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Tell the man you've been hearing stories of his daughter and boys visiting her at home.Tell him that staff also goes to see her at home.
Tell him he needs to watch his daughter.

You don't have to give further details.He should do something with that piece of information.

Will that stop him from taking a second wife now?Foolishness

Person papa.What a shame.

Op,you said about 9 out of 10 of your friends cheat.I'll like to know why some if them did it.
Not general reasons like you have above but specific reasons.

Are you sure you are 21?
You can marry at your age if the maturity is there and the financial wherewithal.
I hope the lady also learnt a skill to bring her some income and not just think marriage is an ATM-card-at-hand.

Bluffly:
Why would you say it is common with men because they are physically strong. Please implore some reasonings before making comments

Do you even need reasoning with this?It's elementary statistics.

webincomeplus:
Cancer since 2006? Cancer's got no such chill!

That may not have been the initial diagnosis but she needs to be screened now.

Have you screened her for cancer?
What do you mean by the doctors do not know what is wrong with her?Go to a teaching hospital.

theplanmaker:
Do men derive pleasure in beating women? I think women provoke their husbands to violence, and then the men lack self control, or a naturally bad tempered. The result is this

If you ever live with a woman,if you check the tongue properly,you will see a blade there.
Most women bridle their tongues however,especially if you are a husband who is patient and do not stir up strife unnecessarily.
There are bad tempered men who vent their anger and frustrations on the one who is most available to them........the wife and in some cases the children.

It could be men or women.There are some troublesome women who are also violent as the lady in this case.They cut with their tongues and do damage with their hands.
It's more common with men however being the physically stronger one.

That's a viper.How did that get near you?

The wife should have told him she had that issue while they were dating.
It's a foundation based on deceit and if the man wants to walk away,he can.

There should be no reason for divorce if the couple live by Christian doctrines.
The bible says love is the greatest of all.

Op,how old are you?

Bluffly:
Exactly what I am saying. There is a difference in communicating well and one party being stubborn. No effective communication and drive home a stubborn person because he/she is already clouded by selfishness. Details of how he communicated weren't in the post but you assumed it.

I didn't assume.My comment was based on the reported story though you are right it's not the full story.

You're assuming she's a stubborn lady. There's nowhere it was stated in the post that she's a stubborn lady.

Bluffly:
Why I mentioned women is because you blamed the husband rather than to condemn the barbaric act.

Well from the story,the man could have prevented all that drama.I don't support the woman's action because it's an assault but if the man had communicated well with the wife it would not have resulted in violence.

Bluffly:
What are you saying as if the wife wasn't aware? You do not throw a blanket response when you do not have full details of the conversation or what transpired. You only have details of the act and not what happened before the act.
Outside fasting, do wives not constantly refuse their husbands?

Your comment has more to do with what women do,isn't it?
My comment is based on the report given.

Na wa.
When you decide to fast,you carry your partner along and not just reject her.The bible says your body belongs to your partner in marriage.

aieo:
are u a nurse sir?

No.

Onegai:
My brother,

What are you still doing in Obodo Nigeria? When you could be a specialist driving a Mercedes outside the country.

My sister,i tried but it didn't work out at that time so I just chilled.Still working on something.

Na wa in the health sector.Now there's UGONSA and different groups keep springing up and the wrangling continues.

Evil thing The innocent priest was preparing for his father's burial,why double his family's sorrow?

These criminals deserve a slow death.

Yes Lagos is very dirty of recent.Refuse everywhere.I learnt the government is working on a new sanitation arrangement and that's why that sector is asleep right now.

Yeye dey worry am.Stoop your manhood low indeed.
What culture forbids a man to cook for himself after marriage?
All these village champions sef.

Irresponsible behaviour.

They want to kill you?Abeg is there any other sibling your wife has,guess that one is coming too?

Op,if you ask her to leave and she doesn't,what are you going to do?Throw out her things and push her out?

I think you just need to spell it out to her that she can't keep staying and tell her you give her a certain amount of days to sort herself out.

You will need to bear,however.

What do you want them to call you when you already have pot belly?

dumie:
Is this the norm now, to return the Bride Price
She should have just stayed with her Lebanese husband and not this end time ooni

So why didn't she stay with the Lebanese?The Ooni is end time but she's not?

They are birds of a feather jare.

HelenBee:
Ex school mate. I'm surprised.

So he should be like how old?

She will probably lick anything with that money.

Ishilove:
True, though not all the time. When I was a teen you'd need a fully charged, industrial size battery to kick start me to party.

You must have been well grounded.

Teenagers should be guided.They need to slow down.