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Happy birthday.Welcome to the club.

For most toddlers,it's that way.You just have to keep trying.
One thing about toddlers is engaging their interests.Does he like songs?Sing those favourite songs to him and it helps get their cooperation.Another thing you can try is doing it in front of his favourite cartoon on television.

toprealman:
Truth is bitter son. You droll over the others pic but outrightly condemned the one with little effect to your "effector organ". Let's not brag about education OK. Na Sunday school I still de biko kwa.

You're obviously just a young troll.

toprealman:
so you are ok with the second pic for obvious reason... See ur life?

You conclude that because I didn't make a comment about that,I'm ok with it?What kind of education do you people receive nowadays?

Something is fundamentally wrong with the marriage especially the way the man feels about his wife.How do you being sane beat up your pregnant wife?

*Maybe the man is having an affair.....,...with the dog.

That lady in cream outfit in the first pic was just being silly.

Drabeey:
Yeah no p. my company is closed for the year.
I'm thinking of checking her over at the general hospital today. but I don't know her name neither do I know how to go about seeing her.
plus if anyone can help..I'll be really happy

Go to the Accident and Emergency section of LASUTH.If that is where they took her to,then she will still be at the A & E.
Good job Op.Follow her up.

Laeroy,
You are normal,you probaby just grew up in a not too friendly environment that has affected your state of mind and makes you get very defensive.
Bellong has said it,you just need people management skills.There is much evil in the land but there's a lot to live for at the same time.One of the things I'll want you to do is to start impacting others.Begin to be a source of inspiration to other people especially people who are not necessarily your friends.
You say you are married which means you have dated and courted someone.How did you cope(and still cope) with him?He's obviously not perfect which means tolerance must be involved.Employ that tolerance in your dealings with other people.
If you want me to talk to you,I could send you a mail.

BlackXtar:
Want to sell $200 on paypal. I'd interested quote me. My going price is $1=N250

I need some paypal funds.Holla

egobetatoday:
well, christian girls love money. its so easy to get them once u have material possession.

So this statement of yours applies only to Christian girls?You must be burying your head in the sand.

isaaci:
The company i work with paid me well and i felt that in a relationship when one person is down the other should lend a hand within his or her ability. My parents are in the same town where i school. They are both retired from the civil service

Your parents are retired from the civil service and the little funds you make you decide to spend on a man not giving attention to your retiree prarents(i stand to be corrected).It's not the way to live but like you said,you now know better.

It's not advisable but many have done it and done well with it.The question is why do you want to?
Just feelings?
You have to know that if you do,it won't be easy.There are things to look at.Are you going to get pregnant right away?Who pays your school fees and your sustenance?

crownprince102:
lol....... I know Adolf Hitler and Charles Taylor to be christians.

Does that mean Christianity teaches brutality?

You haven't said anything relevant to the Op.

abduljabbar4:


And so what if you dont believe? Who are you? I dont know what these nairalanders see themselves as

You should have asked yourself this question before quoting me.What difference does your statement make?
Wisdom should have told you that if you had it.

philGeo:
They are educating you and you are here confusing yourself.

Do you even know what education is?

crownprince102:
Islam does not in anyway support victimizing others........

The prophet even signed a treaty of peace with the unbelievers.

Muhammed's uncle was not a muslim till dealth yet he live in peace with Muhammed

Words like these contradict the actions.What are we to believe?

Anyway...........'And the light shinneth in the darkness and the darkness comprehended it not'.

Jamaicans say bomboclat!
Heartbreak is hard for some people but killing yourself is extreme.Same girl be digging it with another man soon after.

He should keep trying.
Make e try Benin republic,enter Togo and Ghana.From there e don dey move.

Bellong has said it all.
You don't pack into a man's house if he has not done the rights of marriage with you.
Take this as a lesson and focus on your studies for now.There's time for relationships in the future.

Talk am here.

Na wa o.Na cardboard dem dey take make cars nowadays?
People seem to be so much in a hurry at this time.Everybody's rushing but half of them ain't looking.

Nice one.Pastor Adeboye is aging sha..........but na so for all of us too go grow.

Do you have family members in Lagos?Is there any one of them you can stay with for some time while you sort yourself out?

You need a place to stay where?

olutunde12:
Pastor of which church? Who made him a pastor? Which pastor school did he attend? Everybody likes to attack God through various means. What does the wife mean by repeating "and he is a pastor"? Let her answer those questions and you may need to say " I am sorry".

He must be a pastor of a church somewhere for the wife to have said so.Whether he was ordained or appointed himself is for another day.
No man can attack God,not even the devil.Some pastors(some so-called) are bringing shame to the church and we should talk about it.

kaeforum:
[/quote][quote author=kaeforum post=41159184]If na u will u restrain urself when ur wife decides to become ugly, shapless and fat, increasin her waist size from 30 to 44, with body and mouth odor.

Talk true u will start torpedoing other women including her niece that lives with u.

A wife changing and putting on weight is no reason to start cheating talkless of doing it with a niece.
You as a husband should work with your wife to ensure she keeps in shape and continues to look enticing.

By the way,my wife cannot be as you described above.Like they say,you go carry eye go market before you marry na.

Obafemi visits Oba.

Why can't men exercise restraint?It seems the ones who call themselves pastors are the main culprits nowadays.

heartbrokenwife:
Just to give an update. MY HPV was positive. It would now be sent for more tests to be sure it hasn't gone to cancerous stage. He has also impregnated about 2 women, one sells shoes in market and the other is a hair dresser. This is a man who makes almost 2million naira monthly.

I have decided i have to leave, He has told me he has been doing this since he was a teenager, so thinking he will change now is futile. He is not sexually attracted to me, but rather to extremely fat women. His women were prostitutes, fat pregnant women, even importing fat girls from the village for sex....and many other things. My family is still not in support but i have to look out for myself and my only child.

I'm pro-marriage but this one doesn't look like it's worth it most especially because i don't think your husband will change(at least not anytime soon).
You could say you want to stay because of your child and the effect of divorce on him but staying in an unhappy marriage and with a reckless husband will also have an effect on him.
I knew he didn't just start this lifestyle after marriage,you said he confessed he has been that way since a teenager.There are guys who just want to 'chop life' to the full and your hubby is one of them.
You must have seen this lifestyle while dating him and you actually said you did but still went ahead to marry him.I know it's late but for the sake of single ladies who are reading this,marriage should not be do or die.(You have options.There are men not to be married to especially if you want your sanity).

A positive HPV test does not mean you will end up with cancer but you need to be monitored.You should have a pap smear every year or twice a year depending on your age.Get to see a gynaecologist where you are who will monitor you and if you develop any symptoms like warts,get treated.

If he wants to leave you,you can't do anything about it unfortunately.You had consensual sex and agreed to have those abortions so you can't hold him down.Count your losses and move on.

To the young ladies reading this,take responsibility for your lives especially your sexual life.No man outside of marriage owes you anything if the relationship ends.