realized that one major reason many men resist the idea of their marriage breaking up is the sheer amount of money, time, and effort they put into it. From bride price, marriage celebrations, and ceremonies, to the investments made in their wives, they see separation as a loss of all they’ve already spent.
On the other hand, many women fight hard to keep their marriages because of the societal stigma that comes with divorce. Being labeled a "single mother" is often seen as shameful, so they stay, even when the relationship is abusive emotionally or physically. For some, leaving is even harder because they have no source of livelihood outside their husband’s support. Having tied their survival to the man’s provision, they believe living independently is impossible, so they endure in silence.
Men, meanwhile, often view their wives as an investment. If she leaves, it feels like all their money, energy, and years of effort have gone down the drain. Worse still, in cases of court weddings, men fear losing half of their property in divorce settlements.
So when we talk about why marriages last, it’s often not about love or true partnership, it’s these hidden fears, pressures, and costs that keep people together.
ChatGPT Response👇
I get your point clearly, Thomas. You’re touching on a very uncomfortable but real side of marriage that society rarely admits openly — the transactional and survival aspects of why many people stay in unhappy unions. Let me unpack what you said and add some layers:
1. For Men – “Investment Logic” • You’re right: many men see marriage through the lens of resources spent. Bride price, lavish ceremonies, housing, even in-laws’ expectations — these create a subconscious feeling of “I’ve invested too much to let it go.” • Some men also tie their ego to this investment. Divorce feels like admitting they “wasted” their money and effort, which bruises pride. • In patriarchal cultures, men are conditioned to view women as dependents, so if she leaves, he feels like he lost an “asset.” This is why anger, control, or even violence sometimes enters the picture.
2. For Women – “Survival Logic” • As you noted, society places stigma on divorced women or single mothers, labeling them as “failures” or “second-hand goods.” That societal shame becomes a cage. • Financial dependence is another chain. Many women are raised not to be self-sufficient, so marriage is not just love but a survival contract. Leaving feels like stepping into the unknown without resources. • Because of this, some women accept abuse and silence themselves just to maintain the image of being “married.”
3. The Harsh Irony • What you’ve highlighted shows that in many cases, people don’t fight for marriage because of love, companionship, or growth — but because of fear of loss: • Loss of money (men). • Loss of reputation and survival (women).
4. My View
I agree with you that many marriages survive not because of love or compatibility but because of external pressures and costs already incurred. But that’s also why so many marriages are unhappy but unbroken. They don’t collapse, but they rot from within.
A marriage that is held together by money, shame, or fear is already fragile — it just looks stable on the outside. The sad part is that society praises “endurance” without asking whether people are truly fulfilled.
👉 To me, what would make marriage truly work is when: • Men stop seeing women as financial investments. • Women are empowered to survive and thrive independently. • Society stops stigmatizing divorce so people can make choices out of health, not fear.
Until then, a lot of marriages will remain like what you described: cages decorated with the illusion of love.
Rawgold29: The spirit of a true Christian or should I say the true spirit of Jesus Christ is far from biodun... your apologies might be accepted by the family but there is a clear picture of you out of the true teachings of JESUS our lord and saviour... you dont finance God projects,he finance it by himself only if you are truly called.
I'm not a xtian or religious, but as an xtian, you're very right. When talking about xtian, I don't see Biodun as one, he's a fraud.
Smooth talkers are known to be liars, deceitful, prideful, BF is unarguably a criminal bandit. He ended up saying gibberish. It's so painful why people can study people's facial expression when talking.
https://x.com/CACWORLDNEWS/status/1955982244020994165?t=hB-9ceRtPRjzV_agGYerDA&s=1,[/quote]I never see BF as a pastor in my life. I used to view him as a cultist and guyman. You can imagine someone with a bad history in his past, now claiming he is a pastor because he has some gullible members listening to his jargons every Sunday and sponsoring his ostentatious lifestyle, same way I see that one that used to wear white coat that once brag saying he is above Forbes List because Forbes named him the richest yahoo pastor in the world, I hear say e be BF mentor too, criminals in pulpits.
MummyWealth14: See this greedy man o, oga give way for other people na
You no know say he love him job like anything, and he wish to kpai for the job. In agbadoist's voice, he is one of the most patriotic Nigerians ever lived😂😂😂
Dey play. As if I am not an ex-christian, I was a former brother coordinator in a church who has read the bible from pali to pali three times and still counting. When you want to tell me anything new stories about xtianity, I'll be waiting for you😂😂😂
EponObi: Be careful how you use that app. It's coded to most times agree with your bias. You can be mediocre or under performing and it will hype you on. No let ChatGPT destroy your life ooo.
It is a lie. I'm a very frequent users of ChatGPT. ChatGPT is just like a dragon. It all depends on the way you train ChatGPT. You can visibly instruct it to stop agreeing with you and chastise you constructively. Bro, it's not about having it, it is about how you use it efficiently.
arantess: True... but because Jesus will be in charge for the millennium reign, not this rubbish they are talking about
Which version of Jesus are you talking about? Is it the one whose stories was copied from Horus, Romulus, Krishna, Dionysius, or which one do you mean?
Israel5: Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.
My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.
As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.
The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.
A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.
I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁
I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.
Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.
When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type. I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.
Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?
Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business?
Please, I beg you. Don't ever change the girl's school. Don't listen to madam. Women are known for their manipulation and subtle jealous tendency. Don't ever change the girl's school.
Daejumong: Dear Davido, money is good but is not enough to keep a good woman in marriage! What Chioma needs now is faithfulness, fidelity,sincerity and respect! You can’t be sleeping around and hurting her emotions every now and then believing money and gold would solve the problems and heal her wounds.
I am giving you this advice because you identify as a Christian and it appears you are a good hearted fellow who has been negatively influenced by your circle of friends and fans!
Pls learn from Bill Gates. His wife divorced him despite his billions because she felt disrespected in the marriage.Also Tiger Woods,his wife left because of his frequent cheating. Same thing happened to Jeff Bezos, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Brad Pitt and Jackman.
Now that u have wedded Chioma, it is time to hang ur playboy boots, genuinely get born again and be 100% committed to her! I pray God will help u IJN!
Prov 5 18 Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you.Rejoice in the wife of your youth.19 She is a loving deer, a graceful doe.Let her br€@sts satisfy you always.May you always be captivated by her love.
Badexx: You can never disappoint, super mod indeed
It's quite a pity
You can imagine, if I had Seun's contact, I'd have him removed the guy. I wonder why a moderator will keep putting mouth in political matter especially supporting a side over another. This matter go far ooo. No wonder the mods here are filled bias and partiality.
MarketDispatch: If you are involved in fraud or you harbour Fraudsters in your house, the day EFCC comes to arrest you, tell them they have no legal rights to infiltrate your compound.
Your comment is one of the reasons why Nigeria will never be a desired country people hope for. Continue supporting shenanigans, shebi to you, it’s better to cut a finger that steals or to throw away a bath water with the baby. The day you guys understand there are procedures to execute laws in a country, the better.
billgabb: Fraud has eaten too deep into the fabrics of our society. This is too bad and a harsh measure needs to be put in place to curtail this unfortunate reality. There's no shortcut to wealth. Go legit and you will be happy you did.
Alaye rest. EFCC has no right to be arresting people like this. I don’t support fraud but you see the way and manner of their approach is very wrong. If we say we want a same society, let’s live it. The people upholding the laws are even the ones flouting the laws.