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He will lose his licence.
The doctor let the devil whisper in his ears.

Wasted life.........yet many will still not learn.

I pity the poor parents who have laboured much.

She should get feeding allowance and some money for personal needs.
U can call that a salary abi?

Now this calls for serious concern.Why is the government not dealing with this like Ebola?
Lagos is a critical place to have an epidemic.

cococandy:
Yea I know.

Still the young man is bearing the brunt now. Medical conditions aren't what one lies about to hold down a partner. As it is very unfair to foist the responsibility of dealing with such issues on them without their knowledge.

If I were her. I'd rather remain single if no man can handle that truth about me than get married to someone who will resent me all his life.

So true.
Being a sickler,having epilepsy,adult bedwetting just to name a few are not things that one should hide.It's enough to make a partner call off the marriage.

cococandy:
OP sorry about your luck.
Read thorpido's post again.

Na wa for her sha. Why hide such from you until after the marriage? That's deception.

It's deception but that was probably what has kept her from hooking a man till her 30s and she must have been desperate.

When a man decides to marry a lady(or vice versa),he takes everything.............garbage and all.
That is why when you decide to marry,observe due diligence and get some background info.If you are okay,then marry and it's a new beginning for both of you.

When guys see a girl walking on the road and begin to look at the ukwu and say whao,this is it,make dem no complain after.

Even if he decides to confront the wife,I don't see how that will change anything about the past.Make the guy renew his mind.After all,he didn't meet her a virgin.

Go to a teaching hospital or multi-specialist hospital and ask to see a urologist.
The most practical solutions are to cut down on water consumption in the night and use an alarm clock to wake up intermittently to urinate.

plaetton:
Maybe you don't understand the definition of faith.

It is silly, by every measure, for one faith to claim supremacy over another faith.

It's like claiming that superman is truer than Batman.

Where in my posts did i mention supremacy over another faith?I told you,you lack comprehension and understanding!

The faiths do not lead to the same place........that has been my position,i did not even raise the issue of supremacy.

Talking about superman and batman,do they wear the same cape?Do they fly the same?

Naija police officer fit sell the baby.

plaetton:
Yes indeed. I completely lack understanding about how semi-primitive Africans like yourself, know something that the entire Jewish race does not know.

And yes, I clearly lack understanding as to how you know and understand soooo much more that the Catholic Church, The Mother Church, the oldest and most continuous chancery in the world.

Big english,poor understanding of simple things!

If a man represents a faith that says this is the way,why would he say other faiths that deny and reject the very faith he professes have the same destination as the one he represents if he is not confused?
It's simple enough but your haughtiness and a lack of understanding can't make you see something simple enough.
Who's talking about a whole Jewish race or escatology?You should be ashamed of yourself that the education of the white man you despise has only made you an example of the primitive man you so much talk about.A man lacking comprehension.

No wonder the bible got you so confused!

kateskitty:
Islam is the second largest religious population in the world, I don't know how God could allow them all to go to hell.

Is it fair that out of all the people who write Jamb,only a small percentage get admission?Do you think everyone should pass just because they wrote it?

plaetton:
How nice.

Animist Africans know more about foreign religions than the foreigners .

Of course, it escapes you that these folks sold the lie to you in the first place, and are probably just trying to roll back and undue the damage they caused.

Poor you!
You don't realise the greater damage is your lack of understanding.

God help medical personnel.The other day some people were mocking that some medical personnel ran away from a suspected Lassa fever patient.Well,they shouldn't run but take extra pre-caution.Now the man's family has lost a breadwinner.


The world is troubled.

End time occurrences.

Confused pope if he said that.

People should learn to prevent pregnancy.There are many ways to do that instead of just birthing children and throwing them away.

naniawini:
100k

Have you guys got kids?
N100k might just be enough to take care of basic things.Perhaps you give your hubby the impression that you make enough to meet the needs in the house.Erase that impression if he has that.
I don't know if you have a good rapport with his mum.You can discuss this issue with his mum.

I dress the way every guy does, it's just that people say i walk/talk like a girl.

There was even a day like that, when i was still in sec. schl. We were asked to say our favourite sports and the guys started mentioning football, wrestling and so on. When it reached my turn, i said i love athletics and everybody was suprised.
They(including the teachers)said that any guy that doesn't fancy soccer as a sport is gay.

That's not correct @bolded.Athletics is not for females only and football is not the only sport.

naniawini:
I sell clothes. Depending on the hw d bale is i earn lik 20 to 30k

How much would that be averagely in a month?

