₦airaland Forum

DukeNija:
Bros abeg no vex o, is it your wife who doubles as life partner and mother of your children you are referring to with such disdain?
You seem to be a very angry person who feels he's doing a woman a favor by marrying her. I am not married, but I felt the urge to say I am very disappointed in your choice of words towards your wife. I take care of people who are not even related to me by blood, financially and otherwise and I never feel I'm doing them a favour, how much more my own family.

You sound like you were forced to marry her, like you didn't propose to this woman, didn't buy her an engagement ring and all that, like she was begging to become your wife. I went through your post and I couldn't even find what she did so wrong for you to hate her this much, even up to the point of contemplating divorce.

Using words like "putting her under my roof", "feeding her and our kids" "bitching about everything" is just too disrespectful to your wife and I'm afraid your marital challenges can be traced to your negative attitude towards your her. Please approach your marriage with a better countenance and see your wife as you see yourself by truly loving her and sincerely appreciating her contributions to your home. And yes you need to praise her for cooking, cleaning after you and your child, taking care of you and maintaining the home. Yes, you must praise her. Try telling her how much you appreciate her efforts and cooking, and how delicious her food is and see if she won't be overjoyed and do something special for you.
Women complain a lot, my mom, sisters, gf every woman I know can complain, it just doesn't make them bad people. That's just their way of communicating sometimes.

And pls if you are tired of putting her under your roof, u can send her to me. I have a very large flat with four rooms that can comfortably accommodate her. *Just kidding*

Fourwinds: y d instalment. did she sell electronic gadgets to AIT.?

573V31D: u dey sleep ni...common wake up and read d tittle again.

tempex88: Which kind group is this? If an hazard happens in a company, do you persecute the CEO? Government should chase their officers that watched the structure get to that stage cos it is their duty to prevent such a building from being erected.

Kalex01: I will be posting riddles that will get you thinking, if no one is able to provide the answer for a particular period of time then i will post the answer myself.
What the answer to this Riddle:
Brothers and sisters I have none but this man's father is my father's son.
Who is the man?

Jasboi: Whc kain Yansh be dis??

Enahi: Haba the girl fine joor, just that She has this igbotic kinda look.

oluIseyiforjesus: On a serious note;ds girl is nt beautiful only privileged to hv a good skin joor,most of our sister ar beautiful dan dis

tuoyoojo: This is serious

The rain wen fall for fowl house done rish goat house too.this tin is indeed a flight away

Cancer and ebola. This combo worry! I wish her quick recovery

With d number of people recovering from ebola, its not as fearful as it used to be...

Whilewhile, I just dey observe

emekatimsu: This one no be news na..Armed robbers and hardend criminals are caught everyday by the law enforcemnt officers,, OPC and bakassi.

lomaxx: Has the patient been confirmed as having Ebola virus disease?

We don't diagnose disease with ambulance, clothing and photos.

Acidosis: Jonathan again?

E dey manufacture Salt?

idrisjunior: it could be postpartum depression

YourHealthlabs: Village man..

Now let's take a cursory look at the word "doctor" you've been mouthing all over(as if you invented it in your grandfather's backyard). Open your dictionary and read the different meanings the word "doctor".

It is derived from latin word "docere" meaning "to teach".

In no particular order, a doctor is----->

1. In education; teacher or scholar: a teacher or somebody very knowledgeable.


2. somebody with highest university degree: a title given to somebody who has been awarded a doctorate, the highest level of degree awarded by a university

3. Roman Catholic theologian: in the earlier history of the Roman Catholic Church, an eminent and influential theologian.

4. medic, dentist, veterinarian, or osteopath: a title used before the names of health professionals such as physicians, dentists, veterinarians, and osteopath

5. somebody who can fix things: a skilled practitioner of something, especially fixing or improving something.


Have you noticed you can't protect that title 'doctor" for your benefit alone unlike the "Biomedical scientists" and "pharmacists" in UK protect theirs and make it criminal for any other person to use.

I'm sorry, you can't sue anyone who addresses himself as a "doctor" even if he is a mechanic(check no5 definition). So sweat less

I beg, u tooooo much!

myweb: Things like these are the features of last days according to the bible. in fact its the beginning of pangs of distress..