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Does the pain come when it's about time for your period or it's there all the time?
Have you used your hands to check for any lumps?

Tell them to pray for you there and God will hear as distance is not a barrier.
Pray also that God will send help to you.

Don't let them intimidate you into accepting what you don't want.
If you have come this far,believe God will make a way and see you through.

She doesn't look 24yrs.

sinaj:
C.R 52?

Thought he is in his 30s.

He really has a nice stature

He's like Pharrell Williams.You won't believe that guy too is 44yrs.

All the way from Sapele to Lagos?E be like say if you vex person,na kill now.

Psycho. A strange voice in your head told you to kill her.

Op,na ya sister?E good make she re-marry.Man shall not live............alone.

Ewuro4:
Oh well, my team lost tonight!

You support the Cavaliers?

Hmmmm.Where did the cocaine come from?
All these Alhaji dem.

Daboomb:
So, you will leave your Husband and children ......and make your siblings the beneficiary of your property?
Are you so *******?

No ownder some of you get murdered by your siblings, you made them do it.

You obviously can't read properly and in a haste to quote and comment wrote stupidly.
Did you see that I wrote her sibling or child?Who else would she have made next of kin?
Did you read the story at all to see she could not have made her husband next of kin?
By the way,you thinking of siblings murdering each other tells the kind of family you come from,definitely not the type of mine.

Your own case is no wonder your stupidity kills you.

Na wa.He obviously wants to acquire that property.It's sad the woman didn't know she was going to die.She ought to have made her own sibling or child next of kin.

Does she have a father or mother?They are the ones responsible for giving her money.

I have reservations about someone you have not met coming to marry you.You both need to see PHYSICALLY first before deciding to marry.
You can't tell if he is stingy or not,there has to be a physical connection IMO before judging.

So he turned a captain's arm band to his personal property?Overdo!The GFA too were ignorant.
Yes,he should be sanctioned.

Why won't the tailor make something trashy when in the first place the young girls of this generation want to wear trashy clothes?

Psalm 134:2 says lift up your hands in the sanctuary and praise the Lord.

The word of God teaches us to do so.

It's not right to do during Ramadan but it's right to do after Ramadan.Hypocrite.

People like you should get the death sentence.

Is joystick the only thing you think about in this generation?

Berbierklaus:
But haven't men proved this assertion true time and again?

Take it easy on the men hating.It's too poor to generalise.

wadetaw202:
She can take the pills 72 hours after, but effectiveness reduces with time

It's more than 96hrs now.

The mother's right to tell her that.You should tell her too not to do that to any other uncle.It's better she grows up that way.
Don't take it personal,it's not about you

Water101:
He does not live wit dem he visits and go back expecially sundays.

She should let him know it happened and he should be barred from coming to the house.

PaperLace:
Cc: Thorpido.

They really took a great risk, but that's water under the bridge now. I guess the BIL has bipolar disorder.

A great risk indeed.You can't leave an able bodied man with a mental health issue around a vulnerable woman.
Anyway,the deed is done.She should let the husband know.How she will break it down is what she should think about.The family knows about the health issue so the husband is in a position to believe her.
It's possible to get pregnant because those little swimmers can live up to four days.It's too late for morning after pill.Let her hope she doesn't get pregnant.

dingbang:
For a man to be desirable.. First he has to be healthy.. When I mean healthy, I mean he shouldnt have a pot belly.. Always take his bath after work and smell good. That's all...

...and should not be a one-munute man in za oza room.

samguru:
haba madam, why did come down on so heavy,I decided to conceal some of what she did because i don't want to wash her dirty linens on nairaland, but your comment will make me to go further.

When i met this lady, she was working and i was working too.a week before i met her a company poached me and offered two times of my salary. infact i was a toast of many companies in the industry.

three weeks into the relationship she started disturbing about marriage,i told her i have not known much of you that lets give ourselves time to study each other.Anytime i made the statement she always cries and say i dont really love her that i just want to use and dump her, but i kept reassuring that i love her.most of the times she will ask me to sleep with her to make her happy in the course of this pregnancy came up.

to cut the long story short, i lost my job a month after resumption for no reason, i even posted it here on nairaland on how to sue the company but many nairalanders counsel me to forget and move on.during this period she kept on pestering my life for wedding and threatened to abort the pregnancy without recourse to my state of joblessness.A month later i reapplied to my former company and was taken back immediately.

A month after our wedding, i lost the job again and was totally down and all she could do in this time is to be causing me more headaches.
She will ask me to go to market to get her foodstuff and ask me to do other things, i obliged because i wanted peace.

I told her to bring the child she has for her former husband into the house,play with him,buy him stuffs(biscuits and sweets), at a point she was complaining that i too like her child and i told her i see the boy as my child.when i said that wahala started.

Thereafter all the companies that have been calling me in the past that i visited, they are now rejecting me,in short i thought the world has come to an end for me, instead of her to be consoling me she will be threatening and frustrating my life.

when i eventually got a job, i told her i have got a job but we need to borrow money for the family upkeep and my transportation fare,trouble started again, she said why will i discuss such thing with her and i left the house immediately because she is violent.when i came back in the night she was drunk, she wanted to kill me that night with a bottle but i manage to escape.

Another one, i have appointment somewhere on the island one day, she said she would not allow me to go out that day and i told her how important that appointment was she said no that i must give her money, i had just seven hundred naira with me and i gave her five hundred naira, she collected the money and tore it to pieces, i reported this to her elder brother and brother was telling me i am too soft as a man, eventually i missed the appointment and lost the job.

many bad things that i can remember.

You are indeed too soft as a man.You are not street wise either. A woman you had not known for a month starts disturbing you to wed her(and she being a single mother) and red lights didn't go off in your head especially when she's quick to say you should lie with her?

You need to put yourself back together cateer-wise.You have been separated from her for some time and you should remain so.I don't know how reconciling with this woman can work because it seems she has a personality issue.

ideology:
No contraceptive is safe, most of the are the reason most ladies have fibroid.

Not all of them.There's no link between condoms and fibroids.

You see a single mother,because of the offer of kpekus,you climb sharp sharp dey grind unprotected.Your case be as e get.

Talk to her.Tell her you know what's going on and that she needs to stop it.If she wants to be sexually active,there are contraceptive options for her rather than getting pregnant and contemplating abortion.
I wish I could talk some sense into her head.

obidevine:
That's not the point

So what's the point?

Funny.It wasn't a Nigerian who put that up I believe.

Fiction. Mcheeew

How do girls get attracted to guys looking like this?smh

Wetin dey hold you?Money no dey or you no love am?