What do you do?Do you work and how much do you earn?
If the job is not to work as a cleaner or a messenger,I think you hubby should accept it.Tell him it can be an avenue to get something better and he can always search for something better while doing that.
When some men have working wives who take care of all household expenses,it sometimes make them sit on their butts.

You may not be gay but I guess you are efffeminate.
How do you dress,talk,walk etc?Pay attention to the way girls do their thing and the way boys do their thing.Just. Try to do less of what girls do e.g waving their hands when they talk,swinging their hips when they walk.

NetBizguy:
No bro money is not the problem am even the one taking care of her, I know her fear to even start sleeping over it could be of the said woman time do pass, actually I have seen a lot of good beautiful ladies, well behaved from their younger days now in their middle and late thirties still single, so I wouldn't have tried reasoning it much before telling her to go on if the age difference was between 8 and 10yrs and it won't stop her education.

The fear of not getting a man to marry is unfounded really.At 18yrs old,why is she bothered about that?Doesn't she have aspirations,graduating from a higher institution or building a business?
I8yrs difference will make it difficult to flow with your partner.I want to believe she doesn't just want a husband,she wants a friend,a companion and a lover.

The question is why does she want to marry?To escape poverty?
Are your parents not capable of training your sisters till maturity or they need to marry them off to ease their responsibilities?
Your 18yr old sister should be in school or learning a trade and not be concerned about marriage now.

Men in their 70s can father a child so your elder sister not getting pregnant has nothing to do with age except he has low sper.m count.

tearoses:
This life is always a learning experience

I have been on NL for a number of years and I have seen plenty

@ vinehands Young man you need to change, You also need to pray very hard that you do not miss success just at the very edge of breakthrough. You also need to Pray for favour and pray for wisdom.

People with half your problem have been rallied round and assisted. Even some scammers with sob stories are helped (ive fallen victim to one) not to talk of people with real issues.

You came here insulting your aunty and everyone who tried to make you reason otherwise. Someone actually codedly offered you money but you insulted her.

Many Nairalanders have hearts and the way ive seen it work here time and time again is that if a story is verified and one person donates, other people feel confident enough to donate.
Instead you used your mouth to scatter everything

BTW No one is asking you to beg for anything before you insult me

What I am saying is that you know what your needs are and you should be able to detail those needs in a mature manner. Remember i told you that at the end of the day people close down their laptops and you are the one left with the problem.

Insulting your aunty and everyone else has not removed a penny from your debt or added a penny towards you graduating on time.

Madam ifyalways that you insulted is very good at linking people with jobs/hustle. She is a walking encyclopedia when it comes to these issues.

There is also a charity here on Nairaland but in your quest to blow everyone/everything down you didn't even give an opportunity for that to be mentioned.

At 24 you are not a kid any more. You need to change your ways. You are going out to the outside world soon.
Gra gra does not solve all problems. you will miss opportunities if you continue like this.
I wish you all the best.

Vinehands,you will do well to heed these words.I believe what you want is a solution and most especially to pay your debts and graduate,not to just complain or insult people because that does not settle debts.Learn to be humble too.It will help you in life.

No limbs?That's a hand there!
Nice gesture Di'ja.
By the way,is Don Jazzy the man in sunshades beside her?I no recognise am well.

Guys......,.
I guess there might be another who probably doesn't know how to use social media.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I'm working, it's just that I'm still in school.[/color]

Well demand less from her.Keep your expenditure mainly within your income.Manage what you have.

If she pays your bills,then she pays your bills.
You ought to wake up and leave mama's b.reast now.You. Should start doing some jobs to take care of your own bills.Your. Mom shouldn't be feeding you,fuelling your car,paying your insurance etc now.

Are you afraid the s.perm might travel all the way into the breas.tmilk and the child could suck it?

You can sleep with your breas.tfeeding wife without any problem but for the sake of getting pregnant again,you should practice safe sex.It is possible for your wife to get pregnant from 2mths after childbirth even if she is not seeing her period.

The guy go be like,cameraman take the shot quick.
Make the guy try am again after him wife don born.

Who's the bride?

JustHere2Observ:
Abortions occurring in first trimester pregnancy is usually caused by chromosomal abnormalities or rhesus factor incompatibility.

Gbam.

Op,if you are suffering from repeated miscarriages,you should have yourself checked out.Most miscarriages are spontaneous(based on the above factors),not because you did any bad thing.
Cervical incompetence is another factor.The cervix doesn't hold and the opening that should be closed opens up.
See a gynaecologist who would do some workup on you.

Be prayerful.