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ogugua88: Regular women too. In all my readings, I've never heard of "0%" days. Only "less likely" days. The only women who have 0% days are abstaining or non-active women to my knowledge.

Well I can speak of my wife.We had challenges with conception at the early stage of our marriage.That made us calculate and chart every day of her cycle.She has a regular cycle of 29days.Every month,the ovulation always fell between the 12th and 17th day.

ogugua88: Every woman is different. There are countless women who have become pregnant during their cycle, right after their cycle, and right before. There's no time of the month that a woman cannot get pregnant. There is always a possibility.

That's why I said it has to be a regular cycle.There are women who ovulate twice in a cycle and others who have irregular cycles.For such they can get pregnant at any time of the month.
If your cycle is regular,u will only get pregnant at a certain part of your cycle.

ogugua88: The bolded is false.

It's true.An egg only survives for 12-48hrs before it dies off if it is not fertilized.Sp.erm cells live only for about 5days before they die off.In a woman who has a regular cycle,the fertile period is usually not more than a week.

eluquenson: Simply a rhetorical question , shey single ladies they use birth control ni

There are single ladies on birth control.

I hope u are married if not I wonder why this is the FP option you chose.
See your doctor and try another FP method.
People have different bodies and so one method will not be best for another.

As for me,my wife isn't using any.For a regular cycle,you can only get pregnant in 7 days out of the whole 28days.If you've got discipline,abstinence for a few days and the use of a condom will suffice.

^^^anyone can write anything.

Try to go out with your parents and persuade them to let your drive some of the way.if you can do that a couple of times and you show them how much u've learn't and your driving is good enough,I'm sure they will let u drive often.
You need to always do your driving with them in the meanwhile.

kemiadekoya99: @stag

He is unemployed. I have a small boy of 15 years as a miad, he told mabout this. When i confronted him he denied it and left home

Lady,u've got a serious issue at hand.Your husband's joblessness is not the main issue but the type of man he is.
Unfortunately we don't know about your courtship and why and how you got married.When I see things like this i believe there's a problem with the foundation.You married a man that doesn't even respect you.

I won't advice you quit the relationship now but you need to evaluate your marriage and decide if you will continue in this.

Don't know why some people still take this risk.Vietnam of all places.

macof: no I am Yoruba.
I just wrote down wat I read and hear from Jews(the most reliable source to learn who Jesus really is)

What makes you think the Jews are the most reliable source?They didn't believe and accept Him.
Would you say the Aluu community are the most reliable source for the true story of the killing of the 'Aluu boys' as they were the first hand witnesses?

quivah: his life on earth??

Human!

Good.I just wanted to know your position.You believe Jesus existed yet there are some people who don't even believe He existed.
A man's belief is just a question of his/her position.
You believe He was of God and someone on this thread has even wrote that he was false,a fraud.
It's a question of a man's belief,which is no indication or proof of the Truth.
Your position for instance may differ from the position of a jew.

Reality check!
Most women have these illusion that the man will keep chasing,doing all stuff like he was before marriage.When he has married,he begins to chase other things.He has to look forward to a baby coming and other things to make the future better for his family.Most women don't understand this reality.

If the change you speak about is however bad habits and other vices,then I'll say,the man has been that way before marriage.He was just hiding those things and marriage has only made them obvious.

What bores u exactly?

^^can I just ask you a question?The life of Jesus,was it human life or not?

tex baba: I brougth in all christian cos most churches do communion service where bread nd wine is shared to the congregation. Its just that catholics take it more seriously, as holy communion is given everyday there is mass.

okay.I take communion in my church too.
Like i said,it's an act of remembrance.There's no process of blood transformation.

Seems your question is meant for the catholics.
You should have defined that instead of bringing all Christians into it.

I don't know about bread and wine 'turning' into the body and blood of Jesus.

'And when he had given thanks,he brake it,and said,take,eat:this is my body,which is broken for you:this do in remembrance of me.After the same manner also he took the cup,when he had supped,saying,this cup is the new testament in my blood:this do ye,as oft as ye drink it,in remembrance of me(I Cor. 11:24-25).

He said do this in my remembrance.It's an act of faith.There's no process of turning into blood.

It is written,the just shall live by faith'.

quivah: he he! ! What should be my basis?? Shouldn't the words be enough? Or
Revelation as you'v stated?! Lool oh common,its not that hard.. but seriously before we can con't,where do you stand??
Jesus is the son or God himself? Your posts are getting confusing... Using
but while I await your response,
Check this; those were Jesus words..
1 Jn 14:28
                 …I am going to the father; for he is greater than I.

2. Using Jn 14:1
                 …believe in God and believe also in me.

3. Using Mk 10:18
                 Why do you call me good? Jesus asked him. “No one is good except God alone.

4. Using Rev 5:7
                 The lamb [Jesus] went and took the scroll from the one who sits on the throne [God].

5. Using Rev 5;13
           …To him who sits on the throne and to the lamb, be praise and honor, glory and might forever and ever.
If Jesus is OF ONE BEING WITH GOD why would praises be accorded to him and God separately

6. Using Jn 14:31 and Jn 16:13
                 , That I love the father; that is why I do everything he commands me.
                  …He will not speak on his own authority but on what he HEARS.




If you need a revelation to know who Jesus is not not the words,you should need a revelation on whether tithing is right and not the words

Lol at tithing!Who's talking about tithing?Okay I get u.You've got issues with that but we ain't talking about that.

