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If you doesn't shy,ngwanu put ya pics for ya profile make him observe you.

Which village is that woman from and aren't the children(hubby and wife)educated enough to say no to the mother-in-law's absurdity?
Op,say you made up this story.

damiso:
I see a lot people wearing them to the Gym or while working out .. Guess it works for them.A lt swear that it helped strengthen their core and get flat abs

I have not/don't intend to try it though cos they are so darn uncomfortable even when you wear them when not working out

The concept has been around in different forms for a while now though ieorsets,girdles, body magic etc so I don't think its going anywhere soon. I guess the fad bit might be people training/working out in them.

Wearing a waist clincher while exercising,especially if you are doing exercises for the abdominals is counter-productive.It doesn't allow your abdominal and back muscles to be exercised adequately but gives the false impression that your stomach muscles are getting tighter.
It doesn't allow your lungs to take in air adequately too.

@Op,I'll say it's just a fad.

Life begins at 40 as they say.
You can start something from where you are even now.The man who doesn't have hope is the man in the grave.
You are obviously a victim of polygamy but you can still make something out of your life.

What skill have you learnt?What ideas have you gained from your travels that you can utilise?
Start from there.

Skmoda360:
Complete your statement in english.

......'Make she come back sharp sharp,you hear'

She's supposed to kneel there and hold the tray while the man eats.


Did your uncle complain?Better collect the small change they want to give you and leave their house.

If bottle is what they like,why stop them?What you need to pay attention to is the treatment of the bottles.How do you clean them?Bottle feeding can cause gastroenteritis but with adequate cleaning,you don't have to worry about that.
You also need to pay attention to what they want to eat,toddlers can be selective.Just try to balance their diet.
You could also give something to stimulate their appetite like multivitamins.

Beautiful when taken but not worth the risk.

Na wa o.You ought to know what kind of job your wife is taking up.Moreover,why allow her to move that far away without being certain of the type of work?
Now that you know who she works with,tell her to laghachite azu sharp sharp,e nu go?

Kidsfirst with first bank.Interest rate is the same poor rate.There are some incentives like you could win gifts on special days e.g children's day.If you maintain a minimum of N150k for a year,you could win a scholarship.You also get invited(the kid) to some special events organised by the bank.

^^^You're wrong about that,ijaya123

Carry go sandani.She's your daughter so you don't have any inhibitions.Next time use something more trendy like a carrier,not a towel.

They obviously have communication issues.I hope they really know each other and this was not an obodo oyinbo marriage.
I think she should endure a bit while trying to secure her papers.That length of time will give her emough time to make a decision of whether to stay after getting her papers or move back to Nigeria to stabilise.The hubby's program may be taking its toll on finances now but they should have considered that before deciding on relocating.

inqusitivebeing:
Personally, I've been feeling suicidal for over a year now. I've really wanted to take my life because things are not ok.

What exactly are your challenges?

I don't understand their english sef.

Pat,so you're pregnant?Your mom must hear this.

If you are 6mths pregnant already,then there's nothing to cover up inform your parents - directly or indirectly.

I hope it's genuine.Love has no boundary.
Why you come dress like that for wedding na?

She's staying off sex but she can't stay off drinking?
Somehow I don't believe her story,at least not the way it happened.Was it a closed party where others are not present?I believe she simply had an affair.
Well you can determine if to forgive or not.

She was trying to appear in birthday suit.
Some girls displaying foolishness in the name of fashion and keeping up with the joneses.

India the land of gang-rapists.
People should consider security when they decide to stay in any place at such a time as this.

gynny:
sometimes he does'nt call for days. We only see on public holidays, thats the only time he has for visits.

If he doesn't call for days,that's not good enough and he only has time during holidays to see you.
I think you're right here,he's not doing enough.I'll advise you start to think of him less and occupy yourself with other things.If you show him less attention and he doesn't change,then you may have to let go.

He doesn't call you throughout the day or doesn't call you many times in a day?How often do you see each other?

Does he love her?Is she willing to further her education and develop herself?
If the answer is positive,he is free to go ahead.

Are you a roman catholic op?
How is preventing pregnancy a sin?Plan your family.

If you live there in the compound,then you will have to abide by the rules and attend the activities of the church.
Just do what is required while you try to get your independence.

She collapsed from exhaustion.

Not having much money is no barrier to getting a good wife - emphasis on good.However,getting a woman to marry you in your present state will be a bit challenging.
Keep working hard and source for other sources of income.Build your self-confidence too.

If I may add,since you are 35,it will be easier to find ladies who are 30yrs and above to marry you so consider that.

mixxture:
dis maybe sound silly but its relly hurting me, pls wat does it mean if someone u dont talk or relate with , u notice he always dodge is face from u anytime he is with is friends or girl and u are coming or passing bye?? pls can someone relate to dis? pls help me

Just ignore the behaviour since he has no confrontation with you.If you have mutual friends,you could just ask them why he acts like that towards you.All in all,don't let people's behaviour define your life.

killsmith:
mysterious deaths.....but I'd rather not talk about the past.....

Sorry about your losses.It's important that you draw close to God in view of your circumstance.
May God heal your heart.

Mindfulness:
Are love and affection limited resources?

Why not give love and affection lavishly and inexhaustibly to everyone?

Abi.Why does it have to be a question of more love and affection towards one or the other?

D&C or better still pregnancies can alter the length of a monthly cycle.You could also be experiencing hormonal imbalance which is the reason for your change in days of cycle.
Since you are still seeing your period and ovulating,i don't think you should be worried.However,you can visit a hospital to see the doctor to reassure yourself.Like vampireeM said,do a scan to check that your womb is okay.

pickabeau1:
The girl is an orphan

Aww,no wonder.I missed that in the post.She was vulnerable.