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Arrggghhhh...
Even after invoking Ishi you still couldn't.

Even Ishi was not enough...
Okay, let me put you out of your misery. Let me show you how someone is ignored. Let the thread proceed.
Learn o. Remember this moment.

You are ignored henceforth!!!
Oya watch me ignore you.
Like a boss

Disappointed . She could not.

I know you too well. You'll rather die than walk away. Oya let's end it now. Just try abeg. Ignore this comment.
Let the thread flow.
Please. I know it will be difficult but just try. You can do it. You can ignore this comment.
I'm rooting for you.

Theflint1:
I was two.

One fateful day, a group of robbers stormed the house we were living. I remember my mum sitted on the floor, backing the front door telling the robbers we had nothing for them to rob with her arms wrapped around me.

The robbers left eventually, later got to discover the landlord had a gun and scared them off...

Yepa...

This can give someone lifelong PTSD

I know say that one no go fit resist responding. It will be easier for her to walk on hot coals

Person wey dem don swear for.

Ishilove:
So you started school at age 5?

No.
I changed school. Just that the memory of the previous school is more or less non-existent.

I know the school though.

Thegamingorca:
which 45 hian

This madam nah sweet sixteen...(late 20 or middle 20)

See

It's happening already

pocohantas:
E pain me. I can't even lie. That my aunt was rumoured to be a very good cook way back.

I sat down with my floral gown, waiting for the food. Ah! I just felt a sharp pain in my chest for that food wey I no chop 32yrs ago

Highly unnecessary. This thread will most likely make front page. Don't make it about you.
If dem say you be attention seeker now you go dey vex.
Abeg no respond. I take Obatala beg you.

I remember crying as my mum (or was it dad) was taking me to start school. I remember the "aunty" trying to test me to determine what class I would be placed in.
I remember crying as the "aunty" is asking me to recite the alphabet and numbers.
She approves my performance and I think she decided that I would be placed in Nursery 2.
I remember that she asked my age and I answered "5".

Was I crying to go back home with my mother? I think so.
Or was it dad? Damn I'm confused
No solid memory before that event.

Neimar:
she's a lesbian

chaii

No.
It was a mistake.
Na Rapinoe be lesbian.

She could be closet lesbian though. You never know with 'em Yanks.

12inchess:
That's a big lie. She is married to a player in MLS.

Sorry. I was referring to Rapinoe.

SiobhanMeadow:
I said if they get better revenue they would be paid better.
Can"t you comprehend.
Women's football is developing and believe you me it would get better.
These women obviously play better than their men so asking for a better pay hurts no one.

Zombie

Neimar:
I wan Bleep Morgan abeg

She's lesbian.

Fountainofyouth:
Op said psychological virgins should stay away





Immature peeps should also stay away

Abortionists will be pained

Then it's over. My standards, especially concerning morality cannot be lowered for any one.

Eeeya.

Next time use Faithfull18.

She's reliable.

Fountainofyouth:
So those screen shots is chemistry to you, the woman is complaning and the man finds it amusing and you're calling it chemistry? Respect yourself, what do you mean by yielding to his primal desires? As in cheating is his primal desire so he is allowed to cheat, is that what you're saying?

Yes o. Is it mathematics to you
Don't put words into my mouth

Are you married? If you are I'm pretty sure you're cheating on your wife and her reaction to it is by licking the very ground you step on that's why you have the audacity to spill rubbish without sense, stay out of this thread and continue to cheat in peace, leave this woman alone with your stupid advice let her sort herself out,

I'm calling lala so that he can take it to front page for others to see some nonentity we call men and they can grow some sense, nonsense and cheating ingredient

Crying more than the bereaved

Get a grip.

Fountainofyouth:
You and wonyi I don't know who is more mentally irritating, a woman should fix her home while the husband is destroying it with no care in the world, yeye is you.


Lalasticlala

See those screenshots. The is still chemistry. Man is just yielding to his primal desires.
I'm now certain that this marriage can and will be fixed.

Divorce advocates make una go jump inside lagoon.

Why the hell are you calling lala

MrBrownJay1:
foolish man, as if the problem here is women OR being around women.... then when gay allegations will surface, will he get a dog as secretary, abi?

Stop insulting your father's mate, especially one who is of Adeboye's calibre. There could be unseen consequences.

Market forces of demand and supply

cococandy:
I’m obsessed with you?

That’s very logical

Was that the only part of my comment you saw?

You chose to respond to the most irrelevant part of my comment.

How cute

elektra:
This is my first time replying to this thread so please show me where I mentioned divorce? I was responding to your post where you said men cannot accept the same behavior you are asking the lady to accept and I am trying to figure out why you have such a thought process.

Simple. I've not seen any man accept it. It does not even happen. At least I've not heard. Women do not have it in them to cheat on a man who is doing right by them.

