₦airaland Forum

They want to kill you?Abeg is there any other sibling your wife has,guess that one is coming too?

Op,if you ask her to leave and she doesn't,what are you going to do?Throw out her things and push her out?

I think you just need to spell it out to her that she can't keep staying and tell her you give her a certain amount of days to sort herself out.

You will need to bear,however.

What do you want them to call you when you already have pot belly?

dumie:
Is this the norm now, to return the Bride Price
She should have just stayed with her Lebanese husband and not this end time ooni

So why didn't she stay with the Lebanese?The Ooni is end time but she's not?

They are birds of a feather jare.

HelenBee:
Ex school mate. I'm surprised.

So he should be like how old?

She will probably lick anything with that money.

Ishilove:
True, though not all the time. When I was a teen you'd need a fully charged, industrial size battery to kick start me to party.

You must have been well grounded.

Teenagers should be guided.They need to slow down.

freak33:
I will check and get back to you.
what should I expect?

It should read less than 100mg/DL.

freak33:
I don't take much water, yeah the weather is cold here.

Okay,just check your blood sugar if it persists.

If you drink a lot of water with the way the weather is presently, then you may not have anything to worry about.
You may need to do a fasting blood sugar test at a lab near you.

He for just manage am like that till him die.How do you divorce at 79yrs?

He is simply a fraudster who uses the cover of a 'so-called pastor' to defraud people.

Do you kiss them or do they see the parents doing it?
I think it's harmless anyway.They will outgrow it.

You were simply not a smart girl.

It's your life though.

Take heart.The Lord strengthen you.
I saw the struggles,sweat and emotional trauma she went through every time she brought the boy to the hospital whenever there was sickle cell crisis.To worsen it all her hubby left her to deal with it.

*Get tested everyone.Know your genotype and if you are AS genotype,ask and find out that of your potential partner while the relationship is still new.Dealing with a child having sickle-cell anemia is no child's play.Get wisdom!

needful:
My brothers and the men in my family are the useless men.

^^I agree .

needful:
Women has really suffered from this part of the world Calle Nigeria. Let me make a note.

A woman who married without a child, na wahala, because our men will cheat on that basis.

A woman who married and had a female without a male child, our men will cheat on that basis.

A woman who married and had a boys without a girl, problem because our men will cheat on that basis.

A woman who married and had boys and girls, our men will cheat because your breast must have fallen.

Chai, women don suffer. This are the reasons why I am a feminist. If you cheat on me I cheat on you and worst case scenario, we end it in court. If only women will rise and realize this facts, be independent, work harder for yourself. Stop depending on this men. Work hard and build an empire for yourself, no man will bully you. Women, get this point. 99% of men marrried you to give them children, simple. It's only men who married for companionship understood what marriage is all about and such men are rare to see. Unfortunately, I do not have time to pray for any man to change. It is only in nigeria that reasons are attached to immoral behaviours. You defy your bed and marriage vows and you still have the effrontery to lay blames on the other party. May God help us. Do me I do you, man no go vex.

This is not what feminism is about.

Make the house comfortable for her,help her out with chores and most importantly talk to her and encourage her often.
There will be another chance.You have to start trying again after a few weeks.

Pretty you said?

analice107:
But she needs to break it up with Wisdom. Guys like that can turn brutal and even hurt her.
When you see a guy acting like that, he can hurt someone.

True

How come he moved around without a phone?
May he be found soon hale and hearty.

MEILYN:
See what you are saying.. So the lady was right for holding the guy's shirt because of something the guy said about her backside?

Read well........i never said the lady was right.
The emphasis is on letting people be.No need to make snide remarks about a stranger or try to touch them.

Quite a number of guys really feel they can harass any girl/woman and get away with it.
A few days ago when i was around Ojodu bus stop,a fat lady with a huge backside walked past a group of guys and one of them shouted,'haaa,this is huge,you need to cut off some o'.The lady had to turn back to lock his shirt and said,'oya,cut it let me see'.It resulted into both of them slapping each other before they were separated.
It was absolutely unnecessary on the guy's part.

Op,wey ya picture?

ngwababe:
That's how they will be praising you, once you get married to them, they turn you to a house wife,accusing you of sleeping with everything that comes around you because you want to get contracts!

You've been meeting the wrong men.

When he comes back,you need to trash out the issue with him.

Why did he travel for the festive season leaving you behind anyway?

By the way it's why can't my husband be trusted and not why can't men be trusted?

He can't forget but if he has truly forgiven as he said,then he should let go and not let the incident determine how he deals with his wife now.
He needs to see a professional counsellor/psychologist.

Violence everywhere.
One needs to be careful and not 'show oneself' anyhow.A lot of evil people abound.

The father insisted he won't marry that lady and I guess he got what he wanted.

What kind of annoyance will make a son pour hot water on his father?They let anger and violence ruin everything.

Nne5:
Yes.Dogmas.
They follow their dogmas too religiously and I think that in itself is a sin.

I don't mind their sticking to what they believe but when they start making others like look sinners,that I don't accept.

It's a question of doctrines and interpretation of Scriptures.
The things Deeperlifers have been indoctrinated with like wearing trousers,wearing earings,using make-ups(which the Bible has not made sin) makes them see other churches as being unholy,so they hardly attend other churches.