Good you quoted some scriptures but I hope u're not in the group that picks some and will not accept the others.Tell me what the following scriptures mean...

To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne,even as I also overcame,and am set down with my Father in his throne(Rev.3:21)

And when I saw him,I fell at his feet as dead.And he laid his right hand upon me,saying unto me,Fear not;I am the first and the last:I am he that liveth,and was dead;and behold,I am alive for evermore,Amen;and have the keys of hell and of death(Rev.1:17-18)

In the beginning was the Word,and the Word was with God,and the Word was God(John 1:1)

For by him were all things created,that are in heaven,and that are in earth,visible and invisible,whether they be thrones,or dominions,or principalities,or powers:all things were created by him,and for him:and he is before all things,and by him all things consist(Colossians 1:16-17).

For as the father hath life in himself;so hath he given to the son to have life in himself(John 5:26).

Jesus heard that they had cast him out;and when he had found him,he said unto him,Dost thou believe on the Son of God?He answered and said,Who is he,Lord,that I might believe on him?And Jesus said unto him,Thou hast both seen him,and it is he that talketh with thee(John 9:35-37)

I and My Father are one(John10:30).

There's nothing wrong with the phrase BLESS GOD.
You need to understand the meaning or use of the word bless in this case.It doesn't mean to 'give' God blessings.It means to exhalt Him,to adore Him,to praise Him.

'Then was the secret revealed unto Daniel in a night vision.Then Daniel blessed the God of heaven.Daniel answered and said,Blessed be the name of God for ever and ever:for wisdom and might are his: (Daniel 2:19-20).

Take note of the words in vs 23
I thank thee and praise thee,O thou God of my fathers..

quivah: @thorpido ermm are you sure you wanna learn?..
I don't think so..

Your second post is trying to justify my claim..

Do you need more verse on how Jesus is the son of God and not God,the son??

^^go ahead.
As long as the Word is your basis.

'When Jesus came into the coasts of Caesarea Philipi,he asked his disciples,saying,Whom do men say that I the Son of man am?And they said,some say that thou art John the Baptist:some Elias;and others,Jeremais,or one of the prophets.He saith unto them,But whom say ye that I am?And Simon Peter answered and said,Thou art the Christ,the Son of the living God.And Jesus answered and said unto him,Blessed art thou,Simon Barjona;for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee,but my Father which is heaven.(Matthew 16:13-17).

Who Jesus is can only come to a man by revelation.Say in prayer,You are the Only true God and You have sent Jesus.Reveal Who He is to me'
......And you will get to know Him.

quivah: [size=16pt] Jesus is the son of God and not God the son... (dont know how And when God gave birth tho)
But Jesus isn't God...
To me,, they are diff persons
1+1+1 = 1 doesn't equal to 1=1+1+1
Kapeeesh?!
I dont believe in any trinity trash..
Some say Jesus is God manifested in flesh!
Huh? Same thing as saying YESHUU is YHWH?!.[/size]

You said Jesus is the son of God...
Please can you explain to me how He is the son of God?What is your understanding of the son of God as stated by you.I'll like to learn.

Brenda's got a baby!

Jman06: With a spanner?...lol

Naaaah.It's part of my job.U can check my signature.

It's unfortunate that on this side of the world,when a lady sees a guy,the thought is most often what does he have?Can't you see him and say to yourself,how can i help him get better?What can i contribute to his life?

Leave this young man alone and don't be a distraction to him.Let him graduate with good grades and get the future he deserves.He will find a supportive woman at the right time too.

@Op,I can help the lady in question tighten up.Send me a PM.

nicky4lif: Yes I am the type.my dad can only lap his wife while my husband laps me(not praying for that though). I don't know how often an erection happens but I know even if it doesn't happen,u will still feel it.

ok no wonder.I guess u didn't attend a boarding school.

nicky4lif: My dear eeeeh.infact the first time my dad walked in on me when I was having my bath,I was so provoked with myself cos I wasn't meant to use that bath room.I was asking myself why I shld use that bath room in the first place when I wld hav used the one he doesn't enter.the whole of that day,I was just thinking abt it nd I made sure I avoided all his tracks in the house.quote author=Mhizsleek]

Lol. You make sense jare

Whao,u're the one thinking too much about it.You strike me like the kind of person who wouldn't even be comfortable changing clothes in front of friends.

By the way,a man doesn't have erection all the time.I don't know what u mean by your dad's thing touching u.

nicky4lif: Well no,not b'cos he might start having feelings or something(my father that I know can never try such) but cos I wldnt want a situation were I will mistakenly move back nd his thing touches me,oh no I can't take that.

It wouldn't make any difference if your dad is like me.I had to lap a matured girl one day who happens to be a neighbor.She's like a younger sis and I didn't feel a thing.I wonder why it's such a big deal for one's daughter.

Harbosede02: So pple wey dey cari belle do wedding are a disgrace 2 their family abi??tnx 4 lettin me knw dat.

It is,though it depends on the family.
There are some places where u can't do traditional wedding with pregnancy.If you have to do a church wedding,you also can't do it with a pregnancy(I know say anyhow church don dey now).

So how do you wed with a pregnancy?

Must she accept his condition?It's not what she wants so she should leave him and find another man who doesn't give her that kind of condition.

Erm...Pls change that Impregnant to impregnate.