₦airaland Forum

RealityKings1:
The two professors arguing up there should calm down

I tire for them, typical Nigerians just like their professors, Orubebe comes to mind🤣🤣🤣

tonymyke4life:
Using one news to justify wat u just said is totally irrational. What of those women dat met d man, married him and made him a better version of himself. If d media won't show u automatically to suit ur ideology, u search for it. Thanks

Cite example if you can Oga teacher.

Therock5555:
If I be the wife, if we no reconcile, make I know wetin happen..



I go involve juju, Marabout, blackmail plus the God given things between my legs....


That money must be chopped...

Lol, you too funny aswear. But the guy will be a full if he takes her back, lol

Nonexisting1:
When I say most of them are badluck and hinderances to men's prosperity, people don't believe me.

This. You're right ✅ One wonders why those sages, monks, ancient philosophers, teachers do abstain from women.

Belltop:
A Kia Rio for sale in Ibadan
1.6 litres engine
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Body and legs are in good condition
It's a personal car
Price is 2.5m
Call: 08062565896

Very portable. Had it been I saw this last year, I would have bought for my mum.

Peacecore:
Guy
Imagine the audacity and lack of shame??

I remember one guy with a moniker like that here on Nairaland, the name was "Mosdi" or "Moski". He kept on saying in any of his comments back then that "all Nairaland g.i.r.l.s are usel.e.xx". What I've seen lately made me subscribe to that guy, and also made me conclude that majority of them just have nothing to give, set of liabilities, just to take, take, and take.

Amotolongbo:
Was he meant to ask her that question?
That kinda question warrants that kinda response

And her question warrants his response too, simple! No comment! Ditto!

Julia25:
His presentation was wrong, although childish . He shouldn't have done that, and to the 'economy-centric' dude above—How does asking for his occupation negate her "love orientation"?

It does, it negates her love orientation. Why asking that as her first question? It really shows the kind of person she is.

Peacecore:
I stumbled to this innocent looking babe just yesterday. No wonder she quickly gave me her number thinking that she has met an ATM machine

I promised to chat her up but I didn't until when I remembered it today's evening.
See our chat below;
I was laughing throughout the conversation

I don laff tire here😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭

I don see supporting story for my script.

By the way, my suggestion is that Mr. X and Mr. Y and your cousin should agree on polyandry. A quickest way to solve all these gbasgbos

DanOkonkwo:
This is going to be a kinda long read but I would try to shorten it.

There's this cousin of mine,she had this young man she got engaged to and before we could say jack,she had a child for him.
Prior to that time,this my cousin absconded from home for a period of three months that nearly caused heart attack to her parents from when she eloped with this young man whom I would like to call X. When this thing happened was when she was just a teenager at the age of 15 years of age.
By the mercies of God the parents found her but she was already with Mr X,the parents pleaded with her to leave the young man and return home,she agreed to visit home but not to stay with the parents.
The young lady later got pregnant and under 3 years she had two more children and Mr X came to the home of my cousin to meet the family,but just as a form of introduction before Mr X was caught in armed robbery scandal that sent him to prison for a period of five years.
When Mr X was in prison, my cousin suffered a lot as she returned to the home of her parents,she swore never to do anything with Mr X,she later got another friend I will like to call Mr Y.
Mr Y developed interest in her and was kind to the children of Mr X,though Mr Y was very much older than my cousin, he had genuine interest to marry her,but my cousin kept posting him.
Mr Y's parents got wind of the information of Mr X and swore that Mr Y would never marry my cousin for the sake of his life.
Eventually Mr X came out from prison and wanted my cousin back,but she vehemently refused that he should just come to take care of his kids because she's no more interested in doing anything with him.
Mr X was furious suspecting that my cousin must have gotten another man,Mr Y on his own part swore to go contrary to what his parents say because he had real love for that my cousin.
The issue here now is,my cousin is doing fine business wise and both Mr X and Mr Y wants her,what would she do?
Cancel everything marriage or..?

OP, I don twist this your story into something else, lol. I go release am on my TikTok page soon😂😂😂

What is this?