It really was an honest question, I’m not trying to have a gender war.
The bolded, you said the issue is fixable and the woman should fix it. In the same breath you are saying men should not fix their marriage if the issue is from the woman

I said she should try. Trying and failing is better than not trying no

Once again, issues of wanton infidelity arise from men. Let's not propose a solution to problems that have not arisen.

cococandy:
Wonyi and thothermes please come and tell her how to watch “war room” and endure the beatings until things change. You know it’s just a hard time she’s going through nothing to break the marriage for. (Except Maybe when she is finally in the grave).

In Mariah Carey's voice.

Girl I wanna know, why you so obsessed with me

The two situations are different.
Assault is a legal offence no?

Infidelity is a whole different kettle of fish.
I know there is no difference to you though

elektra:
Why are you asking someone else to accept behavior that you are unwilling to accept?

Why are you trying to destroy a failing marriage instead of try to fix it. Is that how throw away every faulty appliance in your house

Is it because she has a vagina that you are asking her to live with the same hurt that you have rejected for yourself?

The day would not be complete if you don't turn it to a gender battle.

If you cannot imagine it for yourself why are you able to imagine it for a woman?

Reality baby. Reality.
Do you know of any couple where the wife cheats brazenly and the man just swallows it? I bet you don't.

If it is a fixable problem why won’t you be fixing your own marriage if the problem is coming from the woman?

Don't know what you are on about.

I really want to know empathy (putting yourself in someone else’s shoes) is not applied if the person hurting in a marriage is a woman.

Oya OP make una divorce. That's empathy right there.

Ayofaks:
Divorce is not a death sentence Oga, marriage is not a do or die something. How many years are we spending on this earth that one will spend the little time in sadness and perpetual gloom? God forbid!!!

It's not Disney Land either.

Will God even ask for marriage certificate when we all die? The way some people directly/indirectly encourage women to stay in unhappy marriages is mind boggling.

Who has asked her to stay in an unhappy marriage? You will see what you want to see.

Is her marriage troubled? -- Yes

Is it fixable? -- Yes

Should she try to fix it? -- It's worth giving a shot.

So what is your problem

Anyone who suggests anything other than divorce is wrong. Is that sensible to you?

Is it compulsory
I did not wear a suit.

Finelinks:
"When I grow up, I would be rich and would build houses and give to the poor "

This was one of my musings growing up. Now in my very late twenties, the dream looks utopian, quixotic and unrealisable. For I have no house of my own let alone one to give to the poor free or rent free.


Life can be uncertain.
The vulcaniser in his fifties, on the street, could have aimed to be wealthy but it never came to pass.

The 40 year old truck pusher could have struggled to be rich but it was never to be.


Life, some say, is best lived in the early 20s. For after then one might start shouldering responsibilities. This is worse if the family is not wealthy. And if one doesn't earn well, one might find oneself in a rat race, a vicious cycle wherein one lives from paycheck to paycheck-- with little or nothing to save and being stuck.


These days I am always downcast, thinking about my life, unsure of what the future holds. Indecisive. Uncertain about which option or decision to take. Many times , I have thought of migration from the East to Lagos, Abuja or even Canada.

[i]"Pray to God for direction, they counsel.'
[/i]I have prayed yet nothing.
Does God really care?.
Are our affairs his concerns?
Is there anything like predestination or determinism?
Are some people designed or destined to be poor?
What does the bible mean when it acknowledges ---- both in the old and new testaments-- that the poor would always be there?

But wait, could some be termed rich if there are no poor?
How could be one be said to be tall if there are no short people?

I am confused, very.

How do I get rich and help people too?

How?

Really tired, I am.

Apart from those born wealthy, the vast majority of rich people people begin to acquire enormous wealth from their fourties upwards.
People who do it in their twenties are outliers that's why they are so few. The rest are criminals

You have not started. Your problem now is what you see on the internet.

And stop that crap about helping people, you don't have to be rich to do that

Fountainofyouth:
You reek of irritation, the world, especially women, has moved on from enduring bullshiit, especially someone who has no remorse, what am I reading this night? Wtf!!! Marriage is not a fvcking do or die something, where do people like it's come out from

I'm sure you are not married

Fountainofyouth:
You see this your words, would you repeat it if it was the wife cheating without remorse and the husband remains dutiful and caring?

By our respective natures, a man would not tolerate a woman that is cheating brazenly if he is faithful and dutiful.

I have tried to imagine it and it's not just possible in my head. It will take the most enraged feminist to dream up something so implausible.

It's not society. It's nature. You want to advice divorce? Go ahead.
Wetin concern me? As if divorce is one El Dorado like that.
This is a fixable problem. If you don't want to try to fix it., wahala tiyin niyen