Family › Re: A Black Woman Lecturing With Her Baby Behind Her by thorpido(m): 9:06am On Mar 19, 2021 |
Ishilove: Is it that people don't read? The baby is not hers but her student's That's the African problem.They only look at pictures.smh |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Funny Names On Namibian ID Cards by thorpido(m): 8:47am On Mar 19, 2021 |
I dislike people giving odd names to their children.If you are bereft of ideas just name the child Love. |
Family › Re: How Did Having A Child With Someone You Didn't Get Married To Affect Your Life? by thorpido(m): 7:12pm On Mar 17, 2021 |
Amtrak: Please share your experience. Share yours first. |
Family › Re: Woman Allegedly Confesses To Sleeping With Her Boss And Her Husband Two Friends by thorpido(m): 9:38pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
It's amazing how it's the husband that falls ill and dies while the woman is the one who commits the adultery. |
Family › Re: 5 Years After Divorce, Woman Returns To Ex-husband's House To Beat Up New Wife by thorpido(m): 9:53am On Mar 16, 2021 |
The friend that followed her sef.Can't she dissuade her from going there? |
Celebrities › Re: Uche Ogbodo Rocks Blond Lowcut, Shows Off New Look (Photo) by thorpido(m): 6:42pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Exodora: Even when heavily too Smoking is addictive.If they were addicted before pregnancy,they will smoke while pregnant except they choose to use their willpower not to. |
Celebrities › Re: Uche Ogbodo Rocks Blond Lowcut, Shows Off New Look (Photo) by thorpido(m): 6:26pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
Exodora: Somebody that is heavly pregnant Pregnant people smoke.  |
Celebrities › Re: Uche Ogbodo Rocks Blond Lowcut, Shows Off New Look (Photo) by thorpido(m): 11:03am On Mar 15, 2021 |
Her lips ..does she smoke? |
Sports › Re: Marvin Hagler Dies At 66 (Photos) by thorpido(m): 4:41pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Legend!He and Thomas Hearns that year. RIP |
Business › Re: Why We Don't See Billionaire Mike Adenuga by thorpido(m): 1:52pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
yusufu16: I wan dash am some coins He's called the bull.....he doesn't do coins. |
Business › Re: Why We Don't See Billionaire Mike Adenuga by thorpido(m): 1:41pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
yusufu16: I am just curious as to why we don't see Adenuga in public.
I mean recently, you don't see him in any gathering. Not even interview, political gathering, public functions, etc. He has been quiet these days.
What do you think. Why you wan see am? He lives a very private life .....just a small circle of friends.It's the way he chooses to live. |
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Family › Re: Can You Make Love To Your Husband/wife Without Kissing by thorpido(m): 2:53pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Can You Make Love To Your Husband/wife Without Kissing by thorpido(m): 5:34pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
@Op,does he suck your boobs? I think this issue is beyond kissing,it's a breakdown of intimacy.
Does your husband still show signs of loving you? |
Family › Re: . by thorpido(m): 5:13pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
The guy replied her and if he meant what he wrote,then there's nothing to worry about. It's only left for the guy to maintain that trust.The ex trying to get in touch shouldn't be an issue as long as he doesn't give her that room. |
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid’s 3rd Baby Mama, Jada Pollock, Replies Troll Who Tagged Her A ‘baby Mama’ by thorpido(m): 1:51pm On Mar 11, 2021 |
Okay, she's wife to be. |
Family › Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Get Married? by thorpido(m): 8:16am On Mar 11, 2021 |
Zobah: It does not. Your belief.........and that's ok.You ain't married though. |
Celebrities › Re: Alaafin Gets New Igbo Wife, Chioma (PHOTOS) by thorpido(m): 8:05am On Mar 11, 2021 |
No be small thing. Are the wives naturally fair abi na hydroquinone? |
Politics › Re: Jigawa Governor, Badaru Receives COVID-19 Vaccine (Photo) by thorpido(m): 9:56pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
gasparpisciotta: The contrasting colors of the face and arm got me thinking....perhaps he got it on his prosthetic arm Some people are like that....a dark face but fairer body. |
Family › Re: Advice Needed: Prepaid Meter Or Estimated Billing? by thorpido(m): 9:21pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Go for prepaid meter.You will also regulate your energy consumption when you get the prepaid. You don't have to use the appliances all at once.You also won't use fans or ACs when no one is in the room. |
Family › Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Get Married? by thorpido(m): 4:43pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Zobah: Warning: This might hurt your view.
