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This is not a black mamba.It looks like a black rat snake.

P-young but e con old like that.

But why?

Why all these manipulations?

Ultrasound sonographer's error.
Sometimes it's hard to pick the sex especially if the baby is 'shy' and hides his Willie.

chiraqDemon:
A genuine pastor will not be in a situation where he'll have to be knocked out by burna

Some people just look for trouble even when you're on your own.

bukatyne:
In Lagos for instance: The commercial hubs are V/I, Ikeja, Apapa, Ikoyi and Lekki and only about 10% of people live around there.

Also, there is the challenge of not finishing up by 5pm and extra hours required.

So what do you suggest ?

If you can't afford to rent a place on the Island,you just have to make do with the present situation and that means the wife can't get home early.
In such a situation,I will only advise that she and her husband have a long term plan of a different kind of job or business.
I don't like the idea of doing that kind of 'mainland to Island' job for 25yrs>.

bukatyne:
Interesting....

However, I believe there are two things here:

A woman whose workplace is far to the home: so she closes 5:30pm + X hours to get home (where X is 1hr 30mins and above). Let's call her Mrs. A

A woman who likes to 'work' or close late: so she closes 8:30pm and drives 15mins home... Let's call her Mrs. B

Both of them will get home late;

What will you advise both of them to do?

What's your definition of late BTW?

As much as possible,a woman should live not too far from her workplace.Also the work hours should be like 8-4pm or 9-5pm,except there are shifts.
Once the night falls,it's late.......i.e by 7pm is ideal.

A wife should work.
However,I personally think that a wife not just woman,should take on jobs that do not keep her away from the home for long hours.

No woman should put herself under pressure of having a baby boy.I know it can be hard especially if you come from certain parts of the country where they harp on having a male child.

From knowledge in medical science however,there are things you can do to increase your chances of having the sex that you want.Factors such as timing of sex,ovulation time,volume of seemen or ejaculate, etc play a vital role.

akinade28:
Ok, but what will u gain by "knocking one of them"
Just wondering

He should actually go ahead,mumu.
Like it's a lawless country and you'll walk free.

Do that to a genuine pastor and find out what it means to 'hit the rock and be broken'.

Exuberance and indulgence can be excessive and fatal sometimes.

Ishilove:
Please let us stop deceiving ourselves. You know the bolded is a gross understatement.

Ishilove you're good(by my subjective assessment) and I'm someone above fraud and crime too.Don't you think there are many like us?

Womenrep:
Thank you, yes, I'll be careful. Is it a friendly environment ?friendly people

Yes,Nigerians are very friendly.A few are unscrupulous.

Def111 already shared good advise.Be careful you don't hook up with a stranger though it's better you have someone who can guide you around the city.

BlackDBagba:
Tell your friend but please have some evidence. Like the text messages or calls or something. Otherwise, she'll think you're lusting after her man and cuz you can't have him, she can't.

Girls are f€#%ed up... SMH

^That's all.Tell her.

Ishilove:
Has she tried tracking him there?

He'll disappear(they always do once they see someone that knows them).
It was someone who knows the family that said he saw him but he didn't see the person.

Sterope:
Apparently, the book was not written for kids. The writer did not make any mistake, he didn't intend for the book to be read for or by kids

The writer is obviously a jerk.
How do you make a book that is colorful,with pictures drawn as cartoons with writings bold and peculiar to children books and put adult contents in it?
He's obviously a mischievous author.

Ishilove:
Kweeke!! My God! So what has happened to that poor child, Joseph jnr? Joseph Snr has probably gone somewhere else in Nigeria to keep haunting the earth.

The phenomenon of Akudaya, or 'embodied ghosts' is so bizarre it can't fully be explained.

Please, people, know the roots of whoever you want to marry to avoid stories that touch

The world is a mystery.There's a family friend who lost their brother.The last time I saw her,she said she heard her brother is in Kaduna and has settled down there.

Fraudsters.Desperate times.

To distribute his own songs or p-square songs?

Razakipaye:
I told d guy i am coming to pick it in two days time he said d parcel will be return to London if u dnt come dat day. and d wouldn't give anyone if not me. and he refuse to send their address to me.

Cheap scam.Tell him to keep the bomb parcel.

Immigration police no clear una commot.

He must like her for who she is.
He will need to change his bed from time to time.

She must have really suffered in his hands.

pocohantas:
How did she miss all that during courtship?
Narcissism is pretty difficult to conceal.

She has her own faults too definitely.She must be one of those girls that like smooth talkers or guys with the 'bad boy swag'.

Bharekta:
Not every Killing is cult related.....

You're right but this was an assassination and those behind it must have had a score to settle.

Legolast:
They cannot chose another path ni se



And for you, watin una sabi about Islam

Is the Quran and Hadith not readable?

Cult related i presume.What a waste!

Mariinee:
Loooooool. I don't need to read my Quran.
Stop peddling nonsense on what you know nothing about.

Don't be like the ostrich burying the head in the sand.Read about the two Jewish wives Muhammed married.
Read the Sahih al-Bukhari Volume 1,book 8 and read about Juwayriyyah who was also a Jew.

Mariinee:
You must be mistaken. The Quran doesn't and it certainly didn't happen during the days of the Prophet. Unless the person accepted Islam before getting married.

Go and read your Quran very well.Muhammed married a Jew named Safiyyah and she was even a war booty when Muhammed and his men invaded a town called Khaibar.

Mariinee:
It's vice-versa, sir.
A muslim shouldn't marry a non-muslim.

The Quran gives liberty for the men to do it and it was done during the times of Muhammed.

Legolast:
From my own point of view, this girl is just a muslim by name and birth but not by religion. Am very sure she is not using hijab. I have never seen a sensible devoted Muslim that will marry a Christian. For what? Muslim brothers has finished on earth?

You'd better wake up from your dream to reality. If you think you can't know peace in marriage if you didn't marry this Christian, I swear you won't know peace if you marry Christian. Better Sunnah brothers are out there.

Though the father too is wrong by not taking care of her but not wrong in telling her not to marry a Christian.

If my children marry a Christian, I will disown them in this life and the hereafter. What am I saying gan sef, they can't even think of marrying a Christian because the way they will be brought up will be in a way of a Salaf (pure Muslim) .

You do not have power over any man's life,not even your own children .
Just don't kill them if they choose a path different to yours.