₦airaland Forum

Jodha:
Yhu have to decide if yhu still want the relationship.... nobody can advise yhu on that.. it's a decision only yhu can make....

Marriage is not a switch yhu can turn on and off..since yhure in...yhure in...
It's difficult but yhu have to try and forgive her.... it'll take time but for the sake of the children...

Do yhu still love her?
I think she has learnt her lesson by now.,...but keep splitting the bills...if she cannot play her role as a support...then yhu shouldn't stress yhurself for her.....

Pray about it... there's nothing God cannot fix... he'll surely heal yhur broken heart...

Why do you write your you as yhu ?It's the same three letters.Why don't you write it right?

Yeah,you crossed the line.
Learn to choose words.

Hmmmm.
It's her health I'm even worried about.

Zzor:
She's in her finals

She's rushing herself.She shouldn't get carried away.

I thought they always welcome polygamy.

He needs to undergo further checks to rule out any heart defects.

Zzor:
Seriously I'm not in support either but its like she's somehow already attracted to the man

Attracted kwa?She's too young for all that baggage! She's probably just infatuated.

Is she done with school?

How old are you?

Such a sad story.
Serious negligence.How do you cut so deep to remove the cervix kwa?

Kendazole:
Why is it anytime someone commits a crime security agencies will ask the person to sit on the floor.

Make dem no run.

It's not about appearance at that age.It's about the intimacy (not sex).

You will have to go lower With the amount you earn monthly,you should do N20K-N30k schools Do your due diligence and search out a good one in that range.

AsherAmari:
115k and you're the only one shouldering all the responsibilities? You're living way above your means ma'am. Cut down a bit.

Withdraw them from there and look for a cheaper school that still got standard. You'll get, trust me. And since their foundation is already established in a standard school, no problems.

Now, I'm a teacher and I can tell you there are cheap schools that still have standard in terms of the quality of teaching. So It's not really about the expensive schools most times.
I take children ( private lessons) from saint savior's with 450k school fees and children from mushroom schools too, and I see what they do. No much difference. sometimes the mushroom school pupils do better academically because the big schools don't believe in bombarding their pupils with so much brain-tasking and challenging work while their counterparts do. So what are we not saying

Also try and ginger your hubby to get something doing since it's beginning to tell on your finances seriously. The responsibility is on both of you. Don't keep quiet and be doing the woman is good. Men are not appreciateful. Forget the nice man he's acting now. Once he too begins to earn, let it not shock you though.

Good advice you've given but you come spoil am with the bolded.

Man must wack politics.

Dining with the devil Dem no dey hear.

The fit each other.Club couple

Covid don finish?This one wey dem dey shake hands.

DropsMic:
And how did you know that she felt compelled

You Nigerians will just open mouth waaa and be saying rubbish..

Do you know anything about their tradition?Look at the picture again,you can pick something from the body language.

brandsoncharlie:
OK what's the tradition?

To keep the bride on the family.

It's odd though but I guess some traditional practices heavily influence such decisions.
She wasn't even married to him so why did she feel compelled to marry the brother?

We all should rise up and resist.Evil thrives when good people do nothing.

Chai.Uwa mmebi.

Lazy silly youths.

Excessive make up and protruding fake eyelashes.

Na wa for una.If you never ready for baby use protection na.
Anyway,I can't say you should get an abortion,the choice is yours.
Maybe you should inform your parents.

Ishilove:
Is it that people don't read? The baby is not hers but her student's

That's the African problem.They only look at pictures.smh

I dislike people giving odd names to their children.If you are bereft of ideas just name the child Love.

Amtrak:
Please share your experience.

Share yours first.

It's amazing how it's the husband that falls ill and dies while the woman is the one who commits the adultery.

The friend that followed her sef.Can't she dissuade her from going there?

Exodora:
Even when heavily too

Smoking is addictive.If they were addicted before pregnancy,they will smoke while pregnant except they choose to use their willpower not to.