No. Marriage is not at all necessary. I have no offence against the people who get married. It’s just my belief that I think marriage doesn’t play an important part in an individual’s life and one should not be enforced to get married against their will.
But, Yes, there are society norms which expect a woman or a man to get married once they reach a certain age. But again, if an individual feel that he/she should not get married in life then why their decision can’t be respected? Is it that hard?
According to me, marriage doesn’t bring out any sort of difference in two individuals.
Let’s say A and B are women of 30 years age. A is married and B isn’t.
1) A works hard. She looks after her family, husband, and children, also does her job, contributes to the family financially and does the entire household.
2) B is pursuing her job, does her household work, and is capable of meeting her financial needs. Instead of looking for her other half, she decided to piece herself together.
This doesn’t make me respect A more and B less. For me both are working hard and playing their roles very well. A chose to get married and B didn’t. B chose to go for the life which she wanted. Who knows that B might have gone against the society norms in order to achieve the life she wanted? Or, perhaps her family might have supported her.
It’s a matter of choice. And they both used their liberty to make their own choices.
Considering the existing norms in our society, the decision taken by B must have gone through numerous turmoils or perhaps is still going. But, she was determined and had the courage to stand by her decision.
Marriage: Society forces it down your throat until you choke on it. Do not let it happen to you if you do not want it. Don’t follow the crowd for the sake of it.
There are numerous individuals who did not choose to marry and are still happy and satisfied with their life.
One of the actresses I highly admire in Nigeria. She adopted two daughters and is blissfully single. She is a perfect example of a woman who is leading a life on her own terms like a boss. It does@bolded even though you say it"s your belief. |
Family › Re: Strict Parents Raise The Best Children. by thorpido(m): 4:03pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
What has being strict as parents got to do with sexual urge? |
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Family › Re: Is It Compulsory For A Woman To Get Married? by thorpido(m): 11:33am On Mar 10, 2021 |
PeaceIlya: There’s a woman in my COMPOUND, she’s 33 and insists she doesn’t want children because she has “no maternal desires.”
She got a puppy, has birthday parties for the dog, claims the dog experiences child phases, and cooks meals for the dog every day.
Gonna be sad when the dog dies. She has no maternal desires but 'nurses' a puppy? It's not compulsory to get married and have children though.It's all about choice. |
Politics › Re: Oghara Development Union: Ibori Already Wealthy Before Becoming Delta Governor by thorpido(m): 8:10am On Mar 10, 2021 |
ODUotics! So because someone is from your town and you are beneficiaries,you have to turn you face away from obvious crime he committed?No wonder this country is the way it is. Nwodosis: Are they saying that wealthy people don't steal? Don't mind the dullards.Was Orji Kalu not rich but yet embezzled in government? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: I Contemplated Suicide - Meghan Markle Accuses British Royals Of Racism by thorpido(m): 4:21pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
BadEnglish: Royal family or not, Racism should not be tolerated n should be condemned in it entirety. This is 21st century ffs Racism should not be tolerated at all.The issue here is not just racism, there's a class thing too |
Celebrities › Re: Paul And Jude Okoye At Don Jazzy's New House (Photos) by thorpido(m): 4:15pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Frankyboy1: Na don jazzy de like wrapper so The guy has to work on his weight |
Foreign Affairs › Re: I Contemplated Suicide - Meghan Markle Accuses British Royals Of Racism by thorpido(m): 1:06pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Well it's a royal family so they have their own interests to protect too.Marrying into such a family will come with a price. |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Congratulates Osinbajo As He Becomes 64 Today by thorpido(m): 12:55pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
See the way the wife is looking at him.  That love look. Happy birthday Prof. |
Family › Re: Experienced Advice And Guidance Needed. by thorpido(m): 8:03am On Mar 05, 2021 |
As hard as this may sound to you,let her go.When many women get to this stage(marriageable age),the first choice is usually the one that is financially stable.
You could keep trying to draw her to your side but it's obvious she is drifting. As the saying goes,if you love someone,set her free.If she comes back she's yours,if she doesn't,then she never was. |
Family › Re: Please I Need Opinion On This by thorpido(m): 5:32pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
You honestly cannot keep her with you in your present financial state.If there is someone who can take her in,then the reasonable thing is that she goes there.
Your wife can keep disturbing you but you have to be practical. |