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IamDebola: Yes both books said so, Assuming people who lived during the time of your fore-fathers had followed these books correctly, You will never be in existence. I mean, your fore-fathers are supposed to have been killed so that we will have peace of mind.
Islam still gives chances of survivor if they repent, establish their prayers, gives charity etc
Rudedough, I will find you and I'll............. make you believe by force.
You will stop being an atheist.

So you are saying it's allowed in Islam to kill in the first place.smh

Where is this?

Na wa o.The lady looks like she was in an accident or some mob attack.

Bloggers sha!

babesexy: 30years old

Don't get desperate.I know at this age you'll be so eager to marry.Unfortunately,it might make you pushy.
I believe there is a man for a woman and at the right time he will come.

What do you want in guys?That will go a long way in determining what can of guys you will get.
If I may ask,how old are you?

Giving him an ultimatum is not a good move.However she can give herself an ultimatum.
If the guy is not forthcoming in his commitment and at least meets her parents and introduces her to his family then she should take a walk.If at 34yrs,he can't show commitment then she should take a walk.
The things he has to do don't cost dat much money,so it's not about financial challenges.

Have you tried finding out from him why he has not proposed?Is it because of the financial challenges?
If he is going to travel,ask him why he won't take you along?
I know if a man is having financial challenges,he will slow down on marriage plans but he should let you know where the relationship is heading and you should meet his family too.

One question for you,is he getting the milk for free?Remember,there is no need to buy the cow if the milk is gotten free.

berem: I think she had kids for RMD. 2 boys I guess. Not too sure anyway

MEE(Rest her soul) didn't have kids for RMD.She had issues with infertility.RMD's two sons came even from different women.He was a playboy as a young guy and had those boys as a young guy.

Baby mama: This made me laugh

Lying on the floor
Especially on those our dirty floors but hey
It is their culture
I know I'll be uncomfortable kneeling or prostrating before people too
Kneeling is a sign of worship,I can't do it for a human
There was a thread about an Igbo girl engaged to Yoruba that was having a hard time with it and she came seeking answers
I told her Nne, that is their culture,you had better learn it if you plan on marrying the man but if you don't wanna do it,start from day one not to do it
That way they know it's your style
Curtesy and greet them because if you kneel today and stop kneeling tomorrow,Katakata may burst

Are guests at the wedding expected to prostrate too
I don't think so o

People and ignorance.
A rug or mat is usually laid where the groom or bride will prostrate or kneel except it's in some village.Why would anybody want you to prostrate on a dirty floor?
Kneeling doesn't make it worship!Worship is when the purpose for which you kneel deifies who or what you kneel for.Worship is not so much the act but the purpose.
The people who prostrate at a wedding are just the groom and his friends when called upon.
Nothing's wrong with the act.

You're right.You have a case of frigidity.
Go and see a gynaecologist.

Some natural products that can help you are Olive oil,soy oil,ginseng taken with caffeine,fresh eggs and pumpkin seeds.Try and consume more of these.

I just remember that horror movie 'Friday the 13th'.

You don't get trained on how to speak in tongues,you receive the infilling of the Holy Ghost and speaking in tongues is one of the evidences.

[quote author=Nadia_SA1]RIP tata Madiba

Siyakuthanda
Siyabonga[/quote]RIP Madiba.Ngayikuthanda.Ngayibonga.

^^You asked your question and answered it yourself.I don't know what you intend to get out of this but I hope you've satisfied yourself.


THREAD CLOSED.

Op,let her make the first move.If she does,then everyone will know what position to take.

[quote author=Libra-kid]am implying that the church shuld not marry a couple when the woman is pregnant because the church also preach against it![/quote]That should be the ideal thing.Anyone who wants to get married with pregnancy should go to the registry.

kulyie: haba na.i totally understand that there are some people who dont send their wives after marriage but it takes a cold hearted man tha lacks conscience,empathy or love for his own blood abandon his child.shooo
yorubas say even if we are fighting,it should not degenerate to wishing of someone dead in the same way even if you have issues with the mother,what of the innocent child that knows nothing about you peoples issh.so your own blood too should be a partaker of suffering in the mothers hand abi? Lollzzz

There are some men who abandon the child too as long as they have issues with their mother.I guess they just don't want anything to connect them with the mother.A few women too have been shown to abandon the children too.

bigtt76: Hahaha ...NL Censor working here -Unclad means #@ked

I know what it means but she is not in any way unclad!

Phema: But they can join couples who have aborted 10 times?

if you have proof they have aborted 10times.You must show evidence that you followed them there(clinic) each time.

The only way to know if one has an infection or disease is by symptoms or a test.
Do the right thing.

People of the world are free to do what they want.

The church should not join couples with a pregnant bride.

What do you mean by unclad outfit?

byvan: What of the after pains of CS?The belly takes more time to go down after a Cs which I hate, i won't go for Cs even if it's free,not when I have the choice of safe vaginal delivery. I also don't trust our health care system.

The c/s is a last resort.The womanliness delivery is allowed except when it won't be possible or may be unsafe.
If it has to be done,then the after effects are just some of the discomforts that come with it.

Ignorance I tell you.
What's the point having babies with cerebral palsy due to asphyxia or Erb's palsy cos the baby couldn't come out on time or with difficulty?What about the mother who could end up with some form of paralysis due to birth trauma.

If the baby is breech or the placenta lies in front of the baby,you will have to bring the baby out through C/S.If the birth canal is not compatible with the baby due to the size,a C/S is indicated.

Some people think you having a baby through C/S makes you not woman enough or that the doctor just wants to make money.

Crazy for a married woman.Is she pregnant sef?

Austinmoor: Sperm and egg (ova) do not stay many days as opined by the op. Eggs for about 24hrs depending on the uteral condition, sperm up to 48hrs depending on uteral conditions.
In overall is a nice write up. Thumbs up

The egg stays for about 48hrs while the sperm could live up to 5 days.

[quote author=Sen.tempest]how plz xplain more[/quote]Can't they get married first and then start making babies?Must they go on fornicating?
What if she gets pregnant and the guy decides not to go ahead to marry he?She then becomes a single mother like a number of girls have been.

^^^Mr Kabba7,you are having erectile dysfunction which is a common thing with men your age.You will need to see a physician who wil assess you and put you on some stimulants and probably supplements.
I won't advice you start taking anything until your BP and other things are checked.

jeslom: see dis 1, i can catgorically tell yu that 99% of us who viewed the pix ddnt notice d car dere talkless of the dog,..no lie give us abeg!!

I'm in the 1%.

drnairalov: no body on nairaland romance session woul notice d car at 1st...No bodyyy, talk anoda thing

That's because of your state of mind.When I opened the thread,I took a cursory look at the backside(backside no be new thing so I didn't pay so much attention to that).
What got my attention more was that I thought the car was a peugeot 404.Do you know that car at all?

Lilimax: My best friend tried these methods when she was looking for a baby girl
after previously giving birth to two boys.
Guess what happened? She ended up giving birth to a set of twins all male
She so much trusted this process but God proved her wrong .
We all made jest of her when she resumed from her maternity leave.

It is only God that gives and determines the sex of a Child.

Afterall, Chinenyenwa

Having a particular sex is all about chance-It is not a 100% guarantee if you try it.However,doing everything right increases your chances.
I'm not sure your friend did everything right.It's actually more difficult having a girl with the method.You must have a 'technical' discipline.

So she must get pregnant first before he proposes?
Some girls are the architects of their own problems.