TimeManager:
Lere Olayinka, media aide to the Minister of the Federal Capital Territory, Nyesom Wike, has sparked controversy after reacting to Peter Obi’s condolence visit to the family of late Super Eagles goalkeeper, Peter Rufai.

Peter Obi, the Labour Party’s 2023 presidential candidate, visited the Rufai family on Saturday, August 23, 2025, at their residence in Amuwo Odofin, Lagos—one day after the football icon was buried.

Obi, accompanied by former international Sylvanus Okpala, spent time with the family, offered prayers, and signed the condolence register.

He explained that he had only learned of the burial date the day before, while in Abuja, and flew to Lagos early that morning to pay his respects.

However, shortly after the visit, Olayinka took to social media to question the motive behind Obi’s action.

In a post on X (formerly Twitter), he wrote:



https://x.com/OlayinkaLere/status/1959235834965578008?t=9kajemHourfkr1uKEhNFMA&s=19

The tweet appeared to link Obi’s visit to earlier comments made by former Super Eagles defender Taribo West, who had criticized the silence of Nigerian Football Federation and other local football association following Rufai’s death.

Olayinka suggested that Obi’s visit was a reaction to that criticism and aimed more at gaining media attention than offering genuine condolence.

His remarks sparked mixed reactions online.

While critics of Obi echoed Olayinka’s view, accusing the former Anambra governor of using the visit for publicity, others defended Obi’s actions, describing them as sincere and timely given his explanation.

Lere just goofed on this one, chai! What a shameless personality.

Burob:
what experience does Gringory Obi have compared to the present president, Obi is just a Typical case of empty barrels will always make the loudest noise.

Just a rich petty trader that read philosophy, turned politician.

The joker promised u that he wants to finish Tinubu’s second term for him? e try, e go wait well well

What experience does your fraud and messiah in Aso Rock have as well if not experience in fraud, criminality and to gather plunderers to steal your future and that of your children's children.

alphonsojaybaz:
https://eyesoflagos.com/nollywood-star-mercy-ebosele-welcomes-twins-celebrates-double-blessings/

Congratulation. Mercy with the sauce. One of my favourite Nollywood actors and her friend, Mosun Filani.

khanivorous:
Naira land needs this overhauling

Lowlifes and defectoid in guide of tribal warrior has become a national issue

Among them are the mods with alternate accounts. I caught two of them handed recently.

[quote author=chopnaira post=136552403][/quote]So to you, you believe most Igbos will forgive Awolowo for his ignoble role during the civil war right? And they don't know who Tinubu really is? You believe they don't know that Tinubu is one of the tactical sponsors of tribal war in Nigeria especially between the Igbos and Yoruba. Someone who was quoted to have said he doesn't believe in one Nigeria. Double Standard is that you?

Pootle:
till date his still a picker for senior Y boys, time will catch up with him as it did to shatta wale

You sabi the game. You be real OG, na wetin those senior men dey do now

RollinTNDA:
You see that if a woman invest much in marriage. If you like carry her up and give her smack down she will not leave that marriage.

The reason women easily leave marriage is
.1. She didn't spend a dime on you
2. Bride price was paid by the man
3. Wedding bills by the man
4. House to live in bought by man

So when she sees that she has nothing she contributed she will leave the marriage after small argument with her

[b]When A Woman pays groom price
And bring 50% wedding money
And bring 50% money for household
[/b]If you like bomb the house with nuclear bomb. She will not leave that marriage ooo.

In this case she invested in the marriage to gain citizenship. Once women are invested in something. No matter how many slap you give her she will not back out easily.

The ones that easily divorce and walk away
They never invested anything so no loss for them.

With what you said, I just remember one of Ubunja's lesson on Redpill...

Creamypie:
Same reason that the moment a woman becomes very rich, she turns her husband to house boy at best. She will not even stay in same room with him. Her son will follow her to events, instead of her husband. What goes around comes around

Do you realise this thing you mention happen to a family member of recently? I used to read it in books, redpoll, etcetera until the incident happened to my big cousin. I was just speechless. Dem still dey solve their matter, nzogbu nzogbu😂😂😂

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
.
I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Someone should hold this guy. The thingy is at the early stage, there is still a remedy before it boomerangs

eniolorunfe:
I cringed reading the above. You think taking care of and raising a child/children is easy? You can’t live with a woman, but you think you can care for a baby without the mother? E go shock you.

