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laurenziz6:
Okay enlighten me ye that knoweth

Jesus did speak about a man and one wife.
When the jews came to ask him about divorce and remarrying,He said God's purpose from the beginning was for the man to have one wife just as God created one woman Eve for Adam.
He said God created them male and female,not male and females.Matt. 19

Freemanan:
Help me understand sir...

The purpose of Christ is to redeem man and give him eternal life so he can have the righteousness of God.
A man who has the righteousness of God does not have to keep Mosaic laws.He is no longer under the law.

He go get kolo.

Freemanan:
This is why the Jews are better Than the Christians... They adhere to the Mosaic law... But Christians prefer to interpret it as they understand.
Smh

You do not understand the purpose of Christ.

heykims:
The last time I checked, the Father of Christianity Abraham had more than one. Some ignoramus call it adultery, a whole Father of Christianity

Abraham is not the father of Christianity.He is called the father of faith and a jew who was also called a friend of God.

laurenziz6:
Marrying more than one wife is absolutely not a sin

Ask king Solomon he knows better


And before u say its old testament Jesus did not discourage or even said anything about marrying more than one wife

Its just the catholic church that brought that rule together with priests not marrying at all

You need accurate knowledge of scriptures.Jesus said,ye err not knowing the scriptures....

ssweetorgasm:
Well bro it is clearly stated in the bible that it is good for a man to marry only one wife but it is not a sin, but let us see it this way, i dont really think it is a sin to marry more than one wife, for example if your wife goes barren or refuses to give u a male child after so many years then i think the man is justified if he marries another wife, in other sense when your wife changes her character to a troublesome one and she refuses to change then it is justifiable for a man to find solace in the hands of another woman then thirdly when you have the money to take care of a whole community then i think it is justifiable to marry another wife instead of cheating, its a matter of choice but mind you marrying of more than one wife have numerous disadvantages from jealousy to hatred to fighting and all other devilish devices so to avoid all these it is good for a man to marry one wife, it brings oneness,peace, love and understanding.

I'm just laughing at the bolded and smh.

The man fit no know where the plane dey go sef.Him own na just carry go.

akinsal:
How long will u continue to search for someone wth d same direction n purpose? because u will agree wth me dat even persons wth same direction n purpose cud still have imperfections amongst them

The people who are not of the same direction and purpose do not have less imperfections.Human beings are not perfect.What people desire is someone who has a good moral background and a good character and flaws that one can live with.
Do you mean as a Christian for example,it would be so difficult to find someone who believes in Jesus and is of good moral background and character?

livingstone2013:
Getting a lawyer is an option that I am considering. Cause all my efforts for an amicable solution is futile. The excuse of her parents is that I want to make their daughter to become a single mother at young age and subject their family to mockery. Hence I must marry her. Her father said their daughther, as a single mother will find it difficult to get married to another guy cause of her pregnancy.

What rubbish?Why didn't they teach their daughter to abstain from sex?
Anyway na you don score goal,na you collect the golden boot.

If your story is true,get a lawyer.

People do marry other people of different faiths and they are able to keep the marriage together.
The bible however says can two people work together except they be agreed?Having the same direction and purpose is much better than having different beliefs.

Tim Tebow is a dedicated Christian.His love for God is most important to him.

Jesus said,'....your faith has made you whole'.
Your faith is where the miracle is.

The guy is an unstable guy.It has implications for the future.
She should make her decision considering that.

Crazy behaviours everywhere.

Let the guy go Op.You are not the best person for him.He deserves better.

Rukemi291:
The problem is that no woman can sit down and fold her arms when she knows the family needs her. Only men can.

The ego in those men won't let them be seen outside of the house doing certain jobs but it's just some men.A lot of men can't bear to stay home when there's a family to feed.

Yebo36,talk to the elderly man your husband respects and get him to have a frank talk with your husband.I agree he is not doing enough and men who have their wives financing the home tend to get lazy.
He should seek opportunities that require little skills and build himself from there.

Well sometimes break up might be inevitable especially where it could lead to permanent damage on the part of one of the couple.However,if one person leaves the marriage,he or she still has to play his/her role in the growth of the child.
A father or mother who abandons the children has failed and is not without blame.

She's no bride here.She's just a guest at an event.
It's a shame some people have lost dignity.

The brain matter is not found in the butt.
How do these researchers come up these results?

macof:
Wat are you saying? Aren't you the teacher. . Telling us what is religion and what is not

I said Christianity is not,you say it is and I said so be it as you desire.

bolaino:
I am a victim of Colonialism, I don't know about you.

You see that's the difference between you and I.You are a victim and thinks and acts like a victim.
Christ came to make me more than a conqueror,to make me a victor.
I do not have a victim mentality.

1feness:
What do you call the worship of a man nailed to a cross?

Well,I don't worship the man nailed to the cross but the One who sits on a throne in heaven exalted above the angels.The One Who is the first and the last and holds the keys of hell and of death.
His worship is not religion but a fellowship.A koinonia.

bolaino:
don't worry, carry the white man's religion on your head, you'll see where the religion will lead you to, Hossana in the highest. Smh

Carry the white man's education,civilisation and culture on your head too or you're not making use of any of the whiteman's resources?You're the hypocrite here if you do.

macof:
So nothing is religion then

If you say so according to your understanding.

Sniffer dogs.
You should have addressed the issue right there and then when you saw him sniffing instead of letting it pass.
Please find a way to return the girl to her mother while you assist financially.

DickDastardly:
Are the rest part of the bible not self explanatory enough yet they avoid only this?
Seems we have Pastors with bended minds.

The bible is full of different books put together.Not everything in the bible however addresses a Christian.eg the book of lamentations is also hardly ever referenced and that is because it addresses the sinner but not the righteous.

Christianity is never a religion in the first place.
Op,Christianity has been in existence before you and will outlast you.

What's there to teach?Those words are self-explanatory.

He should forgive even though it's hard.


Reminds me of the story of Joseph.His brothers hated him and eventually sold him as a slave.Tables turned later in life and the very person they sold was the one who became their saviour later.
Joseph said,you meant evil against me but God has turned it for good that He might save many people.

Two children and e no marry you.
M na adighi na udi nwa.