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Fourth wife?I guess she's there for political connections.
Marry and remarry no be small thing for North.

You're not married I guess? You're afraid of leaving bachelorhood and taking up responsibilities?

After una don show wetin dey the body finish,una go begin show us wetin dey inside someday.

Odikwa egwu.
Person just carry family house take sow seed.The church should do their investigation and return the house if he is not a sole owner.

imdavid704:
Pls I need someone who can advise me, either to tell it out or keep it to myself

What aileth thee?You can tell it out.

Gini bu ihea a?

She's like many of her type.Empty upstairs.

Dumbos.......... that's why they end up with the irresponsible guys they end up with.

It's unethical but if he's single and he isn't taking advantage of her,then they can date and eventually get married.

People get drama.

weedmanlive:
is covid 19 real in Nigeria or are Nigerians typically immune to it or doctors are cashing out on peoples guilibility.

covid 19 guidelines is being disobeyed in all parts of Nigeria and still the Nddc is reporting similar figure every day.
I honestly don't understand what's happening in this country..

How many people are in Nigeria?What is the percentage of people reported to have Covid-19 compared to the entire populace?

You need to work with figures not emotions.

Fahdiga:
If he was your brother would you have said this

This has nothing to do with brother or not.I'm a medical personnel.
Some people are brought in dead and the relatives expect you to still start treatment.

He could have been brought in dead.

She met the devil.
Some women and the choice of boyfriend though.Mere looking at a guy,one can tell 90% of the time if he's no good.

It's a marriage based on hope.The lady hopes one day she will find herself in obodo oyinbo.

Psycho on the prowl.
He should be put away for life.

It's a lack of proper organisation basically.
Most people who are well organised know they have to take care of groups within the party and they prepare that way.
There are always party crashers so food will never go round except there is 'abundance' but people who are invited should be taken care of.

Iamafinegirl:
True....
I don’t hv issue contributing but like I said, the issue is he just doesn’t see it as enough because he is someone whose salary use to finish by month end (before I moved in with him, he enjoys buying and spending on God knows what and I used to borrow him money then though he would pay back but because he has paid debt, the salary won’t be enough still and the borrowing cycle would continue) whereas, I was someone who live within my means and manage my tastebud and life within it...
so to meet up to his standard, My contribution would have to drain me the way he has always been drained before my contribution can make sense to him. I don’t want to be a borrower

There's an issue here which is his spending habits.You will need to help him do something about this if you are going to be together.Obviously living together only makes it worse because he has to spend more.Why then do you have a problem with contributing more money?
If you want to continue this present arrangement(I'll say go home though),you will have to both work with a budget and decide on who brings what and in what percentage.

Why do you have to move in with him?You can still get to know someone by paying visits.I'll never agree with my daughter living with someone she isn't married to.

Your boyfriend/fiance does not think you should stay with him and enjoy things in the house without contributing.You are NOT yet his wife,so he doesn't see why he has to take up that much responsibility or he isn't matured enough to see it that way.

Marriages differ especially in this dispensation.There are those who decide that theirs will be such that the wife and husband will bring money in percentages for all bills while there are those who are traditional and the man will handle things like rent school fees etc while the wife will take care of other things.Your boyfriend is the former as he has shown and if you're that type that wants to keep her money,it won't work out.

Finally,there is sexual frustration.I guess it was your idea that sex will wait till marriage and he agreed.However,that agreement especially when you decide to move in with him puts him at a more difficult position Is he a virgin too?

BRATISLAVA:
Bald genes actually come from women.

This is a truth but not the whole truth.Genetics is complicated.
While male pattern baldness is more dominant in the X chromosome which you inherited from your mother,the manifestation is actually from genes inherited from both sides of the family.
So the mother's family can have hair while the baldness will manifest in the son because the father's family are predominantly bald.

He's worse than an infidel.

fablouzLeged:
my dad is full of Hair I saw his youth photos with afro when he was 36

It doesn't have to be your dad That's not how genetics play out.Your dad may have full hair but maybe your grandfather was bald or there's an uncle whose hair pattern you took after.

E dey happen.

Children are very curious beings and like to explore.They loooove things like holes that they can climb into.Parents should always think ahead of toddlers.

In 2010, a 10-day old baby girl died after her mother accidentally put her in a top-loading washing machine with the laundry.

This one mama get mental problem.

Men who don't do their homework before they hitch a girl.I guess it was a pregnancy-induced wedding.
He don lay him bed,na so he go lie.

Mode4:
Thorpido, what are u looking for here?. Stop viewing this thread. Go away!

I'm always learning.I'm always trying to understand things.

Neweramify:
~sprout�: my love, remember the questions I asked you last time I left your house?

Your response to me that day..... Does it show any sign of commitment or seriousness with me?

~sprout�: How do you want us/me to be in a relationship I don't know what the future holds?

When ever I ask you your intention toward us, you will tell me you don't have anything to say?

Like how?
~sprout�: Let be realistic here

[2/19, 9:13 AM] Ima: Ok

[2/19, 9:15 AM] Ima: Beb I keep telling you that if u know that am not right for u u should serve me the stress and do the right thing at the right time

[2/19, 9:21 AM] ~sprout�: This is what you keep saying

We are both matured here.

[2/19, 9:25 AM] ~sprout�: We have been together for 7 yeas now and this is all you can say

[2/19, 9:26 AM] Ima: What exactly do u want me to do

[2/19, 9:26 AM] Ima: I will do this u will complain that am not doing it well

[2/19, 9:26 AM] Ima: How do u even want me to love u

[2/19, 9:27 AM] Ima: Is as if my love is not enough for u

[2/19, 9:27 AM] Ima: And I can't kill myself

[2/19, 9:27 AM] Ima: If am no more good for u please let do the needful

[2/19, 9:28 AM] Ima: Because am tired of all this were ur feeling everytime

[2/19, 9:28 AM] ~sprout�: Seeing you your intention toward our relationship now mean your love is not enough for me?

[2/19, 9:29 AM] Ima: U left me for three months and u still return back to me and I still keep ur place for u in my life

[2/19, 9:29 AM] Ima: Yet ur still complaining

[2/19, 9:29 AM] Ima: What exactly do u want from me

[2/19, 9:30 AM] Ima: And I can't kill myself then

[2/19, 9:50 AM] Ima: If u feel I don't love u enough please just go to someone that will be able to love u the way u want

How old is this guy and what does he do for a living?

You didn't write his response.

SenecaTheYonger:
what concern witch doctor with justice? Do you think if they cared about Justice people will be dying from land tussle? My friend they only care about money

Well the money is causing troubles for them.

The witch doctor sef no get sense.
You cannot side with injustice.

WHOcarex:
Good evening sir. Please chat me up on WhatsApp

Good evening.I don't have your no.