What of women who died at childbirth? (Though not mocking them) Didn't their babies survived physically, mentally, intellectually without them?

DBestDoc:
It is very commendable you know and understand yourself so well at this point in your life. Please stick to this and never be pressured into marriage to avoid complicating your life and that of the other party.

Now, about surrogacy, there are no strong laws and regulations currently in Nigeria guiding its practice. However, fertility clinics have contracts that can work for you and will definitely help you make the arrangements you seek. All you need is available finances.

All the best!
Please stay away from Marriage.

Finance is not even the problem. I once ask my lawyer friend about this surrogacy of a thing but she thought it was a joke. I even googled about it but I can't find laws or more regulations about it in Nigeria and that's why I put it out here in the open for mature minds like you. Anyways, I appreciate your response. Thank you Chief.

MufasaLion:
You're on the right path. You have discovered yourself and that's the first step in life for a conscious human. There's nothing bad in securing a surrogate mother for your child. However, make sure you involve an attorney in all the processes.

Don't listen to the naysayers. Also, don't listen to the frustrated and bitter women. Moreso, don't listen to the bitter single mothers that became mothers due to their wayward and reckless lifestyle.

Thank you. I'll surely involve my lawyer.

Good day Nairalanders. Please, I don't want any ridicule or abuse. Let's us be civil in our comments and responses, please. I hope this is not to much to ask for.

This my personal decision. I will be 37 this year, and lately I discover I wasn’t not wired for marriage maybe it’s because I love my personal space, and the phobia for marriage especially bad news I keep hearing about marriage lately, turning two lovers and friends into hard-sworn enemies, child custody dramas, alimony, divorce, physical and mental abuse, manipulation, even assassination, etc. I can't imagine sharing my space permanently with a stranger because of "feelings" and societal expectation call "marriage". I never hate women. To attest to this fact, I have female friends, friends with benefits who we all vibes together. At times, some come my place crashing and staying over for the weekend. But in all this, I don't think I can ever be committed to a long term relationship, making one woman a centre of my world, the whole thing look bizzare, and illogical to me, and I see as a marriage as a "necessary distraction" for a man in reaching his life and personal goals. On this note, I've decided to seek surrogate mother just to birth a child, a seed I can call mine. I'll love to pay off the person and she will never have any legal claim to the "product" of the surrogacy. Now I ask, what does the law says about this kind of surrogacy in Nigeria? Is it realistic?

Babalegba:
Lol, cursed money will never do anything good and long lasting.

Dey play, you should have said the same for politicians in Nigeria, lol

alphonsojaybaz:
https://eyesoflagos.com/lagos-government-responds-to-pellers-%e2%82%a636m-tax-complaint-all-income-earners-must-pay/

Wait o, let's even start from here, Is Tinubu also paying his tax, Nigeria governors, senators, rep. members, etc are they also paying their taxes like the Nigeria masses? Maybe we should start from there.

“99% of all Nigerian officials do not pay taxes and have not for decades…”

—Anonymous

alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/mohbad-was-using-wunmis-moms-account-to-receive-money-naira-marley-alleges/

How Mohbad died is very visible to the wise and most especially who killed him. Although Naira Marley, Sam Larry, and Wunmi contributed to his depression episodes but one out of this three used an excuse or should I say alibi to kpai Mohbad with the help of another unknown person. Think guys! A lot of lessons learnt from this guy death. I'll rather walk and work alone than be in the midst of fake friends, family.

Freshtruth:
She ordered this on her list date who your next step in action broooo

Which one is your next move? She's paying for the goddam thingy

OgaSeun:
He signed a deal bro.

Where is your humanity? Because he signed a deal, he should go to the grave early for that? Your response really appalled me.

OgaSeun:
Na only Obidients dey believe say na Naira kill Mohbad...
Dem hate the guy because he dey support Tinubu...
Dem wan nail am.. But God pass una

No one accuse him of being a killer, but Naira, Sam Larry and their cohorts are directly and indirectly instrumental to the guy sleeping in the grave so quick.